Doing It On Purpose with The Happiologist

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Doing It On Purpose with The Happiologist

Doing It On Purpose - your shortcut to reinventing yourself, with a few giggles along the way, for all good brown girls and beyond. I'm Dal Banwait, aka The Happiologist, your host, and after 20 years of a lot of work, I've finally bossed this reinventing myself thing. As a self proclaimed good brown girl, I've uncovered well being secrets from my global travels, and I'm saving you a few decades of work, sharing practical tips for your own reinvention and to help you find your purpose. I'll be joined by some seriously smart, good brown girls from the field of psychology, therapy, health and well being, so if you're ready for a life upgrade, stay tuned. And don't forget to follow The Happiologist on social media for your daily dose of happy habits. https://thehappiologist.com https://www.instagram.com/thehappiologist

Episodes

  1. 26/02/2024

    Unpacking Cultural Identity: Can You Be True to Yourself and Respect Others?

    In this episode, host Dal Banwait brings us an enlightening conversation deeply rooted in personal experiences and cultural contexts. Dal chats with Mandish Kaur Khebbal, a former MTV TV producer. Mandish reflects on her journey as a second-generation British Indian woman who has traversed and navigated her way through life to follow the career of her dreams, while holding onto her roots and identity.  The episode delves into the immigrant experience focusing on the cultural conflicts and the weight of cultural expectations, the struggles, and pressures second-generation Indians face when growing up in a Western society.  This topic of discussion further expands with detailed stories of significant identity shaping experiences like Diwali, family bonds, family networks, and other cultural practices.  Throughout the podcast, Dal emphasizes the importance of understanding and maintaining respect for diverse beliefs and traditions and that you can be a 'good brown girl' whilst pursuing a career and life on your own terms. The discussion also touches upon the challenges encountered by Mandish in her ground breaking career in television as a young Indian woman and the integral role that freedom of choice plays in shaping a happy life.  Join Dal on Instagram Check out The Happiologist website

    50 min

  2. 19/02/2024

    Love Shouldn't Hurt: Recognizing and Breaking Free from Abusive Relationships

    Join Dal. The Happiologist’ and host of "Doing It On Purpose," as she tackles the sensitive and crucial topic of abuse and domestic violence within South Asian communities and more broadly. This episode goes beyond physical abuse - exploring the often invisible and various forms of emotional manipulation, control, and intimidation that can leave lasting scars and can have a huge impact on mental and physical wellbeing. Shaila Pervez, manager from Roshni, a vital support system for BAME communities, shares her insights on: The many faces of abuse: Recognizing what abuse is, not just physical but including emotional abuse, gaslighting, manipulation and other tactics used to control and silence victimsBreaking the cycle of silence: Understanding the patterns of abuse and their devastating long-term impact on individuals, families, and children Challenging cultural norms: Navigating cultural factors that may enable or minimize domestic violenceFinding your voice and strength: Empowering victims to seek help, create safety plans, and overcome fearHope and a path to healing: Witnessing how thousands of people have said enough is enough, and moved on to live happy, fulfilled, meaningful lives. This episode is not just a call to action. It's about recognizing the various signs of abuse (many of which aren’t that obvious), understanding the complexities within certain communities, and offering resources and support for victims, as well as assurance that you can get out of abusive situations and live a happy life. ***IMPORTANT*** It's important to remember that you are not alone and there is help available. If you are experiencing any form of abuse in a relationship, please reach out to one of these organizations for support. National Domestic Violence Helpline: https://www.nationaldahelpline.org.uk/Women's Aid: https://www.womensaid.org.uk/Refuge: https://www.refuge.org.uk/Men's Advice Line: https://www.mensadviceline.org.uk/ And Find out more about Roshni here Global helplines can be found here Additional Resources: Samaritans: https://www.samaritans.org/, Mind: https://www.mind.org.uk/NSPCC: https://www.nspcc.org.uk/,

    54 min

  3. 12/02/2024

    From Solo to Stroller: Single Motherhood at 49

    In this episode of 'Doing It On Purpose', hosted by Dal Banwait-'The Happiologist', the conversation revolves around the topic of navigating fertility, making life choices, and finding fulfilment in unconventional paths as you hit your 50's The episode is a conversation with guest, Charanjit Kaur, who bravely shares her inspiring story of becoming a single mum, by choice, through sperm donation.  She shares her struggles with making the decision to become a single mother at 49, insights into the donation process and how to find trusted advisors, the cumbersome reality of fertility treatments. In the process, Dal and Charanjit challenge societal norms, particularly within their Asian community, and discuss the importance of being open to and supported in different ways of starting a family.  Charanjit underscores the importance of understanding women's fertility, which declines with age, and the increasing need for transparency and support for women who consider fertility treatments. Join Dal Banwait on Instagram Check out The Happiologist website

    55 min

  4. 05/02/2024

    Revealing Genius: Navigating Autism with Confidence & Breaking Societal Stereotypes

    In this enriching episode of the Happiologist podcast, Dal Banwait aka The Happiologist, speaks with special guest, Reena Anand.  They explore the world of autism, focusing on neurodivergent individuals with a lens on the Black, Asian, and ethnic communities.  Reena shares her motivating journey as the parent of an autistic child, while enlightening listeners on essential topics like recognising neurodivergence, the importance of cultural sensitivity in its understanding, and turning perceived deficits into unique strengths.  She shares insightful stories and practical advice on nurturing a balanced, open, and supportive environment for neurodivergent children, while emphasizing their potential to lead fulfilling lives. Find more from Reena on this topic.

    46 min

  5. 29/01/2024

    Psychic 101: be your own psychic

    In this episode of the Happiologist podcast, host Dal Banwait speaks with her special guest, Natasha Riz, a globally renound and natural born psychic for the last 50 years. In this exclusive, for the first time ever interview with Natasha, she shares her fascinating journey of discovering her intuitive capabilities from a young age, explains various forms of intuition, and offers advice on how listeners can tap into their own intuition.  Diving into astrology, Natasha helps us uncover how our planetary positions may influence our lives.  She also underscores the importance of positivity and awareness in refining one's intuitive faculties and shaping one's destiny.  Despite the common challenges faced in tuning into intuition, Natasha believes that everyone is capable of cultivating it, and encourages listeners to explore their inherent intuitive power, with the possibility of transforming your life. Join Dal Banwait on Instagram Check out The Happiologist website

    46 min

  6. 22/01/2024

    Guilt - The Bad Indian Therapist Tracy Vadakumchery

    In this enlightening episode of 'Doing It On Purpose', host Dal Banwait, also known as The Happiologist, dives into a real conversation about self discovery, healing and reinvention. Tracy Vadakumchery, the Bad Indian Therapist joins us to share her journey of becoming her authentic self and defeating cultural and societal expectations. From deep discussions about cultural guilt and shame, to adjusting relationships within cultural confines and the pursuit of happiness, this episode is packed full of insightful thoughts and actionable tips. Find out more at thehappiologist.com Join Dal on Instagram Get the Happiologist newsletter

    50 min

  7. 15/01/2024

    Rethinking Wellness: Ayurveda’s transformative power - Anu Paavola

    Host Dal Banwait, takes a deep dive into the world of Ayurveda with Anu Paavola, an author and Ayurvedic practitioner. They chat about key Ayurvedic principles like Doshas, Gunas, and holistic healing. Discussing the significance of diet and intermittent fasting, they touch upon key topics such as blood sugar management, gut health, creating an Ayurvedic lifestyle sparked by alternatives to Western medicine, and practical tips for personal wellbeing and reinvention. They also highlight the importance of specific food, health and beauty practices. Join Dal on Instagram Check out The Happiologist website

    56 min

  8. 08/01/2024

    Limiting Beliefs - Dr D

    In this enlightening episode, host Dal Banwait chats with Dr. Denise Freeman, aka Dr. D, discussing the transformational role of identifying and changing limiting beliefs.  This episode dives deep into the influence of social, cultural, and personal factors on belief formations, and provides practical strategies to reframe limiting beliefs to lead a fulfilling life. Join Dal on Instagram Check out The Happiologist website This episode of the podcast includes:  Understanding the Power of Our Mind  The Concept of Limiting Beliefs  Effects of Limiting Beliefs in Relationships  The Origin of Limiting Beliefs  Role of Cultural Influences in Shaping Beliefs  Identifying & Challenging Limiting Beliefs  Exercise to Overcome Limiting Beliefs  Steps to Change Limiting Beliefs  Staying in the Present and Neuroplasticity  Reframing Beliefs and societal constraints  Courage to break away from Limiting Beliefs  Believe change Impact on Others  Reframing and overcoming cultural constraints  Unstructured Thinking and Overcoming Fear  Real Goals & A Journey of Self-Invention  Understanding Happiness; A Leap in the Past

    53 min

  9. TRAILER

    Introducing 'Doing It On Purpose' with The Happiologist

    Welcome to Doing It On Purpose, your shortcut to reinventing yourself, with a few giggles along the way, for all good brown girls and beyond. I'm Dal Banwait, aka The Happiologist, and after 20 years of a lot of work, I've finally bossed this reinventing myself thing. As a self proclaimed good brown girl, I've uncovered well being secrets from my global travels, and I'm saving you a few decades of work, sharing practical tips for your own reinvention and to help you find your purpose. This podcast launches Monday 8th January 2024, when I'll be joined by some seriously smart, good brown girls from the field of psychology, therapy, health and well being, so if you're ready for a life upgrade, stay tuned. And don't forget to follow The Happiologist on Instagram for your daily dose of happy habits and find out more at thehappiologist.com I'm Dal, The Happiologist, and I am doing this on purpose.

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Doing It On Purpose - your shortcut to reinventing yourself, with a few giggles along the way, for all good brown girls and beyond. I'm Dal Banwait, aka The Happiologist, your host, and after 20 years of a lot of work, I've finally bossed this reinventing myself thing. As a self proclaimed good brown girl, I've uncovered well being secrets from my global travels, and I'm saving you a few decades of work, sharing practical tips for your own reinvention and to help you find your purpose. I'll be joined by some seriously smart, good brown girls from the field of psychology, therapy, health and well being, so if you're ready for a life upgrade, stay tuned. And don't forget to follow The Happiologist on social media for your daily dose of happy habits. https://thehappiologist.com https://www.instagram.com/thehappiologist

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