Emerge with Fini Cooper

Fini Cooper

Emerge is a podcast about the moments that break us open and the practices that help us put ourselves back together. Hosted by Fini Cooper, a breathwork teacher and somatic guide, each episode brings you unfiltered conversations with people who've turned challenge into transformation. Come for the stories, stay for the wisdom, and leave with practices to support your own healing, growth, and emergence.

  1. 1 Jun

    EP 23: Treating from Within: The Integrative Medicine Approach to Hormones, Healing & Getting to the Root with Ada Ooi

    In this episode of Emerge, I sit down with the brilliant Ada Ooi — London’s most sought after wellness practitioner and aesthetician — for one of the most genuinely eye-opening conversations I've had on this podcast. Ada has nearly two decades of experience working out of her renowned Harley Street clinic in London, and her approach is unlike anything conventional Western medicine offers. She doesn't just treat symptoms — she finds the root. And in this episode, she completely reframes the way I think about hormones, sleep, food, and even the way I start my morning. Fair warning: by the end of this episode, I was questioning my iced matcha habit, my cold breakfasts, and my approach to perimenopause... in the best possible way. DISCLAIMER: All case studies discussed are fictionalised and anonymised composites derived from clinical experiences. Any resemblance to specific individuals is coincidental, details have been altered to protect privacy. ⁠⁠DOWNLOAD YOUR FREE 16-MINUTE GUIDED BREATHWORK AUDIO HERE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Where to Find Ada Ooi: Instagram: ⁠@ada.ooi⁠Website: www.adaooi.comClinic: www.001london.co.uk Connect with Fini Cooper: Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@thebreathway ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠& ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@emerge.podcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Website:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠thebreathway.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ In this episode, we talk about: Ada’s background in Chinese medicine, aesthetics, and neuropsychologyWhat “treating from within” really meansWhy Chinese medicine looks at the body as one interconnected systemHow symptoms like low mood, hot flushes, body aches, digestion issues, and skin problems can sometimes be connectedThe role of the nervous system in healing and regulationHow Eastern and Western medicine can complement each otherWhy consultation time and truly listening to patients mattersAda’s perspective on perimenopause and menopauseWhen hormone therapy may be helpful, and why it is important to have a longer-term planWhy sleep is one of the most important foundations for healthWhy Ada often prioritises sleep even above foodThe problem with scrolling before bedWhy Chinese medicine generally recommends avoiding cold drinks and cold breakfastsHow warm breakfasts can support digestion and nervous system safetyMatcha, coffee, caffeine, and the cooling nature of green teaWhy foot baths can be a powerful evening ritualAda’s thoughts on cold plunges and ice bathsHow seasonal changes in the UK can affect the bodySimple practices to help the body feel warmer, safer, and more regulated DISCLAIMER: All case studies discussed are fictionalised and anonymised composites derived from clinical experiences. Any resemblance to specific individuals is coincidental, details have been altered to protect privacy.

    58 min
  2. 11 May

    EP 21: Why You Still Feel Anxious in a Healthy Relationship

    Today on the podcast, I’m joined by Sarah Yudkin, founder of You Love and You Learn. Sarah is a relationship coach and breathwork facilitator who helps people connect more deeply to themselves and others, so they can feel more fulfilled in their lives and relationships. Her work focuses on helping people move from anxiety and self-doubt into greater inner confidence, self-trust and emotional steadiness. ⁠⁠⁠DOWNLOAD YOUR FREE 16-MINUTE GUIDED BREATHWORK AUDIO HERE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Where to Find Sarah Yudkin: Instagram: @youloveandyoulearnWebsite: ⁠www.youloveandyoulearn.com Connect with Fini Cooper: Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@thebreathway ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠& ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@emerge.podcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Website:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠thebreathway.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠In this episode, we explore relationship anxiety, something so many women experience, but often don’t fully understand or know how to manage. Sarah shares her own personal experience of relationship anxiety, including how it showed up in her relationship with her now-husband, and the moment she realised that the fear she was feeling might not actually be about him, but about the pressure, perfectionism and self-doubt she was carrying. We talk about the difference between intuition and anxiety, why advice like “trust your gut” can feel confusing when you’re already anxious, and how relationship anxiety can make even a loving, healthy partnership feel uncertain or unsafe. Sarah also shares why the idea of “when you know, you know” can sometimes be unhelpful, especially for people who naturally question, analyse or struggle with self-trust. We also discuss the power of breathwork, how it can help us come back into our bodies, regulate our nervous systems, and connect with what Sarah beautifully calls our “wise self”. This is such a helpful conversation for anyone who has ever found themselves overthinking their relationship, questioning whether their doubts mean something deeper, or wondering how to feel more secure within themselves. In this episode, we cover: What relationship anxiety actually isWhy normal relationship doubts can become overwhelmingThe difference between anxiety and intuitionWhy “trust your gut” can feel confusing for anxious peopleThe myth of “when you know, you know”Sarah’s personal experience of relationship anxietyHow perfectionism and comparison can affect relationshipsWhy social media can make relationship anxiety worseHow self-doubt can show up in loveWhat it means to make relationship decisions from your grounded self, not your triggered selfHow breathwork can help you reconnect with your body and your wise selfSimple ways to manage anxious thoughts and sensations when they arise

    48 min
  3. 4 May

    EP 20: Living a Life That Feels True To You with Susanna Soma

    What happens when the life you’re living looks good on the outside, but something inside you knows, “this isn’t it”? In this episode, I’m joined by the lovely Susanna Soma, a somatic mentor, embodied movement guide and long-time yoga teacher. Susanna’s story begins with a feeling so many of us know, the quiet sense that the path in front of you might not actually be yours. From Melbourne to South America, Costa Rica and eventually Mallorca, her journey has been shaped by freedom, travel, yoga, grief, embodiment and learning to listen to the wisdom of the body. ⁠⁠DOWNLOAD YOUR FREE 16-MINUTE GUIDED BREATHWORK AUDIO HERE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Where to Find Susanna Soma: Instagram: @susannasoma_Website: ⁠www.susannasoma.com Connect with Fini Cooper: Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@thebreathway ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠& ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@emerge.podcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Website:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠thebreathway.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ This is a conversation about the moments that ask us to be honest with ourselves. The moments when we realise something no longer fits. The moments when starting over feels exciting, but also asks deeper questions. The moments when the mind has understood something, but the body is still holding on. Susanna shares so beautifully about what it means to feel at home in yourself, to live closer to your truth, and to meet the parts of you that have been trying to keep you safe. We also touch on relationships, self-abandonment, nervous system patterns, authenticity, and the kind of freedom that is not just about where you live or what you do, but how deeply you are able to be yourself. This is such a rich, honest and grounding episode, and I hope it gives you something to feel into.

    1hr 1min
  4. 13 Apr

    EP 19: Manifestation, Self-Sabotage & Subconscious Patterns: What It Really Takes to Create Lasting Change with Nikki Heyder

    In this episode, I’m joined by Nikki Heyder, a trauma-informed psychotherapist, business mentor, and author of Good Enough: A Roadmap for Compassionate Self-Acceptance. This was such a rich conversation, and one I think will really land for anyone who feels stuck in patterns they can’t quite explain, or who has achieved a lot on paper but still doesn’t feel how they thought they would. We talk about what it actually takes to create lasting change, beyond quick fixes and surface-level mindset work. Nikki shares so much insight around limiting beliefs, self-sabotage, the subconscious, and the nervous system, and explains it in a way that feels both grounded and genuinely useful. One of my favourite parts of this conversation was hearing Nikki speak about manifestation. She explains it so well, in a way that feels clear, practical, and far removed from the usual vague advice you often hear online. Rather than framing manifestation as simply attracting what you want, she talks about it through the lens of identity, values, beliefs, and nervous system safety. We explore how people can end up creating lives that look successful from the outside but don’t actually feel fulfilling, and how often that comes from chasing what they think they should want, rather than what is truly aligned for them. Nikki speaks about the importance of understanding your deeper why, the impact you want to have, and the version of you that is driving your decisions. We also get into why the brain is wired for efficiency rather than happiness, how subconscious beliefs get formed, why self-sabotage can actually be protective, and how all of this shows up not just in healing, but in business, visibility, relationships, and the way we build our lives. This episode felt really honest, thoughtful, and full of those moments that make you stop and reflect. I hope you enjoy it as much as I did. ⁠DOWNLOAD YOUR FREE 16-MINUTE GUIDED BREATHWORK AUDIO HERE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Where to Find Nikki Heyder: Instagram: @nikki.heyderWebsite: www.the-soul-institute.comPodcast: Heart Led Hustle with NikkiBook: Good Enough: A Roadmap for Compassionate Self-Acceptance (available on Amazon)Connect with Fini Cooper: Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@thebreathway ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠& ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@emerge.podcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Website:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠thebreathway.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

    56 min
  5. 30 Mar

    EP 17: Human Design, Self-Trust & Coming Back to Yourself with Julia Woodford

    In this episode, I’m joined by Julia Woodford, a human design reader, somatic coach, gym owner and personal trainer. Julia and I met during our somatic coaching training, and this conversation felt like such an honest reflection of what so many women move through, self-doubt, overthinking, feeling disconnected from themselves, and the quiet desire to come back home to who they really are. We talk about human design, somatic coaching, spirituality, authentic living, and what it looks like to trust yourself when life no longer feels aligned. Julia shares her own journey of moving away from a more structured, disciplined way of living and into something more intuitive, body-led, and true to who she is. This episode is for the woman who is craving more depth, more connection, and more honesty in the way she lives. The woman who is tired of living in her head, second-guessing herself, and wondering whether she’s allowed to want something different. We also speak about the very real self-doubt that can come up when you put yourself out there, whether that’s on social media, in your work, in your relationships, or simply in being seen more fully as yourself. If you’re on a journey of healing, inner work, self-trust, and reconnecting with your body, there will be something in this episode for you. DOWNLOAD YOUR FREE 16-MINUTE GUIDED BREATHWORK AUDIO HERE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Where to Find Julia Woodford: Instagram: @julzjulzjulzz Connect with Fini Cooper: Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@thebreathway ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠& ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@emerge.podcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Website:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠thebreathway.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

    52 min
  6. 23 Mar

    EP 16: Can You Really Have It All? The Truth About Ambition, Motherhood and Identity With Katherine Ormerod

    You did everything right. You worked hard. You had a plan and you went after it with everything you had. And yet somehow here you are, wondering where exactly that version of you actually went. This week on Emerge we're talking to Katherine Ormerod. Katherine is a journalist, author and former fashion editor whose work explores the hidden impact of social media, comparison, and modern life on our sense of self. Through her books and writing, she offers an honest look at identity, burnout, and what it really means to build a life that feels genuinely aligned, not just good on the outside. And in this conversation she gets really honest about something most high achieving women feel but rarely say out loud. She was raised in a household where ambition wasn't just encouraged, it was expected. Slowing down wasn't an option. Your worth was measured by how far you could go and how fast you could get there. So she went. Fast. And far. Until life had other plans. What followed is something a lot of us will recognise but rarely say out loud. The moment the identity you've spent years building starts to crack. When something unexpected stops you in your tracks. When you're suddenly left asking - "Who am I if I'm not this?" Nobody tells you what happens when the accolades go quiet. When the plan falls apart. When you're standing in a life that looks fine from the outside and feeling completely lost on the inside. And in this episode, Katherine doesn't dress it up. She talks about the guilt of wanting more from your career while also wanting to be present. The myth of having it all. And what self care actually looks like for a woman who's spent her whole life running. This one is for every woman who has ever felt the gap between who she was told she could be and who she actually is right now xx What we cover in this episode: Growing up with the silent pressure to be extraordinary and how it follows you into adulthoodWhat happens to your identity when life doesn't go to planCan you really have it all and what does that actually mean in practiceThe lean in lean out approach to balancing ambition and motherhoodWhat real self-care actually looks like beyond the surfaceRaising children in the age of social media and protecting them onlineLearning to give yourself the same grace you give everyone else ⁠DOWNLOAD YOUR FREE 16-MINUTE GUIDED BREATHWORK AUDIO HERE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Where to Find Katherine Ormerod: Instagram: @katherine_ormerodSubstack Connect with Fini Cooper: Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@thebreathway ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠& ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@emerge.podcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Website:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠thebreathway.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

    56 min
5
out of 5
4 Ratings

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Emerge is a podcast about the moments that break us open and the practices that help us put ourselves back together. Hosted by Fini Cooper, a breathwork teacher and somatic guide, each episode brings you unfiltered conversations with people who've turned challenge into transformation. Come for the stories, stay for the wisdom, and leave with practices to support your own healing, growth, and emergence.