Emerge with Fini Cooper

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Emerge is a podcast about the moments that break us open and the practices that help us put ourselves back together. Hosted by Fini Cooper, a breathwork teacher and somatic guide, each episode brings you unfiltered conversations with people who've turned challenge into transformation. Come for the stories, stay for the wisdom, and leave with practices to support your own healing, growth, and emergence.

  1. 8 hr ago

    EP 31: Choosing a Life That’s Actually Yours with Charlotte Holmes

    What happens when you stop following the life you were taught to want, and start asking what you actually want instead? In this episode of Emerge, I sit down with Charlotte Holmes, yoga teacher and founder of Insight Out Yoga, for a conversation about questioning the paths we inherit, trusting what feels true for us, and learning to meet life with a little more openness. Charlotte has built a life that doesn't necessarily follow the traditional script. We talk about her decision not to have children and the question that helped her look at that choice differently: rather than simply asking “Do I want children?”, what happens when you ask “How would I live my life if I chose not to?” That question opens up a much bigger conversation about purpose, identity and the assumptions we rarely stop to question. We also explore Charlotte's relationship with India, how her understanding of yoga has evolved far beyond what happens on a mat, and why she believes spirituality isn't necessarily something we need to find. Sometimes it might be more about unlearning everything that took us away from it in the first place. And we talk about what these practices look like when life actually gets difficult. Charlotte shares what heartbreak taught her about staying open, choosing how we respond to pain, and why the practices aren't really for the moments when everything is going well. In this episode, we explore: Questioning the life path you've been taught to follow Charlotte's decision not to have children and the freedom she found in asking a different question Why yoga is much more than something you do on a mat Spirituality, embodiment and coming out of the thinking mind Staying open through heartbreak and difficult seasons The difference between pain and suffering Why the end of something doesn't mean the time was wasted A guided Breath of Light practice to reconnect with yourself There is a lot in this conversation about choice. Choosing what kind of life you want. Choosing how you meet the difficult parts of it. And perhaps most importantly, giving yourself permission to question whether the things you've always assumed you should want are actually yours. For more grounding practices to help you work with your nervous system rather than immediately believing every thought it throws at you, join my newsletter and download my free 16-minute guided breathwork practice: https://thebreathway.com/podcast DOWNLOAD YOUR FREE 16-MINUTE GUIDED BREATHWORK AUDIO HERE Where to Find Charlotte Holmes: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/misscharholmes/?hl=en  Website: https://www.insightout.yoga/  App: https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=breakthroughapps.com.insightoutyoga&hl=en  Connect with Fini Cooper: Instagram: @thebreathway & @emerge.podcast Website: thebreathway.com

  2. 24 Aug

    EP 30: Maybe You’re Not Too Sensitive. Maybe You’re Wired This Way

    Have you ever had one of those weeks where nothing is actually wrong, but somehow everything feels wrong? Nobody's done anything. Nothing dramatic has happened. And yet you're reading into conversations, questioning your relationship, scrolling more than usual, keeping yourself constantly busy, or lying awake at 2am entertaining yet another variation of the same fear. In this solo episode, I explore what might actually be happening in your nervous system during those periods. I talk about sensory processing sensitivity, heart rate variability (HRV), why some of us naturally have more sensitive systems, and what can happen when things like poor sleep, stress, illness, grief or even being away from someone you usually co-regulate with knock you below your usual baseline. Because when your system has less capacity available, it can start scanning for threats that wouldn't normally register. And, very helpfully, it doesn't tend to invent exciting new fears. It pulls out the ones it already knows. I also explore an important distinction I've learned to make between a genuine quiet knowing and the flood of repetitive, urgent thoughts that can come from a nervous system working very hard to protect you. DOWNLOAD YOUR FREE 16-MINUTE GUIDED BREATHWORK AUDIO HERE Connect with Fini Cooper: Instagram: @thebreathway & @emerge.podcast Website: thebreathway.com In this episode, you'll hear me unpack: Why some people naturally have a more sensitive nervous system What sensory processing sensitivity can tell us about the way we experience our environment Why sensitivity itself isn't inherently good or bad, but can amplify what it's given What heart rate variability (HRV) can tell you about your nervous system's capacity and resilience Why sleep changes, stress, illness, grief and changes in co-regulation can affect your baseline Why an overwhelmed system can start scanning for problems and bring old fears into current situations Why relationship fears so often become louder when your nervous system is struggling Why understanding your patterns intellectually doesn't necessarily stop them appearing How to recognise the difference between a quiet knowing and a flood of fearful thoughts Why an anxious day might not be the best day to make a big decision or have that very serious conversation A simple somatic and extended-exhale practice to create more space when your thoughts start looping The next time your mind suddenly presents you with a comprehensive PowerPoint presentation on everything that could possibly be wrong with your life, you don't necessarily have to believe it, fix it or make a decision about it. You can start by asking: Is this a quiet knowing, or is this a flood of fear? And perhaps before deciding that your relationship, career, friendships or entire existence need reconsidering, ask what has happened to your baseline. Have you slept? Have you eaten properly? Have you been working too hard? Has something changed in your environment? Are you missing someone you usually co-regulate with? Sometimes the fear is about what is happening now. But sometimes your system is simply pulling an old alarm because today, it has less available to quiet it. And you don't have to decide anything right now. For more grounding practices to help you work with your nervous system rather than immediately believing every thought it throws at you, join my newsletter and download my free 16-minute guided breathwork practice: https://thebreathway.com/podcast

  3. 10 Aug

    EP 29 (Part 2): Your Brain Is Filtering Your Reality. Here’s How to Change It

    You are not experiencing your whole life. You're experiencing an edit. Your brain is constantly filtering an enormous amount of information, deciding what gets through and what gets thrown away before you're even aware it's happening. In Part 2 of this shorter solo series, I get into what is actually setting that filter. I talk about why you suddenly see the same car everywhere once you want one, how you can hear your name across a noisy room, and why your nervous system has far more to do with what you notice than simply telling yourself to “think positively.” Because apparently even your reality has an editor, and it has opinions. DOWNLOAD YOUR FREE 16-MINUTE GUIDED BREATHWORK AUDIO HERE Connect with Fini Cooper:Instagram: @thebreathway & @emerge.podcastWebsite: thebreathway.com In this episode, you'll hear me unpack: Why you're experiencing a tiny, compressed edit of reality rather than everything around you The frequency illusion, and why your brain suddenly starts noticing things that were there all along How the reticular activating system decides what information is relevant enough to reach your awareness Why a nervous system that's braced for threat becomes very good at finding more threat Why affirmations alone may not change a filter that's operating underneath conscious thought How breath, posture, and body-based practices can help change the state doing the noticing A short practice for widening your awareness and noticing what was already there Rather than asking, “What's wrong here?” Fini leaves you with a different question to try once a day: What's already good here that I haven't been letting in? Slow down, notice what's already around you, and see what happens when you give something different a chance to make it through the filter. For more grounding practices to help you slow down, shift your state, and notice what your nervous system may have been filtering out, get on Fini's newsletter and download the free breathwork practice: https://thebreathway.com/podcast

  4. 3 Aug

    EP 28 (Part 1): Stop Trying to Fix Your Fearful Thoughts. Do This Instead. A New Solo Series on Fear, State, and the Nervous System

    Most of what you think today, you already thought yesterday. The same fear, the same loop, circling back before you've even noticed it's happened again. In this first solo episode of a new shorter series, I sit with something I come back to in my own life too: what if the goal was never to be free from fearful thoughts? I get into why your brain isn't actually built for your happiness (it's built to keep you alive), why you can't reason your way out of a fear, and what to do instead when you don't have an hour to sit with it properly. DOWNLOAD YOUR FREE 16-MINUTE GUIDED BREATHWORK AUDIO HERE Connect with Fini Cooper: Instagram: @thebreathway & @emerge.podcast Website: thebreathway.com In this episode, you'll hear me unpack: Why fear isn't a flaw, it's an old survival system still running, unsupervised How childhood shapes how hard your brain scans for danger, even years later, even with a "good enough" upbringing Why reasoning and willpower don't work when your body is in the wrong state The three things that actually build your state, and why your body comes before your thoughts, not after What happens in your nervous system when you simply name what you're feeling Why your heart has its own nervous system, over 40,000 neurons of it, and how it's constantly talking to your brain A short practice you can do in the moment, using breath, gratitude, and awareness, to change your state and loosen a looping thought's grip on you If your mind tends to loop on the same fear over and over, this episode will help you understand why that's happening, and give you something to actually do about it, right there in the moment. For more grounding practices and tools to help you come home to yourself, get on Fini's newsletter and download the free breathwork practice: https://thebreathway.com/podcast

  5. 20 Jul

    EP 27: The Fear of Being Truly Seen: Sophie Kish on Feminine Power, Shadow Work & Coming Home to Your Body

    You are not separate from what you're trying to call into your life. That's the truth Sophie Kish sits with in this episode, and it changes everything once you actually let it in. Sophie spent a year and a half on Tony Robbins' team, working directly with surgeons, founders, and Fortune 100 executives, watching the same pattern show up again and again: it's never really about what we do. It's about who we believe we are underneath it. DOWNLOAD YOUR FREE 16-MINUTE GUIDED BREATHWORK AUDIO HERE  Connect with Sophie Kish: Website: https://www.sophierosekish.com Instagram: @sophiekish Facebook: @sophierosekish Connect with Fini Cooper: Instagram: @thebreathway & @emerge.podcast Website: thebreathway.com In this conversation, you'll hear Sophie unpack: Why 80% of transformation is identity and only 20% is action, and what that means for the goals you're chasing The difference between fixing yourself and expanding your capacity to hold all of who you are Her practice "Dancing with the Darkness" and how shadow work becomes embodiment, not just insight Why the fear of being fully seen is ancient, and how it quietly runs your relationships and your work The shift from "boss babe" hustle to feminine power that doesn't burn you out How to tell the difference between your comfort zone and your actual safety If you've ever felt like you keep circling the same lesson, this episode will help you understand why, and how to finally let it land in your body instead of just your head. For more grounding practices and tools to help you come home to yourself, get on Fini's newsletter and download the free breathwork practice: https://thebreathway.com/podcast

  6. 13 Jul

    EP 26: Learning to Trust What You Can't Explain with Lucy Shelby

    What happens when the moments you can't explain are the ones that shape you the most? In this episode of Emerge, I sit down with Lucy Shelby, a trained spiritual psychosomatic coach, clown, healer, and artist. She holds an MFA in ensemble-based physical theater, has certificates in various healing modalities, and has been teaching hot yoga for over 18 years. Lucy is also a writer, producer, and creator of many shows in New York City and beyond, and one of her proudest achievements was working with Clowns Without Borders, performing for over 10,000 children in Ecuador and Zimbabwe. Lucy's connection to mysticism began not in adulthood, but as a young child. From an early age, she had experiences that had no explanation: a sister who saw what no one else could see, a hand that appeared out of nowhere to save someone from falling. And alongside those experiences, she was also learning, the hard way, what happens when openness isn't paired with boundaries. ⁠⁠DOWNLOAD YOUR FREE 16-MINUTE GUIDED BREATHWORK AUDIO HERE ⁠⁠ Where to Find Lucy Shelby: Instagram: ⁠⁠@the_clownwitch⁠⁠ Website: ⁠⁠lucyshelby.com⁠⁠ ⁠⁠Miss American Dreams Newsletter⁠⁠ Connect with Fini Cooper: Instagram: ⁠⁠@thebreathway⁠⁠ & ⁠⁠@emerge.podcast⁠⁠ Website: ⁠⁠thebreathway.com⁠⁠ This conversation is for you if you've ever had an experience you couldn't explain, and didn't know what to do with it. Maybe you've felt something and had no language for it. Maybe you've been the "open" one, the one who says yes too easily, who struggles to set a boundary even when something feels off. Maybe you've confused being spiritual with being endlessly available, to people, to energy, to everything. Lucy shares how her early mystical experiences sat alongside real chaos, including getting sober after years of using alcohol to stay wide open without discernment, and what it took to learn that being spiritual and having boundaries aren't opposites. We talk about the difference between judgment and discernment, why some of the most outwardly "spiritual" people are the least embodied, the archetype of the sacred clown, the fool who turns out to be the wisest one in the room, and a reframe of suicidal ideation that stopped me in my tracks: not a desire to leave, but a soul that hadn't yet felt safe choosing to be here. So if you're someone who feels things deeply, who's had experiences you've never quite known what to do with, this episode is an invitation to hold both: the mystery and the boundary, the openness and the safety. In this episode, we explore: Lucy's mystical childhood experiences, and what it's like to grow up with a real connection to mysticism The difference between judgment and discernment Why openness without boundaries can lead to real danger What getting sober taught Lucy about energetic boundaries Why the most embodied people aren't always the ones who "look" spiritual The archetype of the sacred clown, and what it teaches us about wisdom A new way to understand suicidal ideation, as a soul seeking safety, not an exit How to integrate spiritual practices into everyday life A grounding practice to feel expanded and protected at the same time

  7. 22 Jun

    EP 25: How to Make Real Change After a Wake-Up Call with Colin Dunsmuir

    What do you do when life gives you a wake-up call so big you know you can’t go back to the way things were? In this episode of Emerge, I sit down with Colin, a yoga therapist, author, and teacher, whose journey began after a terrifying health crisis in his late teens. After coming incredibly close to death, Colin was left with a question that many of us face in different ways: how did I get here, and what needs to change? ⁠⁠DOWNLOAD YOUR FREE 16-MINUTE GUIDED BREATHWORK AUDIO HERE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Where to Find Colin Dunsmuir: Instagram: @colindunsmuir Connect with Fini Cooper: Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@thebreathway ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠& ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@emerge.podcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Website:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠thebreathway.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ This conversation is for you if you’ve had a moment in your life that has shaken you awake. Maybe your body has forced you to stop. Maybe burnout, illness, grief, anxiety, or a major life change has made it impossible to keep pretending everything is fine. And maybe, even though you know something has to shift, you’re not quite sure what to do next. Colin shares how his wake-up call led him into yoga, body awareness, self-inquiry, and a much deeper understanding of the patterns we carry. We talk about what it means to stop pushing through, to listen to the body, to take responsibility without blaming yourself, and to make changes that actually last. So if you’re in a season where “normal” no longer feels like an option, this episode is an invitation to pause, listen, and begin again from a more honest place. In this episode, we explore: What a real wake-up call can teach usWhy going back to “normal” is not always the goalHow the body communicates when something needs to changeThe difference between temporary change and lasting transformationWhy yoga can become a path into self-awareness, not just movementHow old patterns shape the way we express, cope, and connectWhat it means to start listening to yourself again A little note from me: this was one of the very first episodes I recorded for Emerge, and part of the conversation was cut by accident. So this episode is shorter than planned. But Colin has so much wisdom to share, and what we did capture felt too valuable to leave sitting in a folder.

  8. 8 Jun

    EP 24: The Science of Happiness and What Really Creates Fulfilment

    Do you ever feel like you should be happier than you are? Like, on paper, things might be okay. Maybe even good. But there’s still this quiet feeling of, “Why don’t I feel how I thought I would?” Maybe you’ve been waiting for the next thing to change everything. The relationship. The move. The job. The achievement. The version of yourself that finally feels successful, settled, or enough. And maybe part of you really believed that once you got there, happiness would arrive too. In this episode, I’m exploring why that doesn’t always happen. Why we can chase the things we think will fulfil us, only to find ourselves still reaching for something else. Why the life that looks good from the outside doesn’t always feel nourishing on the inside. And what actually helps us come back to ourselves, our bodies, our lives, and the present moment. This is for you if you’ve been feeling a little disconnected, a little restless, or like you’re constantly moving the goalpost of when you’ll finally feel okay. A grounded conversation on happiness, fulfilment, external validation, the nervous system, and learning how to actually feel the life you’re living.

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Emerge is a podcast about the moments that break us open and the practices that help us put ourselves back together. Hosted by Fini Cooper, a breathwork teacher and somatic guide, each episode brings you unfiltered conversations with people who've turned challenge into transformation. Come for the stories, stay for the wisdom, and leave with practices to support your own healing, growth, and emergence.

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  • Creator
    Fini Cooper
  • Years Active
    2025 - 2026
  • Episodes
    31
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © Fini Cooper
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    Emerge with Fini Cooper