Emerge with Fini Cooper

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Emerge is a podcast about the moments that break us open and the practices that help us put ourselves back together. Hosted by Fini Cooper, a breathwork teacher and somatic guide, each episode brings you unfiltered conversations with people who've turned challenge into transformation. Come for the stories, stay for the wisdom, and leave with practices to support your own healing, growth, and emergence.

  1. 10 HR AGO

    EP 22: What Silence Can Teach Us About Ourselves

    What becomes possible when the noise softens and there is finally space to listen? This episode explores how silence can bring us face to face with the thoughts, fears, and patterns that quietly shape our lives. It touches on self-judgment, the search for belonging, the habit of looking outside ourselves for answers, and the deeper knowing that can emerge when we slow down enough to hear it. ⁠⁠DOWNLOAD YOUR FREE 16-MINUTE GUIDED BREATHWORK AUDIO HERE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Connect with Fini Cooper: Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@thebreathway ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠& ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@emerge.podcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Website:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠thebreathway.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠For anyone feeling disconnected, overwhelmed, or unsure of what they truly need, this is a gentle reflection on presence, inner trust, and the quiet truths that are often waiting beneath the surface.

    34 min

  2. 11 MAY

    EP 21: Why You Still Feel Anxious in a Healthy Relationship

    Today on the podcast, I’m joined by Sarah Yudkin, founder of You Love and You Learn. Sarah is a relationship coach and breathwork facilitator who helps people connect more deeply to themselves and others, so they can feel more fulfilled in their lives and relationships. Her work focuses on helping people move from anxiety and self-doubt into greater inner confidence, self-trust and emotional steadiness. ⁠⁠⁠DOWNLOAD YOUR FREE 16-MINUTE GUIDED BREATHWORK AUDIO HERE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Where to Find Sarah Yudkin: Instagram: @youloveandyoulearnWebsite: ⁠www.youloveandyoulearn.com Connect with Fini Cooper: Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@thebreathway ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠& ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@emerge.podcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Website:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠thebreathway.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠In this episode, we explore relationship anxiety, something so many women experience, but often don’t fully understand or know how to manage. Sarah shares her own personal experience of relationship anxiety, including how it showed up in her relationship with her now-husband, and the moment she realised that the fear she was feeling might not actually be about him, but about the pressure, perfectionism and self-doubt she was carrying. We talk about the difference between intuition and anxiety, why advice like “trust your gut” can feel confusing when you’re already anxious, and how relationship anxiety can make even a loving, healthy partnership feel uncertain or unsafe. Sarah also shares why the idea of “when you know, you know” can sometimes be unhelpful, especially for people who naturally question, analyse or struggle with self-trust. We also discuss the power of breathwork, how it can help us come back into our bodies, regulate our nervous systems, and connect with what Sarah beautifully calls our “wise self”. This is such a helpful conversation for anyone who has ever found themselves overthinking their relationship, questioning whether their doubts mean something deeper, or wondering how to feel more secure within themselves. In this episode, we cover: What relationship anxiety actually isWhy normal relationship doubts can become overwhelmingThe difference between anxiety and intuitionWhy “trust your gut” can feel confusing for anxious peopleThe myth of “when you know, you know”Sarah’s personal experience of relationship anxietyHow perfectionism and comparison can affect relationshipsWhy social media can make relationship anxiety worseHow self-doubt can show up in loveWhat it means to make relationship decisions from your grounded self, not your triggered selfHow breathwork can help you reconnect with your body and your wise selfSimple ways to manage anxious thoughts and sensations when they arise

    48 min

  3. 4 MAY

    EP 20: Living a Life That Feels True To You with Susanna Soma

    What happens when the life you’re living looks good on the outside, but something inside you knows, “this isn’t it”? In this episode, I’m joined by the lovely Susanna Soma, a somatic mentor, embodied movement guide and long-time yoga teacher. Susanna’s story begins with a feeling so many of us know, the quiet sense that the path in front of you might not actually be yours. From Melbourne to South America, Costa Rica and eventually Mallorca, her journey has been shaped by freedom, travel, yoga, grief, embodiment and learning to listen to the wisdom of the body. ⁠⁠DOWNLOAD YOUR FREE 16-MINUTE GUIDED BREATHWORK AUDIO HERE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Where to Find Susanna Soma: Instagram: @susannasoma_Website: ⁠www.susannasoma.com Connect with Fini Cooper: Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@thebreathway ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠& ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@emerge.podcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Website:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠thebreathway.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ This is a conversation about the moments that ask us to be honest with ourselves. The moments when we realise something no longer fits. The moments when starting over feels exciting, but also asks deeper questions. The moments when the mind has understood something, but the body is still holding on. Susanna shares so beautifully about what it means to feel at home in yourself, to live closer to your truth, and to meet the parts of you that have been trying to keep you safe. We also touch on relationships, self-abandonment, nervous system patterns, authenticity, and the kind of freedom that is not just about where you live or what you do, but how deeply you are able to be yourself. This is such a rich, honest and grounding episode, and I hope it gives you something to feel into.

    1hr 1min

  4. 13 APR

    EP 19: Manifestation, Self-Sabotage & Subconscious Patterns: What It Really Takes to Create Lasting Change with Nikki Heyder

    In this episode, I’m joined by Nikki Heyder, a trauma-informed psychotherapist, business mentor, and author of Good Enough: A Roadmap for Compassionate Self-Acceptance. This was such a rich conversation, and one I think will really land for anyone who feels stuck in patterns they can’t quite explain, or who has achieved a lot on paper but still doesn’t feel how they thought they would. We talk about what it actually takes to create lasting change, beyond quick fixes and surface-level mindset work. Nikki shares so much insight around limiting beliefs, self-sabotage, the subconscious, and the nervous system, and explains it in a way that feels both grounded and genuinely useful. One of my favourite parts of this conversation was hearing Nikki speak about manifestation. She explains it so well, in a way that feels clear, practical, and far removed from the usual vague advice you often hear online. Rather than framing manifestation as simply attracting what you want, she talks about it through the lens of identity, values, beliefs, and nervous system safety. We explore how people can end up creating lives that look successful from the outside but don’t actually feel fulfilling, and how often that comes from chasing what they think they should want, rather than what is truly aligned for them. Nikki speaks about the importance of understanding your deeper why, the impact you want to have, and the version of you that is driving your decisions. We also get into why the brain is wired for efficiency rather than happiness, how subconscious beliefs get formed, why self-sabotage can actually be protective, and how all of this shows up not just in healing, but in business, visibility, relationships, and the way we build our lives. This episode felt really honest, thoughtful, and full of those moments that make you stop and reflect. I hope you enjoy it as much as I did. ⁠DOWNLOAD YOUR FREE 16-MINUTE GUIDED BREATHWORK AUDIO HERE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Where to Find Nikki Heyder: Instagram: @nikki.heyderWebsite: www.the-soul-institute.comPodcast: Heart Led Hustle with NikkiBook: Good Enough: A Roadmap for Compassionate Self-Acceptance (available on Amazon)Connect with Fini Cooper: Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@thebreathway ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠& ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@emerge.podcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Website:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠thebreathway.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

    56 min

  5. 6 APR

    EP 18: Is Fear Running Your Life Without You Realising?

    There are moments in life when you know something needs to change. You can feel it. You’ve probably felt it for a while. But instead of moving, you stay where you are. Not because you’re lazy, incapable, or confused, but because fear has a way of making the familiar feel safer than the truth. In this episode, I’m unpacking the deeper mechanics of fear, how it lives in the body, how it shapes the mind, and why it so often keeps us tied to patterns, relationships, and identities we’ve already outgrown. We explore why your system can interpret honesty, change, and vulnerability as threats, why resisting fear tends to make it stronger, and why building a different relationship with fear is such an important part of growth. I also share a simple exercise to help you name your fears, challenge the stories around them, and see more clearly what is really at stake, not just if you act, but if you don’t. Because fear isn’t always a sign that something is wrong. Very often, it’s a sign that something real is asking for your attention. DOWNLOAD YOUR FREE 16-MINUTE GUIDED BREATHWORK AUDIO HERE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Connect with Fini: Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@thebreathway ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠& ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@emerge.podcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Website:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠thebreathway.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

    20 min

  6. 30 MAR

    EP 17: Human Design, Self-Trust & Coming Back to Yourself with Julia Woodford

    In this episode, I’m joined by Julia Woodford, a human design reader, somatic coach, gym owner and personal trainer. Julia and I met during our somatic coaching training, and this conversation felt like such an honest reflection of what so many women move through, self-doubt, overthinking, feeling disconnected from themselves, and the quiet desire to come back home to who they really are. We talk about human design, somatic coaching, spirituality, authentic living, and what it looks like to trust yourself when life no longer feels aligned. Julia shares her own journey of moving away from a more structured, disciplined way of living and into something more intuitive, body-led, and true to who she is. This episode is for the woman who is craving more depth, more connection, and more honesty in the way she lives. The woman who is tired of living in her head, second-guessing herself, and wondering whether she’s allowed to want something different. We also speak about the very real self-doubt that can come up when you put yourself out there, whether that’s on social media, in your work, in your relationships, or simply in being seen more fully as yourself. If you’re on a journey of healing, inner work, self-trust, and reconnecting with your body, there will be something in this episode for you. DOWNLOAD YOUR FREE 16-MINUTE GUIDED BREATHWORK AUDIO HERE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Where to Find Julia Woodford: Instagram: @julzjulzjulzz Connect with Fini Cooper: Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@thebreathway ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠& ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@emerge.podcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Website:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠thebreathway.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

    52 min

  7. 23 MAR

    EP 16: Can You Really Have It All? The Truth About Ambition, Motherhood and Identity With Katherine Ormerod

    You did everything right. You worked hard. You had a plan and you went after it with everything you had. And yet somehow here you are, wondering where exactly that version of you actually went. This week on Emerge we're talking to Katherine Ormerod. Katherine is a journalist, author and former fashion editor whose work explores the hidden impact of social media, comparison, and modern life on our sense of self. Through her books and writing, she offers an honest look at identity, burnout, and what it really means to build a life that feels genuinely aligned, not just good on the outside. And in this conversation she gets really honest about something most high achieving women feel but rarely say out loud. She was raised in a household where ambition wasn't just encouraged, it was expected. Slowing down wasn't an option. Your worth was measured by how far you could go and how fast you could get there. So she went. Fast. And far. Until life had other plans. What followed is something a lot of us will recognise but rarely say out loud. The moment the identity you've spent years building starts to crack. When something unexpected stops you in your tracks. When you're suddenly left asking - "Who am I if I'm not this?" Nobody tells you what happens when the accolades go quiet. When the plan falls apart. When you're standing in a life that looks fine from the outside and feeling completely lost on the inside. And in this episode, Katherine doesn't dress it up. She talks about the guilt of wanting more from your career while also wanting to be present. The myth of having it all. And what self care actually looks like for a woman who's spent her whole life running. This one is for every woman who has ever felt the gap between who she was told she could be and who she actually is right now xx What we cover in this episode: Growing up with the silent pressure to be extraordinary and how it follows you into adulthoodWhat happens to your identity when life doesn't go to planCan you really have it all and what does that actually mean in practiceThe lean in lean out approach to balancing ambition and motherhoodWhat real self-care actually looks like beyond the surfaceRaising children in the age of social media and protecting them onlineLearning to give yourself the same grace you give everyone else ⁠DOWNLOAD YOUR FREE 16-MINUTE GUIDED BREATHWORK AUDIO HERE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Where to Find Katherine Ormerod: Instagram: @katherine_ormerodSubstack Connect with Fini Cooper: Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@thebreathway ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠& ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@emerge.podcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Website:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠thebreathway.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

    56 min

  8. 16 MAR

    EP 15: Why Suppressing Your Anger Is Actually the Worst Thing You Can Do

    What happens when you spend years suppressing how you really feel? When every emotion gets pushed down, smoothed over, laughed off? When being fine becomes so automatic you can't even remember the last time you weren't? Eventually - something gives. Maybe it's your body. Maybe it's a relationship. Maybe it's just this quiet, persistent feeling that you've been living slightly outside of yourself for a really long time. Going through the motions. Functioning perfectly well. But not really there. This week's guest Paulina Burzynska knows exactly what that feels like. And she's been on the other side of it. In this conversation she gets completely honest about what it took to stop performing strength and start actually living. But this isn't your typical healing story. She's here to tell you the truth. About anger - and why it's not the enemy you were taught it was. About nervous system regulation - and why calm was never actually the goal. About those big loud emotional healing experiences - and why they might be doing a lot less than you think. By the end of this episode you'll have a completely different way of looking at your emotions. A new understanding of what your body has been trying to tell you. And a simple practice you can try at home that will reveal more about where you are emotionally than you might expect. This episode will hit different if you've ever: Been the strong one for so long you forgot what it feels like not to beSaid you're fine so many times you actually stopped knowing if you wereGone to a retreat or healing experience and come home feeling more lost than beforeWondered why all the breathwork and meditation still isn't filling the gapFelt like there's a version of you underneath it all that nobody actually knows What we cover in this episode: What growing up as the strong one really costs you in the long runHow people pleasing quietly disconnects you from your own truthWhy suppressing emotions doesn't make them go away and where they actually goThe real truth about anger that the wellness world isn't telling youWhy releasing emotions and expressing emotions are two very different thingsWhy nervous system regulation was never supposed to mean being calmThe problem with big cathartic healing experiences and what actually creates lasting changeWhat trauma-informed healing really looks like when done properly ⁠DOWNLOAD YOUR FREE 16-MINUTE GUIDED BREATHWORK AUDIO HERE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Where to Find Paulina Burzynska : Instagram: @with.paulinaWebsite: withpaulina.com Connect with Fini Cooper: Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@thebreathway ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠& ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@emerge.podcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Website:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠thebreathway.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

    56 min
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Emerge is a podcast about the moments that break us open and the practices that help us put ourselves back together. Hosted by Fini Cooper, a breathwork teacher and somatic guide, each episode brings you unfiltered conversations with people who've turned challenge into transformation. Come for the stories, stay for the wisdom, and leave with practices to support your own healing, growth, and emergence.

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  • Creator
    Fini Cooper
  • Years Active
    2025 - 2026
  • Episodes
    22
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © Fini Cooper
  • Show Website
    Emerge with Fini Cooper