188 episodes

Gay Men Going Deeper is a weekly podcast that showcases raw and real conversations about personal development, mental health, and sexuality - from an unapologetically gay perspective.

Hosted by Matt Landsiedel and Michael DiIorio, and featuring a wide range of special guests, you can expect to be inspired, entertained, and even a little triggered from time to time.

This provocative podcast is for anyone who craves deeper conversations on topics ranging from spirituality to sexuality - and everything in between.

Visit us at www.GayMenGoingDeeper.com

Support the show: https://www.paypal.com/donate/?hosted_button_id=LT55M79CMH5FN

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    • Society & Culture
    • 4.7 • 22 Ratings

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Gay Men Going Deeper is a weekly podcast that showcases raw and real conversations about personal development, mental health, and sexuality - from an unapologetically gay perspective.

Hosted by Matt Landsiedel and Michael DiIorio, and featuring a wide range of special guests, you can expect to be inspired, entertained, and even a little triggered from time to time.

This provocative podcast is for anyone who craves deeper conversations on topics ranging from spirituality to sexuality - and everything in between.

Visit us at www.GayMenGoingDeeper.com

Support the show: https://www.paypal.com/donate/?hosted_button_id=LT55M79CMH5FN

Listen on Apple Podcasts
Requires subscription and macOS 11.4 or higher

    Gay & Asian: Panel Discussion on Intersectionality

    Gay & Asian: Panel Discussion on Intersectionality

    Join us for a compelling panel discussion as we spotlight the experiences of Asian gay men with our diverse panel of guests. Against the backdrop of intersectionality, our panelists share their personal journeys, confronting stereotypes, and navigating the complexities of race, sexuality, and culture.

    - The sacrifices we make to feel included
    - Discrimination in dating
    - Common stereotypes and micro-aggressions
    - Fetishization
    - Challenges of visibility
    - Media representation: then and now
    - Code switching
    - The diversity within the Asian community
    - Having a sense of pride in one’s cultural heritage
    - Hierarchies that exist within minority communities
    - Allyship within the LGBTQ+ community

    Through personal anecdotes and thought-provoking dialogue, we are looking at celebrating intersecting identities and the quest for acceptance and belonging.

    Join us for this much-needed discussion that advocates for understanding, empathy, and solidarity among all members of the LGBTQ+ community.

    Panelists:
    JP Fernandes: https://www.instagram.com/smilinbk
    Aldwin Era: https://www.tiktok.com/@aldybaldy82
    Jarrod Bruce Lee: www.thedaringacademy.com

    Host:
    Michael DiIorio: https://www.wellismo.com

    Self-Disclosure

    Self-Disclosure

    In this episode, we are discussing the intriguing topic of self-disclosure and its role in fostering genuine connections. Self-disclosure, the art of revealing personal information about yourself to others, shapes our relationships on various levels.

    Join us as we explore the psychology behind self-disclosure, its benefits, risks, and the delicate balance required for meaningful communication. Some of the topics we’re covering in today’s episode:

    - Knowing what to share and what not to share
    - The fear of being seen
    - Vulnerability hangovers
    - Building trust and intimacy
    - How we practice self disclosure
    - How to maintain boundaries
    - Coming out as an act of self-disclosure

    If you’re wanting to enjoy richer, more fulfilling connections in both personal and professional spheres, this episode is for you!

    Finding and Releasing Your Voice (Self-Expression)

    Finding and Releasing Your Voice (Self-Expression)

    In this episode, Matt speaks with vocal coach, producer and artist Javier Wallis about finding and releasing the voice to foster a deeper capacity for self-expression. They unpack ways to unlock the voice through facing the fears and blockages many of us have about expressing ourselves.

    Come spend an hour with Matt and Javier and learn some of the powerful benefits of vocal expression and how it can lead to profound transformation, healing and empowerment.

    The concepts and questions we explore in this episode are:

    - How vocal expression supports self expression
    - How to find and release your voice
    - The blocks to self expression
    - The benefits of vocal expression
    - The benefits of vocal coaching

    Dealing with Guilt and Regret

    Dealing with Guilt and Regret

    In this emotionally stirring episode, we dive into the heavy and complex topic of dealing with guilt and regret.



    Sometimes we must face the uncomfortable consequences of our actions and learn how to not remain paralyzed in the shadows of guilt and regret. 



    Join us as we explore the universal experience of making mistakes, forgiveness, self-forgiveness, and the power of moving forward with resilience



    Some of the topics we’re covering today are:




    What’s the difference between guilt and regret



    How to handle making mistakes in your life and relationships



    Dwelling on past mistakes vs. healthy self-reflection



    Step-by-step process to help you move on



    Letting yourself down



    Mistakes as learning opportunities



    Acceptance and forgiveness 




    With personal anecdotes and expert insights, this episode delves into the intricate layers of shame, remorse, and self-reflection.



    Today's Hosts:




    Michael DiIorio



    Matt Landsiedel



    Reno Johnston






    Support the Show - viewer and listener support helps us to continue making episodes



    - CONNECT WITH US -




    Watch podcast episodes on YouTube



    Join the Gay Men's Brotherhood Facebook community



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    Follow us on Instagram | TikTok



    Learn more about our community at GayMenGoingDeeper.com




    - LEARN WITH US -




    Building Better Relationships online course: Learn how to nurture more meaningful and authentic connections with yourself and others.



    Healing Your Shame online course: Begin the journey toward greater confidence and self-worth by learning how to recognize and deal with toxic shame.



    Gay Men Going Deeper Coaching Collection: Lifetime access to BOTH courses + 45 coaching videos and 2 workshop series.



    Take the Attachment Style Quiz to determine your attachment style and get a free report.

    • 44 min
    Financial Empowerment

    Financial Empowerment

    Financial empowerment is your ability to take control of your finances, make informed decisions, and effectively manage your resources to achieve your goals and improve your overall well-being. 



    Unfortunately, many people are holding onto limiting beliefs and habits around money that create stress, and leave you feeling disempowered.



    In today’s episode, Michael speaks to Personal Finance Coach, CPA, and TedX Speaker, Michael Kim, to guide you toward financial empowerment. Some of the topics they’ll cover are:




    The unique financial challenges gay men face 



    How financial literacy enables you to take greater control of your life 



    The impact of financial stress on your mental health and relationships



    How does your financial situation impact your ability to be authentically you



    Dealing with shame and inadequacy around income, debt, and finances 



    Understanding the influence of your personal money narrative on your financial outlook



    Strategies for improving your personal financial situation




    Join us for an inspiring discussion on empowering yourself to achieve greater security and unlock opportunities, enabling you to live the life you truly desire.



    Today’s Guest: Michael Kim




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    Related Episode: Money Mindset




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    Support the Show - viewer and listener support helps us to continue making episodes



    - CONNECT WITH US -




    Watch podcast episodes on YouTube



    Join the Gay Men's Brotherhood Facebook community



    Get on our email list to get access to our monthly Zoom calls



    Follow us on Instagram | TikTok



    Learn more about our community at GayMenGoingDeeper.com




    - LEARN WITH US -




    Building Better Relationships online course: Learn how to nurture more meaningful and authentic connections with yourself and others.



    Healing Your Shame online course: Begin the journey toward greater confidence and self-worth by learning how to recognize and deal with toxic shame.



    Gay Men Going Deeper Coaching Collection: Lifetime access to BOTH courses + 45 coaching videos and 2 workshop series.



    Take the Attachment Style Quiz to determine your attachment style and get a free report.

    • 50 min
    The Power of Self-Compassion

    The Power of Self-Compassion

    In this episode, we explore the profound power of self-compassion on our emotional well-being. As we share our own experiences and favorite lessons on this topic, you will discover what self-compassion truly means and practical ways to integrate it into your daily life.



    Some of the topics we cover in this episode:




    What does self-compassion entail exactly?



    The different types of self-compassion



    Why it can be hard to practice at times



    The significance of embodiment 



    The role of your inner-dialogue 



    Re-writing critical narratives



    Healing shame 



    The impact on your self-confidence 



    Ways to practice self-compassion  




    If you are looking for practical ways to process emotional pain, while acknowledging and overcoming barriers that hinder self-love and acceptance, this episode is for you.



    Today's Hosts:




    Michael DiIorio



    Matt Landsiedel



    Reno Johnston






    Support the Show - viewer and listener support helps us to continue making episodes



    - CONNECT WITH US -




    Watch podcast episodes on YouTube



    Join the Gay Men's Brotherhood Facebook community



    Get on our email list to get access to our monthly Zoom calls



    Follow us on Instagram | TikTok



    Learn more about our community at GayMenGoingDeeper.com




    - LEARN WITH US -




    Building Better Relationships online course: Learn how to nurture more meaningful and authentic connections with yourself and others.



    Healing Your Shame online course: Begin the journey toward greater confidence and self-worth by learning how to recognize and deal with toxic shame.



    Gay Men Going Deeper Coaching Collection: Lifetime access to BOTH courses + 45 coaching videos and 2 workshop series.



    Take the Attachment Style Quiz to determine your attachment style and get a free report.

    • 57 min

Customer Reviews

4.7 out of 5
22 Ratings

22 Ratings

danirico5 ,

From London

I cannot be more thankful for all the work you share with the rest of the community.

Hearing you talk about all the topics which are difficult to deal with for myself, it made me grow as a social gay guy, as a partner of someone who is really “closed” at sharing and (the most important) as an individual.

After a year in therapy and thinking I am a total weirdo, you made me feel stronger than ever.

Glad to hear everything you shared. Keep going! It’s lovely to disconnect and learn with you.

nauticalsomebody ,

Wonderful

This is the podcast I have been looking for all along.

Thank you to these guys for making it, doing the work and not being afraid to face every part of themselves. The conversations are insightful and informed, please don’t stop making new episodes! Thank you.

From a fan in the UK.

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