Grossly Competent

Steve Counsell and Patrick Aleshire
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Join Steve Counsell and Patrick Aleshire, your faithful - yet hideous - hosts as they share their love of Learning, Adulting, and all that is absurd in their world. If you like learning about careers, adult education, or listening to embarrassing stories from ugly people, look no further! Come for the chat, stay for the laughs, and run from their faces: they're Grossly Competent.

  1. 4 days ago

    They Came for the Chat: Melissa McGovern Interview!

    In this episode of Grossly Competent, Patrick introduces Steve to a super special guest, the Sober New Yorker herself, Melissa McGovern! *Fan fare erupts everywhere That's right, folks! Strap in as Melissa enlightens the boys on her journey to becoming a success coach, sobriety advocate, and podcast host, and embarasser of teenage children. Discover how sobriety transformed her personal and professional life, and get practical tips on alcohol-free living, coaching, and building a brand around authenticity. And dance; we can't forget about dance. Follow Melissa in all her endeavors! The Sober New Yorker on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/thesobernewyorker/The Sober New Yorker website https://thesobernewyorker.com/The Sober New Yorker Podcast https://thesobernewyorker.com/podcastCome for the chat, stay for the laughs, run from our faces: we're Grossly Competent. Hey friends, we love doing this, and if you like what you’re hearing and want to support the show, here are the best ways possible:  Give a 5-star review on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or anywhere you get your podcasts,Visit us on Buzzsprout at grosslycompetent.buzzsprout.com. Give us a shout on Instagram @grosslycompetentWe appreciate you for listening! Support the show

    1hr 10min

  2. 20 May

    The Confidence Paradox

    We're confident that you won't regret clicking this link! In this episode of Grossly Competent, hosts Steve and Patrick dissect the phenomenon referred to as The Confidence Paradox, which highlights that experience creates confidence but the very act of doing needs confidence. And of course, the boys figure out a way to relate this into the professional landscape and L&D and stuff, so there's that. Talk about a mind-Duck. (That's just for you, Apple Podcasts. - Steve) But before they try to sound smart, Patrick unveils an interesting InMail he received from a Dramatic connection and Steve provides insight into his foolproof method for negating the LinkedIn Pitchslap... by fighting fire with fire. Like what you hear and want to learn more? Here are some links: The Confidence ParadoxFor non-Apple Podcasts listeners, acknowledge the 'E'!Come for the chat, stay for the laughs, and run from our faces: we're Grossly Competent! Hey friends, we love doing this, and if you like what you’re hearing and want to support the show, here are the best ways possible:  Give a 5-star review on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or anywhere you get your podcasts,Visit us on Buzzsprout at grosslycompetent.buzzsprout.com. Give us a shout on Instagram @grosslycompetentWe appreciate you for listening! Grow Potential With Humata ConsultingEmpowering Company Success through Customized Learning and Development SolutionsHang out with Zero Proof PassMindful Drinking Starts Here - Hang out without the Hangover.Disclaimer: This post contains affiliate links. If you make a purchase, I may receive a commission at no extra cost to you.Support the show

    50 min

  3. 13 May

    Pitches Get Stitches

    Now this is a pitch that won't result in a stitch! In this episode of Grossly Competent, hosts Steve and Patrick delve into one of their favorite subjects they love to hate: LinkedInfluencers! That's right folks - the boys are back at it for another round against the corporate faux-fluencers as they attempt to psychologically analyze why this type of mentality is so pervasive in the professional atmosphere. Is it because someone didn't hug them enough? Or is it because they find connecting with people must involve a 'pitchslap'? Or perhaps it's a fear of being truly authentic? Tune in to find out what the boys discover might be the root of it all! Here are some links to some stuff Steve and Patrick mention: Children of the Self-Absorbed by Nina W. Brown, EdD, LPCTech NeckDunning-Kruger Effect - How 93% of all American Drivers rank in the top 50%...Happy Birthday, Sir David Attenborough!Spencer Jones - Jonesin' For: Live your Life to the MaxCome for the chat, stay for the laughs, and run from our faces: we're Grossly Competent! Hey friends, we love doing this, and if you like what you’re hearing and want to support the show, here are the best ways possible:  Give a 5-star review on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or anywhere you get your podcasts,Visit us on Buzzsprout at grosslycompetent.buzzsprout.com. Give us a shout on Instagram @grosslycompetentWe appreciate you for listening! Grow Potential With Humata ConsultingEmpowering Company Success through Customized Learning and Development SolutionsHang out with Zero Proof PassMindful Drinking Starts Here - Hang out without the Hangover.Disclaimer: This post contains affiliate links. If you make a purchase, I may receive a commission at no extra cost to you.Support the show

    1 hr

  4. 6 May

    We Disrupt(HR) This Regularly Scheduled Program

    We Disrupt(HR) this program for a very important message. In this episoide of Grossly Competent, hosts Steve and Patrick get back into the groove of things by doing what they do best: fumbling over intros and talking Aruba. But after that, good listener, the boys (scuba) dive into discussing the recent DisruptHR event that took place in Milwaukee, WI. Patrick discusses his perspective of the event being an audience member while Steve offers a glimpse into being a public speaker, how it feels knowing you are going to say something that 250 people aren't going to like, and reveals some behind-the-scenes info you won't want to miss! Interested in DisruptHR and want to learn more? Here are some helpful links: DisruptHR websiteThe DisruptHR-Milwaukee LineupA Sight for Sore EyesGo check out some of our favorite speakers of the night: Jen MarrDr. Thekla B. RossDana EchertMaria Nicholas-GrovesKylene ZenkAnd, of course, Aruba-related goods: An honest glimpse into ArubaThe Antilla WreckCome for the chat, stay for the laughs, and run from our faces: we're Grossly Competent! Hey friends, we love doing this, and if you like what you’re hearing and want to support the show, here are the best ways possible:  Give a 5-star review on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or anywhere you get your podcasts,Visit us on Buzzsprout at grosslycompetent.buzzsprout.com. Give us a shout on Instagram @grosslycompetentWe appreciate you for listening! Grow Potential With Humata ConsultingEmpowering Company Success through Customized Learning and Development SolutionsHang out with Zero Proof PassMindful Drinking Starts Here - Hang out without the Hangover.Disclaimer: This post contains affiliate links. If you make a purchase, I may receive a commission at no extra cost to you.Support the show

    1hr 17min

  5. 29 Apr

    They Came for the Chat: Sara Valentine Interview!

    In this episode of Grossly Competent, hosts Steve and Patrick welcome HEART Leadership creator Sarah Valentine! Through her incredible story and lack of buzzword enthusiasm, Sara takes us on a journey to being open to possibilities and what it means to be fully and truly authentic. We dare you to not be inspired by the work Sara is doing with Give Kids the World by the end of this must-listen episode. Want to connect with Sara? LinkedInPodcast - Heart Leadership Give Kids the WorldHere's some other stuff you might like too (based on the conversation): Brene Brown - Empathy & Vulnerability Come for the chat, stay for the laughs, and run from our faces: we're Grossly Competent! Hey friends, we love doing this, and if you like what you’re hearing and want to support the show, here are the best ways possible:  Give a 5-star review on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or anywhere you get your podcasts,Visit us on Buzzsprout at grosslycompetent.buzzsprout.com. Give us a shout on Instagram @grosslycompetentWe appreciate you for listening! Grow Potential With Humata ConsultingEmpowering Company Success through Customized Learning and Development SolutionsHang out with Zero Proof PassMindful Drinking Starts Here - Hang out without the Hangover.Disclaimer: This post contains affiliate links. If you make a purchase, I may receive a commission at no extra cost to you.Support the show

    1hr 9min

  6. 22 Apr

    This Episode Should Have Been An Email

    We should probably have a meeting about your support of the show. In this episode of Grossly Competent, hosts Steve and Patrick decide to tackle the everflowing state of meetings inundating our calendars and inboxes. When is it right to host a meeting and when is it best to just make a memo? Each brings their ideas and data to the table to decide once and for all: How many meetings do we all have that should just be emails!? But before all that jazz, Steve and Patrick share some of their recent successes implementing *gasp* some of their own advice. Yes, it's as ridiculous as it sounds. No, Patrick does not get locked in a small room again (sadly). Here are some links to dive into if you're into that kinda thing: Stolen Focus: Why You Can't Pay Attention and How to Deeply Think Again by Johann HariJen Marr - All-Around Amazingly Nice PersonJen Marr's Books - Showing Up and Lifting UpCome for the chat, stay for the laughs, and run from our faces: we're Grossly Competent! Hey friends, we love doing this, and if you like what you’re hearing and want to support the show, here are the best ways possible:  Give a 5-star review on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or anywhere you get your podcasts,Visit us on Buzzsprout at grosslycompetent.buzzsprout.com. Give us a shout on Instagram @grosslycompetentWe appreciate you for listening! Support the show

    51 min

  7. 15 Apr

    Building Presentation(s) Competently

    In this episode of Grossly Competent, hosts Steve and Patrick are back in full force after a small hiatus to enjoy the finer things of Spring Break and professional webinars. Speaking of which, Patrick provides a fantastic overview of some solid 'Do's and Don'ts' of Professional Presentations, thanks to friend of the show* Gregory Tall. Learn tricks of the trade, avoid faux pas, and immerse yourself in the methods of building a proper presentation that is sure to wow your audience. Before that, Steve gives his unprompted review of the trending chain Buc-ee's and which involves some serious hot sauce recommendations. Patrick fumbles over his words like a madman, learns how to speak like Jason Statham, and provides a burn so brutal that Steve is still recovering in the school Nurse's Office. (*We like him and he is friendly, therefore he is a friend to the show. Semantics, I know. - Steve) Here are some links to dive into: Gregory Tall - the man, the myth, the legendKevin Pollack demonstrates how to speak Statham (NSFW)Buc-ee's (in case you've been living under a rock)Kwik Trip, for the uninitiatedCome for the chat, stay for the laughs, and run from our faces: we're Grossly Competent! Grow Potential With Humata ConsultingEmpowering Company Success through Customized Learning and Development SolutionsHang out with Zero Proof PassMindful Drinking Starts Here - Hang out without the Hangover.Disclaimer: This post contains affiliate links. If you make a purchase, I may receive a commission at no extra cost to you.Support the show

    1hr 4min

  8. 1 Apr

    Vacation, All Ugly Club Ever Wanted

    "It's very interesting...but I'm not interested."  In this episode of Grossly Competent, hosts Steve and Patrick trade their usual “grossly competent” professional advice for something a little lighter—vacations, travel, and what it really means to unplug. From Door County, WI charm to Florida Keys serenity, they break down what makes a great getaway. Spoiler: it’s less about luxury and more about slowing down, good food, and not being trapped in a tourist t-shirt vortex. Along the way, they debate hotels vs. Airbnbs, confess their mutual distrust of hostels, and firmly agree that camping is… not it. Before that, Steve makes it all about himself by announcing an upcoming speaking gig at DisruptHR (and giving Patrick full credit for his elite editing skills) while Patrick discusses the finer points of his time with the ATD (Association for Talent Development). Here are some links you might like: Kayla with NAPS Chicago The Go-Go's Vacation DisruptHR Assocaition for Talent Development (ATD)Come for the chat, stay for the laughs, and run from our faces: we're Grossly Competent! Grow Potential With Humata ConsultingEmpowering Company Success through Customized Learning and Development SolutionsHang out with Zero Proof PassMindful Drinking Starts Here - Hang out without the Hangover.Disclaimer: This post contains affiliate links. If you make a purchase, I may receive a commission at no extra cost to you.Support the show

    57 min
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Join Steve Counsell and Patrick Aleshire, your faithful - yet hideous - hosts as they share their love of Learning, Adulting, and all that is absurd in their world. If you like learning about careers, adult education, or listening to embarrassing stories from ugly people, look no further! Come for the chat, stay for the laughs, and run from their faces: they're Grossly Competent.

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  • Creator
    Steve Counsell and Patrick Aleshire
  • Years Active
    2025 - 2026
  • Episodes
    36
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © 2026 Grossly Competent
  • Show Website
    Grossly Competent