The Better Mindset Show - Improve Your Mind to Improve Your Life

M Salek

Better mind = better life! Do you want to learn how to make your mind work better for you? And play an active role in your life, rather than being a passive bystander?  Are you passionate about growing and improving yourself?  If you said yes, then this podcast is for you. Tune in every Monday for insights to help you think better & improve your life. The way we think has a massive impact on each and everything in our lives. Which is why it makes sense to work on and improve our thoughts. And that's the goal of The Better Mindset Show. Subscribe now and get started.

  1. The Paralysis Tax, and Five Ways to Overcome Perfectionism at Work

    23/12/2025

    The Paralysis Tax, and Five Ways to Overcome Perfectionism at Work

    Want to find out how you can stop letting perfectionism hold you hostage, and about the five protocols that will help you overcome perfectionism? Then this episode is for you. Below are some highlights on what's in store for you. Listen to this talk to find out how you can stop paying the Paralysis Tax! Details Episode 292: The Paralysis Tax - 5 Protocols for High-Velocity Execution (Overcoming Perfectionism at Work) [Date of Publication: 23rd Dec 2025] There is a silent drain on your career trajectory and mental clarity called the Paralysis Tax. You pay this tax every time you prioritize “flawless” over “finished”, staying trapped in a cage of being “almost ready”. This episode will give you a systemic overhaul of your productivity by introducing five foundational protocols designed to override your current programming and turn you into a high-velocity execution machine. Snapshot Here's a snapshot of what you will learn in this talk: The Paralysis Tax - what it is and why it matters How most people live and dye inside the cage of “almost ready” (and how to stop making that mistake) What it takes to become a high-velocity execution machine The operational logic behind consistent peak performance (you need these in place to become a true go-getter) The 5 foundational protocols that will help you override perfectionism Why you need to act as a mental gatekeeper The reason why most people are often exhausted (it’s not what you think) The constant internal civil war (and how to put a stop to it) What not to do with an unhelpful thought (and the 3 things to do) The most effective way to overcome stagnation/procrastination Why shame is a luxury you can’t afford if you want to be a high-performer and achieve lots The essence of tactical iteration and how this one tweak can transform your results The key indicator that you are playing too small… What it really takes to excel at things (3 steps) The right and the wrong way to think about errors How to speed up your progress The problem with focusing on lagging indicators, why we often fall into that mental trap and how to shift your focus on to things that matter more and help you do better What the execution debt is and what you need to do about it to make progress and move forward, And a lot more… Key insights The Paralysis Tax is the invisible penalty you pay every time you prioritize flawless over finished. Momentum is the only force in the universe that can overcome stagnation. High performers do not have the luxury of shame; they treat mistakes as technical debt to be cleared. Excellence is not a lucky strike but the result of a tight feedback loop and tactical iteration. Mastery comes from watching your technique, not the scoreboard. Pay it Forward If what you learned here gave you the clarity you need to start moving forward, please take a moment to rate and review the show. That helps the algorithm find others like you who are struggling with perfectionism and currently being crushed by the Paralysis Tax. If this talk provided value to you, paying it forward with a review is the best way to support my mission. I will catch you in the next episode. Thank you for listening!

    12 min
  2. The Truth About Perfectionism - What You Need to Know

    02/12/2025

    The Truth About Perfectionism - What You Need to Know

    Episode 289: The Truth About Perfectionism - What You Need to Know, and Why Your "Badge of Honor" is Actually Holding You Back 2nd Dec 2025 Are you exhausted by impossible standards? We often mistake perfectionism for ambition, but this episode reveals the truth: perfectionism is a high-friction system that guarantees zero results. This is the foundational talk in a new series designed to dismantle this harmful, insidious lie and show you how to start unlocking your true potential, even when life gets challenging. Key Focus Areas & Timestamps [0:15] Why you need to answer this question about your standards (and why it is good to be fed up about it...).[1:50] The most important thing to understand about perfectionism.[3:00] The illusion of perfectionism.[3:52] The thief -How this tendency robs you of your time, joy, and the ability to take action.[4:33] The correlation between perfectionism and procrastination (and how one feeds the other).[5:14] The key belief that contributes to perfectionistic tendencies (it has to do with self-preservation).[7:18] The first step to break free from the clutches of perfectionism.[8:40] The things you need to pay attention to.[9:46] What's Next: A sneak peek into the rest of the series, including the gameplan to break free. Key Takeaways Perfectionism is a relentless, often irrational drive to meet impossible standards. It's a fear of failure so intense that it often leads to paralysis and self-sabotage. Constant comparison is a losing proposition that drains your energy. The antidote starts with two things: awareness and self-compassion. Weekly Challenge: Spend this week simply observing your own perfectionistic thoughts and behaviors. Don't judge, just notice. Support The Better Mindset Show If this episode resonated with you, please take a moment to rate and review the podcast on Spotify! It helps other like-minded people find the show and allows BMS to reach and positively impact more lives. Thank you for listening!

    10 min

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Better mind = better life! Do you want to learn how to make your mind work better for you? And play an active role in your life, rather than being a passive bystander?  Are you passionate about growing and improving yourself?  If you said yes, then this podcast is for you. Tune in every Monday for insights to help you think better & improve your life. The way we think has a massive impact on each and everything in our lives. Which is why it makes sense to work on and improve our thoughts. And that's the goal of The Better Mindset Show. Subscribe now and get started.