Headship After Hours

Paul Collin
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This podcast is for headteachers, executive heads and trust leaders who want to lead well without losing themselves in the process. I'm Paul Collin, former head and leadership coach. I talk about isolation, pressure, governing bodies, staff dynamics, attendance and the inner work of staying grounded. I also run a funded Senior Attendance & Leadership Resilience Check for heads in complex schools — for when attendance feels fragile and rests on too few people. Apply now → https://atrejwhi.formester.com/f/hwL9GCyin/

  1. 4 days ago

    Why Behaviour Strategies Fail When Children Don’t Feel Safe | Neil Moggan

    What if challenging behaviour isn't simply a discipline problem — but a sign that a young person doesn't yet feel safe, connected or regulated enough to learn? Most heads aren't short on effort when it comes to attendance. The harder truth: so much of it often rests on one or two people — and when that's the case, it never feels steady, however hard everyone works. That's the work I do. I run a funded Senior Attendance & Leadership Resilience Check for headteachers and trust leaders in complex schools. It starts with a short strategic assessment. For eligible schools, it opens into a full process: On-site school visitDetailed, school-specific reportFollow-up strategy sessionPractical leadership tools for a clear 90-day planTypically valued at £1,000 — currently funded for eligible schools. Apply here → https://atrejwhi.formester.com/f/hwL9GCyin/ In this episode of Headship After Hours, Paul Collin is joined by Neil Moggan, founder of Future Action and author of Time to Rise Up, to explore trauma-informed practice, behaviour, relationships, mental wellbeing and the role movement can play in helping pupils regulate. Neil shares his own journey from PE leadership into trauma-informed practice, including how changing his approach helped reduce send-outs in his PE department by 95%, while attendance and predicted grades for some of the most challenging pupils also improved. Paul and Neil explore: Why safety and connection come before learningTrauma-informed approaches to behaviourWhy relationships should sit at the heart of school improvementMovement as a tool for regulation and belongingSupporting pupils with ADHD and additional needsMaintaining high standards without re-traumatising young peopleStaff regulation and teacher wellbeingHow leadership pressure can affect relationships with pupilsPractical strategies schools can use to create calmer environmentsWhy belonging matters for behaviour, attendance and learningNeil also explains the Rise Up approach and shares practical examples of how movement, inclusive activities, stress-busting strategies and relationship-led practice are being used across mainstream, specialist and alternative provision. One example comes from a specialist school where physical holds for one cohort reduced from 50 in Year 5 to 10 in Year 7 after the development of a Rise Up Sports Sanctuary and personalised regulation strategies. The central message is simple: Help children feel safe. Help them regulate. Then create the conditions for them to learn. 🎙️ Headship After Hours — honest conversations about school leadership, attendance, culture and the realities of leading schools. 00:00 – Safety Before Learning00:18 – Introducing Neil Moggan05:58 – What Is Trauma-Informed Practice?08:58 – Movement, Regulation & Belonging10:53 – The Rise Up Approach17:34 – What This Looks Like in Real Schools18:28 – From 50 Physical Holds to 1021:08 – Why Relationships Matter in Implementation23:25 – Education, Belonging & Human Connection24:47 – When Leadership Pressure Changes Relationships27:32 – Did Schools Get Behaviour Wrong After Lockdown?29:06 – Staff Wellbeing & Self-Regulation33:59 – One Simple Strategy Leaders Can Use Tomorrow36:19 – Neil’s Advice for School Leaders

    Why Behaviour Strategies Fail When Children Don’t Feel Safe | Neil Moggan

  2. 28 Aug

    When Mainstream School Isn’t Working | Hugh Viney

    What happens when a young person wants to learn — but the traditional school environment simply isn't working for them? In this episode of Headship After Hours, Paul Collin is joined by Hugh Viney, founder and CEO of Minerva Virtual Academy (MVA), to explore online and hybrid education, school attendance, SEND, emotionally based school avoidance and what happens when we begin designing education around the needs of the child. Hugh shares the story behind Minerva Virtual Academy and why growing numbers of families began looking for alternatives when their children were struggling with anxiety, neurodivergence or the demands of mainstream education. The conversation explores: Why some pupils thrive outside a traditional classroom SEND, anxiety and barriers to school attendance Emotionally based school avoidance The four barriers some children experience in mainstream education Making the school fit the child rather than forcing the child to fit the school Online, asynchronous and flipped learning The role of one-to-one mentoring and pastoral support Using engagement data to identify when pupils need help Maintaining academic expectations alongside wellbeing How schools and local authorities can use alternative provision Whether hybrid schooling could become a mainstream option Why online education doesn't necessarily mean isolation Hugh also challenges one of the biggest assumptions surrounding virtual education: that learning online automatically means less community, fewer friendships and weaker outcomes. For some young people, he argues, removing barriers associated with the physical environment can actually allow them to engage, build relationships and rediscover confidence in learning. About Minerva Virtual Academy This episode is supported by Minerva Virtual Academy (MVA), a DfE-accredited online school working with young people for whom traditional school attendance may not currently be working. MVA works with families, schools and local authorities to provide an online educational pathway, including live teaching, independent learning, mentoring and pastoral support. For school leaders considering alternative or complementary provision for a young person, further information about Minerva Virtual Academy can be found at: Minerva Virtual Academy: www.minervavirtual.com About Hugh Viney Hugh Viney is the founder and CEO of Minerva Virtual Academy. After founding Minerva Tutors, Hugh launched MVA in 2021 as an alternative educational model for young people who may not thrive within traditional mainstream schooling. In this conversation, Hugh shares his perspective on the future of virtual and hybrid education and why he believes alternative models should increasingly be viewed as a genuine educational choice rather than simply a last resort. Connect with Hugh Viney on LinkedIn. 🎧 Headship After Hours — honest conversations about the realities of school leadership, education and building better systems for young people. 00:00 – Why Some Children Thrive Outside Mainstream School01:50 – About Minerva Virtual Academy02:10 – Introducing Hugh Viney08:19 – Why Minerva Virtual Academy Grew So Quickly11:38 – SEND, Attendance & School Avoidance13:09 – Why Families Look Beyond Mainstream School15:22 – What COVID Revealed About How Children Learn18:57 – Making the School Fit the Child19:52 – The Four Barriers to Mainstream School24:20 – The Power of One-to-One Mentoring27:19 – Technology, Learning & Human Connection33:18 – What School Leaders Can Learn From MVA34:44 – Can Online School Lead Pupils Back to Mainstream?37:22 – The Future of Hybrid Schooling39:12 – The Biggest Myth About Online School41:10 – Belonging, Happiness & High Expectations

    When Mainstream School Isn’t Working | Hugh Viney

  3. 21 Aug

    How Great Headteachers Build School Culture

    What really changes a school? After more than 26 years in education, including 10 years as a headteacher, Paul Collin reflects on the leadership lessons that shaped his career and why sustainable school improvement always begins with people. Most heads aren't short on effort when it comes to attendance. The harder truth: so much of it often rests on one or two people — and when that's the case, it never feels steady, however hard everyone works. That's the work I do. I run a funded Senior Attendance & Leadership Resilience Check for headteachers and trust leaders in complex schools. It starts with a short strategic assessment. For eligible schools, it opens into a full process: On-site school visitDetailed, school-specific reportFollow-up strategy sessionPractical leadership tools for a clear 90-day planTypically valued at £1,000 — currently funded for eligible schools. Apply here → https://atrejwhi.formester.com/f/hwL9GCyin/ In this conversation, Paul discusses school culture, leadership, behaviour, attendance, relationships, teacher development, school improvement and why young people thrive when they feel genuinely valued. The discussion explores: • Why culture matters more than quick fixes• Building sustainable school improvement• Relationships before behaviour• Leadership beyond job titles• Why attendance starts with belonging• Developing teachers through coaching rather than pressure• Why schools must create environments where young people can succeed Whether you're a headteacher, teacher, trust leader or aspiring leader, this conversation offers practical insights into building schools where both staff and pupils thrive. 00:00 – Why School Culture Changes Everything01:48 – Introducing Paul Collin02:40 – Who Is Paul Outside Education?05:10 – When Headship Becomes Your Identity06:14 – Work-Life Integration for School Leaders08:43 – 26 Years in Education & 10 Years in Headship11:54 – Why Paul Left Headship14:28 – The Truth About School Improvement Consultancy17:18 – Leadership, Trusts and Executive Leadership19:23 – Should CEOs Have Teaching Experience?23:20 – Why Relationships Matter More Than Behaviour24:31 – Attendance, Leadership and School Improvement25:36 – Why Teachers Must Keep Growing27:40 – Dream-Weaving: The Teachers We Never Forget29:52 – Behaviour Is an Outcome, Not the Problem35:21 – Culture Is the Foundation of School Improvement36:01 – What Excites Paul About Transforming Schools37:45 – Why You Can't Rush School Improvement39:32 – The First Thing to Fix in Any School41:05 – Why Uniform Still Matters46:30 – Standards, Pride and Professionalism50:58 – Rethinking 'Disadvantage' in Education52:30 – Closing the Attainment Gap57:18 – The Education White Paper01:01:30 – The Questions We Should Ask Pupils01:04:25 – Mobile Phones, Schools and Social Media01:10:00 – What Makes a Great Teacher?01:20:00 – The Power of Relationships in Schools01:30:40 – Why Headship After Hours Exists

    How Great Headteachers Build School Culture

  4. 14 Aug

    The Part of Headship Nobody Prepares You For

    Nobody prepares you for the emotional switching required in headship. Most heads aren't short on effort when it comes to attendance. The harder truth: so much of it often rests on one or two people — and when that's the case, it never feels steady, however hard everyone works. That's the work I do. I run a funded Senior Attendance & Leadership Resilience Check for headteachers and trust leaders in complex schools. It starts with a short strategic assessment. For eligible schools, it opens into a full process: On-site school visitDetailed, school-specific reportFollow-up strategy sessionPractical leadership tools for a clear 90-day planTypically valued at £1,000 — currently funded for eligible schools. Apply here → https://atrejwhi.formester.com/f/hwL9GCyin/ In this episode of Headship After Hours, Paul Collin explores the hidden emotional labour of being a headteacher — moving from deeply personal or confidential conversations straight into assemblies, meetings, difficult decisions and moments of celebration. The school doesn't pause while its headteacher processes what they've just heard. Paul explores the emotional weight created by safeguarding concerns, staff conversations, parental situations and the confidential information school leaders are often required to carry without being able to openly share it. This episode explores: • The emotional labour of headship• Compartmentalisation versus processing• Confidentiality and isolation in school leadership • Emotional switching between difficult conversations• Why headteachers need trusted professional networks• Creating small resets between high-pressure moments• Recognising when carrying too much starts changing your leadership• How to care deeply without disappearing beneath the weight Headship needs humanity. The goal isn't to stop caring. It's learning how to care without disappearing under everything you carry. 00:00 – Nobody Warns You About This Part of Headship00:24 – Why Headship After Hours Exists01:23 – The Invisible Pressure of Headship01:39 – Emotional Switching Between Conversations02:19 – The School Doesn't Pause for the Headteacher02:55 – Becoming the Holder of Other People's Stories03:35 – Compartmentalisation in School Leadership04:15 – Why Headship Becomes Emotionally Exhausting04:34 – Attendance & Leadership Resilience05:43 – The Internal Processing Nobody Sees06:24 – When the Emotional Weight Hits You06:46 – Emotional Labour in Headship07:06 – Caring Without Losing Yourself07:22 – Resetting After Difficult Conversations07:58 – Confidentiality Doesn't Mean Silence08:32 – Every Headteacher Needs a Safe Network09:04 – When Emotional Switching Starts Changing You09:41 – The Holder of Stories and Confidences10:01 – Care Without Disappearing Under the Weight10:22 – Leadership Shouldn't Be Carried in Silence10:40 – Attendance & Leadership Resilience Check

    The Part of Headship Nobody Prepares You For

  5. 7 Aug

    Jack Mallaby: Stop Making Pupils Fit the System

    In this episode of Headship After Hours, Paul Collin is joined by Jack Mallaby, assistant headteacher and SENCO, for an honest conversation about SEND, neurodiversity, emotionally based school avoidance and attendance. Most heads aren't short on effort when it comes to attendance. The harder truth: so much of it often rests on one or two people — and when that's the case, it never feels steady, however hard everyone works. That's the work I do. I run a funded Senior Attendance & Leadership Resilience Check for headteachers and trust leaders in complex schools. It starts with a short strategic assessment. For eligible schools, it opens into a full process: On-site school visitDetailed, school-specific reportFollow-up strategy sessionPractical leadership tools for a clear 90-day plan Typically valued at £1,000 — currently funded for eligible schools. Apply here → https://atrejwhi.formester.com/f/hwL9GCyin/ Jack reflects on his own experiences of ADHD and dyslexia, his journey from mainstream education into specialist provision, and why inclusion must sit at the centre of school culture rather than being treated as an additional intervention. Together, they explore why many neurodiverse pupils experience anxiety around school, how educational trauma can shape attendance, and why relationships with young people and families are essential when attendance becomes fragile. This episode discusses: SEND leadership in mainstream and specialist schoolsEmotionally based school avoidanceNeurodiversity, anxiety and attendanceWhy relational practice mattersThe importance of primary-to-secondary transitionChild-centred attendance strategiesPreparing young people for adulthoodWhy schools should adapt systems around pupilsJack’s central message is clear: It should not be about making young people fit the system. It should be about making the system work for them. 00:00 – Educational Trauma and School Avoidance01:21 – Introducing Jack Mallaby02:20 – Jack’s Role in Specialist SEND Provision03:12 – Growing Up With ADHD and Dyslexia05:00 – Why Jack Moved Into SEND Leadership07:05 – Leaving Mainstream for Specialist Education08:10 – Inclusion as Culture, Not a Bolt-On09:28 – Relationships and Consistency in Specialist Schools12:07 – What Is Emotionally Based School Avoidance?12:53 – Educational Trauma and Distrust13:26 – How COVID Affected Neurodiverse Learners14:25 – Why Attendance Systems Respond Too Late15:31 – Identify, Stabilise and Restore Attendance16:40 – Relationships With Pupils and Families17:37 – Supporting Anxiety Without Labelling the Child18:50 – Preparing Neurodiverse Pupils for Adulthood20:08 – Compassion, Consistency and Capacity21:34 – What Schools Still Get Wrong22:36 – Primary-to-Secondary Transition25:03 – Why One Transition Day Is Not Enough27:04 – Supporting Complex Attendance Cases27:41 – A Child-Centred Attendance Strategy29:55 – Rethinking Educational Success33:41 – Jack’s Advice for School Leaders34:00 – Make the System Work for the Child

    Jack Mallaby: Stop Making Pupils Fit the System

  6. 31 Jul

    A Few Families Can Shape Your Attendance Data

    Sometimes a small number of families shape a large part of your school's attendance picture. Most heads aren't short on effort when it comes to attendance. The harder truth: so much of it often rests on one or two people — and when that's the case, it never feels steady, however hard everyone works. That's the work I do. I run a funded Senior Attendance & Leadership Resilience Check for headteachers and trust leaders in complex schools. It starts with a short strategic assessment. For eligible schools, it opens into a full process: On-site school visitDetailed, school-specific reportFollow-up strategy sessionPractical leadership tools for a clear 90-day plan Typically valued at £1,000 — currently funded for eligible schools. Apply here → https://atrejwhi.formester.com/f/hwL9GCyin/ In this episode of Headship After Hours, we explore one of the most emotionally demanding realities of attendance leadership: how a handful of complex cases can disproportionately affect your school's overall attendance figure. When leaders respond with generic attendance strategies to deeply individual circumstances, progress often stalls. Trauma, mental health, SEND, housing instability, family breakdown and trust all influence attendance in ways that spreadsheets alone cannot explain. In this episode we discuss: Why a small number of pupils often shape headline attendanceRelational practice over generic interventionsAccountability versus complexityWhy attendance leadership requires patience and strategyBuilding confidence through structured attendance systemsAttendance is never just about numbers. It is about people, relationships and trust. 00:00 – When a Few Families Shape Your Attendance 00:34 – The Hidden Reality Behind Attendance Data 01:18 – Why Generic Attendance Strategies Fail 01:58 – The Human Stories Behind Persistent Absence 02:33 – Attendance Leadership Resilience Check 03:58 – Patience Before Progress 04:17 – Relational Practice Over Generic Responses 05:04 – Case-Based Attendance Strategy 05:26 – Why Hope Matters in Leadership 06:02 – Staying Strategic Without Becoming Cold 06:25 – What Will Adults Do Differently Tomorrow? 06:48 – Attendance Lives in Everyday Practice 07:25 – Build Systems, Not Heroics 07:51 – Strategic Alignment Across Teams 08:40 – Confidence Changes Attendance Leadership 09:15 – Attendance Is Connected to Culture 09:59 – Redesign the Conditions, Not the Effort 10:25 – Complex Cases Need Better Strategy

    A Few Families Can Shape Your Attendance Data

  7. 17 Jul

    Schools Remember How Leadership Feels

    School culture isn't created by a vision statement. It's created by how leadership feels every day. Most heads aren't short on effort when it comes to attendance. The harder truth: so much of it often rests on one or two people — and when that's the case, it never feels steady, however hard everyone works. That's the work I do. I run a funded Senior Attendance & Leadership Resilience Check for headteachers and trust leaders in complex schools. It starts with a short strategic assessment. For eligible schools, it opens into a full process: On-site school visitDetailed, school-specific reportFollow-up strategy sessionPractical leadership tools for a clear 90-day plan Typically valued at £1,000 — currently funded for eligible schools. Apply here → https://atrejwhi.formester.com/f/hwL9GCyin/ In this episode of Headship After Hours, we explore one of the biggest misconceptions in education: that culture can be launched through policies, values or strategic plans. Real culture is built much more quietly. It develops through repeated leadership behaviours, emotional consistency, psychological safety and the thousands of small interactions that shape how staff and pupils experience school each day. In this episode we discuss: Why culture is built through repeated experiencesLeadership behaviours that quietly shape schoolsEmotional safety and psychological trustWhy systems alone never create strong culturesHow relational leadership transforms schoolsSchools don't remember what leadership intended. They remember what leadership repeatedly felt like. Timestamps: 00:00 – Why Schools Don't Build Culture Through Posters 00:35 – Schools Remember Leadership Differently 01:35 – The Biggest Myth About School Culture 01:52 – Culture Is Built Through Repeated Experiences 02:36 – Attendance and Leadership Alignment 03:51 – Systems Don't Create Trust 04:08 – What Real Culture Looks Like 04:38 – Why Micro Moments Matter 05:03 – When Adults Change, Everything Changes 05:43 – Emotional Safety vs Emotional Fragility 06:21 – Why High-Trust Schools Perform Better 06:42 – The Calm Schools That Thrive 07:17 – Accountability and Relationships Together 07:54 – Leadership Is Emotional Modelling 08:30 – Why Culture Slowly Drifts 09:05 – The Emotional Architecture of Schools 09:24 – The Question Every Leader Should Ask 09:48 – Schools Remember How Leadership Feels

    Schools Remember How Leadership Feels

  8. 10 Jul

    The Monday Morning Attendance Trap

    Why does opening the attendance dashboard on a Monday morning feel like a verdict rather than information? Most heads aren't short on effort when it comes to attendance. The harder truth: so much of it often rests on one or two people — and when that's the case, it never feels steady, however hard everyone works. That's the work I do. I run a funded Senior Attendance & Leadership Resilience Check for headteachers and trust leaders in complex schools. It starts with a short strategic assessment. For eligible schools, it opens into a full process: On-site school visitDetailed, school-specific reportFollow-up strategy sessionPractical leadership tools for a clear 90-day plan Typically valued at £1,000 — currently funded for eligible schools. Apply here → https://atrejwhi.formester.com/f/hwL9GCyin/ In this episode of Headship After Hours, we explore the emotional weight many school leaders attach to attendance data and why a single percentage point can influence confidence, decision-making and school culture. Attendance matters deeply. But leaders are often held accountable for outcomes they can influence, not fully control. That tension creates pressure, encourages reactive leadership and can lead schools to chase weekly fluctuations instead of long-term improvement. This episode explores: Why Monday morning attendance reviews feel emotionally chargedAccountability versus control in school leadershipReading trends instead of reacting to weekly spikesBuilding confidence through strong attendance systemsCreating a calmer, more sustainable attendance cultureThe strongest attendance leaders don't ignore the numbers. They learn to read them with clarity, proportion and confidence. Timestamos 00:00 – Why Monday Morning Attendance Feels Like Judgment00:59 – When One Percentage Carries Too Much Weight01:56 – Accountability Without Full Control02:47 – Stop Chasing Weekly Attendance Spikes03:06 – Attendance Leadership Resilience Check04:00 – Reading Data Like a Skilled Clinician04:49 – Signal vs Noise in Attendance Data05:27 – Three Questions Every Leader Should Ask06:09 – Creating a Calm Attendance Culture06:24 – Replace Dread With Grip07:07 – Attendance Lives in Everyday Practice07:42 – Build Systems, Not Heroics08:10 – Strategic Alignment Across Your Team08:57 – Confidence Changes Attendance Leadership09:30 – Attendance Is Really About Culture10:11 – Redesign the Conditions, Not Just the Response10:27 – When Data Stops Feeling Like Judgment

    The Monday Morning Attendance Trap
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This podcast is for headteachers, executive heads and trust leaders who want to lead well without losing themselves in the process. I'm Paul Collin, former head and leadership coach. I talk about isolation, pressure, governing bodies, staff dynamics, attendance and the inner work of staying grounded. I also run a funded Senior Attendance & Leadership Resilience Check for heads in complex schools — for when attendance feels fragile and rests on too few people. Apply now → https://atrejwhi.formester.com/f/hwL9GCyin/

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  • Creator
    Paul Collin
  • Years Active
    2026
  • Episodes
    39
  • Rating
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  • Copyright
    © Paul Collin
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    Headship After Hours