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Reign When it's Raining

How to Reign When It’s Raining is for women who are tired of overthinking, hesitating and waiting to feel ready. We’re a Mumma and daughter duo helping women stop editing themselves and start trusting who they are. This podcast isn’t about fixing you or positive-thinking your way out of life.  It’s about understanding why you hesitate and what actually helps you move. We talk about: Identity.Self-trust.The nervous system.Subconscious patterns.What happens when women stop choosing safety over truth.  Each episode brings honest conversation, grounded tools and real stories to help you: Quiet the doubt.Trust yourself again.Act on what you already know you want.  This is where science meets soul, where journaling turns into action and where you remember who you are. 🎙 New episode every Tuesday. 📖 She Reigns - our newsletter for the Reignmaker Woman.

  1. 6 days ago

    Are You Settling Without Realising It? | Relationship Coach & Matchmaker Mia Pavlikova

    Get in touch with us! What if the biggest thing standing between you and the relationship you want isn't the dating apps but the beliefs you carry about yourself? This week we're joined by matchmaker and dating coach Mia Pavlikova for a conversation about self-worth, relationships and why the work you do on yourself shapes the love you attract.  We explore why women settle, the beliefs we inherit about love, dating from self-trust instead of fear, communication, energy and why the relationship you have with yourself will always be the foundation for every other relationship in your life.  Time Stamps:  00:00 Coffee Morning Vibes00:23 From Slovakia to Dubai01:32 Mindset Over Luck02:44 Inner Work Awakening04:34 Rewriting Love Beliefs06:51 Childhood and Worthiness09:09 Why Women Stay13:13 Dating With Self Trust18:20 Polarity and Communication23:44 Energy Is Currency26:13 Strategy Meets Manifesting30:22 Letting Go of Outcome34:17 Rapid Fire and Wrap UpConnect with Mia:  Mia Pavlikova is a Dubai based matchmaker, dating expert and founder of Find Your Swan, a boutique matchmaking agency. Having worked with hundreds of clients and built a database of over 1,000 singles, she helps successful, self-aware professionals navigate modern dating with greater clarity, confidence and intention. Through matchmaking, coaching and speaking, Mia combines professional expertise with personal experience to help people create meaningful, lasting relationships. Website: Find Your Swan  Insta: Find Your Swan  A note from Mia: Please share this episode with single friends as everyone deserves to experience a true love.  📥 Resources & Next Steps 💌 Join our newsletter She Reigns  If you're a woman who knows she's made for more but keeps hesitating, overthinking or doubting herself, join our free weekly newsletter, She Reigns. Every week we share honest conversations, practical mindset shifts and reflections to help you trust yourself and take action.  🎧 Explore more episodes of How to Reign When it’s Raining 📲 Connect with us on Instagram: @reignwhenitsraining  ⭐️ If you enjoyed this episode, please share it or leave a review - it helps more women like you find us!

    38 min
  2. 16 Jun

    I Built The Life I Thought I Wanted... Then Everything Changed | Naomi Buff

    Get in touch with us! From the outside, Naomi Buff had the life many women dream of. She lived in Monaco, travelled the world, built successful businesses and appeared to have everything together. But behind the scenes she was exhausted, disconnected from herself and questioning everything. In this conversation, Naomi shares the moment she realised she was wearing masks she didn't even know existed, how she rebuilt her life after divorce, the role self-trust played in her transformation and why sometimes the bravest thing you can do is listen to what your soul already knows. We also explore breathwork, intuition, spirituality, fear, reinvention and the signs that appear when you're finally ready to trust yourself. 👩‍💼Connect with Naomi Naomi Buff is a transformational breathwork facilitator, embodiment coach and the Bionic Breathwork Master Trainer in the UK, with 14 years in the wellness industry and over 400 hours of breathwork training. She blends nervous system science, ancient feminine wisdom, lunar cycles, breathwork and soul led coaching into experiences that meet women exactly where they are and walk them home to themselves. Naomi works with soul led women who are highly functioning on the outside but  fragmenting inside, women who have tried everything and are ready for something that actually goes deep enough to change things. Her work lives at the intersection of the cosmic and the practical, the scientific and the sacred, and it has a habit of shifting things that years of therapy, self help books and willpower never quite reached. She is not a guru. She is the woman who has lived everything she teaches, and she has dedicated her work to helping other women remember who they were before life got so loud they forgot to listen. Based in Tunbridge Wells and working with women across the UK and beyond, Naomi runs retreats, workshops, breathwork journeys and her Cosmic Breathwork Collective, as well as training the next generation of breathwork facilitators through her Bionic Breathwork Teacher Training. Instagram: @naomibuff_ Website: naomibuff.com Free bionic breathwork practice: https://naomibuff.com/breathworkfreebie Time Stamps:  00:00 Perfect Outside Empty Inside01:38 Masks And Midlife Pressure02:20 Instagram Life Hidden Pain04:42 Awakening After Divorce05:39 Survival And Nervous System08:07 Lockdown Leaving Toxic Marriage10:36 Signs Feathers And Butterflies12:46 What Self Trust Feels Like14:55 Motherhood And Reinvention16:20 Defining Spirituality And Source19:05 Past Lives And Regression Story20:52 Past Lives Talk21:12 Fear Versus Growth22:06 Faith As A Muscle23:36 Breathwork Breakthroughs25:29 Quantum States Fast26:24 Membership And Higher Self27:59 Breathwork Misconceptions29:54 Monaco Business Leap30:44 Building Healthy Workshops33:46 Reinvention After Betrayal34:39 Teaching Chefs In Monaco37:47 Rapid Fire Reflections38:44 Reconnect Through Breath39:37 Where To Find Naomi40:36 Key Takeaways Wrap 📥 Resources & Next Steps If this episode resonated, here’s where to go next: Join She Reigns If you're a woman who knows she's made for more but keeps hesitating, overthinking or doubting herself, join our free weekly newsletter, She Reigns. Every week we share honest conversations, practical mindset shifts and reflections to help you trust yourself and take action. 💌 Join our newsletter She Reigns   🎧 Explore more episodes of How to Reign When it’s Raining 📲 Connect with us on Instagram: @reignwhenitsraining  ⭐️ If you enjoyed this episode, share it or leave a review - it helps more women like you find us!

    42 min
  3. 2 Jun

    You're allowed to have fun before you've earned it

    Get in touch with us!  When was the last time you did something purely because it made you feel alive?  Just because it felt good.  In this short episode (I'm on my own this week while mum recovers from an op - get well soon Mumma!) i'm reminding you how we become so focused on growth, healing, self-improvement and carrying responsibility that we accidentally lose touch with joy.  If you've been feeling stuck, serious, overwhelmed or disconnected from yourself, this episode is a reminder that joy matters too! Time Stamps:  01:28 Productivity And Guilt02:01 You Can Have Fun Now02:25 Why Joy Gets Lost03:26 Music And Community04:34 Play is Regulation05:02 Questions To Find You05:35 Key Takeaways And Next Steps.📥 Resources & Next Steps  📥 Join the waitlist for Reign: The Action Space A weekly place for women who are done overthinking and ready to start moving. If you’re tired of thinking about the thing, circling the decision, journaling about it and still not actually doing it this space was built for you. Inside, we focus on one thing: Real movement. Simple action, reflection and omentum without overwhelm.  Insight is powerful -  but self-trust is built when you see yourself move. Join the waitlist here💛 If this episode resonated, here’s where to go next:  🎧 Explore more episodes of How to Reign When it’s Raining 💌 Join our newsletter She Reigns for weekly insights and tools  📲 Connect with us on Instagram: @reignwhenitsraining  ⭐️ If you enjoyed this episode, share it or leave a review - it helps more women like you find us!

    6 min
  4. 26 May

    Why Women Push Through Stress Until Their Bodies Say No | Women's Health Month

    Get in touch with us! Why do so many women feel guilty resting? In this Women’s Health Month special we explore the emotional pressure women carry every day, the invisible mental load, high-functioning survival mode, nervous system overwhelm, grief, exhaustion and the fear of slowing down. Following two powerful conversations around women’s health, trauma and nervous system regulation, this episode became a deeper reflection on what happens when women normalise carrying too much for too long. We talk about grief, burnout, emotional exhaustion and the physical impact stress can have on the body, and experiences around busyness, guilt and learning to finally listen when the body says no. This conversation explores:  Why women often feel guilty resting  High-functioning overwhelm and emotional suppression  Nervous system overload and survival mode  The pressure to always cope  Why women struggle to ask for help  Rest, self-worth and people pleasing  How stress and grief show up physically in the body  The connection between nervous system regulation and emotional health  Why women associate productivity with worth  Learning to feel safe slowing down.Time Stamps:  00:00 Hidden Exhaustion01:27 Personal Grief Hits02:42 Why We Ignore Rest05:38 Conditioned For Guilt07:08 Struggling To Receive Help09:00 Stop Proving Worth09:36 Micro Rest Practices10:31 Guided Breath Reflection13:40 After The Exercise14:41 Key Takeaways Outro📥 Resources & Next Steps  📥 Join the waitlist for Reign: The Action Space A weekly place for women who are done overthinking and ready to start moving. If you’re tired of thinking about the thing, circling the decision, journaling about it and still not actually doing it this space was built for you. Inside, we focus on one thing: Real movement. Simple action, reflection and omentum without overwhelm.  Insight is powerful -  but self-trust is built when you see yourself move. Join the waitlist here💛 If this episode resonated, here’s where to go next:  🎧 Explore more episodes of How to Reign When it’s Raining 💌 Join our newsletter She Reigns for weekly insights and tools  📲 Connect with us on Instagram: @reignwhenitsraining  ⭐️ If you enjoyed this episode, share it or leave a review - it helps more women like you find us!

    15 min
  5. 19 May

    Women’s Health Month: How Trauma & Suppressed Emotions Live in the Body │Kirsty Stark

    Get in touch with us! In this Women’s Health Month special we sit down with psychotherapist, drama therapist and Bionic Breathwork facilitator Kirsty Stark for an honest conversation about women’s mental health, nervous system regulation, emotional suppression, stress, trauma and embodiment.  Together we explore the hidden emotional load so many women carry and why overwhelm, anxiety, IBS, burnout and chronic stress are often deeply connected to the nervous system and the body.  Kirsty shares insights from psychotherapy, drama therapy and embodied healing work to explain why women become disconnected from themselves, why so many struggle to slow down and how emotions can stay trapped in the body for years.  We also discuss:  Women’s health inequalities and medical gaslighting  Chronic dysregulation and “high functioning” overwhelm  The fawn response and people pleasing  Trauma stored in the body  Voice suppression and throat tension  IBS, inflammation and stress  Social conditioning and internalised misogyny  Nervous system regulation and embodiment  The impact of comparison culture and social media  Why women need safe spaces, connection and community  Pleasure as healing and self-reconnection.  This episode is a powerful reminder that women’s health is not just physical. It’s emotional, mental, energetic and deeply connected to how safe women feel to exist fully as themselves. Timestamps:  00:21 Women’s Health Gaps01:35 Hidden Dysregulation03:28 Performance and Fawning04:46 Finding Voice in Body06:53 When Emotions Get Stuck09:17 IBS and Misdiagnosis12:28 Archetypes and Witch Wound15:53 Patriarchy and Manosphere17:35 Chronic Stress and Comparison20:53 What Women Need Now23:23 Drama Therapy Explained26:06 Personal Wake-Up Calls27:55 One Small Practice👩‍💼Connect with Kirsty Kirsty Stark is a creative psychotherapist, breathwork facilitator and qualified teacher working with trauma, nervous system regulation and reflective practice. She offers online and in person psychotherapy and breathwork sessions, blending creativity, embodiment and compassionate therapeutic support. Kirsty is also developing a new venture, The Listening Shed, with updates shared across her socials: @KirstyStarkCreativeTherapist @SheLovesLife.co. 📥 Resources & Next Steps  📥 Join the waitlist for Reign: The Action Space A weekly place for women who are done overthinking and ready to start moving. If you’re tired of thinking about the thing, circling the decision, journaling about it and still not actually doing it this space was built for you. Inside, we focus on one thing: Real movement. Simple action, reflection and omentum without overwhelm.  Insight is powerful -  but self-trust is built when you see yourself move. Join the waitlist here💛 If this episode resonated, here’s where to go next:  🎧 Explore more episodes of How to Reign When it’s Raining 💌 Join our newsletter She Reigns for weekly insights and tools  📲 Connect with us on Instagram: @reignwhenitsraining  ⭐️ If you enjoyed this episode, share it or leave a review - it helps more women like you find us!

    31 min
  6. 12 May

    Women’s Health Month: The Pressure Women Carry - Stress, Self-Worth & Disconnecting From Your Body | Bella Dodds De Jesus

    Get in touch with us! So many women are exhausted, not just physically but emotionally and mentally too. They’re overwhelmed, disconnected from themselves, stuck in survival mode, carrying pressure constantly and still trying to keep everything together. In this powerful Women’s Health Month conversation, Bella shares her story and opens up about the deeper side of women’s health - the connection between self-worth, stress, body image, nervous system regulation, confidence, movement, anxiety and the way women learn to shrink themselves over time. Time Stamps:  00:00 Women’s Health Beyond Symptoms01:59 Health Inequality Reality Check03:37 Self Worth and Self Advocacy06:09 Strength Training Myths08:40 Confidence Through Vulnerability11:00 Bella’s Wake Up Journey11:34 Body Image Programming13:40 Anxiety and Hypnotherapy15:31 ADHD and Overwhelm18:21 Time Blindness Explained20:20 Stop Normalising Settling23:27 From Finance to Fitness25:15 Delayed Gratification Wins26:14 Willpower as a Muscle27:33 Slumps and Self Respect28:34 Corporate Life vs Body32:06 Motherhood and Misfit37:19 Coaching Changed Everything41:12 Weights and Self Talk44:17 Visualization and Taking Space46:01 Wrap Up and Takeaways👩‍💼Connect with Bella Bella Dodds de Jesus is a strength coach, women’s wellbeing advocate and founder of Body-Strong. After spending nearly 20 years in the corporate world, Bella made the decision to leave behind a career that no longer felt aligned with who she was or the life she wanted to create. Having worked for years in male-dominated spaces, and later navigating motherhood alongside the pressures of corporate life, she became increasingly passionate about supporting women in a more meaningful way. That decision eventually led to the creation of Body-Strong - a women’s strength and wellbeing community focused on helping women feel stronger, more confident and more connected to themselves. Whilst strength training sits at the centre of her work, Bella is most passionate about the mindset and inner work necessary for lasting change.  True transformation is about far more than fitness alone, which is why her work focuses not just on helping women become physically stronger, but on rebuilding confidence, self-belief, identity and the way they see themselves. Bella works with women both in person and online, helping them build strength, confidence, and lasting change from the inside out. Website: www.body-strong.org Instagram: @body.strong_coaching Facebook: Body-Strong 📥 RESOURCES & NEXT STEPS  If this episode resonated, here’s where to go next:  🎧 Explore more episodes of How to Reign When it’s Raining 💌 Join our newsletter She Reigns for weekly insights and tools  📲 Connect with us on Instagram: @reignwhenitsraining  ⭐️ If you enjoyed this episode, share it or leave a review - it helps more women like you find us!

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How to Reign When It’s Raining is for women who are tired of overthinking, hesitating and waiting to feel ready. We’re a Mumma and daughter duo helping women stop editing themselves and start trusting who they are. This podcast isn’t about fixing you or positive-thinking your way out of life.  It’s about understanding why you hesitate and what actually helps you move. We talk about: Identity.Self-trust.The nervous system.Subconscious patterns.What happens when women stop choosing safety over truth.  Each episode brings honest conversation, grounded tools and real stories to help you: Quiet the doubt.Trust yourself again.Act on what you already know you want.  This is where science meets soul, where journaling turns into action and where you remember who you are. 🎙 New episode every Tuesday. 📖 She Reigns - our newsletter for the Reignmaker Woman.