Sober Vibes: Alcohol free lifestyle tips for long-term sobriety, whether you're sober curious or ready to quit drinking for g

Courtney Andersen-Sobriety Coach & Author
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Hey, Friend! Welcome to the Sober Vibes podcast, where sobriety meets empowerment. I’m Courtney Andersen, your host, a sober coach, author, and mom. I’ve been living an alcohol-free life since 8/18/2012. I know firsthand what it’s like to be a binge/grey area drinker, spending four years stuck in the moderation cycle before finally quitting for good.The Sober Vibes podcast is your go-to space for real talk, proven strategies, expert guidance, and inspiring stories from people who are redefining what it means to live without alcohol.Each week, we dive deep into the topics that matter most—from how to quit drinking alcohol, managing cravings, and navigating social situations to rebuilding confidence, emotional sobriety, and finding joy in sobriety.Whether you’re newly sober, in long-term recovery, or just sober curious about alcohol-free living, Sober Vibes offers the support, insights, resources, and encouragement you need.Join a like-minded community and discover how sobriety can unlock a healthier, happier, and more fulfilling life. Don’t just quit drinking, let’s have fun on this sobriety journey together!Grab my Free 30-Day Sober Not Boring CalendarCheck out my Website Connect on Instagram

  1. 6 days ago

    How to Quit Drinking and Stay Sober: Why You Have More Power Than You Think

    Are you constantly searching for the perfect program, podcast, or strategy to help you quit drinking? With so many sobriety resources available, it's easy to believe there's one magic solution that will finally make everything click. In this episode of the Sober Vibes Podcast, I share an important reminder about quitting drinking and staying sober: you have more power than you think. Drawing from over 14 years of sobriety and her experience coaching women, Courtney explains why building self-trust, taking accountability, and finding the right support are essential to creating a sustainable alcohol-free life. In This Episode, You'll Learn:Why there's no magic solution to quitting drinkingHow to take ownership of your sobriety while still accepting supportWhy building self-trust is an important part of long-term sobrietyHow to find sobriety tools and resources that work for your personality and lifestyleWhy comparing your journey to what you see on social media can create unrealistic expectationsHow to recognize your progress, even if you've experienced slips or struggled with moderationWhy staying sober is about consistency, not perfectionYou don't need to have every day figured out, follow someone else's exact recovery plan, or do everything perfectly. Your sobriety journey is yours, and every alcohol-free day is an opportunity to build confidence, trust yourself, and keep moving forward. Mentioned in episode: Sober Vibes YouTube Grab Your Free Gift:30 Day Calendar  Day & Night RoutineReady for Support? Here Are 4 Ways to Work With Me: Stop Starting Over ProgramPerfect for the self-guided woman who wants a step-by-step roadmap to quit drinking, break the moderation cycle, and build a strong sober foundation at her own pace. Sobriety CircleFor the community girlie who thrives with accountability, connection, monthly coaching, and ongoing support from women who truly understand the journey. Use code "soberjuly" at checkout to save $10 off your first month. 1:1 Sober CoachingFor the woman who wants personalized support, deeper transformation, and a customized plan to stop drinking, manage cravings, and build a sustainable alcohol-free life. The After (Emotional Sobriety Program) The next chapter after quitting drinking. Once you've built your sober foundation, it's time to do the deeper work—healing emotional patterns, rebuilding your identity, strengthening self-trust, regulating your nervous system, and creating a life where you no longer need alcohol to cope. Grab My Masterclass: Free access to my $47 masterclass when you leave an Apple review.Gain access to my Masterclass by submitting a review on iTunes. Email me at sobervibes@gmail.com with a screenshot of the review, and I will send you the code to unlock my Masterclass for free!Thank you for tuning in! Thank you for listening! Help the show by Rating, reviewing, and/or subscribing to the Sober Vibes Podcast. Connect w/ Courtney: Instagram Join the Sobriety Circle Apply for 1:1 Coaching Order the Sober Vibes Book Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

  2. 16 Oct

    High-Functioning Alcohol Addiction: Why Success Doesn't Mean You're Okay and How to Find Lasting Sobriety with Lindsey Elmore

    What happens when you're successful, accomplished, and seemingly have everything together, but behind the scenes, alcohol and substance use are taking over your life? In this episode of the Sober Vibes Podcast, I welcome pharmacist, author, speaker, and podcast host Lindsey Elmore, who shares her journey through alcohol addiction, substance use, multiple treatment experiences, and ultimately finding lasting sobriety. Lindsey opens up about being a high achiever who knew all the right things to say but struggled to actually surrender control and do the work of recovery. Now 13 months sober, she shares how letting go of perfectionism, embracing support, and becoming willing to change transformed her life. In This Episode, You'll Learn:Why being successful and high-functioning doesn't mean your relationship with alcohol is healthyHow perfectionism, control, and the need for external validation can influence addictive behaviorsWhy knowing your drinking triggers and coping tools isn't the same as putting them into practiceThe turning point that led Lindsey to take her sobriety seriouslyHow surrendering control helped her move forward in recoveryWhy rebuilding self-trust requires honesty, humility, and a willingness to accept supportHow changing your mindset from “What's the worst that could happen?” to “What's the best that could happen?” can open the door to growthIf you're struggling with quitting drinking, stuck in the cycle of trying to control alcohol, or wondering why success in other areas of your life hasn't made sobriety easier, this conversation is a reminder that you don't have to have all the answers to begin making meaningful changes. Connect with Lindsey Elmore: Website Instagram Youtube Podcast Grab Your Free Gift:30 Day Calendar  Day & Night RoutineReady for Support? Here Are 4 Ways to Work With Me: Stop Starting Over ProgramPerfect for the self-guided woman who wants a step-by-step roadmap to quit drinking, break the moderation cycle, and build a strong sober foundation at her own pace. Sobriety CircleFor the community girlie who thrives with accountability, connection, monthly coaching, and ongoing support from women who truly understand the journey. Use code "soberjuly" at checkout to save $10 off your first month. 1:1 Sober CoachingFor the woman who wants personalized support, deeper transformation, and a customized plan to stop drinking, manage cravings, and build a sustainable alcohol-free life. The After (Emotional Sobriety Program) The next chapter after quitting drinking. Once you've built your sober foundation, it's time to do the deeper work—healing emotional patterns, rebuilding your identity, strengthening self-trust, regulating your nervous system, and creating a life where you no longer need alcohol to cope. Grab My Masterclass: Free access to my $47 masterclass when you leave an Apple review-Gain access to my Masterclass by submitting a review on iTunes. Email me at sobervibes@gmail.com with a screenshot of the review, and I will send you the code to unlock my Masterclass for free!Thank you for tuning in! Thank you for listening! Help the show by Rating, reviewing, and/or subscribing to the Sober Vibes Podcast. Connect w/ Courtney: Instagram Join the Sobriety Circle Apply for 1:1 Coaching Order the Sober Vibes Book Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

  3. 9 Oct

    How to say no without feeling weird Beat social pressure with sober boundaries that help you stay sober at dinner parties and girl’s night out

    Ever feel awkward saying no to alcohol because you're worried people will think you're boring, weird, or no longer fun? Social pressure can be one of the hardest parts of quitting drinking, especially when you're used to people-pleasing or being the friend who's always up for a drink. In this episode of the Sober Vibes Podcast, I share how to handle social pressure, build confidence in your decision not to drink, and create sober boundaries that help you stay sober without constantly explaining yourself. In This Episode, You'll Learn:Why saying no to alcohol can feel uncomfortable or threatening to your sense of belongingHow the fear of being judged or considered boring can affect your sobrietyHow to create a simple social confidence plan before dinner parties and girls' nights outWhat to say when someone offers you alcoholHow to handle awkward moments without abandoning your boundariesWhy post-event decompression matters for your emotional sobrietyHow practicing sober boundaries helps rebuild self-trustYou don't have to prove you're still fun, explain your relationship with alcohol, or make everyone comfortable with your decision. Learning to navigate social pressure and trust yourself in uncomfortable situations is part of creating an alcohol-free life that feels like freedom. Grab Your Free Gift:30 Day Calendar  Day & Night RoutineReady for Support? Here Are 4 Ways to Work With Me: Stop Starting Over ProgramPerfect for the self-guided woman who wants a step-by-step roadmap to quit drinking, break the moderation cycle, and build a strong sober foundation at her own pace. Sobriety CircleFor the community girlie who thrives with accountability, connection, monthly coaching, and ongoing support from women who truly understand the journey. Use code "soberjuly" at checkout to save $10 off your first month. 1:1 Sober CoachingFor the woman who wants personalized support, deeper transformation, and a customized plan to stop drinking, manage cravings, and build a sustainable alcohol-free life. The After (Emotional Sobriety Program) The next chapter after quitting drinking. Once you've built your sober foundation, it's time to do the deeper work—healing emotional patterns, rebuilding your identity, strengthening self-trust, regulating your nervous system, and creating a life where you no longer need alcohol to cope. Grab My Masterclass: Free access to my $47 masterclass when you leave an Apple review-Gain access to my Masterclass by submitting a review on iTunes. Email me at sobervibes@gmail.com with a screenshot of the review, and I will send you the code to unlock my Masterclass for free!Thank you for tuning in! Thank you for listening! Help the show by Rating, reviewing, and/or subscribing to the Sober Vibes Podcast. Connect w/ Courtney: Instagram Join the Sobriety Circle Apply for 1:1 Coaching Order the Sober Vibes Book Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

  4. 2 Oct

    Boundaries That Protect Your Sobriety Set Boundaries in Recovery for Social Pressure So You Can Stay Sober Without Explaining Yourself

    Saying no to alcohol is one thing. Dealing with other people's reactions to your decision can be another. In this episode of the Sober Vibes Podcast, I talk about how to set boundaries in recovery that protect your sobriety, especially when you're dealing with social pressure, pushy people, or the guilt that can come with disappointing others. If you're used to people-pleasing or over-explaining why you're not drinking, you'll learn how to keep your boundaries simple, calm, and grounded in what you need to stay sober. In This Episode, You’ll Learn:Why over-explaining your decision not to drink can backfire5 simple boundary scripts you can actually useHow to respond when someone keeps pushing alcohol after you've said noHow to handle guilt after setting a boundaryWhy someone else's reaction isn't yours to manageHow protecting your sobriety helps rebuild self-trustWhy you don't need anyone else's approval to live an alcohol-free lifeYour boundary doesn't need a closing argument. The more you practice choosing your sobriety over someone else's reaction, the more you're reinforcing that you can trust yourself to protect the life you're building. Mentioned in episode: Codependent No More Book Grab Your Free Gift:30 Day Calendar  Day & Night RoutineReady for Support? Here Are 4 Ways to Work With Me: Stop Starting Over ProgramPerfect for the self-guided woman who wants a step-by-step roadmap to quit drinking, break the moderation cycle, and build a strong sober foundation at her own pace. Sobriety CircleFor the community girlie who thrives with accountability, connection, monthly coaching, and ongoing support from women who truly understand the journey. Use code "soberjuly" at checkout to save $10 off your first month. 1:1 Sober CoachingFor the woman who wants personalized support, deeper transformation, and a customized plan to stop drinking, manage cravings, and build a sustainable alcohol-free life. The After (Emotional Sobriety Program) The next chapter after quitting drinking. Once you've built your sober foundation, it's time to do the deeper work—healing emotional patterns, rebuilding your identity, strengthening self-trust, regulating your nervous system, and creating a life where you no longer need alcohol to cope. Grab My Masterclass: Free access to my $47 masterclass when you leave an Apple review.Gain access to my Masterclass by submitting a review on iTunes. Email me at sobervibes@gmail.com with a screenshot of the review, and I will send you the code to unlock my Masterclass for free!Thank you for tuning in! Thank you for listening! Help the show by Rating, reviewing, and/or subscribing to the Sober Vibes Podcast. Connect w/ Courtney: Instagram Join the Sobriety Circle Apply for 1:1 Coaching Order the Sober Vibes Book Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

  5. 25 Sept

    Retrain stress so you stop emotional drinking: Reduce drinking triggers, calm alcohol cravings, and stay sober when life hits har

    If stress immediately makes you think, “I need a drink,” that response didn’t come out of nowhere. Your brain can learn to connect stress with alcohol through repetition, and the good news is, what is learned can be unlearned. In this episode of the Sober Vibes Podcast, Courtney Andersen breaks down the connection between emotional drinking, drinking triggers, and alcohol cravings, and how you can begin retraining your response to stress without reaching for alcohol. In This Episode, You’ll Learn:How your brain learns the stress → alcohol → relief patternWhy stressful situations can automatically trigger alcohol cravingsWhat an alcohol urge actually is and why an urge is not an instructionHow to use urge surfing when a craving hitsHow to identify what you're really needing underneath the desire to drinkWhy building your tolerance for discomfort can help you stay soberHow responding differently to stress can build self-trust over timeYou don't need to create a stress-free life to stop emotional drinking. You can learn how to experience stress, cravings, and uncomfortable emotions without automatically reaching for alcohol—and every time you do, you're teaching your brain a new response. What is learned can be unlearned. Grab Your Free Gift:30 Day Calendar  Day & Night RoutineReady for Support? Here Are 4 Ways to Work With Me: Stop Starting Over ProgramPerfect for the self-guided woman who wants a step-by-step roadmap to quit drinking, break the moderation cycle, and build a strong sober foundation at her own pace. Sobriety CircleFor the community girlie who thrives with accountability, connection, monthly coaching, and ongoing support from women who truly understand the journey. Use code "soberjuly" at checkout to save $10 off your first month. 1:1 Sober CoachingFor the woman who wants personalized support, deeper transformation, and a customized plan to stop drinking, manage cravings, and build a sustainable alcohol-free life. The After (Emotional Sobriety Program) The next chapter after quitting drinking. Once you've built your sober foundation, it's time to do the deeper work—healing emotional patterns, rebuilding your identity, strengthening self-trust, regulating your nervous system, and creating a life where you no longer need alcohol to cope. Grab My Masterclass: Free access to my $47 masterclass when you leave an Apple review-Gain access to my Masterclass by submitting a review on iTunes. Email me at sobervibes@gmail.com with a screenshot of the review, and I will send you the code to unlock my Masterclass for free!Thank you for tuning in! Thank you for listening! Help the show by Rating, reviewing, and/or subscribing to the Sober Vibes Podcast. Connect w/ Courtney: Instagram Join the Sobriety Circle Apply for 1:1 Coaching Order the Sober Vibes Book Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

  6. 18 Sept

    Sobriety and Grief How to Stay Sober, Manage Drinking Triggers, and Cope Without Alcohol Part 2

    In Part 2 of this two-part conversation, I get into the coaching side of sobriety and grief: what to do when loss becomes a drinking trigger, and your brain starts looking for a way to escape the pain. Grief can bring intense emotions, and when alcohol has been your go-to coping mechanism, those feelings can create powerful alcohol cravings and urges to drink. This episode breaks down how to recognize what's happening and begin building new ways to cope without alcohol. In This Episode, You’ll Learn:Why grief can become a powerful drinking triggerWhy alcohol may feel tempting when you're overwhelmed or hurtingHow to identify what you're actually needing underneath the urge to drinkHow to ride out an alcohol urge without acting on itWhy building your tolerance for discomfort is an important part of emotional sobrietyHow to stay sober when life gets hard instead of automatically reaching for alcoholYou don't have to eliminate grief, stress, or painful emotions to stay sober. You can learn to experience those feelings without immediately escaping them and build the self-trust to know you can handle hard moments without alcohol. Grab Your Free Gift:30 Day Calendar  Day & Night RoutineReady for Support? Here Are 4 Ways to Work With Me: Stop Starting Over ProgramPerfect for the self-guided woman who wants a step-by-step roadmap to quit drinking, break the moderation cycle, and build a strong sober foundation at her own pace. Sobriety CircleFor the community girlie who thrives with accountability, connection, monthly coaching, and ongoing support from women who truly understand the journey. Use code "soberjuly" at checkout to save $10 off your first month. 1:1 Sober CoachingFor the woman who wants personalized support, deeper transformation, and a customized plan to stop drinking, manage cravings, and build a sustainable alcohol-free life. The After (Emotional Sobriety Program) The next chapter after quitting drinking. Once you've built your sober foundation, it's time to do the deeper work—healing emotional patterns, rebuilding your identity, strengthening self-trust, regulating your nervous system, and creating a life where you no longer need alcohol to cope. Grab My Masterclass: Free access to my $47 masterclass when you leave an Apple review.Gain access to my Masterclass by submitting a review on iTunes. Email me at sobervibes@gmail.com with a screenshot of the review, and I will send you the code to unlock my Masterclass for free!Thank you for tuning in! Thank you for listening! Help the show by Rating, reviewing, and/or subscribing to the Sober Vibes Podcast. Connect w/ Courtney: Instagram Join the Sobriety Circle Apply for 1:1 Coaching Order the Sober Vibes Book Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

  7. 14 Sept

    National Sober Day 3 Ways to Celebrate Your Sobriety and Alcohol-Free Life

    National Sober Day is September 14th, and it’s the perfect opportunity to celebrate your sobriety and the life you're creating without alcohol. Whether you're newly sober or have been staying sober for years, this episode is a reminder that an alcohol-free life isn't something you have to constantly feel deprived of. Your sober living journey deserves celebration, and there are plenty of ways to make sobriety fun, meaningful, and personal. In this episode, I share 3 simple ways to celebrate National Sober Day and recognize what your decision to quit drinking has given you. In This Episode, You’ll Learn:How to celebrate how far you've come in your sobrietyFun ways to celebrate your alcohol-free life without alcoholHow celebrating with your sober community can make the journey more meaningfulWhy you don't need a specific number of sober days or a perfect recovery story to celebrateHow helping someone else can be one of the most powerful ways to honor your sobrietyWhether you're thinking about quitting drinking, newly sober, or years into your alcohol-free life, take National Sober Day as a reminder to celebrate the freedom, self-trust, and life you're building without alcohol. 30 Day Calendar  Day & Night RoutineReady for Support? Here Are 4 Ways to Work With Me: Stop Starting Over ProgramPerfect for the self-guided woman who wants a step-by-step roadmap to quit drinking, break the moderation cycle, and build a strong sober foundation at her own pace. Sobriety CircleFor the community girlie who thrives with accountability, connection, monthly coaching, and ongoing support from women who truly understand the journey. Use code "soberjuly" at checkout to save $10 off your first month. 1:1 Sober CoachingFor the woman who wants personalized support, deeper transformation, and a customized plan to stop drinking, manage cravings, and build a sustainable alcohol-free life. The After (Emotional Sobriety Program) The next chapter after quitting drinking. Once you've built your sober foundation, it's time to do the deeper work—healing emotional patterns, rebuilding your identity, strengthening self-trust, regulating your nervous system, and creating a life where you no longer need alcohol to cope. Grab My Masterclass: Free access to my $47 masterclass when you leave an Apple review-Gain access to my Masterclass by submitting a review on iTunes. Email me at sobervibes@gmail.com with a screenshot of the review, and I will send you the code to unlock my Masterclass for free!Thank you for tuning in! Thank you for listening! Help the show by Rating, reviewing, and/or subscribing to the Sober Vibes Podcast. Connect w/ Courtney: Instagram Join the Sobriety Circle Apply for 1:1 Coaching Order the Sober Vibes Book Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

  8. 12 Sept

    Sobriety and Grief Losing My Dad and Staying Sober Through Loss(Part 1)

    This episode is deeply personal. I share my experience of losing my dad and the emotional fallout that followed, including what it has been like to navigate grief while staying sober. Grief can change everything. It can bring sadness, anger, exhaustion, loneliness, and emotions you weren't prepared for. And when you're sober, you experience those feelings without alcohol as an escape or a way to numb the pain. In Part 1 of this two-part conversation, I share my story of loss and what grief has taught me about sobriety, emotional drinking, and staying present through painful seasons of life. In This Episode, You’ll Learn:What losing my dad has been like and the emotional fallout that followedHow grief can affect your emotions, routines, and everyday lifeWhat it means to experience grief without using alcohol to numb the painWhy sobriety doesn't make painful experiences easier but allows you to be present for themHow grief has deepened my understanding of emotional sobriety and self-trustIf you're grieving a loss while navigating sobriety, you don't have to have it all figured out. Sometimes the first step is simply allowing yourself to feel what you're feeling without judging it or trying to make it disappear. Grab Your Free Gift:30 Day Calendar  Day & Night RoutineReady for Support? Here Are 4 Ways to Work With Me: Stop Starting Over ProgramPerfect for the self-guided woman who wants a step-by-step roadmap to quit drinking, break the moderation cycle, and build a strong sober foundation at her own pace. Sobriety CircleFor the community girlie who thrives with accountability, connection, monthly coaching, and ongoing support from women who truly understand the journey. Use code "soberjuly" at checkout to save $10 off your first month. 1:1 Sober CoachingFor the woman who wants personalized support, deeper transformation, and a customized plan to stop drinking, manage cravings, and build a sustainable alcohol-free life. The After (Emotional Sobriety Program) The next chapter after quitting drinking. Once you've built your sober foundation, it's time to do the deeper work—healing emotional patterns, rebuilding your identity, strengthening self-trust, regulating your nervous system, and creating a life where you no longer need alcohol to cope. Grab My Masterclass: Free access to my $47 masterclass when you leave an Apple review.Gain access to my Masterclass by submitting a review on iTunes. Email me at sobervibes@gmail.com with a screenshot of the review, and I will send you the code to unlock my Masterclass for free!Thank you for tuning in! Thank you for listening! Help the show by Rating, reviewing, and/or subscribing to the Sober Vibes Podcast. Connect w/ Courtney: Instagram Join the Sobriety Circle Apply for 1:1 Coaching Order the Sober Vibes Book Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

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Hey, Friend! Welcome to the Sober Vibes podcast, where sobriety meets empowerment. I’m Courtney Andersen, your host, a sober coach, author, and mom. I’ve been living an alcohol-free life since 8/18/2012. I know firsthand what it’s like to be a binge/grey area drinker, spending four years stuck in the moderation cycle before finally quitting for good.The Sober Vibes podcast is your go-to space for real talk, proven strategies, expert guidance, and inspiring stories from people who are redefining what it means to live without alcohol.Each week, we dive deep into the topics that matter most—from how to quit drinking alcohol, managing cravings, and navigating social situations to rebuilding confidence, emotional sobriety, and finding joy in sobriety.Whether you’re newly sober, in long-term recovery, or just sober curious about alcohol-free living, Sober Vibes offers the support, insights, resources, and encouragement you need.Join a like-minded community and discover how sobriety can unlock a healthier, happier, and more fulfilling life. Don’t just quit drinking, let’s have fun on this sobriety journey together!Grab my Free 30-Day Sober Not Boring CalendarCheck out my Website Connect on Instagram

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