Send us Fan Mail What if resilience isn’t something you suddenly find when life falls apart? What if you’ve been building it, or failing to build it,for years before the crisis ever arrives? In this episode, I sit down with Vincent Van den Broeck, author of Everything Feels Impossible Until It’s Done. In October 2024, Vincent was hit by a car while riding an e-scooter. He suffered a severe traumatic brain injury, spent three weeks in a coma, and woke up unable to walk, talk, eat independently, or do many of the basic things he had taken for granted before the accident. Recovery was expected to take a very long time. Instead of focusing only on the final outcome, Vincent began rebuilding one small ability at a time: taking a step, walking a hallway, relearning work tasks, using technology again, and eventually rebuilding his independence. One of the biggest ideas we explore is the subtitle of his book: How the life you build becomes the life that saves you. Vincent believes the resilience, discipline, perspective, relationships and habits he developed before the accident became tools he could rely on when nearly everything else was taken away. We talk about why progress is often literally one step at a time, why small wins matter, how to focus on what is still within your control, and why patience doesn’t mean doing nothing. Vincent puts it simply: Be patient with the long term, but impatient with what you can do today. We also explore asking for help, rebuilding independence, choosing goals that actually belong to you, health, relationships, regret, and what healthy people often take completely for granted. In this episode, we talk about: the day Vincent’s life changedwaking from a coma and losing basic abilitieswhat it feels like to become dependent on other peoplerebuilding walking, communication and independencewhy progress is one step at a timelearning to celebrate very small winsthe meaning behind Everything Feels Impossible Until It’s Donefocusing on actions instead of trying to control outcomeshow resilience is built before you desperately need itwhy difficult experiences can train resiliencethe habits and values that helped Vincent during recoverypatience versus urgencywhy having a clear direction matterswhether trauma changed Vincent or revealed who he already waswhy asking for help is a strengthwhy recovery matters just as much as pushing hardhow Vincent thinks about longevity and health nowwhy people postpone too much of their liveswhat healthy people often take for grantedwhat to do when you feel completely stuckVincent’s final question: “Why not me?”Vincent’s final message is especially powerful. Instead of asking “Why me?” when something difficult happens, he challenges us to ask: “Why not me?” Links Vincent talked about: LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/vincent-van-den-broeck-b9b275103/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/vincentinthekitchen/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@vincentinthekitchen Website: https://www.theuidclub.com/ Book: https://bookspace.com/vincentvandenbroeck Try The Consistency Reset My new personalized coaching app for women 35–55 who are tired of starting over with diets, workouts, and healthy habits. Get simple daily actions, realistic workouts, practical nutrition habits, and Reset Mode to help you keep going when life gets busy. Take the quiz and build your personalized plan here: studio.com/turo/consistency-reset