Don't Tell Me To RELAX- Your Fertility Podcast

Hannah Pearn
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An award winning, expert-led fertility podcast for anyone who is trying to conceive and tired of being told to “just relax.” Led by Hannah Pearn, founder of DTMTR Fertility Acupuncture clinics we share information to empower your fertility journey. But this is more than a podcast. This is also a community by the same name —a supportive space to access education, evidence-based information and connection - all without the "just relax" BS.

  1. 3 days ago

    PMOS/ PCOS & Fertility: Blood Sugar, Insulin Resistance & Ovulation Explained

    I am with Cory Ruth (The Women's Dietitian), a registered dietitian who specializes in PMOS, formerly known as PCOS, about how insulin resistance affects symptoms, ovulation, and fertility. Cory explains why blood sugar regulation matters even when someone is not in a larger body. We discuss: what insulin resistance actually is and it's impact on the bodywhy not everyone with PMOS fits neatly into a type, and why Cory prefers to treat symptoms and lab results instead of forcing people into categories.how insulin resistance disrupts ovulation, making PMOS a leading cause of infertility.how nutrition is the foundation of treatment, and why she starts with blood sugar support regardless of weight or pregnancy goals.what PMOS-friendly eating pattern looks like- built around protein, fat, fiber, and smart carbohydrate choices rather than extreme restriction.why low-carb, no-carb, gluten-free, or dairy-free approaches are not helpful, GLP1s for PMOS and fertility For more Fertility Support & Care we have clinics in London, Birmingham and a network around the UK: 🧡 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Book ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠a Discovery Call⁠⁠ to find out about working with us 121 💛 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Join our Don't Tell Me To RELAX!⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠fertility online community with our monthly drop in support group ❤️ ⁠⁠Follow us on⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ for more fertility tips and information

    PMOS/ PCOS & Fertility: Blood Sugar, Insulin Resistance & Ovulation Explained

  2. 4 Sept

    PCOS/PMOS & Trying to Conceive: How to Track Your Cycle & Ovulation

    We're back! A brand new Series with our shiny new award 🏆 September is PCOS/PMOS Awareness Month, and in this episode I'm back with Fertility Awareness Queen Katy aka Reflex East discussing how to track a menstrual cycle when you have PMOS. If you having any irregularity with your cycle and your fed up with trying to predict when you're fertile- this is for you! We discuss: Why PMOS makes cycle tracking more difficultWhy ovulation predictor kits can be misleading for some people with PMOSHow cervical mucus can help you identify fertile windowsWhy basal body temperature is better for confirming ovulation than predicting itHow apps and wearables can support cycle trackingWhy the luteal phase matters just as much as ovulationHow to approach trying to conceive with long or unpredictable cycles For more Fertility Support & Care we have clinics in London, Birmingham and a network around the UK: 🧡 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Book ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠a Discovery Call⁠ to find out about working with us 121 💛 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Join our Don't Tell Me To RELAX!⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠fertility online community with our monthly drop in support group ❤️ ⁠Follow us on⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ for more fertility tips and information

    PCOS/PMOS & Trying to Conceive: How to Track Your Cycle & Ovulation

  3. 21 Aug

    Why Good Embryo's Don't Implant- with Emma The Embryologist

    Why good embryos don’t implant I am with Emma Whitney, Director of Embryology at the Evewell, Emma The Embryologist on Instagram, and Chair of the Trustees for Fertility Action to discuss one of IVF’s most frustrating questions: why an embryo that looks good still might not lead to a pregnancy. We discuss what “good” really means at different stages, why embryo grading is only part of the picture, and how male factor, genetics, and the uterine environment all fit into the bigger diagnostic puzzle. We discuss What “good embryo” actually meansWhy day 3 grading can be misleadingBlastocyst stage and implantationPGTA tested embryos that still don’t workWhy embryo grading alone is not enoughEnvironmental factors and bespoke testingCommon add-on tests and the evidence around themThe male factor may be under-investigatedTime lapse is a major clueWhy uterine assessment can matter For more Fertility Support & Care we have clinics in London, Birmingham and a network around the UK: 🧡 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Book ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠a Discovery Call to find out about working with us 121 💛 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Join our Don't Tell Me To RELAX!⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠fertility online community with our monthly drop in support group ❤️ Follow us on⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ for more fertility tips and information

    Why Good Embryo's Don't Implant- with Emma The Embryologist

  4. 3 Jul

    How to Support a Loved One Through Fertility Struggles

    This is the last in the Series- as I take a little break for the summer- we will be back in September! But before I go we have this lovely episode to end with. I am back with Carly to discuss practical ways to support loved ones trying to conceive. We share insights on emotional support, important dates, and practical ways to help- all offered from our lovely listeners and community. We discuss: The emotional impact of fertility issues: anxiety, grief, and isolationHow to check in without overstepping: balance and boundariesRemembering important dates: significance and sensitivityOffering practical acts of kindness: gifts, support, and reducing the burdenThe importance of listening without fixing or giving unsolicited adviceConsistently showing up: invitations, invitations refusal, and ongoing supportProtecting emotional well-being: respecting boundaries and spaceThe power of community, shared experiences, and collective support For more Fertility Support & Care: 💛 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Join our Don't Tell Me To RELAX!⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠fertility online community with the monthly drop in support group ❤️ Follow us on⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ for more fertility tips and information 🧡 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Book ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠a Discovery Call to find out about working with us 121 💛 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Work with us⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ 121 in one of our clinics around the UK

    How to Support a Loved One Through Fertility Struggles

  5. 26 Jun

    How Your Genes Influence Your Fertility & How To Support Them

    In this episode I am with, Alison Hall, a nutritional therapist specializing in fertility. Alison discusses the complex relationship between genetics, epigenetics, and fertility. She explains how understanding genetic variants like MTHFR and supporting epigenetic health through nutrition and lifestyle can improve reproductive outcomes. Main Topics: The difference between genetics and epigenetics and their roles in fertilityHow MTHFR gene variants affect folate metabolism and fertility outcomesThe significance of methylation pathways and supportive nutrients like B12, zinc, and cholineThe value of genetic testing and how to select trustworthy providersLifestyle factors influencing epigenetic expression, including sleep, stress, and meditationThe relationship between digestion, gut health, and nutrient absorption in fertilityThe impact of DNA fragmentation on sperm quality and overall reproductive successThe role of immune health and key nutrients like vitamin D and vitamin APractical approaches: dietary focus, supplement considerations, and personalized plans You'll find Alison on Instagram For more Fertility Support & Care: 💛 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Join our Don't Tell Me To RELAX!⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠fertility online community with the monthly drop in support group ❤️ Follow us on⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ for more fertility tips and information 🧡 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Book ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠a Discovery Call to find out about working with us 121 💛 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Work with us⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ 121 in one of our clinics around the UK

    How Your Genes Influence Your Fertility & How To Support Them

  6. 19 Jun

    What You Wish Family and Friends Could Understand About Infertility.

    I am joined by fertility coach Carly to unpack the emotional toll, misconceptions, and support needs of women experiencing infertility. Whether you're going through it yourself or supporting someone, this episode offers insights and practical advice for understanding and compassion. We hope this will be a helpful episode to send onto your family and friends- if you don’t want to go into the detail yourself but would like them to have a better understanding 💛 We discuss ​The emotional and mental impact of infertility, including feelings of exhaustion, grief, and isolation​Why family and friends often struggle to provide the right support and how to approach these conversations​The importance of validation over problem-solving and the harmful effects of platitudes like "just relax"​How misconceptions and lack of education around fertility contribute to misunderstanding​The long-lasting trauma of IVF and miscarriage, and how it persists beyond pregnancy​Challenges of participating in family gatherings, social events, and managing others' reactions​The unique struggles of secondary infertility and societal expectations​How to be a supportive ally: listening, validating emotions, and avoiding unsolicited adviceFor more Fertility Support & Care: 💛 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Join our Don't Tell Me To RELAX!⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠fertility online community with the monthly drop in support group ​❤️ Follow us on⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ for more fertility tips and information ​🧡 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Book ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠a Discovery Call to find out about working with us 121 ​💛 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Work with us⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ 121 in one of our clinics around the UK

    What You Wish Family and Friends Could Understand About Infertility.

  7. 12 Jun

    Unlocking Fertility Stress and Trauma with TRE:

    I am with Laura Wilkes, a yoga and TRE teacher, women's health coach and soon to be acupuncturists. Laura shares her journey with TRE (Trauma Release Exercises) and how this powerful somatic practice can support stress release, emotional healing, and improve fertility outcomes. We discuss What is TRE and its originsThe science behind neurogenic tremors and their role in releasing stress and traumaHow TRE helps regulate the nervous system, especially in fertility journeysThe connection between emotional suppression, physical symptoms, and TREWhy TRE is a feminine, passive practice that promotes surrender and healingPractical guidance on practicing TRE at home versus with a practitionerThe benefits of TRE for physical issues like back pain, tight hips, digestion, and sleepHow TRE supports emotional release and trauma healing in women's healthThe significance of releasing control and cultivating relaxation in fertilityDifferences between TRE and practices like yin yogaUpcoming courses and how to find qualified practitionersFind a TRE Practitioner - Official TRE directory to locate practitionersLaura Wilkes Instagram For more Fertility Support & Care: 💛 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Join our Don't Tell Me To RELAX!⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠fertility online community ❤️ Follow us on⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ for more fertility tips and information 🧡 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Book ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠a Discovery Call to find out about working with us 121 💛 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Work with us⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ 121 in one of our clinics around the UK

    Unlocking Fertility Stress and Trauma with TRE:

  8. 5 Jun

    Navigating Fertility as an LGBTQ+ Woman: Deb's Journey

    As it is Pride Month around the world we are sharing the fertility journey from one of our LGBTQ+ community members. Debs shares her personal and systemic challenges navigating fertility treatments as a LGBTQ+ woman. We explore the emotional, systemic, and logistical aspects of building a family through assisted reproductive technologies, highlighting areas for greater inclusivity and support. We discuss Deb’s journey from childhood awareness to the decision to pursue a family as a lesbian womanSystemic barriers faced in fertility clinics and registrationThe role of donor sperm selection and emotional considerationsDifferences in treatment options, access, and costs across countiesThe impact of societal perceptions and the need for better representation and educationInsights into pregnancy, birth, and legal challenges for same-sex parentsStonewall Family Formation Guide - Comprehensive resource on pathways to parenthood for LGBTQ+ families For more Fertility Support & Care: 💛 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Join our Don't Tell Me To RELAX!⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠fertility online community ❤️ Follow us on⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ for more fertility tips and information 🧡 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Book ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠a Discovery Call to find out about working with us 121 💛 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Work with us⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ 121 in one of our clinics around the UK

    Navigating Fertility as an LGBTQ+ Woman: Deb's Journey
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An award winning, expert-led fertility podcast for anyone who is trying to conceive and tired of being told to “just relax.” Led by Hannah Pearn, founder of DTMTR Fertility Acupuncture clinics we share information to empower your fertility journey. But this is more than a podcast. This is also a community by the same name —a supportive space to access education, evidence-based information and connection - all without the "just relax" BS.

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