Healing for Male Survivors with Mike Chapman

Mike Chapman

Welcome to the Healing for Male Survivors Podcast, where male survivors of childhood trauma, especially sexual trauma, can find hope and healing. My main goal is to give a platform to YOU, my listener and fellow survivor. I want to make this a safe space for you to tell YOUR story - and telling your story can often jumpstart your healing. This *is* a faith-based podcast, but do not expect a lot of preaching, but I want to welcome anyone here regardless of faith. **Trigger Warning/Explicit Content Warning** - we will talk openly and frankly about sexual abuse from the victims perspective.

  1. 4 days ago

    106 - 🎥 Latest Survivor News

    This week, I wanted to catch up on all the Survivor-related news that has happened over the last several weeks while I was on hiatus.  VIDEO 🎥 version: Spotify, Youtube, Facebook, & TikTok.  AUDIO version: most other podcast platforms. Links Mentioned: The Menéndez Brothers - Previous HFMSwMC podcast episodes:   Episode 47 - Three Word Challenge Update & The Lyle and Erik Menéndez Case Update (Spotify | YouTube) Episode 63 - Update on the Menéndez case & my recent Charlotte interview (Spotify | YouTube) Episode 68 - Update on Leaving Neverland II, the Menéndez case & my own Healing Journey  (Spotify | YouTube) Episode 75 - Updates on the Menéndez case, The Take It Down Act, & the Michael Tait/Newsboys controversy (Spotify | YouTube) Episode 77 - Updates on the Menéndez case, Ohio State University Atheltics Sexual Assault case (Spotify | YouTube) Wikipedia Links Trey’s Law KIDS Act Grok sexual deepfake scandal Child safety on Roblox The PREVENT Act (GovTrack.us) “‘Deepfake abuse is abuse’ - Statement by UNICEF on AI-generated sexualised images of children” (UNICEF.org) “InvestigateTV+: Criminals are using AI to create CSAM” (InvestigateTV) “Governor Ron DeSantis Signs Legislation Strengthening Protections for Children and Increasing Penalties for Sexual Offenses” (FLGov.com) “Attorney General James and Governor Hochul Release Final SAFE for Kids Act Rules to Protect Children Online” (AG.NY.gov) “Why sex abuse survivors and broke school districts are at odds in Legislature’s final days” (CalMatters.org) “Appeals court delivers unsettling ruling — and says Supreme Court left it no choice: The Seventh Circuit affirmed dismissal of a possession charge against a Wisconsin man with hundreds of AI-generated images” (FoxNews) “Church Abuse Survivors Create Database to Protect the Vulnerable, Track Abusers” (Crosswalk.com) Listing: “Edward (Jack) Powers”  “Man gets closure 30 years after sexual assault” (Polk Itemizer-Observer) Mike Chapman’s links: Husband Material Ministries (“HM”/”HMM”; faith-based ministry helping men find freedom from pornography and other sexual brokenness issues) FREE Learn more about Husband Material's CSA Survivor Fellowship (led by Mike) and the PLC Chat on WhatsApp Mike’s Website Schedule a free 30-minute Coaching Intro call with Mike Mike’s Story If you would like to join us for future LIVE podcast events, learn more at:  PolarLifeConsulting.com/live Please Note: The views and opinions expressed by guests of this podcast are their own, and their appearance on the program does not imply an endorsement of them, their beliefs, or any entity they represent, by neither Mike Chapman nor Polar Life Consulting. AI is occasionally used for still-image/clip-art creation/augmentation and for research purposes. Riverside also provides AI-based tools to assist in the video editing process. **Trigger Warning/Explicit Content Warning** - we will talk openly and frankly about sexual abuse from the victim's perspective. Sometimes cursing may be used, but kept at a minimum. Please practice self-care while listening to episodes and feel free to pause if you become triggered while listening.  Let me know what you think of the podcast with a rating and a review. If you LOVE this podcast, show your support & ☕ Buy me a Coffee! ☕

    106 - 🎥 Latest Survivor News
  2. 2 Sept

    105 - 🎥 Live Panel: “Female Perpetrators”

    This week, I have a special panel with three prior guests, Matt Melvin, Daniel Eichelberger, & Forrest Lange talking about Female Perpetrators and how that can affect one’s Healing Journey.  VIDEO 🎥 version: Spotify, Youtube, Facebook, & TikTok.  AUDIO version: most other podcast platforms. More about the panelists: Previous podcast interviews with Matt & Scott (contact info is within the show notes of each episode):  Episode 84 - Interview with Matthew Melvin (Spotify | YouTube) Episode 22 - Interview with Daniel Eichelberger  (Spotify | YouTube) Episode 101 - Interview with Forrest Lange (Spotify | YouTube) Links Mentioned: Video Series: Sexual Assault of Men Played for Laughs (YouTube) Part 1: Male Perpetrators Part 2: Female Perpetrators Bullied Behind Bars: A Gay Christian Trump Supporter Goes to Prison by Martthew Melvin (Amazon) The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People by Stephen Covey (Amazon) People are all saying the same thing to interviewer's 'unhinged' response when man mentions his childhood sexual abuse (Unilad) “‘I wanted to kill them all’: Inmate admits to targeting child sex offenders in prison killings” by Michael Kiefer April 28, 2025 (Arizona Mirror) Mike Chapman’s links: Husband Material Ministries (“HM”/”HMM”; faith-based ministry helping men find freedom from pornography and other sexual brokenness issues) FREE Learn more about Husband Material's CSA Survivor Fellowship (led by Mike) and the PLC Chat on WhatsApp Mike’s Website Schedule a free 30-minute Coaching Intro call with Mike Mike’s Story If you would like to join us for future LIVE podcast events, learn more at:  PolarLifeConsulting.com/live Please Note: The views and opinions expressed by guests of this podcast are their own, and their appearance on the program does not imply an endorsement of them, their beliefs, or any entity they represent, by neither Mike Chapman nor Polar Life Consulting. **Trigger Warning/Explicit Content Warning** - we will talk openly and frankly about sexual abuse from the victim's perspective. Sometimes cursing may be used, but kept at a minimum. Please practice self-care while listening to episodes and feel free to pause if you become triggered while listening.  Let me know what you think of the podcast with a rating and a review. If you LOVE this podcast, show your support & ☕ Buy me a Coffee! ☕

    105 - 🎥 Live Panel: “Female Perpetrators”
  3. 27 May

    104 - 🎥 Interview with Wendell Wood

    Final episode until September 2026 Wendell Wood cohosts the Agents of Recovery podcast that focuses on men’s mental health and addiction recovery. He is also a certified coach with Addict II Athlete, a nonprofit organization that helps men and women erase the pain and traumas associated with addiction and replace them with things of greater value. Wendell is a survivor of child sexual abuse and he’s currently working on turning the mess of his own addiction into the message of recovery.  As a result of his own healing journey, and with the encouragement and support of his wife Janice, Wendell is currently going back to school to get his master's degree in clinical mental health counseling so that he can help other men along their journey of recovery. If you want to see the VIDEO 🎥 version of this podcast, you can watch from either Spotify or Youtube. Wendell’s Links:  Agents of Recovery Podcast (Apple | Spotify) Addict II Athlete Podcast (Apple | Spotify) Links Mentioned & Helpful links: Wikipedia Churrasco Chuquicamata Atacama Desert Bilateral Stimulation - under EMDR InterVarsity A Return to Love: Reflections on the Principles of "A Course in Miracles" by Marianne Williamson (Amazon)  MenHealing.org - non-religious healing weekends across the US for Male CSA Survivors Altogether You: Experiencing personal and spiritual transformation with Internal Family Systems therapy by Jenna Riemersma (Amazon) Info on Husband Material Retreats, including Weekend Intensive Retreats (when available). Deep Waters (painting of Jesus underwater by Yongsung Kim; LDS Art) Mike Chapman’s links: Husband Material Ministries (“HM”/”HMM”; faith-based ministry helping men find freedom from pornography and other sexual brokenness issues) FREE Info on Joining Husband Materials Academy (“HMA”; Paid) Learn more about Husband Material's CSA Survivor Fellowship (led by Mike) and the PLC Chat on WhatsApp Mike’s Website Schedule a free 30-minute Coaching Intro call with Mike Mike’s Story If you would like to join us for future LIVE podcast events, learn more at:  PolarLifeConsulting.com/live Please Note: The views and opinions expressed by guests of this podcast are their own, and their appearance on the program does not imply an endorsement of them, their beliefs, or any entity they represent, by neither Mike Chapman nor Polar Life Consulting. **Trigger Warning/Explicit Content Warning** - we will talk openly and frankly about sexual abuse from the victim's perspective. Sometimes cursing may be used, but kept at a minimum. Please practice self-care while listening to episodes and feel free to pause if you become triggered while listening.  Let me know what you think of the podcast with a rating and a review. DONATE – Tax-Deductible gifts to Husband Material Ministries

  4. 13 May

    102 - 🎥 Live Interview with Joseph Born

    Joseph Born, “Joe,” is joining us from the frozen lands of Alaska. Joe, who is half Alaska Native himself, shares how his early childhood abuse shaped his life and highlights the systems that failed to protect him. He also discusses how his mental health diagnoses and addictions relate to his abuse. And the challenges they presented during trauma therapy. Joe hopes to share with the world the unique aspects of CSA in Alaska – including its geography, cultural factors, and the ugly truth of intrafamilial abuse.  EXTRA Trigger Warning: While editing this episode, I felt myself being triggered moreso than other episodes. Practice Self-care while listening/viewing. If you want to see the VIDEO 🎥 version of this podcast, you can watch from either Spotify or Youtube. Suicide is talked about in this episode. If you are experiencing feelings of suicide or you know someone who is, don't hesitate to get in touch with the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline in the US available 24/7 to provide free, confidential emotional support to people in suicidal or emotional distress. Their number in the US is 988 or 1-800-273-8255 or at https://988lifeline.org/ – in other countries, reach out to your local suicide prevention hotline which you can find at https://findahelpline.com/. Joseph’s Links: Joseph’s Story (MightyAK)  Instagram: @josephbornak Links Mentioned: The National Center for Missing and Exploited Children (NCMEC)  Wikipedia: Degrassi (TV franchise)  Degrassi (franchise search - JustWatch) Degrassi (franchise Search - The Roku Channel - US) Wikipedia: "EMDR" (Eye movement desensitization and reprocessing) Wikipedia: International Institute for Trauma and Addiction Professionals (Trainers of CSATs) Previous HFMSwMC podcast episodes mentioned:   Episode 95 - Interview with Scott Slone - Part 1 (Spotify | YouTube) Episode 96 - Interview with Scott Slone - Part 2 (Spotify | YouTube) Mike Chapman’s links: Husband Material Ministries (“HM”/”HMM”; faith-based ministry helping men find freedom from pornography and other sexual brokenness issues) FREE Info on Joining Husband Materials Academy (“HMA”; Paid) Learn more about Husband Material's CSA Survivor Fellowship (led by Mike) and the PLC Chat on WhatsApp Mike’s Website Schedule a free 30-minute Coaching Intro call with Mike Mike’s Story If you would like to join us for future LIVE podcast events, learn more at:  PolarLifeConsulting.com/live Please Note: The views and opinions expressed by guests of this podcast are their own, and their appearance on the program does not imply an endorsement of them, their beliefs, or any entity they represent, by neither Mike Chapman nor Polar Life Consulting. **Trigger Warning/Explicit Content Warning** - we will talk openly and frankly about sexual abuse from the victim's perspective. Sometimes cursing may be used, but kept at a minimum. Please practice self-care while listening to episodes and feel free to pause if you become triggered while listening.  Let me know what you think of the podcast with a rating and a review. DONATE – Tax-Deductible gifts to Husband Material Ministries

  5. 6 May

    101 - 🎥 Live Interview with Forrest Lang

    Forrest Lang is a tattoo artist, best-selling author, combat veteran, international speaker, and child safety advocate. He is also a survivor of family-controlled sex trafficking in childhood. He lives in La Jolla, California with his family.   If you want to see the VIDEO 🎥 version of this podcast, you can watch from either Spotify or Youtube. Suicide is talked about in this episode. If you are experiencing feelings of suicide or you know someone who is, don't hesitate to get in touch with the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline in the US available 24/7 to provide free, confidential emotional support to people in suicidal or emotional distress. Their number in the US is 988 or 1-800-273-8255 or at https://988lifeline.org/ – in other countries, reach out to your local suicide prevention hotline which you can find at https://findahelpline.com/. Forrest’s Links: Book Website: angelbluebook.com Amazon: Angel Blue: A Song of Redemption Instagram: @forrestlangofficial Facebook: @angelbluebook Facebook Reels: @angelbluebook TikTok: @forrestlang Links Mentioned: Wikipedia: Paisley Abbey United States Military Entrance Processing Command (description and list of all MEPS, including LA MEPS) Forrest’s TEDxTalk (YouTube) The SOAP Project (hosts retreats for male trafficking survivors and for female trafficking survivors among other anti-trafficking work)   National Children’s Alliance (Child Advocacy Centers) Save A Warrior Previous HFMSwMC podcast episodes mentioned:   Episode 89 - Interview with Brandon Andres Green - Part 1 (Spotify | YouTube) Episode 90 - Interview with Brandon Andres Green - Part 2 (Spotify | YouTube) Episode 100 - Live Panel: “The Epstein Files” (Spotify | YouTube) Episode 57 - Forgiveness - Part 1 - James Gianakon’s podcast (Spotify | YouTube) Episode 58 - Forgiveness - Part 2 - Panel Discussion - LIVE (Spotify | YouTube) Mike Chapman’s links: Husband Material Ministries (“HM”/”HMM”; faith-based ministry helping men find freedom from pornography and other sexual brokenness issues) FREE Info on Joining Husband Materials Academy (“HMA”; Paid) Learn more about Husband Material's CSA Survivor Fellowship (led by Mike) and the PLC Chat on WhatsApp Mike’s Website Schedule a free 30-minute Coaching Intro call with Mike Mike’s Story If you would like to join us for future LIVE podcast events, learn more at:  PolarLifeConsulting.com/live Please Note: The views and opinions expressed by guests of this podcast are their own, and their appearance on the program does not imply an endorsement of them, their beliefs, or any entity they represent, by neither Mike Chapman nor Polar Life Consulting. **Trigger Warning/Explicit Content Warning** - we will talk openly and frankly about sexual abuse from the victim's perspective. Sometimes cursing may be used, but kept at a minimum. Please practice self-care while listening to episodes and feel free to pause if you become triggered while listening.  Let me know what you think of the podcast with a rating and a review. DONATE – Tax-Deductible gifts to Husband Material Ministries

  6. 28 Apr

    100 - 🎥 Live Panel: “The Epstein Files”

    100th Episode!!! This week, I have a special panel with two prior guests, Matt Melvin & Scott Slone, talking about the Epstein Files and how it relates to us CSA & Trafficking Survivors, how we can respond, what the issues are, and so forth.  (from Wikipedia) The Epstein files are a partially released collection of millions of documents, images, videos, and emails detailing the activities of American financier and convicted child sex offender Jeffrey Epstein, including his social circle of public figures, politicians, and celebrities. The files include documents collected as evidence in the criminal cases against Epstein and his associates, stored as over 300 gigabytes of data, alongside other media, in the FBI's Sentinel case management system. They include Epstein's contact book, flight logs of his planes, and court documents. Many of the records and files belong to Epstein's estate, which is run by lawyer Darren Indyke and accountant Richard Kahn. In November 2025, the U.S. House of Representatives passed the Epstein Files Transparency Act, and the U.S. Senate unanimously approved it, with President Donald Trump signing the bill into law the next day. The following month, the U.S. Department of Justice released a relatively small number of files, leading to criticism from both major parties in the US. Trump had previously floated the idea of releasing the files during his 2024 presidential campaign; he later said that controversies surrounding the files were fabricated by members of the Democratic Party. In January 2026, an additional 3 million pages were released, including 2,000 videos and 180,000 images. While the Department of Justice acknowledged that a total of 6 million pages might qualify as files required to be released, it stated that the January 30 release would be the final one, and that it had met its legal obligations. The released files mentioned a number of public figures, and led to increased scrutiny of their activities. Individuals whose names have shown up frequently in the files include: Epstein's assistant Lesley Groff, accountant Richard Kahn, Trump and his wife Melania Trump, lawyer Darren Indyke, sex trafficker and socialite Ghislaine Maxwell, and modeling agent Jean-Luc Brunel. If you want to see the VIDEO 🎥 version of this podcast, you can watch from either Spotify or Youtube. Suicide is talked about in this episode. If you are experiencing feelings of suicide or you know someone who is, don't hesitate to get in touch with the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline in the US available 24/7 to provide free, confidential emotional support to people in suicidal or emotional distress. Their number in the US is 988 or 1-800-273-8255 or at https://988lifeline.org/ – in other countries, reach out to your local suicide prevention hotline which you can find at https://findahelpline.com/. FULL Show Notes:  https://docs.google.com/document/d/1ITlqiDVYMO3DAQBwTw5VkQ7PctlhOJ_FcezuLctMUGM/edit?usp=sharing

  7. 21 Apr

    99 - 🎥 Live Interview with Jarrett Davis - Part 2

    Jarrett Davis is a Senior Research Scholar whose work over the past fifteen years has focused on the boys, young men, and gender-diverse individuals that anti-trafficking systems routinely overlook. From street-connected children in Southeast Asia to immigrant youth in the United States, his research centers the voices and expertise of survivors themselves — not as subjects, but as researchers of their own stories. His work has spanned INGOs across Asia, Africa, Europe, and the United States. Jarrett is the founder of UP! Collective, a community-focused hub for shared resources and collaboration, and a Senior Research Scholar with the Global Association of Human Trafficking Scholars (GAHTS), where he works alongside Mike Chapman on lived experience research. He is presently working within the NYC Department of Education on the expansion of a prevention education curriculum for staff and students across NYC public schools, as well as a project in Minnesota focused on justice-involved boys and young men. Jarrett is also a survivor of Adult Sexual Assault. If you want to see the VIDEO 🎥 version of this podcast, you can watch from either Spotify or Youtube. Jarrett’s Links: https://www.jarrettdavis.org  https://www.up-collective.org/  LinkedIn Links Mentioned: MaleSurvivor.org - has an on-ine discussion board for survivors & more (links to website) MenHealing.org - non-religious healing weekends across the US for Male CSA Survivors The SOAP Project (hosts retreats for male trafficking survivors and for female trafficking survivors among other anti-trafficking work)  Previous HFMSwMC podcast episodes mentioned:   Episode 86 - What is Brainspotting? (Spotify | YouTube) Episode 92 - Interview with Ena Maria Mariaca Pacheco - Part 1 (Spotify | YouTube) Episode 93 - Interview with Ena Maria Mariaca Pacheco - Part 2 (Spotify | YouTube) Episode 89 - Interview with Brandon Andres Green - Part 1 (Spotify | YouTube) Episode 90 - Interview with Brandon Andres Green - Part 2 (Spotify | YouTube) Episode 45 - Live Interview with Steven Procopio (Spotify | YouTube {audio only}) Mike Chapman’s links: Husband Material Ministries (“HM”/”HMM”; faith-based ministry helping men find freedom from pornography and other sexual brokenness issues) FREE Info on Joining Husband Materials Academy (“HMA”; Paid) Learn more about Husband Material's CSA Survivor Fellowship (led by Mike) and the PLC Chat on WhatsApp Mike’s Website Schedule a free 30-minute Coaching Intro call with Mike Mike’s Story If you would like to join us for future LIVE podcast events, learn more at:  PolarLifeConsulting.com/live Please Note: The views and opinions expressed by guests of this podcast are their own, and their appearance on the program does not imply an endorsement of them, their beliefs, or any entity they represent, by neither Mike Chapman nor Polar Life Consulting. **Trigger Warning/Explicit Content Warning** - we will talk openly and frankly about sexual abuse from the victim's perspective. Sometimes cursing may be used, but kept at a minimum. Please practice self-care while listening to episodes and feel free to pause if you become triggered while listening.  Let me know what you think of the podcast with a rating and a review. DONATE – Tax-Deductible gifts to Husband Material Ministries

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Welcome to the Healing for Male Survivors Podcast, where male survivors of childhood trauma, especially sexual trauma, can find hope and healing. My main goal is to give a platform to YOU, my listener and fellow survivor. I want to make this a safe space for you to tell YOUR story - and telling your story can often jumpstart your healing. This *is* a faith-based podcast, but do not expect a lot of preaching, but I want to welcome anyone here regardless of faith. **Trigger Warning/Explicit Content Warning** - we will talk openly and frankly about sexual abuse from the victims perspective.

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