PSR Podcast

Jonathan Daugherty
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  • Sexuality
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Pure Sex Radio (PSR) seeks to help men, women, and families move from sexual brokenness to wholeness in Christ. Host, Jonathan Daugherty, has been working in sexual integrity ministry for over 20 years and brings his expertise and personal experience into each episode. Stephen Cervantes, aka Dr. Marriage, has over 30 years of counseling experience and provides daily thoughts for married men at DoctorMarriage.org. If you have questions, comments, or a suggestion for a topic, email us at psr@bebroken.org. Access video version on Vimeo.

  1. 10 hr ago

    Why Spiritual Disciplines Don't Repair a Broken Emotional Foundation

    PSR Podcast is a listener supported outreach of Be Broken Ministries. Partner with us through giving at BeBroken.org/donate. Thank you for your support! ---------- Stephen Cervantes says the emotional coping system you built to survive childhood may now be the very thing keeping you from peace—and changing it means breaking down its shaky foundation, not just adding better habits on top.  In this conversation, Stephen and I explore why spiritual practices can’t by themselves heal emotional wounds, how fear, shame, and the need for control shape the way we relate to God and others, and why “restful” doesn’t mean life is comfortable or trouble-free. We also offer a vivid picture of what change can uncover: like pulling up decades-old carpet to find a beautiful wood floor beneath.  For daily thoughts from Stephen, visit DoctorMarriage.org. Topics Covered in this Episode:Emotional growth and the role of daily reflections in encouraging meaningful conversation.How emotional and spiritual development are intertwined.Recognizing unhealthy emotional patterns, such as fear, excessive control, worry, perfectionism, and avoidance.How childhood experiences and chaotic environments can shape survival-based coping strategies.The challenge of changing familiar patterns, even when they cause distress.Rebuilding emotional foundations around love, acceptance, forgiveness, and belonging.The importance of addressing emotional wounds alongside spiritual practices.Finding greater peace, rest, and connection through personal growth and faith.A closing prayer for letting go of ineffective coping strategies and seeking healthier responses. More Resources:Untangling Emotions* by Groves and SmithGrowth Map: The Pathway to Peace, Rest, and Joy* by Stephen Cervantes49 Days of Growth: Growing in Emotional Skills* by Stephen CervantesRelated Podcasts:Are You Open or Closed to Emotional Growth?Men's Emotional Self-Awareness TestHow to Experience Excellent Emotional Connections *This is an affiliate link. Be Broken may earn referral fees on purchases through this link. ---------- Please rate and review our podcast: Apple and Spotify Follow us on our Vimeo Channel.

    Why Spiritual Disciplines Don't Repair a Broken Emotional Foundation

  2. 21 Oct

    Do You Need a Marriage Revolution?

    PSR Podcast is a listener supported outreach of Be Broken Ministries. Partner with us through giving at BeBroken.org/donate. Thank you for your support! ---------- When betrayal comes to light in a marriage, it can feel like everything you thought you knew has been turned upside down. Where do you even begin? And is there really hope for something good on the other side of all that pain? Today, I’m talking with Hans Molegraaf, cofounder of Marriage Revolution. He and his wife know what it’s like to face a marriage that seems beyond repair—and to experience God at work in the long, difficult process of rebuilding. I’m grateful for his willingness to share honestly about their story and what he’s learned helping other couples navigate betrayal. We talk about telling the truth, rebuilding safety, and why stopping destructive behavior is only the beginning of healing a relationship. We also discuss why forgiveness shouldn’t be rushed and how the people around a hurting couple can offer meaningful support. If you’re in a hard place in your marriage right now, I want you to know you don’t have to figure all of this out alone. My prayer is that this conversation helps you feel a little less alone and able to see a next step toward healing. To learn more about Hans and his marriage resources, visit MarriageRevolution.org. Topics Covered in this Episode:Personal experiences of marital breakdown, separation, and reconciliationThe role of faith, counseling, and community support in restoring a marriageHow a personal recovery journey can lead to marriage-focused ministryResponding to the discovery of pornography use or infidelityThe importance of honest, careful disclosure and ongoing transparencyBuilding safety and trust after sexual betrayalWhy sobriety is a starting point, not a substitute for emotional connection and deeper recoveryProcessing pain and grief before moving toward forgivenessHow friends, family, and churches can support couples without rushing or judging themFinding hope and pursuing healing, whether or not both spouses are ready to rebuild the marriage More Resources: What To Do When Your Spouse Wants a Divorce (free e-book)Affair Recovery ProgramChristian Marriage CounselingRelated Podcasts: Early Couple Recovery Essentials and ExpectationsFrom Betrayal to Bonding: Rebuilding Your Marriage After InfidelityThe Three Phases of Couples Recovery ---------- Please rate and review our podcast: Apple and Spotify Follow us on our Vimeo Channel.

    Do You Need a Marriage Revolution?

  3. 14 Oct

    Why Sobriety Alone Doesn't Repair Betrayal

    PSR Podcast is a listener supported outreach of Be Broken Ministries. Partner with us through giving at BeBroken.org/donate. Thank you for your support! ---------- A year of sobriety can bring a painful surprise: your marriage and relationships may feel worse, not better. In this conversation, Tryan Stutes—whose recovery counseling work grew from his own lived experience—explains why abstinence alone can’t repair betrayal, and how fear and pride can keep men defensive even when they know they’ve caused harm.  We talk about the shift from remorse to empathy, what it means to hold space for a partner’s pain without trying to fix or minimize it, and why honest, consistent action matters more than recovery knowledge alone. Tryan also shares practical signs that a man may be resisting repair—and why patience and accountability still leave room for hope.  To learn more about Tryan and his resources, visit TrueWarriorInside.com. Topics Covered in this Episode:Building a foundation for recovery from compulsive sexual behaviors before attempting relationship repair.The role of vulnerability, self-awareness, trust, and commitment to the recovery process.Common barriers to change, including fear, shame, pride, defensiveness, and resistance.Why sobriety alone does not repair a relationship or rebuild trust.Moving from remorse and intellectual understanding toward empathy, compassion, and emotional presence.Learning to listen to a partner’s pain without minimizing, fixing, or becoming defensive.Exploring childhood wounds and protective patterns through Internal Family Systems and core-belief work.The ups and downs of relational repair, and the importance of patience, accountability, and transparency.Offering hope for rebuilding a relationship through sustained effort, honesty, and authenticity. More Resources:Formal Therapeutic DisclosureHelp Her Heal Men's Empathy WorkshopGateway to Freedom Intensive for MenRelated Podcasts:How to Help Your Spouse Heal from Your AffairThree Principles Every Husband Can Use to Grow Emotionally and SpirituallyMaxims that Help Us Go Beyond Sobriety in Recovery ---------- Please rate and review our podcast: Apple and Spotify Follow us on our Vimeo Channel.

    Why Sobriety Alone Doesn't Repair Betrayal

  4. 9 Oct

    A Parent's Response Matters (Part 3)

    PSR Podcast is a listener supported outreach of Be Broken Ministries. Partner with us through giving at BeBroken.org/donate. Thank you for your support! ---------- In this episode of Family Time, I sit down with Norma Q-Brown, our Family Care Director, to wrap up our three-part series on "A Parent's Response Matters." We explore the final two letters of the RESPOND acronym: N for Nearness over Neglect, where Norma shares how small daily moments build lasting connection with our kids, and D for Divine Perspective over Diluting Truth, reminding us to speak biblical truth with love and gentleness.  Norma leaves parents with this encouragement: start where you are, embrace imperfection, and keep pursuing closeness with your children. *Family Time episodes are short, practical conversations to help parents feel more confident and competent in raising kids according to God’s design, even in a sex-saturated culture. Topics Covered in this Episode:Importance of a parent's response in shaping children's development.The acronym RESPOND as a framework for effective parenting.Focus on "N" for Nearness over Neglect: building closeness with children.Signs of neglect and the impact of dismissive behavior on relationships.Strategies for fostering connection through daily interactions and open-ended questions.Emphasis on micro moments as opportunities for meaningful engagement.Focus on "D" for Divine Perspective over Diluting Truth: communicating biblical truths with love.The balance between truth and love in parenting discussions.Encouragement for ongoing conversations about difficult topics.The overall goal of creating a safe environment for children to share and learn. Resources for Next Steps:Honest Talk | The GamePersonal Ministry Consultation for ParentsCritical Conversations Online Course (FREE)RESPOND VS. REACT REMINDERSR - Respond over React E - Engage over Evade S - Sincerity over Silence P - Patience over Punitive O - Opportunity over Obstacle N - Nearness over Neglect D - Divine Perspective over Diluting Truth Part 1 covers R-E, Part 2 covers S-P-O, and Part 3 (this episode) covers N-D Download a FREE 1-page PDF with the RESPOND infographic For more parenting podcasts, go to Bebroken.org/tp-pods and scroll to Family Bundles. ---------- Please rate and review our podcast: Apple and Spotify Follow us on our Vimeo Channel.

    A Parent's Response Matters (Part 3)

  5. 7 Oct

    Healing the Emotional Void Syndrome (with Joel Morgan)

    PSR Podcast is a listener supported outreach of Be Broken Ministries. Partner with us through giving at BeBroken.org/donate. Thank you for your support! ---------- In this episode, I sit down with Joel Morgan, author of Breaking the Chains of the Emotional Void Syndrome. Joel shares his powerful personal journey growing up without his father in Ghana and how that absence shaped his emotional struggles. He unpacks "Emotional Void Syndrome" — an invisible yet heavy spiritual and emotional brokenness affecting countless people, even within the church.  We explore healing through acknowledgment, forgiveness, and inviting God into our pain. Joel also challenges the church to create safer spaces for healing.  To learn more about Joel and get his book, visit Joel-Morgan.com. Topics Covered in this Episode:Personal experiences of emotional brokenness and childhood challenges.Definition and exploration of "Emotional Void Syndrome."Impact of absent parental figures on emotional development.The role of forgiveness and self-acceptance in healing.Spiritual dimensions of emotional voids and their effects on individuals.The influence of evil forces on emotional struggles and spiritual growth.Signs and symptoms of emotional void syndrome.The importance of acknowledging emotional wounds for healing.Critique of the church's role in addressing emotional and spiritual needs.Steps for individuals to take towards healing and inviting God into their lives. More Resources:Breaking the Chains of the Emotional Void Syndrome by Joel MorganGateway to Freedom Intensive for MenUntangling Emotions* by Groves and SmithRelated Podcasts: A Biblical Framework for EmotionsReframing Recovery as Emotional RegulationIntimacy Avoidance in Men (with Dr. Matt Burton) *This is an affiliate link. Be Broken may earn referral fees on purchases through this link. ---------- Please rate and review our podcast: Apple and Spotify Follow us on our Vimeo Channel.

    Healing the Emotional Void Syndrome (with Joel Morgan)

  6. 30 Sept

    How Can Curiosity Improve Conversations and Relationships?

    PSR Podcast is a listener supported outreach of Be Broken Ministries. Partner with us through giving at BeBroken.org/donate. Thank you for your support! ---------- In this episode, Stephen Cervantes, also known as "Doctor Marriage," and I explore how we show up in conversations. We dive into four common response styles:  The fixerThe negative interpreterThe positive reframerThe curious listener.  Stephen and I agree that staying genuinely curious, rather than rushing to solve or judge, creates deeper connection and safety in dialogue. We also reflect on personal growth and what it means to "lay down your life" in faith. It's a personal, honest conversation full of practical insights for anyone wanting to communicate better! For daily insights from Stephen, visit DoctorMarriage.org. Topics Covered in this Episode: Importance of communication in conversationsDifferent conversational roles: fixer, negative interpreter, positive reframer, curious listenerThe significance of curiosity in dialogueThe impact of emotional responses on conversation flowPersonal growth and spiritual themes related to self-reflectionThe concept of "laying down your life" in a Christian contextThe role of safety in fostering open dialogueThe distinction between skepticism and cynicism in conversationsEncouragement to practice curiosity and deep listeningThe transformative power of understanding and connection in relationships More Resources: Be More Curious (blog post)40 Days to Oneness by Stephen CervantesFind a CounselorRelated Podcasts:Breaking Down Barriers: The Art of Active Listening3 Skills to Transform Your Life9 Questions to Encourage Deeper Conversation and Connection ---------- Please rate and review our podcast: Apple and Spotify Follow us on our Vimeo Channel.

    How Can Curiosity Improve Conversations and Relationships?

  7. 23 Sept

    The 4 Spaces of Forgiveness (with Andrew Arthur)

    PSR Podcast is a listener supported outreach of Be Broken Ministries. Partner with us through giving at BeBroken.org/donate. Thank you for your support! ---------- In this episode, we welcome back Andrew Arthur, founding partner of Genesis Christian Mediation, to explore the powerful topic of forgiveness. Andrew shares his "four spaces of forgiveness" framework, breaking down the key differences between forgiveness, trust, and reconciliation.  Drawing from his personal journey through divorce and professional experience, he challenges the transactional forgiveness model many of us grew up with. We discuss how true forgiveness begins internally with God, independent of the other person's response, and how reconciliation requires consistent change from both parties. This is a rich, hope-filled conversation for anyone navigating broken relationships!  To learn more about Andrew and his resources, visit GenesisChristianMediation.com. Topics Covered in this Episode: The concept of forgiveness in the context of broken or struggling relationships.The "four spaces of forgiveness" framework developed by Andrew Arthur.Distinctions between forgiveness, trust, and reconciliation.The limitations of a transactional model of forgiveness.The importance of inner work with God before seeking reconciliation with others.The process of understanding and addressing personal pain in forgiveness.The role of trust in rebuilding relationships after hurt or trauma.The significance of consistent actions in the rebuilding of trust.The challenges and requirements for true reconciliation between individuals.Resources for further learning about forgiveness and mediation in relationships. More Resources: Mediation Services to resolve conflictThinking About Separating? 6 Things to ConsiderA Lover Repents (A Husband Confesses His Sin)Related Podcasts:Conflict Management for Marriages Healing from BetrayalBest Practices for a Successful Therapeutic SeparationThe 7 Steps of Forgiveness ---------- Please rate and review our podcast: Apple and Spotify Follow us on our Vimeo Channel.

    The 4 Spaces of Forgiveness (with Andrew Arthur)

  8. 16 Sept

    The Threat AI Poses to Recovery and Real Human Relationships

    PSR Podcast is a listener supported outreach of Be Broken Ministries. Partner with us through giving at BeBroken.org/donate. Thank you for your support! ---------- In this episode, I sit down with Michael Leahy, founder of Bravehearts ministry, to explore how AI is reshaping the landscape of sexual addiction. Michael shares his powerful personal journey from a 30-year pornography addiction to recovery and ministry.  Together, we trace technology's evolution from print magazines to the internet and now AI, examining how each stage has intensified accessibility and addiction. Michael explains how AI acts as a "designer drug," creating personalized content instantly while blurring reality and fantasy.  Despite these alarming developments, Michael offers genuine hope, emphasizing that Christ-centered recovery, authentic human connection, and real relationships remain our greatest tools. To learn more about Michael and the resources he offers, visit BraveHearts.org. Topics Covered in this Episode: Impact of AI technology on sexual brokenness and pornography addiction.Historical progression of technology's influence on sexual addiction.Personal story of recovery from sexual addiction.The role of the internet in escalating sexual addiction.Evolution of pornography access from print to AI-generated content.Dangers of AI in creating personalized and easily accessible sexual content.Ethical and legal implications of AI-generated material, including deepfakes.Challenges in distinguishing reality from fantasy due to AI advancements.Importance of human connection and "friction" in recovery.Strategies for addressing the challenges posed by AI in the context of sexual addiction recovery. More Resources: AI Survival Kit from BraveHeartsFind a Counselor10 Lessons for Overcoming AddictionRelated Podcasts: Helping Families Build Healthy Relationships with TechnologyUnderstanding Human AgencyHow the Victory App Can Transform Your Recovery from Porn ---------- Please rate and review our podcast: Apple and Spotify Follow us on our Vimeo Channel.

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Pure Sex Radio (PSR) seeks to help men, women, and families move from sexual brokenness to wholeness in Christ. Host, Jonathan Daugherty, has been working in sexual integrity ministry for over 20 years and brings his expertise and personal experience into each episode. Stephen Cervantes, aka Dr. Marriage, has over 30 years of counseling experience and provides daily thoughts for married men at DoctorMarriage.org. If you have questions, comments, or a suggestion for a topic, email us at psr@bebroken.org. Access video version on Vimeo.

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  • Creator
    Jonathan Daugherty
  • Years Active
    2006 - 2026
  • Episodes
    612
  • Rating
    Explicit
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