Write Your Outcome

Michele Phillips

Welcome to Write Your Outcome, the podcast where I, Michele Phillips, empower leaders to take control of their personal and professional destinies. Drawing on over 25 years of experience in positive psychology and emotional intelligence within Fortune 100 and 500 companies, I'm here to guide you through the transformative "Write-the-Outcome" method. In each episode, I'll equip you with practical tools, expert tips, and profound insights to craft your path to success. Whether you're navigating workplace challenges, managing emotions, or aiming for higher leadership, this podcast offers actionable strategies to help you stay focused and inspired. Join me as I interview world-class leaders who have mastered the art of creating next-level success for themselves and their teams. Together, we'll explore how writing your outcome empowers you to lead with clarity, resilience, and purpose. The number one person you lead is yourself.

  1. 6 days ago

    Finding the Courage to Speak Your Truth | Sandra Bargman | #21

    What if the most powerful thing you could do for your leadership isn't sounding polished - but sounding like you? Sandra Bargman spent her life on stage, but it wasn't until she stepped out of the spiritual closet that she found her real voice. As an actor, interfaith minister, and voice coach, Sandra teaches that authentic presence doesn't come from being bigger or louder -it comes from summoning the courage to be vulnerable. We talk about what it means to be an "edge walker"- someone who lives at the intersection of who we've been, who we are, and who we're becoming. It's messy there. It's also where the most creativity lives. Sandra's wisdom on staying present through loss, embracing the seasons of life, and helping others step into their truth is the kind of conversation that stays with you. In this conversation, you'll discover:   Why "edge effect" is a scientific term that perfectly describes spiritual growth How to renegotiate your relationships as you evolve Why grief and darkness are teachers, not enemies The B.I.G. approach to finding your authentic voice How to start going deeper when you're scared to look   0:00 Authentic Voice Defined 0:35 Welcome Sandra Bargman 1:29 Edge Walker Explained 5:01 Edge Effect Origin 7:24 Comfort Zone Edges 8:56 Born Performer 12:32 Called to Ministry 15:05 Mission Discovered 16:54 Good Girl vs Wild 19:34 Marriage as Archetype 22:15 Relationship Mirror 25:29 The B.I.G. Approach 31:21 Courage Is Muscle 33:48 Grief & Shadow Work 37:45 Seasons of Darkness 42:08 Staying Present Through Death 46:03 Embracing Life's Cycle 48:30 Pieces Must Fall 49:16 Where to Find Sandra   RESOURECS Want to learn more about Sandra Bargman and her work? Connect with her here:   Website: sandrabargman.com Book a 20-minute conversation: magicthreadmedia.com Podcast: The Edge of Every Day (available on all major platforms) YouTube: Sandra Bargeman https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gkZ1FE8OR10 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sandrabargman/ Linktr.ee:  https://linktr.ee/sandrabargman Linkedin : https://www.linkedin.com/in/sandrabargman/   https://key2unlock.com/ https://www.linkedin.com/in/michele-phillips-9409707 https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/write-your-outcome/id1819724499 https://www.facebook.com/129170793830944/ https://www.instagram.com/energizewithmichele/ https://www.amazon.com/Michele-Phillips/e/B00EHZ38T4 https://www.amazon.com/stores/author/B001K8KSQC

  2. 15 Oct

    What You Whisper Becomes True: The Wellspring of Words | Dr. Denise Williams | #20

    The words we speak to ourselves carry more weight than we often realize. They can light a fire within us or slowly dim our spirit. On this episode of Write Your Outcome, I'm joined by my dear friend and colleague Dr. Denise Williams, author of Wellspring of Words, to explore how our internal dialogue shapes everything—our energy, our relationships, and our ability to lead with intention. Denise brings decades of wisdom as a counselor, educator, and organizational leadership expert. Together we unpack what it truly means to become intentional about the words we use, starting with the ones we whisper to ourselves in moments of frustration or doubt. Her book, inspired by Proverbs 18:4, reminds us that words are like deep waters—they can nourish or overwhelm. If you've ever caught yourself saying "I'm so clumsy" or "I'm not good enough," this conversation will meet you right where you are. Denise shares practical steps for slowing down, paying attention, and replacing harsh self-talk with words wrapped in kindness. We also talk about the ripple effect of blessing others—even when it's hard—and how small shifts in language create lasting change. Whether you're leading a team, navigating a difficult season, or simply wanting to treat yourself with more grace, this episode offers grounded wisdom for the journey. Because the words we choose truly do write our outcome. What you'll discover: ·        Why the source of your words matters as much as the words themselves ·        How to interrupt negative thought loops and replace them with truth ·        The science behind how positive words affect your brain and even your DNA ·        Why kindness toward yourself is the foundation for kindness toward others ·        Practical exercises to begin shifting your internal dialogue today   TIMESTAMPS 00:00 Words Light a Fire 00:18 I See You 00:33 Finding Joy in Anxiety 01:02 Welcome Dr. Denise Williams 04:19 The Wellspring Meaning 05:49 Two Stories of Survival 08:15 Practice Before Game Day 09:48 Start With What's True 11:02 Look How Capable You Are 13:17 Being Intentional and Deliberate 15:28 Slowing Down to Notice 17:30 A Marriage Transformed 20:59 Peter Plants a Seed 23:58 Why Some Don't Believe 26:59 Strut in Your Heels 29:27 Pleasant Words Heal Bones 33:43 Bless Your Neighbor 41:05 Habits for Brain Health 46:15 Look for the Joy 47:58 Where to Buy the Book 49:13 Stop Saying You're Fine   Books & Resources Mentioned: Wellspring of Words by Dr. Denise A. Williams — Available on Amazon Stop Saying You're Fine by Mel Robbins — Book recommended by Denise Let Them by Mel Robbins — Book mentioned by Denise The Correspondent — Novel mentioned by Michele Lisa Miller — Researcher on spirituality and the brain, author mentioned by Michele Caroline Leaf — Neuroscientist referenced by Denise regarding words and brain function Avatar (film) — Referenced for the phrase "I see you" Proverbs 18:4 — Scripture that inspired the book title   https://key2unlock.com/ https://www.linkedin.com/in/michele-phillips-9409707 https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/write-your-outcome/id1819724499 https://www.facebook.com/129170793830944/ https://www.instagram.com/energizewithmichele/ https://www.amazon.com/Michele-Phillips/e/B00EHZ38T4 https://www.amazon.com/stores/author/B001K8KSQC

  3. 8 Oct

    WHO'S WRITING YOUR LIFE? | Fear, Habit—or You? | with Michele Phillips #19

    Who is writing your life? Is it fear, old habits, or your need for approval? It's a question I've been sitting with for years, and today I want to go deeper into what it truly means to write your outcome. It's not about forcing results or controlling every variable. It's about consciously choosing who you are becoming in the process.        When I was at a workshop with Jack Canfield back in 1997, he said something that has never left me: "The goal isn't the goal. It's who you become in the process." That single idea has shaped my entire approach to life, business, and spirituality. We get so obsessed with the outcome—the job, the money, the relationship—that we forget we're writing a much more important story along the way.         In this solo episode, I'm exploring the three layers of this work: habits that change your behavior, energy that sustains the change, and consciousness that transforms everything. I'll share why two people can use the exact same strategy and get completely different results, and why your state always comes before your strategy. I'll also talk about the approval trap, the control trap, and how to recognize when fear has picked up the pen. Here's what you'll discover in this episode: Why writing your outcome is about direction, not control How to recognize when fear, old wounds, or your childhood is holding the pen The difference between your personality and your soul—and why it matters Why your energy changes everything, from your words to your results A simple practice to reset your nervous system and shift your state The three levels of happiness and how to reach the highest one What it means to live awake and make conscious choices from your higher self   You are writing your outcome every single hour of every single day. The only question is: who's holding the pen?   TIMESTAMPS 00:00 Who's Holding the Pen? 01:09 Beyond Goals and Control 01:56 Who You Become 04:40 When Life Doesn't Cooperate 07:00 Personality and Soul 11:05 Flip the Script 14:07 Spirituality and Perspective 18:48 State Before Strategy 22:53 The Approval Trap 26:29 The Control Trap 28:14 When Fear Takes Over 32:30 Habits, Energy, Consciousness 39:05 Conscious Course Correction 45:33 Who Are You Becoming? 49:33 The Wake-Up Call Books & Resources Mentioned: The Seat of the Soul by Gary Zukav Big Magic by Elizabeth Gilbert The Awakened Brain by Lisa Miller Happiness Is a Habit by Michele Phillips Energize Your Happiness by Michele Phillips Jack Canfield's workshop (Santa Barbara, 1997) Brian Tracy's teaching on the two types of millionaires Michael Singer's teaching: "When your mind runs away, you don't have to go with it." Wayne Dyer's teaching: "Have the goal, but don't be attached to it." Eckhart Tolle's teaching: "Life is the dancer, and we are the dance." The "Footprints in the Sand" poem Oprah's podcast with Mel Robbins   https://key2unlock.com/ https://www.linkedin.com/in/michele-phillips-9409707 https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/write-your-outcome/id1819724499 https://www.facebook.com/129170793830944/ https://www.instagram.com/energizewithmichele/ https://www.amazon.com/Michele-Phillips/e/B00EHZ38T4 https://www.amazon.com/stores/author/B001K8KSQC

  4. 1 Oct

    Listening to Body's Whispers before they Become SCREAMS | Dr. Mamta Bhatt #18

    I've always believed you don't leave your soul in the car when you go to work. This week, I'm joined by someone who has lived that truth in the most remarkable way — Dr. Mamta Bhatt, known as the joyful scientist.    Dr. Bhatt spent over two decades building an executive career in research and product development for Fortune 50 companies, holding a PhD in macromolecular science and completing executive education at Wharton and Harvard Medical School. Then one morning, she couldn't get out of bed. What followed was a years-long journey through chronic fatigue, hormonal imbalances, and digestive issues that conventional medicine couldn't resolve.    Her search led her to study food as medicine, Ayurveda, naturopathy, and eventually to time in a monastery, where she discovered something profound: you can be physically unwell and still choose joy. That moment changed everything.    Today, Dr. Bhatt helps high achievers reclaim their health, energy, and vitality through her RESET protocol — a customized approach rooted in restful sleep, nutrient-dense foods, stress reduction, targeted exercise, and positive thinking. She calls herself a recovering high achiever, and she understands the cost of running on adrenaline instead of alignment.    In this conversation, you'll discover: ●       The early warning signs your body gives before it screams ●       Why sugar is the most inflammatory thing you can consume ●       A simple alternate nostril breathing practice to calm your nervous system ●       The concept of "taste rehab" and how to reset your palate ●       Why joy and physical healing can coexist ●       The power of one minute of gratitude to interrupt your brain's problem-seeking default      Dr. Bhatt's wisdom is both practical and profound. Whether you're running on empty or simply want to live more consciously, this episode will meet you exactly where you are.   TIMESTAMPS  00:00 The Joy of Finding Yourself  00:32 Welcome and Introduction  01:13 Dr. Mamta Bhatt's Story  05:00 Early Warning Signs  06:46 The Monastery Journey  09:45 Reconciling Science and Spirit  10:13 A Humbling Opening Process  12:40 Running on Adrenaline  14:11 The RESET Protocol  18:11 Customizing Your Wellness  18:49 The Three S's for Sleep  22:05 Taste Rehab Explained  24:05 Alternate Nostril Breathing  26:53 Real Food vs. Fake  29:36 Joy and Physical Healing  33:03 Simple Steps to Begin  33:48 Training Your Brain for Joy  36:22 Dr. Bhatt's Offerings  38:13 Final Reflections and Resources Reascoursces https://key2unlock.com/ https://www.linkedin.com/in/michele-phillips-9409707 https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/write-your-outcome/id1819724499 https://www.facebook.com/129170793830944/ https://www.instagram.com/energizewithmichele/ https://www.amazon.com/Michele-Phillips/e/B00EHZ38T4 https://www.amazon.com/stores/author/B001K8KSQC   Learn more about Dr. Mamta Bhatt ·        Dr. Mamta Bhatt's Website: www.drmamtabhat.com ·        Dr. Mamta Bhatt's Email: info@drmamtabhat.com ·        Dr. Mamta Bhatt's Phone/Text: 813-235-3724 ·        Dr. Mamta Bhatt's Instagram: @thejoyfulscientist ·        Book: Recipes for Joy by Dr. Mamta Bhatt ●

  5. 24 Sept

    Women, Wealth, and True Power |with Barbara Huson #17

    I have idolized this woman for years. I've read every book she's written, been coached by her through one of the hardest seasons of my life, and she even included me in her book Rewire for Wealth. So having Barbara Huson on the show feels like a full-circle moment I still can't quite believe happened. Barbara is a leading authority on women, wealth, and power. She's the bestselling author of seven books, including Prince Charming Isn't Coming, Secrets of Six-Figure Women, Overcoming Underearning, Sacred Success, and Rewire for Wealth. She's also a financial therapist and the founder of The Wealth Connection. In this conversation, we go deep into the truth she taught me years ago: problems with money are never about money. They're about our fear of and ambivalence toward power. Barbara shares how she lost nearly everything to her ex-husband's gambling, rebuilt her life, and discovered that real wealth has nothing to do with the amount you make—it's about wellbeing. Here's what you'll discover: Why getting smart about money requires four kinds of work: outer, inner, higher, and deeper How to use her three-step rewiring process—recognize, reframe, respond differently—to shift money fears What unhealed trauma does to your nervous system and your finances The three simple practices that changed her relationship with money: read daily, talk weekly, save monthly Why doing what you fear is the fastest way to build self-esteem and increase your earnings If money has ever felt like a language you can't speak, or if you've quietly believed you're just not "good with money," this episode will meet you exactly where you are and show you another way. TIMESTAMPS                   00:00 Wealth and Wellbeing 00:40 Welcome Barbara Huson 01:16 Meeting a Mentor 03:57 Barbara's Response 04:16 Prince Charming Isn't Coming 04:49 Raised for Rescue 05:14 The Gambling Marriage 07:20 The Vegas Birthday 08:20 Secrets of Six-Figure Women 08:54 Chronic Underearning 10:07 What Shifted 10:14 Six-Figure Surprises 11:52 The Four-Pronged Process 12:01 Inner Work of Wealth 13:04 Facing Money Fears 13:07 Money Is About Power 14:54 The Deeper Work 18:20 Defining True Wealth 19:20 A Quick Pause 20:47 Conditioning Around Money 22:29 Do What You Fear 25:32 Small Risks, Big Shifts 26:41 Trusting the World 27:29 Sacred Success Origins 29:52 Adding the Divine 30:32 Rewire for Wealth 31:03 Losing Interest and Surrendering 36:21 Divine Downloads 37:18 Working With Resistance 38:07 Inner Child Work 38:20 Understanding Trauma 40:02 Defensiveness as Signal 41:22 Moving Through Defensiveness 42:47 Seeing It Differently 43:59 Three Money Practices 47:10 Sacred Success Retreat 48:26 Retreat Details 48:56 Closing Gratitude 49:43 Final Thoughts   Resources https://key2unlock.com/ https://www.linkedin.com/in/michele-phillips-9409707 https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/write-your-outcome/id1819724499 https://www.facebook.com/129170793830944/ https://www.instagram.com/energizewithmichele/ https://www.amazon.com/Michele-Phillips/e/B00EHZ38T4 https://www.amazon.com/stores/author/B001K8KSQC Books by Barbara Huson: Prince Charming Isn't Coming Secrets of Six-Figure Women Overcoming Underearning Sacred Success Rewire for Wealth Resources Mentioned: A Course in Miracles by Helen Schucman The Biology of Belief by Bruce Lipton (mentioned by Michele) Energize Your Happiness by Michele Phillips Barbara Huson's website: barbara-huson.com Sacred Success Retreat (October 22nd, Seattle, WA)

  6. 17 Sept

    A Full Life, Not a Full Calendar | with Michele Phillips #16

    I used to think busyness was proof I was important, needed, successful. Then I realized I was just recreating the same crazy pace I left corporate for—and calling it ambition.      In this solo episode, I'm asking the question I had to ask myself: Why am I so busy? Because a life dominated by urgency, hurry, and constant activity is incompatible with well-being. It just is.      I share what I've learned about the nervous system, the difference between urgent and important, and why rushing through everything—even the beautiful things—robs us of our own lives. I also get honest about grief, guilt, and the moment I finally became okay with where I am.      If you've been running on empty, waiting for permission to slow down, consider this your invitation. Ease isn't laziness. It's evidence of alignment.  Listeners will discover:   Why busyness is not proof of your worth (and what actually is) The warning signs you're in overdrive—and what to do about them How to distinguish urgent from important in daily life Why your soul speaks in silence and what it's trying to tell you Simple practices to begin living with more intention today   TIMESTAMPS 00:00 Why Are You So Busy? 00:24 A Full Calendar, Empty Life 01:28 Busyness Is Not Proof 03:14 Speed Kills Enjoyment 07:38 The Fisherman's Wisdom 09:58 Activity vs. Accomplishment 11:44 Learning How to Be 16:51 Blender Head Returns 17:33 The Future Walk 18:29 Warning Signs of Overdrive 26:04 What Are You Grieving? 27:38 Afraid of Dying with Music Inside 29:07 Your Soul Speaks in Silence 31:43 Busyness Keeps You from Your Life 46:26 The Quality of Your Attention 49:15 Ease Is Not Laziness 50:43 Don't Wish It Were Easier 52:08 Closing: Choose Your Style RESOURCES https://key2unlock.com/ https://www.linkedin.com/in/michele-phillips-9409707 https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/write-your-outcome/id1819724499 https://www.facebook.com/129170793830944/ https://www.instagram.com/energizewithmichele/ https://www.amazon.com/Michele-Phillips/e/B00EHZ38T4 https://www.amazon.com/stores/author/B001K8KSQC

  7. 10 Sept

    Finding Magic in Uncertainty | with John St. Augustine #15

    Some conversations feel less like an interview and more like sitting around a fire, listening to a master storyteller remind you of what's true. This episode with John St. Augustine is one of those. As a conscious leader, it's easy to get caught up in the logical, the planned, and the predictable—but John's life is a testament to what happens when you make room for the things you can't explain. His journey is a wild one, from a recurring dream that wouldn't leave him alone, to an unplanned 300-mile walk, to finding himself in the basement of a concert hall receiving a life-altering message from John Denver. He is a master of weaving the practical with the profound, showing us that trusting your intuition isn't about passivity—it's about taking grounded action, even when you don't have the full picture. In this deeply personal conversation, we connect the dots of his incredible life and the lessons it holds for how we lead our own lives and businesses.   Listeners will discover:   ü  The exact moment John Denver told him "your voice matters" and how that single question changed the entire trajectory of his life. ü  The critical difference between responding and reacting, and how to create space for the path to become clear. ü  Why he traded a definition of "success" for one of "significance," and how that shift can lead to more meaningful work. ü  The story of how he almost said "no" to working with Oprah, and the powerful question she asked that changed his answer. ü  How to look back at your own life to find evidence of your "inner GPS," so you can trust the next intuitive hit. Timestamps 00:00 The Bare Bulb in the Basement: John Denver's Challenge 00:40 Introducing a Masterful Storyteller and Creative Partner 03:52 Early Influences: How WGN, Teddy Roosevelt, and Cousteau Shaped a Life 07:24 A Recurring Dream and the Call to Walk to Chicago 11:21 Moving from Resistance to Response: How the Universe Gets Your Attention 13:32 The Great Mystery: The Choice That Changed Everything 15:58 The Zen of Letting the Mud Settle: Responding vs. Reacting 18:17 Meeting John Denver and the Ripple Effect of a Single Question 24:58 From Cat Box to Center Stage: Saying Yes to the Call 28:14 Shifting from Success to Significance 29:31 The Power of Connecting the Dots: Michele's Serendipitous Story 31:01 Finding Evidence of Your Inner GP 36:03 The Oprah Orbit: Almost Saying No to the Biggest Opportunity of His Life 46:04 Full Circle with Jack Canfield: A Masterclass in Taking Action 48:39 What's Next: Audiobooks, Storytelling, and a Bucket List Anthology   Resources https://key2unlock.com/ https://www.linkedin.com/in/michele-phillips-9409707 https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/write-your-outcome/id1819724499 https://www.facebook.com/129170793830944/ https://www.instagram.com/energizewithmichele/ https://www.amazon.com/Michele-Phillips/e/B00EHZ38T4 https://www.amazon.com/stores/author/B001K8KSQC

  8. 3 Sept

    What If Your Symptoms Are Trying to Tell You Something? | #14

    What if anxiety, disconnection, or emotional overwhelm aren't only symptoms to eliminate—but signals asking you to look deeper? In this episode of Write Your Outcome, Michele Phillips sits down with Dr. Amy Robbins, clinical psychologist, host of Life, Death & the Space Between, and pioneer of spiritually informed therapy, for a fascinating conversation at the intersection of psychology, spirituality, science, intuition, and consciousness. Amy shares the unexpected journey that transformed her understanding of healing. After the death of her beloved aunt, a series of profound experiences—including vivid visitations and messages she couldn't easily explain—challenged everything her traditional psychology training had taught her. Rather than abandoning science, Amy began exploring how psychology and spirituality might actually belong together. In this episode, Michele and Amy explore: Why symptoms can sometimes be signs that something deeper needs our attention What "spiritually informed therapy" actually means How intuition and energetic awareness can complement traditional therapeutic practices Why protecting your own energy matters when you're deeply empathic How signs, synchronicities, and intuitive experiences changed Amy's understanding of life and death Why making space for silence and self-reflection has become increasingly difficult What Amy has learned about fear, trust, and truly living after nearly a decade of conversations about death and consciousness Amy also shares why she believes psychology has become so focused on symptom reduction that we've sometimes lost sight of the soul. Her work isn't about rejecting evidence-based psychology. It's about widening the lens and asking what our anxiety, depression, grief, or disconnection may be inviting us to understand about ourselves. And after years of exploring near-death experiences, mediumship, spirituality, consciousness, and the mysteries we can't always explain, Amy has discovered something unexpected: she's not afraid of dying—she's afraid of missing this life. Because writing your outcome isn't only about deciding where you want to go. Sometimes it begins by becoming curious about the parts of yourself you've been taught to ignore—and trusting that there may be more to who you are than what you can see or prove. About Dr. Amy Robbins Dr. Amy Robbins is a clinical psychologist and Director of Mental Health at Beyond in Chicago. For nearly two decades, she has helped people heal by bridging mind, body, and spirit through traditional psychotherapy, spiritual intuition, and energy psychology. She is also the host of Life, Death & the Space Between, a top spirituality podcast with more than two million downloads, where she explores consciousness, near-death experiences, mediumship, spirituality, and what these mysteries can teach us about living more fully. Amy is also pioneering Spiritually Informed Therapy, a framework designed to help clinicians incorporate spiritual awareness alongside evidence-based psychology while honoring the individual beliefs and experiences of their clients. Connect with Dr. Amy Robbins Website: DrAmyRobbins.com Instagram: @dramyrobbins Podcast: Life, Death & the Space Between For Clinicians: Spiritually Informed Therapy training and therapist directory Workshop: Decoding Everyday Magic, a 90-minute introduction to recognizing signs and synchronicities in everyday life

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Welcome to Write Your Outcome, the podcast where I, Michele Phillips, empower leaders to take control of their personal and professional destinies. Drawing on over 25 years of experience in positive psychology and emotional intelligence within Fortune 100 and 500 companies, I'm here to guide you through the transformative "Write-the-Outcome" method. In each episode, I'll equip you with practical tools, expert tips, and profound insights to craft your path to success. Whether you're navigating workplace challenges, managing emotions, or aiming for higher leadership, this podcast offers actionable strategies to help you stay focused and inspired. Join me as I interview world-class leaders who have mastered the art of creating next-level success for themselves and their teams. Together, we'll explore how writing your outcome empowers you to lead with clarity, resilience, and purpose. The number one person you lead is yourself.