Arise Coaching and Retreats

Hope Kendall

Welcome to the Arise Coaching and Retreats podcast! My name is Hope and I will be your host here on the show. On this podcast, I offer you a shift in perspective so you can reframe the meaning you apply to your life experiences and create a life you love living! Let's Go!

  1. 2 days ago

    062. Sit Allow Discover = S.A.D.

    What if the feeling you've been working so hard to avoid is actually carrying the message you most need to hear? Last episode, we talked about manifesting, and how real change happens when we’re brave enough to look honestly at what’s standing in our way. Next episode, I’m sitting down with Ronni Athay to talk about alchemy: turning lead into gold. So today is the bridge between the two. Today we’re going to talk about the lead. The heavy stuff. The sadness, grief, disappointment, and hurt that most of us would rather skip right past. And I’m going to give you a simple practice I call S.A.D.: Sit, Allow, Discover. Are you ready to learn the tools to engage in your own healing? Join my Light It Up club! We meet every Monday evening on Zoom at 8:30 PM. $29/month, access to recorded videos, pdfs, worksheets, artwork, and my coaching notes. Best of all, connection with like-minded women who come to know and love each other! Resources Brach, T. (2019). Radical Compassion: Learning to Love Yourself and Your World with the Practice of RAIN. Viking. tarabrach.com/rain Bolte Taylor, J. (2008). My Stroke of Insight: A Brain Scientist’s Personal Journey. Viking. (Sit: the 90-second emotional wave.) Lieberman, M. D., et al. (2007). “Putting Feelings Into Words.” Psychological Science, 18(5), 421–428. (Sit: naming emotions.) Hayes, S. C. (2019). A Liberated Mind: How to Pivot Toward What Matters. Avery. (Allow: acceptance in ACT.) Neff, K. (2011). Self-Compassion: The Proven Power of Being Kind to Yourself. William Morrow. self-compassion.org (Allow; Story two.) Wegner, D. M., et al. (1987). “Paradoxical Effects of Thought Suppression.” Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, 53(1), 5–13. Gross, J. J., & Levenson, R. W. (1997). “Hiding Feelings: The Acute Effects of Inhibiting Negative and Positive Emotion.” Journal of Abnormal Psychology, 106(1), 95–103. Schwartz, R. C. (2021). No Bad Parts: Healing Trauma and Restoring Wholeness with the Internal Family Systems Model. Sounds True. (Discover: curiosity toward parts.) David, S. (2016). Emotional Agility. Avery. And TED Talk (2017), “The Gift and Power of Emotional Courage.” ted.com (Discover; quote; Story one.) Crisis support: 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline (U.S.), call or text 988. 988lifeline.org

  2. 5 days ago

    061. What Is the Quantum Realm and Manifesting?

    What if the secret to manifesting the life you want isn't in thinking harder about your dream, but in being brave enough to look at what's standing in it's way? If you've spent any time on social media, you've probably heard someone say that quantum physics proves you can think your dreams into reality. So today we're going to do two things. First, we'll explore what the quantum realm actually is, in plain, simple language. No physics degree required. And second, we'll talk about what manifesting really looks like, and what the research says actually works to build a better life. Join my Light It Up club! Don't continue to be a stranger in your own body. $29/month, meet on Zoom every Monday at 8:30 PM. References Feynman, R. (1965). The Character of Physical Law. MIT Press. Source of the episode quote. Carroll, S. (2019). Something Deeply Hidden: Quantum Worlds and the Emergence of Spacetime. Dutton. An accessible introduction to quantum mechanics. Zurek, W. H. (1991). “Decoherence and the Transition from Quantum to Classical.” Physics Today, 44(10), 36–44. Simons, D. J., & Chabris, C. F. (1999). “Gorillas in Our Midst: Sustained Inattentional Blindness for Dynamic Events.” Perception, 28(9), 1059–1074. Merton, R. K. (1948). “The Self-Fulfilling Prophecy.” The Antioch Review, 8(2), 193–210. Kappes, H. B., & Oettingen, G. (2011). “Positive Fantasies About Idealized Futures Sap Energy.” Journal of Experimental Social Psychology, 47(4), 719–729. Oettingen, G. (2014). Rethinking Positive Thinking: Inside the New Science of Motivation. Current. Free WOOP tool: woopmylife.org Gollwitzer, P. M. (1999). “Implementation Intentions: Strong Effects of Simple Plans.” American Psychologist, 54(7), 493–503.

  3. 9 Oct

    060. Emotions Equal Energy

    What if the feeling you woke up with this morning has already decided what you'll think, say, and do today, and you never agreed to it? Some may roll their eyes at the word "energy" but the science actually says different about the energy, emotion, and thoughts we play on repeat. Now let's take that information and use it to build our identity on purpose. Are you tired of living in survival mode? Join my Light It Up club! $29/month, we meet every Monday via Zoom at 8:30 PM. Books How Emotions Are Made: The Secret Life of the Brain by Lisa Feldman Barrett Awaken the Giant Within by Tony Robbins Super Attractor by Gabrielle Bernstein The Tapping Solution by Nick Ortner, a practical beginner's guide to EFT tapping The Pocket Guide to the Polyvagal Theory by Stephen W. Porges Research Referenced Emotion labeling and the brain: Lieberman, M. D., et al. (2007). "Putting Feelings Into Words: Affect Labeling Disrupts Amygdala Activity in Response to Affective Stimuli." Psychological Science. London taxi driver study: Maguire, E. A., et al. (2000). "Navigation-Related Structural Change in the Hippocampi of Taxi Drivers." Proceedings of the National Academy of Sciences. EFT tapping for PTSD: Church, D., et al. (2023). Systematic review and meta-analysis of Clinical EFT for PTSD. Frontiers in Psychology. frontiersin.org/journals/psychology/articles/10.3389/fpsyg.2023.1195286/full Shark electroreception: "How Shark Electroreceptors Work." Surfer Today. surfertoday.com/environment/how-shark-electroreceptors-work Learn More Lisa Feldman Barrett on emotions and the body budget, The One You Feed podcast: oneyoufeed.net/lisa-feldman-barrett

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Welcome to the Arise Coaching and Retreats podcast! My name is Hope and I will be your host here on the show. On this podcast, I offer you a shift in perspective so you can reframe the meaning you apply to your life experiences and create a life you love living! Let's Go!