The Affair Recovery Podcast

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If your life has been shattered by infidelity, The Affair Recovery Podcast provides the help you need to get unstuck and move forward. Every episode features our expert therapists, each with decades of experience helping people heal and recover. We cut through the confusion around cheating by answering real listener-submitted questions. We tackle the toughest topics head-on, including betrayal trauma, sex, overcoming shame and anxiety, rebuilding trust in the marriage, setting crucial boundaries, navigating kids, forgiveness, faith and so much more. Whether you have been betrayed or unfaithful, whether you’re fighting for your marriage or just fighting for your life, this podcast provides the wisdom and actionable steps you need. Listen in, subscribe and get your life back. 

  1. Ep. 013 | Being Stuck In the Pain, Grief and Loss of the Betrayal

    27 APR

    Ep. 013 | Being Stuck In the Pain, Grief and Loss of the Betrayal

    The pain of infidelity is like no other — and what you do with it shapes the rest of your life. In Episode 13, our expert therapists unpack why time alone doesn't heal this kind of wound and reveal the step most people miss on the path to true healing. Discover why "time heals all wounds" is a myth when it comes to the pain of infidelityLearn about the unique, lonely grief of betrayal — the kind there's no Hallmark card forFind the difference between grieving the loss and actually mourning it — and why one transforms you while the other keeps you stuck👀 WATCH the Episode 📞 +1 (737) 227-5014 Share a question for future episodes ‼️ Take the FREE Affair Analyzer: Understand your situation 🥾 Sign up for the FREE First Steps Bootcamp: Take the first step to heal 👥 Explore Our Courses: Get the support you need to recover ⚠️Disclaimer: Our resources are curated by experts but do not substitute for professional therapy. If you need personalized help, please seek out a qualified therapist or counselor. If you are in crisis, contact emergency services in your area. Transparency note: Some links above and in the comments may be affiliate links, which allow us to continue providing valuable resources for your recovery journey.

    1hr 2min
  2. Ep. 012 | Does Porn Count As Cheating? Rediscovering True Intimacy

    13 APR

    Ep. 012 | Does Porn Count As Cheating? Rediscovering True Intimacy

    If you’ve discovered your spouse is using porn, you might be asking if your pain is valid or if it’s "really" infidelity. You’re not alone. In episode 12, our expert therapists dive into this painful tension. Whether you are struggling with a long-term addiction, a different type of infidelity altogether, or wondering if recovery looks different for porn than a physical affair, we offer a path for you to find true intimacy—perhaps even for the very first time. Hear how porn is a "sanitized" yet still life-shattering form of betrayalDiscover the true impact of porn use on the individual and relationshipFind steps we can all take, regardless of the type of affair, to move towards true intimacy👀 WATCH the Episode 📞 +1 (737) 227-5014 Share a question for future episodes ‼️ Take the FREE Affair Analyzer: Understand your situation 🥾 Sign up for the FREE First Steps Bootcamp: Take the first step to heal 👥 Explore Our Courses: Get the support you need to recover ⚠️Disclaimer: Our resources are curated by experts but do not substitute for professional therapy. If you need personalized help, please seek out a qualified therapist or counselor. If you are in crisis, contact emergency services in your area. Transparency note: Some links above and in the comments may be affiliate links, which allow us to continue providing valuable resources for your recovery journey.

    59 min
  3. Ep. 011 | Is My Spouse Being Honest? Truth, Lies & Polygraphs

    30 MAR

    Ep. 011 | Is My Spouse Being Honest? Truth, Lies & Polygraphs

    Reaching "ground zero" is the only way to build a new relationship after the old one has crumbled—but how do you know if your spouse is finally telling the whole truth? In Episode 11, Peter F Daniels III (MSEE, LCSW-S, CSAT) joins our experts to navigate the complex world of disclosure and discovery, helping both the betrayed and the unfaithful reach a solid foundation and begin rebuilding something new. We explore: The trauma of “trickle truth” and the clinical role of polygraphs in disclosureHow to cope with the trauma of intrusive thoughts and triggersWhat to do if you are wrestling with hidden details or unsure how to divulge the truthPeter F Daniels III (MSEE, LCSW-S, CSAT) is an Affair Recovery Clinical Contributor and dedicated therapist who transitioned into the field following a profound personal and spiritual turning point within his own recovery journey in 2000. Peter is deeply passionate about guiding both men and couples through the complex wreckage of infidelity to find a sense of fullness and hope. In addition to co-owning Therapy Works ATX and founding a long-standing Austin nonprofit for the homeless, he designs specialized therapeutic tools for Emotional Transformation Therapy (ETT) and is polygraph-certified. He longs to see individuals and couples navigate the trauma of betrayal with authenticity and resilience, ultimately helping them live "fully alive". 🌐 Find Peter at his clinical practice: https://www.therapyworksatx.com/ 📞 +1 (737) 227-5014 Share a question for future episodes ‼️ Take the FREE Affair Analyzer: Understand your situation 🥾 Sign up for the FREE First Steps Bootcamp: Take the first step to heal 👥 Explore Our Courses: Get the support you need to recover ⚠️Disclaimer: Our resources are curated by experts but do not substitute for professional therapy. If you need personalized help, please seek out a qualified therapist or counselor. If you are in crisis, contact emergency services in your area. Transparency note: Some links above and in the comments may be affiliate links, which allow us to continue providing valuable resources for your recovery journey.

    1hr 5min
  4. Ep. 010 | The #1 Question: WHY Did the Affair Happen?

    16 MAR

    Ep. 010 | The #1 Question: WHY Did the Affair Happen?

    The question of "WHY" is often the greatest source of anguish for couples reeling from infidelity, yet it can also be the very path toward lasting healing. While you may never fully comprehend every detail, discovering the "why" is a critical step to getting your life and marriage back. In episode 10, we feature a long time friend and fellow Affair Recovery Clinical Contributor, Jessica McDaniel, LPC-S as she and our other therapists unpack:  Understanding the root causes of an affair, allowing the betrayed to find a way to trust againGoing backwards to help the unfaithful avoid relapse by learning from the pastHow both spouses can practice “compassionate curiosity” to understand the WHYJessica McDaniel, LPC-S has partnered with Affair Recovery for over a decade, serving couples at our 3-day EMS Weekend intensives alongside other clinical contributors. She provides support to women and couples who are looking for authentic, gospel- centered growth and change.  Follow Jessica McDaniel, LPC-S: 📸 Instagram: @mcdanielcounseling 🌐 Website: https://www.mcdanielcounseling.com 📞 +1 (737) 227-5014 Share a question for future episodes ‼️ Take the FREE Affair Analyzer: Understand your situation 🥾 Sign up for the FREE First Steps Bootcamp: Take the first step to heal 👥 Explore Our Courses: Get the support you need to recover ⚠️Disclaimer: Our resources are curated by experts but do not substitute for professional therapy. If you need personalized help, please seek out a qualified therapist or counselor. If you are in crisis, contact emergency services in your area. Transparency note: Some links above and in the comments may be affiliate links, which allow us to continue providing valuable resources for your recovery journey.

    50 min
  5. Ep. 009 | You Asked, We Answered: Trauma, Forgiveness & Anxiety

    2 MAR

    Ep. 009 | You Asked, We Answered: Trauma, Forgiveness & Anxiety

    How do you move forward when your marriage feels permanently tainted? Learn to navigate the grief of a shattered past while building a relationship worth staying for. In Episode 9, our experts answer a diverse set of questions:  How to forgive, even when your spouse isn’t willing to do the workThe trap and anxiety of comparing yourself to the affair partnerEstablishing relational safety necessary for recoveryPursuing your own healing even when your spouse refuses to do the work👀 WATCH the Episode 📞 +1 (737) 227-5014 Share a question for future episodes ‼️ Take the FREE Affair Analyzer: Understand your situation 🥾 Sign up for the FREE First Steps Bootcamp: Take the first step to heal 👥 Explore Our Courses: Get the support you need to recover ⚠️Disclaimer: Our resources are curated by experts but do not substitute for professional therapy. If you need personalized help, please seek out a qualified therapist or counselor. If you are in crisis, contact emergency services in your area. Transparency note: Some links above and in the comments may be affiliate links, which allow us to continue providing valuable resources for your recovery journey.

    50 min
  6. Bonus Episode: When You Feel Too Far Gone & Finding a Way Back After Multiple D-Days

    25 FEB

    Bonus Episode: When You Feel Too Far Gone & Finding a Way Back After Multiple D-Days

    In this honest interview, you get to hear from the other half of Candace. Her and her husband’s story is a raw, heart-wrenching journey through years of recovery. From the pain of multiple D-Days and a "fraudulent recovery" to the miraculous rebuilding of their marriage, they are a powerful testament to the possibility of healing even from the basement of rock bottom.  Candace and her husband are a testament to the power of healing in the community. It wasn’t just the information that changed their course but the relationships that came alongside them. If you’ve been missing that critical piece of community, consider joining EMS Online for couples, Hope For Healing for unfaithful spouses, and Harboring Hope for betrayed spouses – all three courses provided critical components of community that were needed to move forward. 📞 +1 (737) 227-5014 Share a question for future episodes ‼️ Take the FREE Affair Analyzer: Understand your situation 🥾 Sign up for the FREE First Steps Bootcamp: Take the first step to heal 👥 Explore Our Courses: Get the support you need to recover ⚠️Disclaimer: Our resources are curated by experts but do not substitute for professional therapy. If you need personalized help, please seek out a qualified therapist or counselor. If you are in crisis, contact emergency services in your area. Transparency note: Some links above and in the comments may be affiliate links, which allow us to continue providing valuable resources for your recovery journey.

    58 min
  7. Ep. 008 | Shame vs. Guilt: Why One Heals and the Other Destroys

    16 FEB

    Ep. 008 | Shame vs. Guilt: Why One Heals and the Other Destroys

    In Episode 8, we confront one of the most destructive forces in post-infidelity healing: shame. Our expert therapists break down the critical difference between guilt (“I did something bad”) and shame (“I am bad”). No matter what drives your intrusive "I'm not enough" thoughts, this episode provides handles to begin bringing shame into the light. We tackle raw listener questions about how to move past the dishonor betrayed spouses experience after discoveryWe discern what to do when shame leads to years of lying, and how to silence the internal voices that keep your recovery in the darkWe explore how to transition from the paralysis of shame into the transformative power of remorse👀 WATCH the Episode 📞 +1 (737) 227-5014 Share a question for future episodes ‼️ Take the FREE Affair Analyzer: Understand your situation 🥾 Sign up for the FREE First Steps Bootcamp: Take the first step to heal 👥 Explore Our Courses: Get the support you need to recover ⚠️Disclaimer: Our resources are curated by experts but do not substitute for professional therapy. If you need personalized help, please seek out a qualified therapist or counselor. If you are in crisis, contact emergency services in your area. Transparency note: Some links above and in the comments may be affiliate links, which allow us to continue providing valuable resources for your recovery journey.

    58 min
  8. Ep. 007 | Six Types of Infidelity: Why the "Type" Changes Everything

    2 FEB

    Ep. 007 | Six Types of Infidelity: Why the "Type" Changes Everything

    Is an emotional affair really "cheating"? Why does "limerence" feel so impossible to break compared to a one-night stand? Does porn count as infidelity? While all of our situations are different, the devastation of betrayal is universal and our experts explain why correctly identifying the type of affair is critical for creating an effective recovery roadmap. Learn about the distinct differences between Emotional Affairs, One-Night Stands, Love Addiction, Sexual Addiction and the often misunderstood concept of Limerence. Discover why the pain is universal regardless of the type of infidelityHear from real listener-submitted questions that can help you discern your way forward.👀 WATCH the Episode  📞 +1 (737) 227-5014 Share a question for future episodes ‼️ Take the FREE Affair Analyzer: Understand your situation 🥾 Sign up for the FREE First Steps Bootcamp: Take the first step to heal 👥 Explore Our Courses: Get the support you need to recover ⚠️Disclaimer: Our resources are curated by experts but do not substitute for professional therapy. If you need personalized help, please seek out a qualified therapist or counselor. If you are in crisis, contact emergency services in your area. Transparency note: Some links above and in the comments may be affiliate links, which allow us to continue providing valuable resources for your recovery journey.

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If your life has been shattered by infidelity, The Affair Recovery Podcast provides the help you need to get unstuck and move forward. Every episode features our expert therapists, each with decades of experience helping people heal and recover. We cut through the confusion around cheating by answering real listener-submitted questions. We tackle the toughest topics head-on, including betrayal trauma, sex, overcoming shame and anxiety, rebuilding trust in the marriage, setting crucial boundaries, navigating kids, forgiveness, faith and so much more. Whether you have been betrayed or unfaithful, whether you’re fighting for your marriage or just fighting for your life, this podcast provides the wisdom and actionable steps you need. Listen in, subscribe and get your life back. 

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  • Creator
    AffairRecovery.com
  • Years Active
    2025 - 2026
  • Episodes
    16
  • Rating
    Clean
  • Copyright
    © 2026 Affair Recovery LLC
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    The Affair Recovery Podcast

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