WHOLE: The Podcast

Christabel Heasman-Cossins
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Achievement is healthiest and most sustainable when it is aligned with meaning, authenticity, values and psychological flexibility. WHOLE: The Podcast explores the stories and psychology behind sustained meaningful achievement, and how people continue evolving despite the inevitable challenges. Hosted by Christabel Heasman-Cossins (performer, presenter, coach and researcher), WHOLE looks beyond surface-level ideas of success to examine how people build meaningful careers, navigate challenge, and continue evolving across creative, professional and athletic fields. Through conversations with individuals from the arts, sport, media and beyond - alongside reflections grounded in academic perspectives on motivation, performance and the self - WHOLE: The Podcast explores what drives people not only to begin a path, but to sustain it. This podcast grew out of the WHOLE Framework - What, Honesty, Ownership, Living It and Evolution - which recognises meaning and purpose as central components of long-term wellbeing and fulfilment. Blending lived experience with psychological insight, WHOLE offers an honest look at the human realities behind achievement, creativity and longevity. To find out more about the WHOLE Framework head to wholecoaching.co.uk Follow on Social Media: @christabelsvoice

  1. The Psychology of Style: Identity, Confidence and Tailoring | Gresham Blake

    6 DAYS AGO

    The Psychology of Style: Identity, Confidence and Tailoring | Gresham Blake

    What does it mean to truly express who you are? In this conversation, I sit down with tailoring duo, Gresham and Fal Blake to explore something that, on the surface, looks like tailoring, but very quickly reveals itself to be something much deeper. Because this isn’t just about style. What struck me in this conversation is that tailoring is not just about clothing, it’s about understanding people. Not in an abstract or theoretical way, but in a very real, intuitive sense. It involves reading someone, getting a feel for who they are. It is about understanding how they want to move through the world, and how they want to feel when they step into a room. There is psychology embedded in the process. We also talk about risk, instinct and the kind of self-belief it takes to build something from nothing, and the absolute authenticity that directs it. We also discuss the 'turning point'. The moment in a life when a decision is made to turn towards greatness, rather than towards what may be immeasurably easier. There’s a moment in the conversation where Gresham describes himself as an “extremist”, someone who felt they would either succeed completely or fail completely. What’s interesting is the evolution of that mindset over time: the movement from extremes into something more nuanced. More integrated. That, to me, is where this conversation really lives. Not just in style, but in evolution. The way we present ourselves to the world is so much part of who we are. It is no surprise that this duo present In how we become. What We ExploreWhy what you wear is not superficial—it’s an expression of identityThe idea that tailoring is less about appearance and more about how you feelThe parallels between tailoring and psychology: reading people, understanding values, building trustThe role of collaboration in creative work—and in self-expressionRisk-taking, instinct, and the reality of building something without certaintyThe tension between freedom and security in creative livesHow identity evolves over time—and what it means to move beyond extremesThe shifting landscape of tailoring, particularly for women, and what that reflects culturallyWhy authenticity—rather than trend—is the only sustainable foundation for style We often think of clothing as something external. Something aesthetic. Something separate from who we are. But what this conversation reveals is that it’s anything but. When what you wear aligns with who you are, something shifts. There’s a sense of ease. Of confidence. Of coherence. And when it doesn’t, we feel it. This episode is really an exploration of that alignment—and what it takes to get there. Takeaways: The act of donning a bespoke suit instills confidence, altering one's posture and demeanor.Tailoring transcends mere fabric manipulation; it embodies elements of psychology and self-identity.The bespoke tailoring process necessitates a profound understanding of the client's personality and preferences.In recent years, societal shifts have led to a greater acceptance of women wearing tailored suits in professional settings.The evolution of tailoring reflects broader fashion trends, yet authenticity remains paramount in personal expression.A tailored suit serves not only as clothing but as a vehicle for self-expression and personal empowerment. Links referenced in this episode: greshamblake.comwholecoaching.co.uk Companies mentioned in this episode: Marks and SpencerVogueGresham BlakeIndian SummerBBC Radio 1

    45 min
  2. The Importance of Values in Purpose, Meaning and Direction | WHOLE: Unpacked

    28 APR

    The Importance of Values in Purpose, Meaning and Direction | WHOLE: Unpacked

    In this WHOLE Unpacked episode, I explore one of the most fundamental drivers of a meaningful life: values. If you’ve ever felt unsure about what you want, disconnected from your current path, or lacking a sense of purpose, this episode will help you understand why. I break down: What values are and how they differ from goalsHow values shape behaviour and decision-makingWhy values conflict—and why that’s part of being humanHow to identify your own core valuesHow meaning emerges from living in alignment with them This episode is about clarity, direction, and building a life that actually reflects what matters to you. Takeaways: Values serve as the organizing principles that guide our behavior and decision-making processes.Identifying and clarifying one’s values is essential for constructing a meaningful and purposeful life.The distinction between values and goals is crucial; values represent directions rather than fixed destinations.A life devoid of values risks becoming reactive, lacking direction, and driven by basic survival instincts.Intrinsic motivation arises from engaging in activities that align with our true values, as opposed to external pressures.Awareness of one’s values allows for personal growth and the pursuit of a fulfilling life aligned with what truly matters. NB: In a section of the podcast the goal was mistakenly used in place of values. This was done in error. Any discussion of universality and benevolence is in relation to values, not goals. Links referenced in this episode: wholecoaching.co.ukAn Overview of the Schwartz Theory of Basic Values: https://scholarworks.gvsu.edu/cgi/viewcontent.cgi?article=1116&context=orpc Self Determination Theory https://selfdeterminationtheory.org/SDT/documents/2000_RyanDeci_SDT.pdf

    21 min
  3. The Lie That You’re “Too Old” to Start Again | WHOLE: Unpacked

    21 APR

    The Lie That You’re “Too Old” to Start Again | WHOLE: Unpacked

    We’re often told, directly or indirectly, that there’s a point in life where it becomes “too late” to start again. In this episode, I explore where that belief comes from, how it shapes the way we see ourselves, and why it doesn’t actually hold up. From real-life examples to psychological ideas like self-stories and identity, I look at how this narrative forms—and why everyday life continually contradicts it. Because the evidence is all around us: people begin again, change direction, and pursue meaningful paths at every stage of life. The question isn’t whether it’s too late. It’s whether you’ve been led to believe that it is. personal growthcareer changemidlife changestarting overself developmentmindsetageismidentitymotivationlife purposepsychological growthreinventionmeaning and purposechange your lifeself belief Takeaways: The pervasive belief that individuals become irrelevant at a certain age is fundamentally flawed.There are numerous examples of individuals who successfully embarked on new careers later in life.The midlife phase often presents an ideal opportunity for personal and professional reinvention.Motivation can wane during challenging times, but establishing a conducive environment can help sustain focus.Self-stories formed in youth can limit perceptions of potential, yet they can be reexamined and transformed.Understanding one’s core values is essential in guiding life changes and new endeavors. Companies mentioned in this episode: WholeWhole coaching.co.ukLila Ann GrayTina TechnoticTina woods

    22 min
  4. Raving at 60 — and Rethinking Midlife: Tina Woods (aka Tina Technotic)

    14 APR

    Raving at 60 — and Rethinking Midlife: Tina Woods (aka Tina Technotic)

    Takeaways: The importance of human connection in modern life has diminished due to technology, necessitating a return to community engagement.Longevity is not only a biological concern but is also deeply intertwined with meaning and purpose in life.Music and dance serve as primal forms of human expression that foster connection and well-being across all ages.Engaging in activities that bring joy and foster relationships is crucial for mental and physical health as one ages. Links referenced in this episode: whole coaching.co.uk Companies mentioned in this episode: Collider HealthLongevity RaveWhole CoachingNikeHuman Exposome ProjectHuman Genome ProjectTeam GB

    47 min
  5. Sally Gunnell OBE: Pressure, Purpose and Life After Gold

    7 APR

    Sally Gunnell OBE: Pressure, Purpose and Life After Gold

    In this episode of WHOLE: The Podcast, Christabel is joined by Olympic gold medallist Sally Gunnell for a powerful conversation on performance, identity, and what it truly means to live with purpose. Sally shares what it takes to compete at the highest level, reflecting on pressure, mindset, injury, and the psychological demands of elite sport. But beyond the medals, this episode explores something deeper: what happens when a defining chapter ends, and how you rebuild a sense of meaning, direction, and self. Together, they explore the role of mental strength, visualisation, and discipline, as well as the transition from peak performance into a new phase of life. Sally also speaks candidly about women’s health, confidence, and her work empowering others through her platform Life’s Hurdles. This is a conversation about more than achievement. It’s about purpose, evolution, and learning how to keep moving forward, aligned with what matters, long after the external markers of success have passed. Takeaways: The internal voice of self-doubt can hinder our ability to pursue our goals effectively, highlighting the importance of mental resilience.Sally Gunnell emphasizes the necessity of self-kindness, advocating for individuals to appreciate their worth and capabilities.The transition from an athletic career to post-sport life requires significant adjustment and the establishment of new goals for personal fulfillment.The significance of visualization and mental preparation in achieving peak performance is paramount, particularly in high-pressure situations.Engaging in strength training is essential for maintaining physical health and mobility as one ages, especially for women.Building a supportive community can greatly enhance one's journey toward health and well-being, fostering accountability and shared experiences. Companies mentioned in this episode: Sally GunnellWholeLife's HurdlesBBCKeely HodgkinsonJason GardnerDale GarlandSteve Greer

    37 min
  6. The Art of Being Seen: Matt Lucas on Turning Difference Into Strength

    31 MAR

    The Art of Being Seen: Matt Lucas on Turning Difference Into Strength

    In this episode, I speak with Matt Lucas, one of the UK’s most recognisable comedians, writers, and performers. We explore how early experiences shape identity and how something as difficult as being laughed at can become a powerful creative advantage. Matt shares how losing his hair as a child, and being the subject of attention and judgment, led him to develop a unique relationship with performance, not just as a career, but as a way of directing how he is seen. We talk about: Turning difference into creative strengthUsing humour to shape attention and connectionThe reality of failure - from silence to being booed off stageWhy not taking yourself too seriously is essentialNavigating public perception and criticismWhat it really takes to build a lasting creative career Matt also shares his honest framework for success: Talent, hard work, and luck; and why you need all threeAs well as a powerful insight: You can’t rely on just one path, you need more than one way forwardThis is a thoughtful, grounded, and often surprising conversation about resilience, identity, and what it really means to sustain a creative life. If you’ve ever felt judged, different, or unsure how to turn your experiences into something meaningful — this episode is for you. Takeaways: The podcast discusses how early experiences shape resilience in individuals, particularly in public life.Matt Lucas shares that his alopecia motivated him to pursue acting as a form of self-expression.The hosts explore the significance of authenticity in creative endeavors and the necessity of hard work.Listeners are encouraged to embrace their unique backgrounds and leverage them to fuel their artistic passions.The importance of diversifying one's skill set in the entertainment industry is highlighted throughout the episode.The conversation emphasizes that talent, hard work, and a measure of luck are essential for success in creative fields. Companies mentioned in this episode: ArsenalLittle BritainShooting StarsCome Fly With MeFantasy Football LeagueDoctor WhoThe Great British Bake OffThe Masked SingerNeighboursEastEndersNespresso

    42 min
  7. Omar: Authenticity, Longevity, and The Art of Being One of One

    24 MAR

    Omar: Authenticity, Longevity, and The Art of Being One of One

    In this episode, I sit down with the legendary Omar to talk about four decades in music, creativity, resilience, authenticity, and what it really takes to build a lasting career. We talk about his 2025 album Brighter the Days, much of which was written during lockdown, and how that period pushed him to adapt by developing his live-streaming setup when touring stopped. Omar reflects on longevity in the music industry, explaining that survival has come from being focused, hard-headed, and committed to making music that feels true to him rather than chasing trends. We also discuss his songwriting process, his distinctive approach to basslines and arrangement, and why musicians are so often drawn to his work. He talks about growing up around music, learning multiple instruments from childhood, recording ideas on tape recorders as a teenager, and developing the sonic instincts that shaped his sound. The conversation moves into deeper territory too: success, fatherhood, mental resilience, AI in music, health, and legacy. Omar speaks openly about being diagnosed with prostate cancer, why early testing matters, and how fitness and Muay Thai have become part of how he looks after himself physically and mentally. Above all, this episode is about staying authentic. Omar’s advice is simple but powerful: work hard, practise your craft, stand out from the crowd, and be fully yourself. Key themes from the conversationAuthenticity and longevity Omar repeatedly returns to the idea that his staying power comes from knowing who he is and refusing to be swayed by fashion, trends, or industry pressure. Creative process He describes songwriting as something that moves through him rather than something he controls mechanically. Some songs arrive quickly; others take years. Musicianship A big part of the discussion centres on the sophistication of his writing, especially his basslines, arrangements, counterpoint, and groove. Adaptability During lockdown, he pivoted into streaming and kept performing, which helped him maintain connection and momentum. Success on his own terms For Omar, success is not yachts or status. It is being able to support his children, keep making music, and continue learning. AI and music He sees AI as both a leveller and a threat: useful in some contexts, but dangerous when it bypasses human craft and the livelihoods of working creatives. Health and discipline He speaks candidly about prostate cancer, the importance of PSA testing, and how Muay Thai supports both his wellbeing and his performance stamina. Takeaways: This podcast episode delves into the essence of constructing a meaningful existence anchored in core values.I had the privilege of conversing with the illustrious musician Omar, whose impact on British soul is profound.We examined the crucial elements necessary for sustaining a creative life, including discipline and resilience.The discussion emphasized the significance of authenticity and individual identity in one's creative journey.Listeners are encouraged to focus on their unique paths rather than engaging in detrimental comparisons with others.The insights provided in this episode serve as a guide for remaining true to oneself amidst the challenges of creativity. Links referenced in this episode: wholecoaching.co.ukomarmusic.co.uk Companies mentioned in this episode: Stevie WonderAngie StoneErykah BaduPaulaIndiaAri LegacyHoney LarryIncognitoDorisTroyBobAndyMarcia GriffithsSoul to SoulCristiano RonaldoEastEndersDanao

    46 min
  8. How to Believe You Can: Self-Efficacy, Confidence, and Growth with Dr Laura Ritchie

    17 MAR

    How to Believe You Can: Self-Efficacy, Confidence, and Growth with Dr Laura Ritchie

    In this episode, I speak with Dr Laura Ritchie about what it really takes to believe in yourself enough to begin. This conversation is especially for people who feel stuck: people who want to grow, change, create, perform, or move towards something meaningful, but who are held back by fear, self-doubt, low confidence, or the feeling that they are not enough. Laura introduces the idea of self-efficacy — the belief that you can do a specific thing — and explains why it is such a vital part of motivation, learning, and achievement. We talk about why some people never begin because the leap from where they are now to where they want to be feels too big, and why the answer is not blind positivity, but learning how to build a path step by step. Together, we explore: what self-efficacy really meanswhy confidence is task-specificwhy wanting something is not always enough on its ownhow to start when you do not yet know the whole routewhy practice is about building reliable pathwayshow to reflect without collapsing into self-criticismhow to separate your identity from your performancewhy growth can unsettle relationships and existing roleshow authenticity helps you build a life that is actually yours This is a warm, intelligent, and deeply practical conversation for anyone trying to become braver, more grounded, and more fully themselves. Dr Laura Ritchie is a chartered psychologist, musician, author, and Professor of Learning and Teaching at the University of Chichester. Her research focuses on psychology, learning, music, and self-efficacy. She is the author of Yes, I Can: Learn to Use the Power of Self-Efficacy, exploring how belief in our abilities shapes motivation, achievement, and personal growth. LinksDr Laura Ritchie https://lauraritchie.com Explore the WHOLE framework https://wholecoaching.co.uk self-efficacy self belief confidence personal growth psychology motivation learning performance psychology authenticity mindset music psychology self development Takeaways: Self-efficacy is fundamentally about one's belief in their capability to perform specific tasks, which is crucial for personal growth and achievement.The journey towards accomplishing a goal often requires the visualization of not just the final destination but also the incremental steps necessary to reach it.It's essential to understand that everyone has unique paths, and one must not compare their journey to that of others, as this can lead to discontent.Effective self-reflection and metacognition are vital for recognizing personal growth and understanding one's skills and limitations in various situations.

    45 min
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Achievement is healthiest and most sustainable when it is aligned with meaning, authenticity, values and psychological flexibility. WHOLE: The Podcast explores the stories and psychology behind sustained meaningful achievement, and how people continue evolving despite the inevitable challenges. Hosted by Christabel Heasman-Cossins (performer, presenter, coach and researcher), WHOLE looks beyond surface-level ideas of success to examine how people build meaningful careers, navigate challenge, and continue evolving across creative, professional and athletic fields. Through conversations with individuals from the arts, sport, media and beyond - alongside reflections grounded in academic perspectives on motivation, performance and the self - WHOLE: The Podcast explores what drives people not only to begin a path, but to sustain it. This podcast grew out of the WHOLE Framework - What, Honesty, Ownership, Living It and Evolution - which recognises meaning and purpose as central components of long-term wellbeing and fulfilment. Blending lived experience with psychological insight, WHOLE offers an honest look at the human realities behind achievement, creativity and longevity. To find out more about the WHOLE Framework head to wholecoaching.co.uk Follow on Social Media: @christabelsvoice

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  • Creator
    Christabel Heasman-Cossins
  • Years Active
    2025 - 2026
  • Episodes
    17
  • Rating
    Clean
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    © Copyright 2026 Christabel Heasman-Cossins
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