That Bitch

Kim Arneson
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That Bitch is the podcast about becoming her. Real conversations about the moments that made you who you are. The obstacles, the pivots, the choice to say I deserve better and then actually do something about it. The full messy path to choosing your highest vision again and again. For the woman who’s done playing small and living like she’s a big deal because she knows we are all so much more capable than we’ve been told. That bitch didn’t happen overnight, but she was always on her way.

Episodes

  1. 2 days ago

    Your Niceness Is Costing You Millions

    Your niceness is not a virtue — it's a tax you're paying on your potential. In this episode, Kim gets real about the sneaky way that people-pleasing, sugarcoating, and "keeping the peace" is literally robbing you of millions — whether you're an entrepreneur, a corporate VP, or anywhere in between. This isn't about being harsh. It's about being honest enough to actually help people grow — and being bold enough to show up the same way for yourself. Kim also shares a raw, unexpected story about a baby bird, a tornado warning, and what it reminded her about life, loss, and why chasing your highest potential isn't optional — it's the only response to how hard life already is. HIGHLIGHTS → Why "be kind" culture is actually keeping women small and broke → The difference between real kindness and toxic pacification → How staying quiet in the boardroom (or DMs) is costing your team real money → Why the hardest things you've ever heard made you who you are → Kim's baby bird story — and what the circle of life has to do with your income → Why chasing your potentiality isn't selfish — it's survival 0:00 Intro — Are You Ready to Be That Bitch? 1:30 The concept: your niceness is costing you millions 3:45 What "being kind" actually looks like vs. what we've been told 6:00 Why sugarcoating someone's situation is robbing them of growth 8:30 Kim's kink: watching people become self-actualized 10:15 The corporate angle — how staying quiet tanks your team and your career 13:00 Service providers and entrepreneurs: the injustice of not speaking up 15:30 Life is harsh — the storm, the nest, and the baby bird 21:00 Circle of life — and why Kim cried anyway 24:30 What hardship actually has to do with chasing your potential 27:00 More money = more choices when life gets hard 29:30 Pacifying people is an epic disservice — the real cost of niceness Also search: Why being too nice is hurting your business How to stop people-pleasing as a woman entrepreneur Radical honesty in business and leadership Why nice women don't make more money 📲 Join the free Money Making Queens Telegram 📱 Follow Kim @kimarneson 🎧 Listen on Apple Podcasts · Spotify · YouTube #ThatBitchPodcast #MoneyMakingQueens #WomenInBusiness #PeoplePleasing #RadicalHonesty #MoneyMindset #WomenEntrepreneurs #BusinessCoach #SelfActualization #ThatBitch SEO Keywords: being too nice in businesspeople pleasing costing you moneyradical honesty women entrepreneurshow to stop sugarcoating in businesswomen leadership and speaking upmoney mindset for womenself-actualization and wealthnice girl syndrome businesshow to be more direct in businesswomen's empowerment podcast ALT TITLES FOR YOUTUBE SEO How Being Too Nice Is Sabotaging Your Business and Career Why Kind Women Stay Broke: The Truth Nobody Tells You Stop Playing Nice: How Radical Honesty Builds Wealth Being Too Nice in Business Is Costing You Money — Here's Why

    26 min

  2. 17 Jun

    Remi Gutteridge on Brand Strategy, Disruptive Businesses, & Trusting Your Soul Path

    Remi Gutteridge is the founder of Disruptive Studios and a brand strategist for high-level female founders who want to be respected, remembered, and in demand. Over eight years she scaled two multiple six-figure businesses and in the last year alone hit upwards of £400K, became an international speaker, and took her brand to the US stage. She turned down every uni offer, bet on herself with zero roadmap, and ended up sitting beside one of the UK's biggest entrepreneurs before she even knew what she was building. Now? Remi Gutteridge runs Disruptive Studios, hit upwards of £400K last year, flew to the US multiple times, and made her international speaking debut — all from a brand she built from scratch. Kim and Remi get into the real that bitch moments — not just the highlight reel ones, but the ones that happened years before anyone was watching. The decision to skip uni when everyone around you is going. The internship that dropped you next to a Dragon's Den entrepreneur. The overnight thought that finally got you out of your own way. This episode is for the woman who knows she was never meant to be employed by anyone — she just hasn't fully claimed it yet. We cover: • Why Remi turned down every university offer — and what happened because of it • The internship that put her in the room with one of the UK's top entrepreneurs • How she scaled two multiple six-figure businesses over eight years • Why some people are just born to be entrepreneurs — and what to do when you know you're one of them • The expander effect: how proximity to the right people rewires what you believe is possible • The overnight mindset shift in February that unlocked everything • Why "no one is coming to save you" is actually the most liberating thing you can hear • What it means to build a brand that doesn't just look disruptive — but moves people and drives revenue 0:00 Intro 1:45 Meet Remi Gutterage — creative director, brand strategist, founder of Disruptive Studios 3:00 The that bitch moment that changed everything (and why it wasn't actually the first one) 4:45 Born to be an entrepreneur — why no job ever felt right 5:30 The decision to skip university when all your friends are going 7:10 What the butterfly effect actually means for your business decisions 8:00 The once-in-a-lifetime internship with a Dragon's Den entrepreneur 9:45 Getting bossed around, having no voice — and why it was still worth it 10:20 Soul path decisions and how the universe rewards them 10:50 Expanders: how proximity to the right people rewires your brain Also search: How to build a personal brand as a female founder Brand strategy for women coaches and consultants How to go from unknown to in-demand as a business owner Entrepreneur story skipping college and succeeding Disruptive branding for female entrepreneurs 📲 Follow Remi @remigutteridge Disruptive Studios 📲 Join the FREE Money Making Queens Telegram 📱 Follow Kim @kimarneson 🎧 Listen on Apple Podcasts · Spotify · YouTube SEO Key Words: how to build a personal brand as a female founderbrand strategy for women coaches and consultantsdisruptive branding for female entrepreneurshow to go from unknown to in demandentrepreneur story no degreeskipping college to build a businessmultiple six figure brand strategyfemale founder brand building UKhow to become a recognized brand in your nichemindset shifts for women entrepreneurs

    1 hr

  3. 10 Jun

    Nothing Is Off The Table: How That Bitch Lives In The Land Of Limitless

    That bitch doesn't limit herself. Full stop. In this episode, Kim breaks down the exact mindset shift that separates the women who have everything on the table from the ones who keep hitting invisible walls — and why your brain's obsession with linear thinking is the thing quietly killing your results. This one hits different if you've ever talked yourself out of an opportunity before it even had a chance to show up. HIGHLIGHTS → Why your brain is a limiting machine — and how to override it → The difference between linear thinking and living in the land of potentiality → The real story of how Kim sold an in-person VIP experience she never even posted about → Why the coaches and mentors around you either expand you or cap you → What it actually feels like to live with nothing off the table → How energetic barriers form when you decide something isn't available to you 0:00 Intro 1:20 What it means to live in the land of potentiality 3:45 Why your brain defaults to linear thinking — and why that's the problem 6:30 How limiting beliefs act as energetic roadblocks 9:00 The in-person VIP story: How Kim sold an offer she never posted about 13:15 Why you don't need bells and whistles to make it happen 15:40 That bitch doesn't follow a script — she stays open 18:00 Who you surround yourself with either limits or expands you 21:10 Holding tried-and-true business practices at arm's length 24:00 What it actually looks like to live your dream life right now Also search: Limitless mindset for women entrepreneurs How to stop blocking your own success Linear thinking versus open mindset in business How to attract opportunities without a sales funnel Mindset shifts for women building a business 📲 Join the free Money Making Queens Telegram 📱 Follow Kim @kimarneson 🎧 Listen on Apple Podcasts · Spotify · YouTube #ThatBitchPodcast #MoneyMakingQueens #LimitlessMindset #WomenEntrepreneurs #MindsetShift #BusinessMindset #WomenInBusiness #ThatBitch #MoneyMindset #Potentiality Alt Titles for YouTube SEO How to stop thinking small and start living in limitless possibility Why linear thinking is blocking your money and business growth Limitless mindset for women entrepreneurs who want it all How to get out of your own way and create the life you actually want

    27 min

  4. 3 Jun

    How to Break Free From Generational Trauma and Build Wealth as a First-Gen Woman With Sumaya Ahmed

    Sumaya Ahmed was supposed to become a doctor. She had the degrees — undergrad in Psych and Bio, a master's from Harvard — and the work ethic of someone who'd been adulting since age three. As an eldest daughter to Bangladeshi immigrants in Queens, she wasn't just a kid. She was a translator, a caretaker, a proxy for her parents in every room that mattered. And then she burned out so hard she was hospitalized three times with heart attack-like symptoms in her twenties. The wake-up call? Watching a 42-year-old man — healthy by every measure — die of a stress-induced heart attack in the hospital bed next to her. That was the moment Samaya stopped performing the life she was supposed to want and started building the one she actually needed. Now she's a hypnotherapist and manifestation mentor helping thousands of high-achieving women break free from generational survival cycles through her signature Renaissance Method. She's 32. And she's just getting started. Kim and Samaya get into: • What it actually means to be parentified as an eldest daughter — and how it secretly shapes your relationship with money and achievement • The moment in a Boston hospital that completely rewired Sumaya's vision for her life • Why high-achieving women are often the most stuck — and how survival mode masquerades as ambition • How Sumaya pivoted from eight years in medicine to building a business rooted in purpose and healing • The generational patterns that keep first-gen women overworking, over-giving, and undercharging • What the Renaissance Method actually is and why it works when nothing else has This one is going to hit different if you've ever felt like you've done everything right and still feel trapped. 📲 Join the free Money Making Queens Telegram 📱 Connect with Kim 📱Connect with Sumaya Also search: Eldest daughter burnout and business First generation immigrant women entrepreneurship How to break generational trauma cycles Leaving medicine to start a coaching business Hypnotherapy for high-achieving women Manifestation mentor for women of color 0:00Intro — Meet Sumaya Ahmed, hypnotherapist and manifestation mentor 1:00Growing up as an eldest daughter to Bangladeshi immigrants in Queens 2:00Being parentified at age 3 — translating, adulting, and earning love through achievement 3:30The NYC specialized high school grind and the pressure to achieve from day one 4:00Kim's take: how your hardest childhood moments made you that bitch 5:10Sumaya's reflection on her young self — and what she sees now as a mom 5:50The pivot point: heart attack symptoms in her 20s while working 60-hour weeks 6:30Harvard, a full-time hospital job, part-time shifts, grad school at night — all at once 7:00Her mother's breast cancer diagnosis and traveling Boston to New York every week for 2.5 years 7:50Hospitalized three times — and the moment that changed everything 8:20The 42-year-old man who died of a stress-induced heart attack in the next hospital bed 9:10Kim's breakdown: why that bitch moments have nothing to do with your degrees 9:40Recognizing what was really happening in medicine — and why Sumaya had to leave 10:30The real reason she stayed so long: a genuine drive to help people heal

    54 min

  5. 27 May

    That Bitch Moves: What it Actually Takes to Build Success (No Rose-Colored Glasses)

    Stop putting successful women on a pedestal — because Kim's about to tell you what's actually on the other side of that highlight reel. In this episode, Kim gets brutally honest about what 'that bitch moves' really look like: the six months she dicked around and made only $700, the $40K/month she was earning while her energy was completely tanked, and why seven and eight-figure entrepreneurs are still scared, still struggling, and still figuring it out — just like you. This is the sermon you didn't know you needed before you could actually make moves. HIGHLIGHTS → Why romanticizing someone else's success is literally keeping you broke → The pedestaling problem: how putting other women above you creates a disconnect your brain can't close → Kim's real talk: making $40K/month while in a full-on rut → What actually separates 7-figure women from where you are right now (it's not luck) → The six months Kim spent dicking around — and the moment she called herself out → Why 'just be authentically you' is incomplete advice and what you actually need → How to quantum leap your timeline by putting yourself on the same playing field → The $20K month that came from finally getting her head out of her ass → Why your existing business acumen is worth more than you think 0:00 Intro — Ready to Be That Bitch? 1:30 The caveat: what you're actually seeing online vs. reality 4:15 Kim's confession: making $40K/month in a complete rut 7:00 Stop pedestaling success — here's what it's actually costing you 10:30 The truth about 6, 7, and 8-figure entrepreneurs (fear, shame, and all of it) 14:00 They didn't have it easier — they just made different choices 17:15 That bitch move #1: get your head out of your ass 19:45 Kim's first 6 months online: $700 and a lot of dicking around 23:00 The group investment that reactivated everything 26:30 The $20K cash month and what actually caused it 29:00 Remembering your own business acumen Also search: How to stop comparing yourself to successful entrepreneurs What it actually takes to build an online business Women entrepreneurs who made it — the real story How to quantum leap your business timeline 📲 Join the free Money Making Queens Telegram 📱 Follow Kim @kimarneson 🎧 Listen on Apple Podcasts · Spotify · YouTube #ThatBitchPodcast #MoneyMakingQueens #WomenEntrepreneurs #OnlineBusiness #MindsetShift #ThatBitch #BusinessGrowth #FemaleFounders #MoneyMindset #RealTalk

    34 min

  6. 20 May

    Anna Rodgers on Delusional Self-Belief: How to Build a Business When the System Isn't Built For You

    Anna Rodgers on Delusional Self-Belief: How to Build a Business When the System Isn't Built For You Scheduled May 20•E4 She Was Told She Wasn't White Enough to Teach — Then Became the Principal: Anna Rogers on Delusional Self-Belief & Building Millions Online She worked four years for a teaching degree, walked into her boss's office ready to level up — and was told she'd never be hired because of the color of her skin. Most people would have accepted it. Anna Rogers quit, moved to a tiny island, and became the principal of a different school a year later. Then saved $10,000 over six years, bought a one-way ticket, and never looked back. Anna is a storytelling expert, soon-to-be published author, founder of four businesses, and someone who has made millions online, sold one company, and traveled to over 52 countries. She helps women unlearn the good girl conditioning that keeps them playing small — and this conversation is one you need to hear. Kim and Anna get into the defining moments that could have broken her, why hard work alone isn't the great equalizer, and what it actually looks like to take radical ownership when life is not handing you a head start. HIGHLIGHTS → The moment Anna was told she wasn't white enough to be hired — and what she did next → Why hard work alone isn't the great equalizer (and what actually is) → How she went from $320/month to becoming a school principal at 23 → Saving $10,000 over six years while working 13-hour days — and spending it all on one year of travel → Life happens FOR you, not TO you — what that actually means when you're in the thick of it → What good girl conditioning looks like and how it keeps women stuck → The delusional self-belief that built Anna's multimillion-dollar life 0:00 Intro & Anna Rogers' background 2:10 The moment Anna was told she wasn't white enough to teach 4:37 Why hard work isn't the great equalizer — and the choice Anna made 6:12 Quitting her job and moving to a tiny island in the Philippines 7:28 The plot twist: becoming the principal at 23 8:17 Life happens FOR you — Anna's philosophy explained 9:14 Kim's story: from destined-to-be-broke to choosing something different 10:23 Saving $10K over six years on $1,000/month and buying a one-way ticket 13:00 What good girl conditioning actually is and how it shows up 16:00 Traveling 52+ countries and discovering a different way to live 19:00 How Anna started her first online business 23:00 Making millions, selling a business, and what she knows now 27:00 Storytelling as a business superpower — why your story is your strategy 32:00 Unlearning the 'graduate, marry, buy a house' script 36:00 What delusional self-belief actually requires of you 40:00 Anna's advice to the woman who feels stuck right now 44:00 The That Bitch question: when did you know you were her? Also search: How to build a business when the system isn't built for you Delusional self-belief women entrepreneurs Good girl conditioning unlearning how to stop playing small Anna Rogers storytelling expert podcast Women who built millions online from nothing 📲 Join the free Money Making Queens Telegram → 📱 Follow Kim @kimarneson 📱 Follow Anna @heyannarodgers 🎧 Listen on Apple Podcasts · Spotify · YouTube

    38 min

  7. 13 May

    What Would That Bitch Do? How to Command Any Room and Own Your Energy

    You don't have to feel like that bitch to be that bitch. Kim is recording this episode bloated, broken out, on her period, and fresh off a text to her husband that said "I hate everything." She also had a $5,000 cash day. Here's how. In this episode, Kim breaks down the one question that shifts everything — What Would That Bitch Do? — and why becoming your most magnetic, powerful self isn't about doing more work on your energy. It's about making a fucking choice. HIGHLIGHTS → Why Kim texted her husband "I hate everything" right before recording this episode → WWTBD — the new WWJD that will change how you make every decision → Why frequency isn't hard work — it's a choice you make right now → How Kim had a $5K cash day on her worst feeling day → Why you'd be a "douche canoe" if you weren't activated by your own story → The real reason you're not commanding the room yet (it's not confidence — it's respect) → Why shutting up about who you've become is actually doing yourself dirty 0:00 Intro — Real talk before we start 1:30 The text Kim sent her husband right before recording 3:15 You don't have to feel like that bitch to be that bitch 5:00 WWTBD — What Would That Bitch Do? 7:45 How Kim's clients use this question when she's not around 9:20 Envisioning the most powerful version of you right now 11:30 Why walking into a room differently isn't incremental — it's immediate 13:00 Frequency is a choice, not a grind 15:15 The $5K cash day she had while feeling like poop 17:00 Why you need to be activated by your own damn self 19:30 The respect you owe your story and your journey 21:45 Why staying quiet about who you've become is the real problem Also search: How to show up with confidence when you don't feel like it How to have magnetic energy as a woman entrepreneur How to embody your most powerful self on your worst days Mindset for women in business who want to command any room 📲 Join the free Money Making Queens Telegram 📱 Instagram 🎧 Listen on Apple Podcasts · Spotify · YouTube #ThatBitchPodcast #MoneyMakingQueens #WomenInBusiness #MindsetForEntrepreneurs #FemaleEntrepreneur #BusinessMindset #ConfidenceForWomen #EnergyShift #WomenWhoLead #ThatBitch

    29 min

  8. 13 May

    How to Make Bold Moves in Business Before You Feel Ready

    You're not ready. You're never going to be ready. And that's exactly why you need to do it anyway. In this episode, Kim pulls back the curtain on the exact mindset shift that separates the women who blow up their business from the ones still waiting for the "right time." She shares the raw, real story of betting $1,800 she didn't have on a coach who turned out to be trash — and making $20,000 that month anyway. Not because of the coach. Because she finally put skin in the game. This isn't a hype episode. It's a truth bomb. Because if you're waiting until you have the bandwidth, the money, the evidence, the perfect timing — you are going to be waiting forever HIGHLIGHTS → Why "I'm not ready" is a lie your brain tells you to keep you safe (and small) → The niggle you keep ignoring — and why it won't shut up for a reason → Kim's $1,800 investment in a coach who taught masturbation as a business strategy (yes, really) → How she made $20,000 the month she stopped dicking around → What skin in the game actually means — and why it changed everything → The client results Kim has witnessed: $8K to $100K months, $300K to $785K years, first 7- and 8-figure earners → Why the women who become "that bitch" all have one thing in common: they moved before they felt ready 0:00 Intro — Are You Ready to Be That Bitch? 1:10 The lie your brain tells you about timing and readiness 3:20 The niggle: that thing inside you that won't shut up 5:45 Fear of judgment and what Kim was really afraid of when she went online 8:30 The postpartum client story — nuance, capacity, and when it IS about timing 10:15 Kim's origin story: entering the online space with zero clue what Instagram was 13:00 The $700 she made in her first six months (and why that counts) 14:20 The moment she told her husband: "I need to get in a room" 16:00 The $3,600 investment she couldn't afford — and the coach who was full of shit 19:10 What the coach actually taught (masturbation. as. strategy.) 20:30 Making $20,000 anyway — and what actually caused it 22:45 Launching the Embodied Soul: 6 people, $2,500 each, $20K month 25:00 The client results Kim has witnessed up close 27:30 What every wildly successful woman has in common: the That Bitch Move 29:45 2025, two cars crapping out in the same week, and doing it anyway Also search: How to make bold moves in business before you feel ready Overcoming fear of judgment as a woman entrepreneur How to bet on yourself when money is tight Women entrepreneurs taking risks before they're ready Mindset shifts for women building online businesses 📲 Join the free Money Making Queens Telegram 📱 Follow Kim on Instagram → @kimarneson 🎧 Subscribe on Apple Podcasts · Spotify · YouTube so you never miss an episode

    23 min

  9. 12 May

    That Bitch isn't an Attitude, It's an Economic Decision

    Welcome to the very first episode of That Bitch and Kim is not coming in quiet. In this raw, unfiltered debut, Kim Arneson pulls back the curtain on the story behind her brand, her $500K cash year in 2025, and the identity work that makes all the business strategy actually stick. She breaks down why becoming "that bitch" isn't an attitude, it's an economic decision and why your childhood, your trauma, and the cards you were handed have absolutely nothing to do with what you're capable of building. Kim shares for the first time the full story of growing up with a father with schizoaffective disorder, a home defined by fear, chaos, and fight-or-flight — and how she went from questioning her own right to exist to becoming a business mentor with a reputation that commands five-figure clients from a two-minute DM conversation, with just over 1,000 followers. This episode is the foundation. If you've been telling yourself you can't have what you want because of where you started, this one will crack that wide open. HIGHLIGHTS → Why becoming "that bitch" is an economic decision first → How Kim built a $500K business with just over 1,000 followers → The "that bitch identity" work Kim does with every single client first → Growing up with a father with schizoaffective disorder — the real story → How childhood trauma creates the "I'm not enough" core wound in business → Why your sad story is not your ceiling → Dissociating through your 20s and still building something extraordinary → The moment Kim stopped questioning whether she deserved good things 0:00 Intro — Welcome to That Bitch 1:10 What "that bitch" actually means (it's not what you think) 2:45 Kim's background: 15+ years in business, $500K in 2025 with 1K followers 5:00 Why Kim built this podcast — the philosophy behind it 7:20 The "that bitch identity" work and why it comes first 9:00 Your sad story — and why Kim has one too 11:15 Lemon moments: when it feels like God is punishing you 13:00 Growing up with a father with schizoaffective disorder 17:30 Being woken up screaming at 1am — the real childhood Kim lived 21:00 Middle-of-the-night evacuations and walking to the bus stop like nothing happened 25:00 Conversations at 5 years old about whether your dad might kill you 28:30 The imposter wound — being told you're not who you say you are 32:00 "I'm not enough" — the core wound born from this childhood 35:00 A mom who coped by working 60-70 hours a week 38:30 Growing up with parents who were terrible with money Alternative SEO Titles How to become a successful entrepreneur after trauma Building a business with a small following and making 500K Childhood trauma and entrepreneurship How to build a high-ticket coaching business from scratch That bitch identity work for women entrepreneurs 📲 Join the free Money Making Queens Telegram — your people are already in there 📱 Follow Kim on Instagram 🎧 Subscribe on Apple Podcasts · Spotify · YouTube — and leave a review if this hit home

    46 min
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That Bitch is the podcast about becoming her. Real conversations about the moments that made you who you are. The obstacles, the pivots, the choice to say I deserve better and then actually do something about it. The full messy path to choosing your highest vision again and again. For the woman who’s done playing small and living like she’s a big deal because she knows we are all so much more capable than we’ve been told. That bitch didn’t happen overnight, but she was always on her way.

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