UNPROCESSED

Chef Aran Goldstein

Unprocessed with Chef Aran Goldstein. Michelin-trained chef turned school cook. Aran left restaurant life because he couldn't stomach what the system was feeding kids. Now he's helping parents get back in the kitchen, nourish their families, and slow down around the table. Each week he talks with thought leaders who are done waiting for permission to live differently. Sharpen your knives and your focus. Let's get cooking. 🥩 Join the *What Feeds Us* community on Substack for recipes, reflections, and real conversation. 👉 https://chefarangoldstein.substack.com/ chefarangoldstein.substack.com

Episodes

  1. 2 days ago

    Become the Man Your Family Needs | Greg Denning

    I’m so excited to share another episode of Unprocessed with you. Today’s conversation is with Greg Denning, author of The Formidable Family Man, father of seven, and someone who has spent decades intentionally building the kind of family life he wished he had growing up. Greg moved out on his own at 16, and during some of his loneliest years, he made a decision: if he ever had a family of his own, he was going to be an incredible dad. What followed was a commitment to working on himself, confronting his own insecurities and temper, and becoming the kind of man he wanted his children to have as an example. In this conversation, we get into why becoming a great father starts with working on yourself, how emotional strength and resilience are built through the challenges we face, and why our kids learn so much more from what we do than what we tell them. Greg shares how he and his wife have built a life around travel, fitness, adventure, faith, and raising seven capable, curious kids who are encouraged to discover their own paths. We talk about traveling the world as a family, making movement and doing hard things part of everyday life, and finding ways to encourage our kids without forcing them to be someone they’re not. Greg shares why he believes struggle is an essential part of growth, how the habits and patterns we develop shape the people we become, and why the work we do on ourselves can have an impact that reaches far beyond us. One of my favorite moments is when Greg describes the kind of life he wants to build, saying: “I don’t wanna be a businessman with a family. I wanna be a family man with a business.” There’s something powerful about that distinction. What would change if we built our lives around the things that matter most, rather than trying to fit them into whatever time and energy we have left? This is a conversation about fatherhood, personal responsibility, and creating a life that reflects your values. More than anything, it’s a reminder that building the family and life you want starts with becoming the person who can help create them. 👥 Join the What Feeds Us community on Substack for recipes, reflections, and real conversation. 👉 https://chefarangoldstein.substack.com/ 📱 Follow along on Instagram for more of the day to day. 👉 @chefarangoldstein #UnprocessedPodcast #GregDenning #TheFormidableFamilyMan #Fatherhood #PersonalGrowth #FamilyLife #EmotionalResilience This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit chefarangoldstein.substack.com/subscribe

    Become the Man Your Family Needs | Greg Denning
  2. 29 Sept

    Why Therapy Isn’t Changing the Pattern | Heather Elliott

    I’m so excited to share another episode of Unprocessed with you. Today’s conversation is with Heather Elliott, founder of Mindful Change and creator of 5D Psychology. Heather trained in traditional psychology and spent years as a teacher before stepping away to follow a different path, one that looks beneath the surface of our thoughts and emotions to understand the beliefs that are actually shaping our lives. I had a session with Heather before we recorded this conversation, and it stayed with me. There’s something about the way she works that gets underneath the story you think you’re dealing with and starts asking a much deeper question: what is the belief underneath it? In this conversation, we go deep into the conditioning we pick up from our parents, our families, school, and society, and how those voices can quietly become the stories we carry around with us. Heather explains how emotions can be the surface of something much deeper, and why changing the underlying belief can change the pattern itself. We talk about why people can spend years trying to understand themselves and still find themselves repeating the same patterns, the difference between knowing your story and actually changing it, and the strategies we develop to protect beliefs about ourselves that may no longer serve us. There are some pretty big questions in this one. What if the things limiting us aren’t actually who we are? What if so much of what we believe about ourselves was learned before we were old enough to question it? Heather is a badass, deeply thoughtful, and just so cool. I loved this conversation, and I think there’s a lot in here to sit with. 👥 Join the What Feeds Us community on Substack for recipes, reflections, and real conversation. 👉 https://chefarangoldstein.substack.com/ 📱 Follow along on Instagram for more of the day to day. 👉 @chefarangoldstein #UnprocessedPodcast #HeatherElliott #5DPsychology #Psychology #SelfAwareness #PersonalGrowth This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit chefarangoldstein.substack.com/subscribe

    Why Therapy Isn’t Changing the Pattern | Heather Elliott

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Unprocessed with Chef Aran Goldstein. Michelin-trained chef turned school cook. Aran left restaurant life because he couldn't stomach what the system was feeding kids. Now he's helping parents get back in the kitchen, nourish their families, and slow down around the table. Each week he talks with thought leaders who are done waiting for permission to live differently. Sharpen your knives and your focus. Let's get cooking. 🥩 Join the *What Feeds Us* community on Substack for recipes, reflections, and real conversation. 👉 https://chefarangoldstein.substack.com/ chefarangoldstein.substack.com