123 episodes

Lalalaletmeexplain is here to answer all YOUR questions around love, dating, sex, and relationships. Her unfiltered advice is not only candid and insightful, but she delivers you tough love when needed. Having swam the depths of the dating pool herself, Lala’s advice comes from a place of experience and expertise.

On Mondays Lala will be addressing a hot topic of the week, whether it’s a discussion around female misogyny blowing up your timeline or the arguments around Sex Education in schools that’s splashed across the headlines. Wednesdays she’s tackling your issues and conundrums around love, sex and relationships and on Fridays Lala will be diving into your dating dilemmas, red flag alerts, instant ick reactions and sharing her weekend reminders. And twice a month she’ll be joined by a guest to deliberate your questions.

Lala is the author of the best-selling dating guide Block, Delete, Move On, OK Mag’s resident agony aunt, a sexual health and relationship educator and she’s a social worker with over a decade of experience in child safeguarding and child protection. It's Not You, It's Them...But it Might Be You is the trustworthy, down to earth advice that you've been waiting for!

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To get in touch please DM Lala in instagram @asklalalaletmeexplain.

And if you would like to read more from Lala follow the link for her weekly OK Mag column. https://www.ok.co.uk/authors/Lalalaletmeexplain/

It's Not You, It's Them...But It Might Be You with LalalaLetMeExplain Sony Music Entertainment

    • Society & Culture
    • 4.9 • 302 Ratings

Lalalaletmeexplain is here to answer all YOUR questions around love, dating, sex, and relationships. Her unfiltered advice is not only candid and insightful, but she delivers you tough love when needed. Having swam the depths of the dating pool herself, Lala’s advice comes from a place of experience and expertise.

On Mondays Lala will be addressing a hot topic of the week, whether it’s a discussion around female misogyny blowing up your timeline or the arguments around Sex Education in schools that’s splashed across the headlines. Wednesdays she’s tackling your issues and conundrums around love, sex and relationships and on Fridays Lala will be diving into your dating dilemmas, red flag alerts, instant ick reactions and sharing her weekend reminders. And twice a month she’ll be joined by a guest to deliberate your questions.

Lala is the author of the best-selling dating guide Block, Delete, Move On, OK Mag’s resident agony aunt, a sexual health and relationship educator and she’s a social worker with over a decade of experience in child safeguarding and child protection. It's Not You, It's Them...But it Might Be You is the trustworthy, down to earth advice that you've been waiting for!

A Sony Music Entertainment production.

Find more great podcasts from Sony Music Entertainment at sonymusic.com/podcasts and follow us at @sonypodcasts

To bring your brand to life in this podcast, email podcastadsales@sonymusic.com

To get in touch please DM Lala in instagram @asklalalaletmeexplain.

And if you would like to read more from Lala follow the link for her weekly OK Mag column. https://www.ok.co.uk/authors/Lalalaletmeexplain/

    W**king On Work Time

    W**king On Work Time

    It's Friday and Lala is here with your regrets, admissions and confessions like regretting motherhood, going down on your best friends sister and w**king on work time. Plus is it a red flag if siblings are slapping each others asses?? Lala needs your help with this one! 



    Fess up to Father Lala for your sins @asklalalaletmeexplain on Instagram and let's navigate this romantic landscape together! 



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    And if you would like to read more from Lala follow the link for her weekly OK Mag column https://www.ok.co.uk/authors/Lalalaletmeexplain/
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    • 21 min
    Oniony Odour

    Oniony Odour

    Lala gives her advice on your latest questions, from a therapist mansplaining a reason for cheating (red flag anyone?) to oniony odours and *TRIGGER WARNING* what to do if you think you might have been date raped?

    If you'd like to ask Lala a question yourself, get in touch @asklalalaletmeexplain on Instagram and let's navigate this romantic landscape together! 



    If you are a victim of rape you can find help at rapecrisis.org.uk and thesurvivorstrust.org and for men survivorsuk.org 



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    And if you would like to read more from Lala follow the link for her weekly OK Mag column https://www.ok.co.uk/authors/Lalalaletmeexplain/
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    • 18 min
    STI's Aren't Just For Single People

    STI's Aren't Just For Single People

    As a previous sexual health educator for the NHS, Lala knows her chlamydia from her crabs. And we should all be paying attention because we're all at risk, even people in relationships. Plus in her online poll she found that 75% of you have had unprotected sex to please someone else, but the unprotected sex is never worth the stress...



    If you'd like to ask Lala a question yourself, get in touch @asklalalaletmeexplain on Instagram and let's navigate this romantic landscape together! 



    A Sony Music Entertainment production



    Find more great podcasts from Sony Music Entertainment at sonymusic.com/podcasts and follow us at @sonypodcasts



    To bring your brand to life in this podcast, email podcastadsales@sonymusic.com



    And if you would like to read more from Lala follow the link for her weekly OK Mag column https://www.ok.co.uk/authors/Lalalaletmeexplain/
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    • 25 min
    Confessions: I Don't Want To Be a Step Mum

    Confessions: I Don't Want To Be a Step Mum

    Lala's cofession booth is open, from feeling like being a step mum sucks to sexting your boss, you've been coming forward with all of your admissions. Plus 'my boyfriend gave me a gift that was owned by his ex girlfriend' is it a red flag?? And, do your weekend right with your Friday night reminder. 



    If you'd like to ask Lala a question yourself, get in touch @asklalaletmeexplain on Instagram and let's navigate this romantic landscape together!



    A Sony Music Entertainment production



    Find more great podcasts from Sony Music Entertainment at sonymusic.com/podcasts and follow us at @sonypodcasts



    To bring your brand to life in this podcast, email podcastadsales@sonymusic.com



    And if you would like to read more from Lala follow the link for her weekly OK Mag column https://www.ok.co.uk/authors/Lalalaletmeexplain/
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    • 22 min
    Tell Him How Many Times You've Had An Orgasm!

    Tell Him How Many Times You've Had An Orgasm!

    In this week's agony aunt episode Lala advises on trauma and an emtionally unintelligent partner, the intrusion of being asked how many sexual partners you've been with.  And large hips... could that prevent you from being able to do certain sex positions?! Tune in on Friday for more high jinx and shenanigans.  



    If you'd like to ask Lala a question yourself, get in touch @asklalaletmeexplain on Instagram and let's navigate this romantic landscape together! 



    A Sony Music Entertainment production 



    Find more great podcasts from Sony Music Entertainment at sonymusic.com/podcasts and follow us at @sonypodcasts 



    To bring your brand to life in this podcast, email podcastadsales@sonymusic.com 



    And if you would like to read more from Lala follow the link for her weekly OK Mag column https://www.ok.co.uk/authors/Lalalaletmeexplain/


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    • 20 min
    'Quiet On Set' and Recognising Child Abuse

    'Quiet On Set' and Recognising Child Abuse

    WARNING: This episode contains distressing content and imagary relating to the sexual abuse of children.



    If you've watched 'Quiet On The Set' the documentary about the abuse suffered by children on Nickelodeon productions, I'm sure you'll be feeling sickened, outraged and appalled at what went on. But it's not just in Hollywood productions that this kind of abuse is occuring. Lala invites on an anonymous guest who decades after his sexual abuse found the strength to speak up.  Lala speaks about what grooming looks like, what signs parents can look out for as possible indications their child is being abused and asks that if anyone thinks they might have been victim of the same abuse as her guest, to please come forward. 

     

    If you think you may have been or know of a victim of this abuse get in touch with @asklalaletmeexplain or @whitehotpanic on Instagram 

     

    If you have been a victim of child abuse you can find help here help@NSPCC.org.uk

     

    A Sony Music Entertainment production 



    Find more great podcasts from Sony Music Entertainment at sonymusic.com/podcasts and follow us at @sonypodcasts 



    To bring your brand to life in this podcast, email podcastadsales@sonymusic.com 



    And if you would like to read more from Lala follow the link for her weekly OK Mag column https://www.ok.co.uk/authors/Lalalaletmeexplain/ 


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    • 31 min

Customer Reviews

4.9 out of 5
302 Ratings

302 Ratings

wdgyv ,

Interesting, informative and entertaining.

I love Lala and the work she does. The podcast is great, huge range of subjects.

Plant mama 76 ,

Obsessed

It’s the only Podcast that I can listen to and be engrossed and actually wait for the next episode to come out. I’ve recommended to others who also love it. Absolutely amazing.

Nicki_f88 ,

THE best

So glad I came across this podcast. It’s my absolute favourite!! Every needs to listen! So informative, so funny, so current and so real! There’s so much to take from it and Lala is amazing! Please don’t ever stop! Literally THE best!

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