Love Machine : Dating, Relationships and Living Your Best Life

James Preece
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Love Machine is the dating, relationship and confidence podcast hosted by James Preece, the UK’s leading Dating Coach and Relationship Expert with over 21 years of experience helping singles and couples create better love lives. Each week, James explores fun, honest and practical ways to bring more love into your life, whether that means finding the right person, feeling more confident, improving your relationships, or simply enjoying life a little more. If you are single, dating, using dating apps, recovering from heartbreak, confused by mixed signals, dealing with red flags, trying to understand attachment styles, or wondering why modern dating feels so complicated, this podcast is here to help. With over 300 episodes, Love Machine is packed with dating advice, relationship advice, expert interviews, real stories, mindset shifts and simple tips you can actually use. You’ll hear from dating experts, relationship experts, matchmakers, coaches, authors, therapists and brilliant guests who all have something useful, funny or inspiring to share. From online dating, first dates, flirting and attraction to confidence, self-love, compatibility, breakups, communication, personal growth and living your best life, James brings warmth, humour and expert insight to help you date smarter, connect better and feel more hopeful about love. Tune in now if you are ready to find love, love yourself and learn to love your life. Send me any questions/suggestions to info@jamespreece.com ! Follow James on Instagram @jamespreececoaching and check out his website at https://www.jamespreece.com.

  1. Why More People Are Questioning Monogamy - And What Open Relationships Can Teach Us About Love

    1 day ago

    Why More People Are Questioning Monogamy - And What Open Relationships Can Teach Us About Love

    What If Everything You Think You Know About Relationships Is Just The Beginning? This episode of The Love Machine is a cheeky and thought-provoking adventure into the vibrant world of non monogamy. Speaker B sits down with relationship coach Speaker A to uncover what really happens when you ditch the rulebook and explore open relationships, ENM, throuples, and the global play party scene. Ever wondered how couples actually navigate jealousy, kink, and honest communication? Or why more people are curious about non monogamy than ever before? You'll hear stories about hilarious hotel mishaps, the real deal on jealousy, and how to curate an intimate life that's unique to you. Whether it's about opening up a current partnership, diving into new desires, or simply learning how to talk about what turns you on, this episode covers it all with fun, warmth and loads of “aha” moments. Tune in if you want smarter relationship advice, passionate debates about thriving partnerships, and tips on how non monogamy can become your playground - all brought to life on The Love Machine! Curious about your own relationship style? This is your invitation to listen and join in the conversation about non monogamy. About Ally Ally Iseman, CRC is an internationally Certified Relationship Coach and NCSF-registered Kink Aware Professional who specialises in modern relationship design, unlocking erotic jealousy, and consent and communication https://www.instagram.com/passport2pleasure https://www.passport2pleasure.com/quiz About James James Preece is the UK's top Dating Coach with over 21 years experience helping singles all over the world. He is the host of the Love Machine Podcast. Get his free book when you join his newsletter : https://www.jamespreece.com/dating-newsletter/ Website: https://www.jamespreece.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jamespreececoaching/

    40 min
  2. Why Some People Effortlessly Attract Love - And How to Build Those Qualities Yourself

    15 Jun

    Why Some People Effortlessly Attract Love - And How to Build Those Qualities Yourself

    Why Do Some People Just Radiate Attraction? Ever wondered what really makes someone irresistible? On this episode of The Love Machine, host James Preece teams up with top dating and relationship coach Sophia Bloom to unravel the buzz around attraction. If you've ever felt invisible or puzzled by why others light up a room, this episode is for you. Dive in as James and Sophia dig into the science and secrets of attraction beyond looks, sharing the key traits that actually matter most. From what makes personalities magnetic to why "fake it till you make it" can only get you so far, every minute is packed with practical tips. You'll even discover how emotional safety, confidence, and humour all play a part in creating real attraction, plus how your attachment style could be running the show. Whether you're looking to boost your own attraction or just curious why we fall for certain people, this episode is bursting with insights and feel-good advice. Hit play and see what really draws us together. About Sophia https://www.sophiainbloom.com/ https://www.instagram.com/sophia_inbloom/ About James James Preece is the UK's top Dating Coach with over 20 years experience helping singles all over the world. He is the host of the Love Machine Podcast. Get his free book when you join his newsletter : https://www.jamespreece.com/dating-newsletter/ Website: https://www.jamespreece.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jamespreececoaching/

    38 min
  3. How Women Can Break Trauma Bonds, Trust Themselves Again, And Finally Find Healthy Love

    8 Jun

    How Women Can Break Trauma Bonds, Trust Themselves Again, And Finally Find Healthy Love

    Are You Mistaking Emotional Chaos For Chemistry? Join James Preece, the UK's leading Dating Coach, as he sits down with Sarah Harkness for a refreshingly honest chat about dating after trauma. If you've ever wondered why you keep falling for the wrong type or struggle to trust yourself after a painful breakup, this episode is essential listening. You'll hear Sarah's unfiltered journey through her own relationship patterns, discover why safe love can feel boring, and find out exactly how to spot the difference between true chemistry and old chaos. From spotting trauma bonds to journaling, self-awareness, and learning how to regulate your nervous system, "dating after trauma" is the focus throughout. Sarah even finishes with a beautifully calming guided visualisation you can use before your next first date. If you want a new perspective on dating after trauma, don't miss this episode. Hit play and get ready to transform how you approach love. About Sarah https://www.austinelitematchmaking.com https://www.instagram.com/austin.elite.matchmaking/ About James James Preece is the UK's top Dating Coach with over 20 years experience helping singles all over the world. He is the host of the Love Machine Podcast. Get his free book when you join his newsletter : https://www.jamespreece.com/dating-newsletter/ Website: https://www.jamespreece.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jamespreececoaching/

    37 min
  4. The Red Flags You’re Ignoring Aren’t Small - They’re Training You to Betray Yourself

    1 Jun

    The Red Flags You’re Ignoring Aren’t Small - They’re Training You to Betray Yourself

    Is That Really a Red Flag or Just Your Nervous System Sounding the Alarm? This week on The Love Machine Podcast, James Preece sits down with the brilliant trauma-informed relationship recovery coach and author, Romilly Golding, for an eye-opening episode all about spotting the true relationship red flag before it's too late. Have you ever caught yourself making excuses for that subtle criticism or those "harmless" jokes? You won't want to miss Romilly Golding reveal the unexpected red flags that people often miss - like sleep deprivation sabotage and sneaky patterns of control - and why they matter more than you think. Dive into the psychology of toxic relationships as James Preece and Romilly Golding discuss why leaving isn't simple, how people pleasing starts in childhood, and why true healing is a bold act of self-reclamation. Plus, you'll get powerful tips to rebuild your confidence, spot the earliest red flag in dating, and discover the biggest green flag for your next relationship. Ready to change the way you see the red flag forever? Hit play and start building more love and safety in your life today. About Romilly www.romillygolding.com About James James Preece is the UK's top Dating Coach with over 20 years experience helping singles all over the world. He is the host of the Love Machine Podcast. Get his free book when you join his newsletter : https://www.jamespreece.com/dating-newsletter/ Website: https://www.jamespreece.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jamespreececoaching/

    29 min
  5. The Stylist’s Secret: Easy Ways To Instantly Elevate Your Look And Boost Attraction

    25 May

    The Stylist’s Secret: Easy Ways To Instantly Elevate Your Look And Boost Attraction

    What Does Your Personal Style Say Before You Even Say Hello? Get ready to unlock the secret to instant attraction in this energising episode of The Love Machine! This week, James Preece sits down with personal stylist and colour analyst Jo Novak to reveal how the right style changes can transform your love life before you ever open your mouth. The hot topic? Personal Style - and how it’s your ultimate dating game-changer. Discover why wearing the wrong colours might make you look tired or even unwell, and why something as simple as choosing an analogue watch or the perfect belt can totally upgrade your first date look. Jo Novak shares jaw-dropping stories - like spending half a million pounds over a lifetime just trying to crack your personal style - and provides surprisingly simple tips you can use today to look more attractive and confident. Curious why black isn’t the solution for everyone, or how a fresh style can boost your dating profile and your everyday confidence? You’ll hear the psychological science behind first impressions and find out what accessories, grooming habits, and outfit combos make the biggest impact. Whether you’re heading back out there, ready to reinvent your wardrobe, or just want to feel your best, this is the episode you cannot miss. Click play and let the magic of personal style work for you! About Jo Jo Novak - is a House of Colour Franchise Owner and expertly trained Personal Stylist and Colour Analyst, specialising in Client Transformations based on colour and style analysis. Jo guides clients to refine their image, strengthen their confidence, and express who they are through intentional, flattering style. https://www.instagram.com/houseofcolour_jonovak/ ************************************************************ About James James Preece is the UK's top Dating Coach with over 20 years experience helping singles all over the world. He is the host of the Love Machine Podcast. Get his free book when you join his newsletter : https://www.jamespreece.com/dating-newsletter/ Website: https://www.jamespreece.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jamespreececoaching/

    35 min
  6. The Dating App Mistakes That Are Quietly Costing You Great Matches

    18 May

    The Dating App Mistakes That Are Quietly Costing You Great Matches

    Ever Wonder Why Dating Apps Can Feel Like Romantic Slot Machines? Ready to crack the code on dating apps? In this episode, James Preece gives you the insider advice you wish you’d known before your first swipe. Discover the dating app mistakes that might be quietly killing your chances at finding love, from bland bios to lukewarm selfies that do you zero favours. You’ll laugh, nod and maybe cringe a little as James reveals what really makes a dating app profile stand out and why “fine” is the enemy of attraction. Packed with fun real-life examples and witty, practical coaching, this episode will completely change how you see dating apps. Whether you’re a seasoned swiper or thinking about giving dating apps another go, tune in for straightforward tips that will instantly level up your success. About James James Preece is the UK's top Dating Coach with over 20 years experience helping singles all over the world. He is the host of the Love Machine Podcast. Get his free book when you join his newsletter : https://www.jamespreece.com/dating-newsletter/ Website: https://www.jamespreece.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jamespreececoaching/

    26 min
  7. Your Dating Profile Photos SUCK - Simple Fixes That Get More Matches

    11 May

    Your Dating Profile Photos SUCK - Simple Fixes That Get More Matches

    Do Your Dating Profile Photos Really Show Who You Are? If you've ever found yourself wondering why your matches just aren't happening, this episode of The Love Machine podcast has the answer. Join James Preece as he welcomes professional photographer Stacey Ivy to dive deep into the world of dating profile photos - the secret weapon that can make or break first impressions. Discover what makes a photo truly stand out, why so many singles sabotage their chances with blurry bathroom selfies, and how to create pictures that spark conversation (not confusion). Stacey Ivy shares stories of bizarre landscape shots and Halloween outfits that send all the wrong signals, while James Preece reveals the one surprisingly powerful trick for boosting your dating success. If you're ready to find out the best ways to look confident, approachable, and genuine, tune in for practical tips that could totally transform your dating journey. Whether you're a seasoned swiper or brand new to dating apps, you'll walk away inspired to upgrade those dating profile photos - and maybe land your next great match. About Stacey https://www.staceyivyphotography.com/ https://www.instagram.com/staceyivyphotography/ ************************************************************ About James James Preece is the UK's top Dating Coach with over 20 years experience helping singles all over the world. He is the host of the Love Machine Podcast. Get his free book when you join his newsletter : https://www.jamespreece.com/dating-newsletter/ Website: https://www.jamespreece.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jamespreececoaching/

    33 min
  8. Why Smart Singles Are Mixing Matchmakers And Dating Apps To Find Love Faster

    4 May

    Why Smart Singles Are Mixing Matchmakers And Dating Apps To Find Love Faster

    Are Dating Apps Really the Secret Sauce to Finding Love? On this episode of The Love Machine, James Preece sits down with top matchmaker and online dating app expert Hayley Hurst for a smart, lively deep dive into the world of modern matchmaking. They dig into how blending matchmaking and dating apps can be a game-changer for singles who are tired of endless swiping and digital dead ends. Tune in to hear how Hayley Hurst transforms online dating with her "dating app takeover" strategies, the wild mistakes people make on their dating app profiles, and why a single bad photo can sabotage your chances. You'll also get the inside scoop on whether AI is a dream or a disaster for your dating app journey, and how staying positive gives you a real edge. If you're curious about how to actually get more from online dating and matchmaking, or just want to hear hilarious and true stories from the front lines of finding love, this episode will give you actionable tips and plenty of laughs. Get ready to rethink how you use dating apps - you might just uncover the real secret to meeting your match. About Hayley https://www.cohengrayconnections.com/ https://www.instagram.com/cohengrayconnections/ About James James Preece is the UK's top Dating Coach with over 20 years experience helping singles all over the world. He is the host of the Love Machine Podcast. Get his free book when you join his newsletter : https://www.jamespreece.com/dating-newsletter/ Website: https://www.jamespreece.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jamespreececoaching/

    37 min
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Love Machine is the dating, relationship and confidence podcast hosted by James Preece, the UK’s leading Dating Coach and Relationship Expert with over 21 years of experience helping singles and couples create better love lives. Each week, James explores fun, honest and practical ways to bring more love into your life, whether that means finding the right person, feeling more confident, improving your relationships, or simply enjoying life a little more. If you are single, dating, using dating apps, recovering from heartbreak, confused by mixed signals, dealing with red flags, trying to understand attachment styles, or wondering why modern dating feels so complicated, this podcast is here to help. With over 300 episodes, Love Machine is packed with dating advice, relationship advice, expert interviews, real stories, mindset shifts and simple tips you can actually use. You’ll hear from dating experts, relationship experts, matchmakers, coaches, authors, therapists and brilliant guests who all have something useful, funny or inspiring to share. From online dating, first dates, flirting and attraction to confidence, self-love, compatibility, breakups, communication, personal growth and living your best life, James brings warmth, humour and expert insight to help you date smarter, connect better and feel more hopeful about love. Tune in now if you are ready to find love, love yourself and learn to love your life. Send me any questions/suggestions to info@jamespreece.com ! Follow James on Instagram @jamespreececoaching and check out his website at https://www.jamespreece.com.

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