Messy on Purpose

Fylisha Kruse

Messy on Purpose is where we talk about the parts no one posts—the real, uncomfortable moments that actually shape who we are. Hosted by Fylisha, with Lee joining as producer and co-host, Messy on Purpose is a mix of raw co-host conversations, guest interviews, and global perspectives. This podcast is about ownership, awareness, and choosing growth without pretending life is perfect. We all have a mess. What matters is how we face it. Let’s be messy. Let’s be real. Let’s grow—on purpose.

  1. 4 DAYS AGO

    #76: 😅 The Awkwardness We Never Talk About

    In this episode of Messy on Purpose, Fylisha and Lee dive into one of those weirdly universal things we all experience but rarely talk about: 👉 why does it feel so awkward to just… stand there? Whether it’s being in an elevator, standing in a group of people, waiting in line, or sitting in silence, there’s this almost automatic urge to grab your phone, look busy, or avoid eye contact just so it doesn’t feel uncomfortable. But why? They unpack the social pressure behind awkward silence, the unspoken rules of public spaces, and why being still can sometimes feel harder than it should. From phone habits to body language to the strange ways humans cope with discomfort, this episode is funny, relatable, and a little too real. Because sometimes the messiest conversations are about the little everyday things we all silently experience.

    21 min

  2. 4 DAYS AGO

    #75: 👌 Credibility Isn’t Perfection — It’s Honesty w/ Mitchell Levy

    In this episode of Messy on Purpose, Fylisha sits down with Mitchell Levy — Global Credibility Expert, 2x TEDx speaker, bestselling author of over 60 books, executive coach, and one of the world’s top leadership voices. After interviewing more than 500 leaders worldwide and building 20 businesses in Silicon Valley, Mitchell shares one powerful truth: 👉 credibility is not built on perfection — it’s built on honesty. This conversation dives into why the moments we often want to hide are sometimes the exact moments that make people trust us the most. Together, they explore: Why authenticity creates real influenceHow owning your story builds trustThe power of honesty in leadership, business, and lifeGrowing out loud instead of pretending to have it all figured outWhy vulnerability is often the birthplace of credibilityMitchell also shares insights from decades of coaching executives and entrepreneurs, helping them become stronger leaders by holding up the mirror and creating space for real change. This episode is a reminder that people don’t connect to perfection… they connect to truth. Because sometimes the most powerful thing you can do is simply show up as who you really are.

    1hr 14min

  3. 30 MAR

    #74: 🙊 That’s Crazy… But What Do You Actually Mean?

    In this episode of Messy on Purpose, Fylisha and Lee dive into something we all do—but rarely think about: 👉 Saying things we don’t fully mean… and understanding what’s actually being said underneath. From phrases like “that’s crazy” to “we should keep in touch,” they unpack the hidden meanings behind everyday conversations and why we sometimes choose comfort over honesty. But as always, the conversation doesn’t stay in one lane. They also talk about: Lee’s recent trip and experiences Social media consistency and the reality behind posting What not having kids means to them personally A little film talk (because of course) And everything else that comes up along the way This episode is part reflection, part humor, and part real talk about communication, intention, and how we show up in conversations—and in life. Because sometimes what’s unsaid… says the most.

    41 min

  4. 2 DAYS AGO

    #73: ⚙️ Your Life Needs Systems (Not More Hustle) with Michelle MacNeil

    In this episode of Messy on Purpose, Fylisha sits down again with Michelle MacNeil to talk about something that can completely transform your life—systems. Not just in business… but in your everyday life. Michelle shares how she built her business around helping others become more efficient, less overwhelmed, and more in control by implementing systems that actually work. This isn’t about being perfect or rigid—it’s about creating structure that supports your life instead of constantly reacting to it. They dive into: Why most people feel overwhelmed (and how systems fix it) The difference between working harder vs working smarter How systems create freedom, not restriction Simple ways to start organizing your business and daily life Why consistency becomes easier when you have structure If you’ve ever felt like you’re juggling too much, constantly behind, or just “figuring it out as you go,” this episode will shift how you think about productivity. Because the goal isn’t to do more… it’s to create a life that runs better.

    1hr 29min

  5. 23 MAR

    #72: ❤️‍🩹 Healing Your Body, Protecting Your Peace with Lisa Latimer

    In this episode of Messy on Purpose, Fylisha and Lee sit down again with Lisa Latimer for a deeper, more personal conversation around body image, healing, and protecting your peace. Lisa and Fylisha open up about their experiences with body dysmorphia, eating disorders, and the complicated relationship many people have with their bodies. They talk about how fitness became more than physical—it became a way to rebuild confidence, discipline, and self-worth. This conversation goes beyond fitness. It gets real about: Walking away from toxic environments Understanding that family doesn’t mean access Loving people while still choosing distance Setting boundaries without guilt Both Lisa and Fylisha also share how their husbands played a pivotal role in helping them step out of dark environments and into something healthier—support that, for some, might feel like being “saved,” but ultimately helped them find their own strength. And of course… it wouldn’t be this crew without a little food talk mixed in. This episode is raw, honest, and a reminder that healing isn’t just about changing your body—it’s about changing your environment, your mindset, and what you allow in your life. Because sometimes growth means getting stronger…and sometimes it means walking away.

    1hr 38min

  6. 23 MAR

    #71: 👩🏼‍💼 You Don’t Need More Clients—You Need Better Ones with Enel Soeson

    In this episode of Messy on Purpose, Fylisha sits down with entrepreneur and co-founder of DANK, Enel Soeson, to break down a powerful shift most solopreneurs never hear: 👉 You don’t need more clients… you need better ones. Enel shares what he’s seen after working with hundreds of creators, coaches, and service providers across Europe and the U.S.—people who are talented, driven, and capable… but stuck in the “messy middle” of business. The phase where: You’re doing everything yourself You’re undercharging You’re overwhelmed and second-guessing And you’re not sure what the next step actually is This conversation flips the script. Instead of chasing more individual clients, Enel explains how your existing skills can be repositioned for business clients—companies that already have budgets for wellness, creativity, experiences, and team development. Same skills.Different audience.Completely different outcome. They dive into: Why solopreneurs stay stuck (and how to break it) The mindset shift from “am I good enough?” to owning your value How human-centered work is becoming more valuable in the age of AI Real examples of everyday service providers making this shift And how clarity + a simple blueprint can change everything If you’ve ever felt like you’re capable of more… but don’t know how to get there—this episode is for you. Because sometimes the problem isn’t your skillset…it’s where you’re aiming it.

    1hr 7min

  7. 16 MAR

    #69: 👧 Lessons from a Children’s Therapist with Stacy Schaffer

    In this episode of Messy on Purpose, Fylisha sits down with therapist, author, and resilience advocate Stacy Schaffer for a heartfelt conversation about healing, growth, and the real-life lessons that come from both personal experience and two decades of supporting children and families. Stacy shares the inspiration behind her book With Love from a Children’s Therapist: #lessonsihavelearnedalongtheway — a powerful blend of her own story of overcoming a traumatic childhood and the wisdom she’s gained from sitting on the other side of the couch as a clinician. Together, they talk about grief, anxiety, resilience, and how small moments of connection can create lasting change. Stacy Schaffer, MA, LPC, is a dedicated children’s therapist in Arvada, Colorado, with more than twenty years of experience. Specializing in grief and anxiety, she creates a safe space for healing and growth. When she’s not working with clients, she enjoys surfing, kickboxing, reading, spending time with friends, and hanging out with her golden retriever/therapy dog, Willow. With Love from a Children’s Therapist is her first book, written to help readers feel seen, supported, and understood. In this episode, we explore: What kids teach us about resilience and emotional honesty Turning personal pain into purpose Supporting mental health through compassion and connection The lessons that stay with you long after the therapy room 🔗 Connect with Stacy: Website: www.stacyschaffer.com Instagram: @hoperestored Facebook: Stacy Schaffer Because sometimes the most powerful growth begins when we feel truly seen — messy parts and all.

    1hr 22min

  8. 16 MAR

    #70: 💫 Parking Lot Safety, Boundaries & The Star Wars Bet

    In this episode of Messy on Purpose, Fylisha and Lee bounce through a wide range of conversations that are equal parts thoughtful, funny, and honest. They talk about the different ways men and women experience safety, like how something as simple as walking through a parking lot can feel completely different depending on who you are. They explore why women often have to stay hyper-aware while many men move through the same spaces without thinking twice. From there the conversation flows into really living life, float through life, and the strange humor of posting something online that you know will trigger people. They also dive into the impact of comments on the internet, when jokes go too far, and how words can affect people more than we sometimes realize. Other topics include: Romantic relationships and where healthy boundaries should exist The quiet but real fear of success Why some people sabotage themselves when things start going right And of course… there’s movie talk. Lee launches a challenge: if this episode gets 50 comments, or if Lee gets 100 comments on a clip from the episode, Fylisha will finally have to watch Star Wars for the first time. Yes… somehow she’s never seen it. So if you want to witness that historic moment happen… you know what to do. As always with Messy on Purpose, the conversation goes everywhere — because real conversations rarely stay in one lane.

    1hr 16min
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Messy on Purpose is where we talk about the parts no one posts—the real, uncomfortable moments that actually shape who we are. Hosted by Fylisha, with Lee joining as producer and co-host, Messy on Purpose is a mix of raw co-host conversations, guest interviews, and global perspectives. This podcast is about ownership, awareness, and choosing growth without pretending life is perfect. We all have a mess. What matters is how we face it. Let’s be messy. Let’s be real. Let’s grow—on purpose.

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  • Creator
    Fylisha Kruse
  • Years Active
    2025 - 2026
  • Episodes
    76
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © Fylisha Kruse
  • Show Website
    Messy on Purpose