The Jay Alderton Podcast

Jay Alderton

I’m building the internet’s best place for people over 40 to get fit, get focused, and make the second half of life their best half. Want in? https://www.skool.com/thriveat40

  1. 3 days ago

    #145 - THE POWER WALK EP01 - Everyone Got A Fresh Start Except You

    Everyone in your house started again this month. New shoes, new bag, photo on the doorstep. Everyone except the person who organised all of it. Get your coat on. This one's a walk. ----- This is the first Power Walk. Here's how it works: you get outside, you press play, and you walk for half an hour. I talk for some of it. For a decent chunk of it I shut up and let you think, because the thinking is the bit that does something. No pace to hit. No distance. No app counting your calories. Your phone goes in your pocket and it stays there. ---- In this first episode we talk about the thing nobody mentions in September, that the whole house gets a fresh start except you. The kids get a new teacher, a clean page and nobody holding last year against them. You get the same desk, the same inbox, the same Monday and the same body you had in August. Then we get into what waiting actually costs you. Not the fitness that comes back quicker than you think. It's the fourteen Januarys you've written off, and the file of evidence you've built saying you're the sort of person who doesn't stick at things. Every one of those entries, you wrote yourself. By the end you'll have picked one thing. Not a plan. Not an overhaul. One thing small enough that you can still picture yourself doing it in February, when it's dark and wet and nobody's watching. You don't need a fresh start. You just need to start. They're two completely different things, and one of them you can do before you get home. 00:00 — Arrival. What The Power Walk is, and how to walk it. Shoulders down, chin up, phone in the pocket. 03:00 — Breath reset. Two minutes of box breathing. Four in, four hold, four out, four hold. Follow the sound, don't count. 06:00 — Recognition. School shoes, the doorstep photo, and the person who organised all of it. When did you last actually begin something? 12:00 — The cost. Fourteen years of waiting for January. What eleven days in a row actually buys you. 18:00 — The fire. Pace up. Find a hill. January is a made-up line on a calendar and your body has no idea what date it is. 23:00 — Breath down and the one thing. Longer exhales, then you pick your one thing and say it out loud on the pavement. 27:00 — Walk home. Tomorrow it'll feel small and a bit stupid. Do it anyway. Your job this week Pick one thing. Say it out loud while you're out there. Not a plan, not a transformation — one thing you can still see yourself doing in February. Three walks a week. No drink on a school night. Lights out by half ten. This walk, same time, every week for sixteen weeks. Then do it tomorrow, when you don't feel like this. Anything above zero compounds if you do it long enough. What's in this episode Sixteen episodes, one a week, through to the end of the year. Same shape every time: you get outside, you get your breath sorted, you get something to chew on, and you come home with one decision made. Best done on the same day each week so it becomes a fixture rather than a thing you fit in. Headphones, coat, no destination. The breath work in this episode is done walking, at an easy pace. If you get light-headed at any point, drop the holds and breathe normally. If you're pregnant, or you've got a heart or respiratory condition, or anything else that makes you pause — skip the holds and just walk. It works fine without them. If you want people walking next to you while you do this, that's what Thrive at 40 is for people over forty, rebuilding one ordinary decision at a time. 👉 https://www.skool.com/thriveat40

    #145 - THE POWER WALK EP01 - Everyone Got A Fresh Start Except You
  2. 20 Aug

    #143 - Struggling with Alcohol? Listen to this

    Giving up alcohol was harder than box jumping Mount Everest. Here's what nobody tells you about the first two years, and the one skill that makes it stick. I've box jumped the height of Mount Everest. I've pushed a 140kg sled for 24 hours straight. I ran 109 kilometres backwards in a day. None of it came close to putting down a pint. Here's why. From the age of 16, I ran every emotion I had through alcohol. Sad, stressed, bored, celebrating, grieving it all went through the same door for 26 years. So when you stop, you're not giving up a drink. You're rebuilding your entire emotional operating system from scratch, at 40-odd years old, with no instructions. In this podcast, I discuss Why year one feels like something is permanently missing, and why that feeling is accurate rather than a sign you're failing How you build new evidence: your first holiday, first Christmas, first birthday, first grief, all banked without it Drink dreams, and why your brain keeps writing you a future with alcohol in it that doesn't exist The difference between having a thought and acting on oneWhy a craving passes in 15 to 20 minutes, and what that single fact changes I'm 18 months in. I'm not going to tell you it gets easy, because it didn't. I'll tell you it gets different, and that's better. If you're over 40 and you've been quietly wondering whether the drinking is the thing holding everything else back — this one's for you. If you're struggling with alcohol, please talk to your GP or a support service. There's no medal for doing it on your own. Join the Thrive at 40 community (7-day trial)https://www.skool.com/thriveat40

  3. 4 Aug

    #139 - Guided Wim Hof Breathwork Session with Jay

    Sit down, press play, and follow my voice. Three full rounds. This is a guided breathwork session based on the Wim Hof Method. If you've never done anything like this before, here's what actually happens.... You'll take around thirty deep breaths in a row. Then you'll breathe out and hold, no air in your lungs, for as long as is comfortable. Then one deep breath back in, hold that for fifteen seconds, and let go. That's one round. We do three. You'll probably feel tingling in your hands and face, maybe a bit light-headed. That's normal, and it passes. What most people notice afterwards is a kind of calm they haven't felt in a while, and a much easier night's sleep. Why I'm putting this on a podcast for people over 40. Your problem was never that you can't work hard. You've been working hard for twenty-odd years, That's half the reason you're knackered. The problem is you've got no gear between full throttle and unconscious. Work, kids, phone, telly, sleep, repeat. This is that missing gear. Being able to drop your own heart rate on purpose is a skill, and like any skill, you have to practise it. Twenty minutes. You've got twenty minutes. ⚠️ READ THIS BEFORE YOU START This is the important bit. Please don't skip it. NEVER do this breathing in or near water. No baths, no pools, no sea, no showers. Breath holding after deep breathing can make you black out with no warning at all. People have drowned doing this. This is not a "be careful" — it's a never. Never do it while driving, or operating anything, or standing up, or anywhere you could fall and hurt yourself. Always sit or lie down somewhere safe and soft. Do it at home, on the floor or in a chair, with nothing hard nearby. It's normal to feel tingling, light-headedness, or a bit spaced out. It is not normal to feel real pain or serious distress — if you do, stop, breathe normally, and don't push on. Never force a breath hold. This is not a competition and there is no target. When your body wants air, take it. Do not do this session if you are pregnant, or if you have epilepsy, high blood pressure, a heart condition, a history of stroke, or any respiratory condition — including asthma. If you've got any health condition at all, or you take regular medication, or you're just not sure, speak to your GP first. That's not me covering myself, that's genuinely the right call. By listening you accept that you're doing this at your own risk. I'm a fitness coach, not a doctor, and I can't see you through a podcast. Use your own judgement and be sensible. If you've stumbled across this on its own hello. This session is Day 5 of the Just Do One Thing Challenge. Seven days, one small task a day. A walk, three short workouts, a stretch session, this breathwork, and a ten-minute reflection at the end. That's it. No overhaul, no diet, no six-week transformation photo. It's built for people over 40 who've got a job, a family, and about forty spare minutes on a good day. The whole thing runs on one idea: small things done consistently turn into big things over time. It's free, and you can start it whenever you like. 👉 CLICK HERE TO JOIN THE JUST DO ONE THING CHALLENGE

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