The Jay Alderton Podcast

Jay Alderton

I’m building the internet’s best place for people over 40 to get fit, get focused, and make the second half of life their best half. Want in? https://www.skool.com/thriveat40

  1. 3 days ago

    #144 - PAUL MORT - Two Blokes, Zero Notes, One Very Unhinged Chat

    I sat down with my good pal Paul Mort straight after an event he'd invited me down to speak at, hit record, and had no plan whatsoever. What came out wasn't really a business podcast. It's about pace, obsession, escapism, ADHD, and what it's like being a dad to kids who are wired the same way you are. What we get into: Why the day you plant the seed isn't the day you pick the flower — and how much pressure that takes off you in the quiet stretchesMinimum effective dose, and why the boring version of consistency is harder than the dramatic versionFreezing Tuesday night in Stoke vs Wembley on a Saturday — who you actually are when it's not funWhy everyone asks for thirty books in January and reads fourEscapism, and why we both need somewhere the phone doesn't comeADHD as an interest surplus rather than an attention deficitWhether a label gives you relief or gives you an excuseParenting a kid with the same wiring as you — and getting the push/pull balance wrongThe runway: realising you've got a handful of years left where they still want to come with youCringe mountain, and why being embarrassing is the job description Fair warning it's sweary and it goes everywhere. That's rather the point. Links Paul Mort: https://www.instagram.com/paulmortofficial/ Thrive at 40: https://www.skool.com/thriveat40 If you got something out of this, a rating and a review genuinely help more people find it.

  2. 20 Aug

    #143 - Struggling with Alcohol? Listen to this

    Giving up alcohol was harder than box jumping Mount Everest. Here's what nobody tells you about the first two years, and the one skill that makes it stick. I've box jumped the height of Mount Everest. I've pushed a 140kg sled for 24 hours straight. I ran 109 kilometres backwards in a day. None of it came close to putting down a pint. Here's why. From the age of 16, I ran every emotion I had through alcohol. Sad, stressed, bored, celebrating, grieving it all went through the same door for 26 years. So when you stop, you're not giving up a drink. You're rebuilding your entire emotional operating system from scratch, at 40-odd years old, with no instructions. In this podcast, I discuss Why year one feels like something is permanently missing, and why that feeling is accurate rather than a sign you're failing How you build new evidence: your first holiday, first Christmas, first birthday, first grief, all banked without it Drink dreams, and why your brain keeps writing you a future with alcohol in it that doesn't exist The difference between having a thought and acting on oneWhy a craving passes in 15 to 20 minutes, and what that single fact changes I'm 18 months in. I'm not going to tell you it gets easy, because it didn't. I'll tell you it gets different, and that's better. If you're over 40 and you've been quietly wondering whether the drinking is the thing holding everything else back — this one's for you. If you're struggling with alcohol, please talk to your GP or a support service. There's no medal for doing it on your own. Join the Thrive at 40 community (7-day trial)https://www.skool.com/thriveat40

  3. 4 Aug

    #139 - Guided Wim Hof Breathwork Session with Jay

    Sit down, press play, and follow my voice. Three full rounds. This is a guided breathwork session based on the Wim Hof Method. If you've never done anything like this before, here's what actually happens.... You'll take around thirty deep breaths in a row. Then you'll breathe out and hold, no air in your lungs, for as long as is comfortable. Then one deep breath back in, hold that for fifteen seconds, and let go. That's one round. We do three. You'll probably feel tingling in your hands and face, maybe a bit light-headed. That's normal, and it passes. What most people notice afterwards is a kind of calm they haven't felt in a while, and a much easier night's sleep. Why I'm putting this on a podcast for people over 40. Your problem was never that you can't work hard. You've been working hard for twenty-odd years, That's half the reason you're knackered. The problem is you've got no gear between full throttle and unconscious. Work, kids, phone, telly, sleep, repeat. This is that missing gear. Being able to drop your own heart rate on purpose is a skill, and like any skill, you have to practise it. Twenty minutes. You've got twenty minutes. ⚠️ READ THIS BEFORE YOU START This is the important bit. Please don't skip it. NEVER do this breathing in or near water. No baths, no pools, no sea, no showers. Breath holding after deep breathing can make you black out with no warning at all. People have drowned doing this. This is not a "be careful" — it's a never. Never do it while driving, or operating anything, or standing up, or anywhere you could fall and hurt yourself. Always sit or lie down somewhere safe and soft. Do it at home, on the floor or in a chair, with nothing hard nearby. It's normal to feel tingling, light-headedness, or a bit spaced out. It is not normal to feel real pain or serious distress — if you do, stop, breathe normally, and don't push on. Never force a breath hold. This is not a competition and there is no target. When your body wants air, take it. Do not do this session if you are pregnant, or if you have epilepsy, high blood pressure, a heart condition, a history of stroke, or any respiratory condition — including asthma. If you've got any health condition at all, or you take regular medication, or you're just not sure, speak to your GP first. That's not me covering myself, that's genuinely the right call. By listening you accept that you're doing this at your own risk. I'm a fitness coach, not a doctor, and I can't see you through a podcast. Use your own judgement and be sensible. If you've stumbled across this on its own hello. This session is Day 5 of the Just Do One Thing Challenge. Seven days, one small task a day. A walk, three short workouts, a stretch session, this breathwork, and a ten-minute reflection at the end. That's it. No overhaul, no diet, no six-week transformation photo. It's built for people over 40 who've got a job, a family, and about forty spare minutes on a good day. The whole thing runs on one idea: small things done consistently turn into big things over time. It's free, and you can start it whenever you like. 👉 CLICK HERE TO JOIN THE JUST DO ONE THING CHALLENGE

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I’m building the internet’s best place for people over 40 to get fit, get focused, and make the second half of life their best half. Want in? https://www.skool.com/thriveat40

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