MY SZN

Betty Andrews

Welcome to MY SZN: the podcast that helps you manifest your dream life, moon by moon, season by season, sign by sign. Hosted by astrologer, manifestation coach, and founder of The Cosmic Co, Betty Andrews, this show is your cosmic forecast and soul activation all in one. Each episode blends astrology, manifestation, mindset magic, and real talk to help you decode your birth chart, clear your blocks, and step into your season.

Episodes

  1. 10 Sept

    Virgo szn: the perfectionism trap: overachieving, burnout & fear of being seen

    What if your perfectionism is the exact thing making you successful... and the exact thing f*cking exhausting you? This week on MY SZN, I'm joined by psychologist and Ascendant Bali founder Zahra Ciardi to talk about the perfectionism trap, especially the version hiding underneath ambition, overachievement, procrastination, body image, people pleasing and the fear of being fully f*cking SEEN. Because perfectionism doesn't always look like colour-coded calendars and immaculate spreadsheets. Sometimes it looks like rewriting the email five times, waiting until you're thinner to show up online, obsessing over how people perceive you, constantly moving the goalposts after every achievement, or building the thing you desperately want and then finding 847 reasons why you're still not ready to put it into the world. Zahra explains how perfectionism can become a coping mechanism, particularly when you learned early that being good, successful, attractive, impressive or easy to deal with got you love, attention or safety. That strategy can make you incredibly high functioning, but eventually your body, relationships and nervous system start sending the invoice. We get into burnout, complex PTSD, childhood conditioning, women's impossible beauty standards, social media, visibility, self-worth and the deeply uncomfortable question of who the f*ck you are when you're no longer measuring yourself by what you achieve. We also talk about what actually helps. Zahra shares practical ways to catch perfectionism while it's happening, understand what it's costing you, practise being imperfect without spiralling, regulate the discomfort that comes with letting go of control and start building an identity that exists beyond your achievements. Obviously, I couldn't have a psychologist on MY SZN without getting into her birth chart too, so we explore Zahra's Chiron in Gemini, Scorpio Rising, Pisces Moon, Leo energy and Manifestor Human Design, including why voice, visibility and being perceived have become such huge themes in her life. If you're ambitious as f*ck but exhausted, if nothing you achieve ever quite feels like enough, or if you've been hiding while simultaneously knowing you're meant to be seen, this episode is going to call you OUT. You don't need to become less ambitious. You might just need a different fuel. CONNECT WITH ZAHRA Instagram: @zahra_ciardiWebsite: zahraciardi.comAscendant Bali: ascendantbali.com

  2. 22 Aug

    Leo szn: how to show the eff up, sell more & get paid with Cailin Tokarczyk from Sales Baddie

    Leo szn: how to show the eff up, sell more & get paid with Cailin Tokarczyk from Sales Baddie Leo season is asking you to take up more space, let yourself be seen and stop treating visibility like something you'll deal with once you finally feel confident enough, because if you're building a business, people need to know who you are, what you do and why they should buy from YOU. For this episode of MY SZN, I'm joined by Cailin Tokarczyk from Sales Baddie, a multiple six-figure sales and business coach with 15 years of experience in sales and marketing, who has built her own business by ditching cookie-cutter strategies, owning her voice and learning how to turn an online audience into paying customers. We're talking about what it actually takes to show the eff up when part of you would quite happily hide behind your laptop forever, how to become known for what you do, why having an audience doesn't automatically equal having sales, how to create content that moves people towards buying, what makes an offer people actually WANT, and how to sell more without spending your entire life posting, going live or living inside your DMs. Cailin's own work centres around creating engaged audiences, clear messaging, strong offers and repeatable sales strategies, so we're getting into the practical side of turning visibility into actual money. We also get into the identity piece behind selling, because you can know every strategy in the world and still shrink when it's time to promote yourself, talk about your offer, say what you really think or ask someone to pay you. Cailin shares how she went from being afraid to speak her mind and claim her space online to building a $500K+ business, plus what changed when she stopped trying to build her business according to everybody else's rules. This is your Leo szn permission slip to be louder about what you do, own your expertise, make the offer, talk about the offer again, let people SEE you and remember that getting paid requires giving people something to actually buy. Because we're not spending another season being the internet's best-kept secret. It's time to show the eff up, sell more and GET PAIDDDDD. 🔥🪩

  3. 21 Jul

    Cancer szn: The Patriarchy Is TERRIFIED Of your wisdom and your menstrual cycle

    What if your menstrual cycle wasn't a problem to manage, but one of your greatest sources of power? In this Cancer Season episode of MY SZN, Betty speaks with Julie Mrozinski, founder of Cycle.Muse and certified menstruation coach, about cycle tracking, body literacy, intuition, archetypes, feminine rage, and why cyclical living is one of the most rebellious things women can practise inside a patriarchal world. Together they explore how, for centuries, menstruation has been shamed, hidden and dismissed, and ask a powerful question: what if the patriarchy has always feared the wisdom women access when they're deeply connected to their bodies? This conversation is about reclaiming that connection, trusting your intuition, honouring your natural rhythms instead of fighting them, and remembering that your body has never been the problem. Julie shares how she grew up celebrating menstruation, why she sees each phase of the cycle as its own inner season, and how the follicular, ovulatory, luteal and menstrual phases shape our energy, creativity, boundaries, relationships, intuition and capacity to receive. The conversation also dives into the maiden, mother, artist and priestess archetypes, the transition into the mothering years, perimenopause as a second awakening, the power of menstrual blood, remothering ourselves, and why creating spaces where women can speak honestly about their bodies is such an important act of reclamation. If you've ever wanted to understand your cycle more deeply, reconnect with your intuition, work with your body instead of against it, and reclaim a part of yourself the world has taught you to disconnect from, this episode is for you. Follow Julie on Instagram at @cycle.muse and discover more of her work at Cycle.Muse.

  4. 13 Apr

    Episode 3: Aries szn: how to choose yourself and go after your dreams

    It’s Aries SZN babyyyy and you can feel it, this surge of fire, this urge to move, this energy that is not here for overthinking your life for another three months while you “figure it out”, it is here to get you to decide and go. In this episode I get into what it really means to choose yourself in a way that actually changes your reality, not just saying it, but backing it through your decisions, your standards, and the way you move every single day. We talk about why you keep looping the same patterns even when you know better, how your identity is shaping everything from your money to your relationships to your visibility, and why waiting to feel ready is the thing that keeps you exactly where you are. I break down how to use Aries season properly by looking at where Aries sits in your chart, because that is the exact area of your life being activated right now, the place where you are being pushed to lead, to act, and to stop waiting around for permission. Then we bring in your Mars, because Mars rules Aries and shows you how you actually take action, how you go after what you want, how you handle pressure, and whether you move or hesitate when it matters. We also get into the part no one really talks about, the discomfort of shifting timelines, where things can feel unfamiliar, where you might feel like you are faking it, where you start outgrowing people and patterns, and where your nervous system is catching up to the new version of you that you are becoming. There is a whole section on standards and boundaries too, because this is where your life actually changes, how raising your standards, saying no faster, and acting like your time and energy matter will completely shift what you are available for. And I give you real questions to ask yourself so you can actually apply this, like who your next level self is, how she makes decisions, what she no longer tolerates, and what you are still avoiding that she would already be doing. This is the episode you listen to when you are done circling and you are ready to move differently, decide faster, and back yourself even before you have proof. If you were already her, what would you do today? Go listen and let this be the moment you actually choose yourself 💜 Book astrology coaching and readings here.

About

Welcome to MY SZN: the podcast that helps you manifest your dream life, moon by moon, season by season, sign by sign. Hosted by astrologer, manifestation coach, and founder of The Cosmic Co, Betty Andrews, this show is your cosmic forecast and soul activation all in one. Each episode blends astrology, manifestation, mindset magic, and real talk to help you decode your birth chart, clear your blocks, and step into your season.