NeuroDADverse

Danny Eycott - Ben Wisdom-Quieros
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  • Updated weekly

The NeuroDADverse is more than just a podcast, it’s a weekly therapy session between two long-time friends reconnecting through the shared highs and lows of neurodivergent parenthood. Danny is raising a six-year-old, while Ben is navigating life with two teenagers. Between them, their lived experiences span early years and adolescence, offering valuable perspective for any parent on the neurodivergent journey. Their conversations blend lived wisdom, raw honesty, and light-hearted reflection, often with Danny just entering stages that Ben has already faced. This dynamic brings warmth, curiosity, and relatable storytelling that resonates across all ages and stages of parenting. At its heart, The NeuroDADverse exists because parenting neurodivergent children can feel incredibly isolating. Many of society’s norms simply don’t apply and it’s rare to find someone who truly hears you. This podcast was born from the need to find and grow that tribe. A space where parents can feel seen, heard, and appreciated. Whether you’re in the thick of meltdowns, laughing uncontrollably with them or even just wondering about diagnoses you’re not alone. Here, we speak with love, lead though our understanding and share with honesty. This is a space for ideas, laughter, and connection. Please remember: You are doing better than you think. You are enough. You are not alone. Welcome to the NeuroDADverse.“ Real talk from two dads raising neurodivergent kids with love, laughter, and plenty of chaos. Connect with us on Instagram, TikTok and watch us on Youtube @NeuroDadversepodcast Theme music by Hands Up! https://www.instagram.com/handsuppunk/?hl=en Show produced by Squid Shack Studios https://www.instagram.com/squidshackstudios/ Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

  1. The Little Wins You Nearly Miss | NeuroDADverse Ep. 55

    3 days ago

    The Little Wins You Nearly Miss | NeuroDADverse Ep. 55

    Some of the most meaningful breakthroughs don’t arrive with fanfare, they’re hidden inside ordinary moments you almost overlook. It’s easy to focus on what’s still difficult. It’s much harder to notice just how far your child has already come. In Episode 55 of The NeuroDADverse Podcast, Ben and Dan reflect on a week shaped by extreme heat, sensory overload, school challenges, growing independence, and the quiet moments that remind you progress is happening even when it doesn’t feel like it. From managing sensory needs during one of the hottest weeks of the year, to supporting teenagers through mock exams, emotional regulation and disrupted sleep, this episode explores the everyday realities of raising neurodivergent children with autism, ADHD and other SEND needs. We also discuss: * Heat, sensory processing and emotional regulation * Sleep challenges and school attendance * Supporting teenagers through mock exams * Natural consequences and growing independence * Celebrating communication and confidence * Why food technology unexpectedly became a parenting highlight * Sports Day reflections and changing expectations * Looking ahead to The NeuroDADverse’s first live anniversary episode Plus, Ben shares one of his favourite parenting moments yet, as Oscar proudly teaches the family how to bake a cake they made at school, turning an everyday homework task into a beautiful moment of confidence, communication and connection. Dan reflects on how far Frankie has come, with transitions and new experiences that once felt impossible now becoming exciting opportunities. This episode is warm, funny, reassuring and full of the small victories that remind neurodivergent parents they’re making more progress than they sometimes realise. 🎧 If you’ve ever wondered whether your child is really moving forward, this conversation is for you. 💛 You’re doing great. You are enough. You are definitely not alone. 🎙️ NeuroDADverse Podcast Real conversations about raising neurodivergent children in a neurotypical world. Hosted by two UK dads, NeuroDADverse explores autism, ADHD, SEND parenting, mental load, masking, school systems, identity, and the everyday wins and struggles of neurodivergent family life. If you’re a parent of an autistic child, an ADHD dad, part of a SEND family, or simply looking for honest, relatable parenting conversations — you’re not alone here. 🔔 New episodes weekly 📢 Share, rate, or comment to help more families discover the show 📧 neurodadverse@gmail.com 🌐 All links & platforms: 👉 linktr.ee/NeuroDADverse 🎧 Listen on: Apple Podcasts • Spotify • Amazon Music • Audible 📺 Watch full episodes & short clips on YouTube 📲 Follow on TikTok, Instagram, Facebook & LinkedIn #NeurodivergentParenting #SENDLife #AutismParenting #ADHDDads #ParentingPodcast #NeuroDadverse #DifferentNotLess #NeurodiversityUK Timecodes: 00:00 – Welcome to The NeuroDADverse 00:43 – Episode 55 Begins 01:15 – Week In Three Words 02:12 – The Wizard of Oz & Heatwave Parenting 03:10 – Challenges Begin 04:23 – Heat, Sensory Overload & Family Life 06:58 – Managing Different Sensory Needs 07:55 – Mabel's Emotional Overwhelm 09:26 – Oscar's Different Experience Of Heat 10:23 – Creating Safe Environments 11:10 – Sleep, School & Mock Exams 11:58 – Learning Through Consequences 13:13 – A Win Frankie Will Love... 13:44 – Break 14:09 – Wins Section Begins 14:48 – Oscar Bakes A Cake 🍐 16:31 – Behaviour Is Communication 17:34 – Teaching Dad How To Bake 18:17 – Sharing Success With Family 18:53 – Why This Meant So Much 20:27 – Dan's Wins Of The Week 21:42 – Transition Progress 22:26 – Looking Back At Last Year 23:05 – Look Ahead To The Week Ahead 24:05 – Airshow Excitement ✈️ 26:13 – Mock Exams Continue 27:03 – Football, Friends & Teen Anxiety 28:15 – One Year Of NeuroDADverse 29:11 – Anniversary Q&A Announcement 30:24 – Thank You For Supporting Us 31:03 – You're Doing Great 31:36 – Good Energy Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    32 min
  2. When Small Wins Mean Everything | NeuroDADverse Ep. 54

    26 Jun

    When Small Wins Mean Everything | NeuroDADverse Ep. 54

    The biggest breakthroughs in neurodivergent parenting often happen in moments that other people would never notice. Some weeks feel heavy until you stop and look back. In Episode 54 of The NeuroDADverse Podcast, Ben and Dan reflect on Father’s Day, sleep deprivation, school struggles, sports day anxiety, growing independence, and the small moments that remind you how far your children have come.  This week’s conversation explores the reality of parenting neurodivergent children during hot weather, disrupted sleep, emotional regulation challenges, and end-of-school-year milestones. From sensory struggles and school anxiety to football fandom and family celebrations, it’s a week packed with the ordinary moments that become extraordinary when viewed through a neurodivergent lens.  We also discuss: Sleep challenges and sensory regulationSports Day anxiety and neurodivergent teensEmotional Based School Avoidance (EBSA)Growing independence and life skillsADHD medication and responsibilityCelebrating Father’s Day as a neurodivergent familyBuilding confidence through interests and passionsWhy chronicling wins can change your perspective Plus, Ben shares seven separate wins from the week, including GCSE choices, football bonding, growing independence, and some powerful reminders that progress doesn’t always arrive in giant milestones. Dan reflects on communication growth, successful transitions, and seeing Frankie continue to develop confidence in new situations.  🎧 If you’ve ever finished a difficult week and wondered whether any progress was being made, this episode is for you. 💛 You’re doing great. You are enough. You are definitely not alone. 🎙️ NeuroDADverse Podcast Real conversations about raising neurodivergent children in a neurotypical world. Hosted by two UK dads, NeuroDADverse explores autism, ADHD, SEND parenting, mental load, masking, school systems, identity, and the everyday wins and struggles of neurodivergent family life. If you’re a parent of an autistic child, an ADHD dad, part of a SEND family, or simply looking for honest, relatable parenting conversations, you’re not alone here. 🔔 New episodes weekly 📢 Share, rate, or comment to help more families discover the show 📧 neurodadverse@gmail.com 🌐 All links & platforms: 👉 linktr.ee/NeuroDADverse 🎧 Listen on: Apple Podcasts • Spotify • Amazon Music • Audible 📺 Watch full episodes & short clips on YouTube 📲 Follow on TikTok, Instagram, Facebook & LinkedIn #NeurodivergentParenting #SENDLife #AutismParenting #ADHDDads #ParentingPodcast #NeuroDadverse #DifferentNotLess #NeurodiversityUK Chapters: 00:00 – Welcome to The NeuroDADverse 01:19 – Happy Father's Day! 02:27 – Week In Three Words 05:59 – Challenges 06:19 – Sleep Deprivation & Hot Weather 08:04 – Sensory Regulation In Summer 10:16 – Heat, Regulation & Neurodiversity 11:47 – School Attendance Improves 12:10 – Sports Day Anxiety Begins 13:02 – Too Hot, Too Much, Too Overwhelming 14:01 – The Reality Of Neurodivergent Sports Days 15:12 – Processing Milestones Differently 16:18 – Letting Go Of Expectations 17:21 – Looking For The Positives 17:49 – Break 18:18 – Ben's Wins 18:45 – Why We Chronicle The Wins 19:18 – Oscar Makes The Bed Alone 19:58 – Learning To Save For A Goal 21:29 – Father's Day Family Meal 22:04 – Remembering ADHD Medication 22:26 – Football, Family & Shared Passions 22:50 – Friends Or Football? 24:17 – Watching England Together 24:57 – Live Music & Confidence 25:16 – Why These Moments Matter 26:05 – Dan's Wins Of The Week 27:27 – Communication Progress 28:06 – Successful Transitions 29:11 – Looking Back At Last Year 29:58 – Look Ahead To The Week Ahead 30:18 – Summer Plans & Family Life 32:19 – Independent Train Travel 33:03 – Why Creative Subjects Matter 33:53 – Listener Correspondence 34:52 – ADHD, Autism & Public Debate 36:11 – Judging Through A Neurotypical Lens 37:23 – Why The Conversation Feels So Loud 38:57 – Media Narratives & SEND 39:52 – Thank You For Listening 40:21 – One Year Of Reflection 41:09 – You're Doing Great Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    42 min

  3. 19 Jun

    Do Neurodivergent Kids Need the Plan… Or the Freedom to Change It? | NeuroDADverse Ep.53

    Some of the biggest neurodivergent parenting wins happen when you stop chasing the perfect plan and start following the person in front of you. You spend days planning the perfect experience… only for your child to need something completely different. In Episode 53 of The NeuroDADverse Podcast, Ben and Dan reflect on flexibility, emotional regulation, school avoidance, family adventures, and the surprising moments when letting go of the original plan leads to something even better.  This week we discuss navigating emotion-based school avoidance (EBSA), supporting neurodivergent teenagers through difficult school experiences, and the challenge of balancing attendance, wellbeing, and long-term confidence. We also explore family days out, adapting expectations, and recognising when a child is communicating their needs in ways others might miss.  We also talk about: Emotional Based School Avoidance (EBSA)Supporting neurodivergent teenagers through educationSchool attendance, anxiety and SEND provisionFamily days out and adapting plansCommunication through behaviour and actionsBuilding confidence through positive experiencesGCSE choices and finding creative outletsThe importance of meeting children where they arePlus, Dan shares a huge win involving a family trip that could easily have gone wrong but became a breakthrough in flexibility and communication, while Ben celebrates football, GCSE choices, creativity, and a rare family meal where everyone arrived regulated and connected.  🎧 If you’ve ever changed the plan to protect the person, this episode will feel very familiar. 💛 You’re doing great. You are enough. You are definitely not alone. The NeuroDADverse is a podcast about real conversations about raising neurodivergent children in a neurotypical world. Hosted by two UK dads, NeuroDADverse explores autism, ADHD, SEND parenting, mental load, masking, school systems, identity, and the everyday wins and struggles of neurodivergent family life. If you’re a parent of an autistic child, an ADHD dad, part of a SEND family, or simply looking for honest, relatable parenting conversations, you’re not alone here. 🔔 New episodes weekly 📢 Share, rate, or comment to help more families discover the show 📧 neurodadverse@gmail.com 🌐 All links & platforms: 👉 linktr.ee/NeuroDADverse 🎧 Listen on: Apple Podcasts • Spotify • Amazon Music • Audible 📺 Watch full episodes & short clips on YouTube 📲 Follow on TikTok, Instagram, Facebook & LinkedIn #NeurodivergentParenting #SENDLife #AutismParenting #ADHDDads #ParentingPodcast #NeuroDadverse #DifferentNotLess #NeurodiversityUK TImestamps: 00:00 – Welcome to The NeuroDADverse 02:41 – Your Week As A Movie 🎬 04:33 – Why Ben Chose The Babadook 05:46 – Accepting The Journey You're On 07:42 – Challenges Begin 10:19 – When The Plan Falls Apart 11:10 – Adapting Instead Of Cancelling 12:55 – Family Adventures & Flexibility 14:43 – Communication Through Action 15:46 – When Expectations Surprise You 16:47 – The Challenge Wasn't The Challenge 18:47 – School Attendance Returns 19:31 – Emotion-Based School Avoidance (EBSA) 20:57 – Why School Can Feel So Hard 21:58 – Being A Parent Inside The System 24:02 – How Different School Felt Growing Up 25:01 – Finding Hope In Difficult Weeks 26:15 – Break 27:16 – Mabel & The Women's World Cup ⚽ 28:50 – Sharing Passions Together 30:16 – When Interests Come Back Around 30:45 – Oscar's GCSE Choices 32:10 – A Family Birthday Meal 🎂 33:14 – Everyone Arrives Regulated 34:07 – Dan's Big Win Of The Week 35:15 – New Places & New Experiences 36:27 – Explaining Your Child's Needs 37:21 – Visiting The Farm 39:24 – Pattern Recognition & Confidence 40:51 – Building Trust Through Experience 41:27 – Anxiety Before The Event 42:30 – Remembering What They're Capable Of 44:30 – Reflecting On A Great Week 45:00 – Look Ahead To The Week Ahead 45:47 – Exams, Football & Father's Day 48:25 – Why We Chronicle The Wins 48:57 – You're Doing Great Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    50 min
  4. Are We Expecting Too Much From Neurodivergent Kids | NeuroDADverse Ep. 52

    12 Jun

    Are We Expecting Too Much From Neurodivergent Kids | NeuroDADverse Ep. 52

    Have you ever caught yourself expecting something from your child… only to realise later they genuinely couldn’t do it? In Episode 52 of The NeuroDADverse Podcast, Ben and Dan reflect on one of the most uncomfortable parts of parenting neurodivergent children: the moments when we forget what they’re carrying and accidentally judge them through a neurotypical lens.   Sometimes the hardest parenting lesson is realising your child isn’t struggling because they’re unwilling, they’re struggling because they’re overwhelmed. This week we discuss emotional school avoidance, ADHD, autism, masking, burnout, independence, communication, and the growing public debate around neurodivergent diagnoses. We also explore: Emotional Based School Avoidance (EBSA)ADHD and autism misconceptionsWhy “just try harder” isn’t always helpfulSupporting children through overwhelm and anxietyLearning to communicate differently as parentsBuilding independence safelyNeurodivergent teenagers finding their peopleCelebrating progress that would once have seemed impossible Plus, Ben shares a powerful reflection on how media conversations around ADHD and autism can sometimes affect even experienced parents, while Dan celebrates some huge wins around communication, independence, and emotional regulation with Frankie. From packed cinemas full of neurodivergent joy to school anxiety, speech breakthroughs, missing teeth, plasters, sunscreen, and birthday cake negotiations at 1:30am, this episode is packed with the real-life highs and lows of neurodivergent family life. 🎧 If you’ve ever questioned whether you’re getting it right as a parent, this conversation is for you. 💛 You’re doing great. You are enough. You are definitely not alone. Real conversations about raising neurodivergent children in a neurotypical world. Hosted by two UK dads, NeuroDADverse explores autism, ADHD, SEND parenting, mental load, masking, school systems, identity, and the everyday wins and struggles of neurodivergent family life. 🔔 New episodes weekly 📢 Share, rate, or comment to help more families discover the show 📧 neurodadverse@gmail.com 🌐 All links & platforms: 👉 linktr.ee/NeuroDADverse 🎧 Listen on: Apple Podcasts • Spotify • Amazon Music • Audible 📺 Watch full episodes & short clips on YouTube 📲 Follow on TikTok, Instagram, Facebook & LinkedIn #NeurodivergentParenting #SENDLife #AutismParenting #ADHDDads #ParentingPodcast #NeuroDadverse #DifferentNotLess #NeurodiversityUK Chatpers: 00:00 – Welcome to The NeuroDADverse 00:43 – Episode 52 Begins 01:58 – Week in Three Words 03:05 – Challenges Begin 05:46 – Frankie Loses Two Teeth 🦷 07:06 – Weekend Transitions & Big Changes 10:24 – The 1:30am Birthday Cake Battle 🎂 13:22 – Understanding The Real Need 15:09 – When Parents Assume The Worst 17:23 – Social Stories & Kitchen Climbing 20:53 – Why Transitions Are Always Hard 23:00 – First Week Back At School 23:32 – Emotional School Avoidance Explained 24:43 – Supporting Different Neurotypes 25:25 – ADHD & Autism "Overdiagnosis" Debate 26:57 – When Outside Voices Get In Your Head 28:17 – Why Lived Experience Matters 30:23 – Catching Yourself Thinking The Wrong Thing 31:20 – "Why Can't You Just Remember?" 32:17 – The Reality Of ADHD & Autism 32:55 – Break 33:07 – Wins Section Begins 34:08 – The Amazing Digital Circus 🎪 35:46 – A Cinema Full Of Neurodivergent Joy 37:03 – Looking Back At Early Parenting 38:04 – From Survival To Shared Experiences 39:04 – Understanding Your Child's Needs 39:24 – Mabel Joins A Band 🎤 41:03 – Putting Yourself Out There 42:55 – Speech & Language Reflections 43:43 – Communication Breakthroughs 45:30 – Huge Sunscreen Win ☀️ 46:57 – Sandals, Plasters & Independence 49:52 – Looking Back At Progress 50:46 – Parenting Beyond School 51:10 – Look Ahead To The Week Ahead 51:50 – New Responsibilities & Independence 52:20 – GCSE Speaking Assessment Anxiety 54:21 – Advocating For Yourself 55:31 – Dan's Week Ahead 56:04 – Why We Keep Doing This Podcast 56:40 – Final Reminder: You're Not Alone Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    57 min
  5. When Holidays Don’t Go To Plan… Do You Change the Plan or Push Through? | NeuroDADverse Ep. 51

    5 Jun

    When Holidays Don’t Go To Plan… Do You Change the Plan or Push Through? | NeuroDADverse Ep. 51

    You spend weeks planning the perfect family break… and then your child needs something completely different. In Episode 51 of The NeuroDADverse Podcast, Ben and Dan reflect on half-term holidays, sensory overload, family adventures, unexpected parenting challenges, and the moments that remind you why flexibility matters more than perfection.   From navigating a neurodivergent family holiday in Cornwall to adjusting plans when regulation starts to slip, this episode explores the reality of balancing expectations with what your child actually needs in the moment. We also discuss: Autism, ADHD and family holidaysSensory overload and holiday burnoutManaging expectations when plans changeWhy rest days can be just as important as activity daysBuilding confidence through exploration and adventureSocial stories, transitions and communication toolsHaircut progress and growing independenceCelebrating the small wins that once felt impossible Plus, Ben shares a heartwarming story about exploring Cornwall with Mabel, while Dan celebrates a huge breakthrough with Frankie communicating more with some words! This episode is honest, relatable, funny, and packed with those everyday parenting moments that neurodivergent families know all too well. 🎧 Whether you’re navigating autism, ADHD, SEND parenting, sensory challenges, or simply trying to survive the school holidays, you’re not alone. 💛 You’re doing great. You are enough. You are definitely not alone. Real conversations about raising neurodivergent children in a neurotypical world. Hosted by two UK dads, NeuroDADverse explores autism, ADHD, SEND parenting, mental load, masking, school systems, identity, and the everyday wins and struggles of neurodivergent family life. If you’re a parent of an autistic child, an ADHD dad, part of a SEND family, or simply looking for honest, relatable parenting conversations. you’re not alone here. 🔔 New episodes weekly 📢 Share, rate, or comment to help more families discover the show 📧 neurodadverse@gmail.com 🌐 All links & platforms: 👉 linktr.ee/NeuroDADverse 🎧 Listen on: Apple Podcasts • Spotify • Amazon Music • Audible 📺 Watch full episodes & short clips on YouTube 📲 Follow on TikTok, Instagram, Facebook & LinkedIn #NeurodivergentParenting #SENDLife #AutismParenting #ADHDDads #ParentingPodcast #NeuroDadverse #DifferentNotLess #NeurodiversityUK Chapters: 00:00 – Welcome to The NeuroDADverse 00:43 – Episode 51 Begins 01:05 – Half-Term Holiday Catch-Up 02:48 – Week in Three Words 03:06 – Nature, Structure & Reset 04:57 – Holiday Challenges Begin 07:50 – Haircuts, Sensory Needs & Parenting Decisions 09:58 – Arriving in Cornwall 11:05 – Long Journeys & Holiday Planning 12:03 – Activity Days vs Rest Days 12:55 – When Regulation Starts To Slip 13:47 – Changing Plans To Meet Needs 14:25 – The Grief of Missed Experiences 15:34 – Adjusting Expectations as Parents 16:53 – Zooming Out & Seeing The Bigger Picture 17:50 – Finding Balance During Holidays 18:45 – Break 18:57 – Wins Section Begins 19:52 – Nature, Exploration & Family Adventure 21:01 – Ditching Google Maps & Following Curiosity 22:22 – Cornwall, Tin Mines & Discovery 23:30 – Learning From Your Children 24:35 – Adventure, Confidence & Independence 25:35 – Parenting Lessons From A Cliff Path 26:28 – Swimming, Confidence & Sensory Growth 27:13 – Five Family Dinners In A Row 28:08 – Managing Service Stations & Travel 28:59 – Dan's Haircut Win 30:10 – Frankie Starts Directing The Haircut 31:22 – Communication Progress & Independence 33:04 – Evidence Of Learning & Growth 35:16 – Social Stories & Transition Success 37:47 – No Meltdowns During Big Transitions 38:30 – Look Ahead To The Week Ahead 40:25 – Returning To School 41:17 – New Term, New Opportunities 42:19 – Final Reflections 43:31 – You're Doing Great 44:01 – Closing Thoughts Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    44 min
  6. When Routine Changes Break Everything… (And Somehow They Still Cope) | NeuroDADverse Ep.50

    29 May

    When Routine Changes Break Everything… (And Somehow They Still Cope) | NeuroDADverse Ep.50

    One small change in routine can affect everything. In Episode 50 of The NeuroDADverse Podcast, Amy joins Dan for her full podcast debut to reflect on a week full of disrupted routines, emotional exhaustion, sensory overwhelm, and the constant balancing act of trying to support neurodivergent children through change.  Ben and the family are on holiday remote with non-optimal Wi-Fi. From different teachers, missed routines, sports day struggles, sleep deprivation, and sensory overload… to unexpected moments of joy, dancing, confidence, and connection. This episode captures the emotional rollercoaster that many SEND and neurodivergent families know all too well. We also discuss: Why routine changes can massively impact autistic childrenSports Day, sensory overload, and feeling “different”Parenting through exhaustion and disrupted sleepWhy some environments feel impossible for ND kidsEncouraging participation without pressureUnexpected social breakthroughs and performance confidenceThe importance of safe people and familiar placesWhy some of the biggest wins happen after the hardest weeksPlus, Amy shares a genuinely lovely moment where Frankie spontaneously joins in with dancing and performing after a difficult week and why that moment meant so much. This episode is funny, reflective, honest, and deeply relatable for parents navigating autism, ADHD, SEND parenting, routines, emotional regulation, and neurodivergent family life. 💛 You’re doing great. You are enough. You are definitely not alone. Real conversations about raising neurodivergent children in a neurotypical world. Hosted by two UK dads, NeuroDADverse explores autism, ADHD, SEND parenting, mental load, masking, school systems, identity, and the everyday wins and struggles of neurodivergent family life. If you’re a parent of an autistic child, an ADHD dad, part of a SEND family, or simply looking for honest, relatable parenting conversations — you’re not alone here. 🔔 New episodes weekly 📢 Share, rate, or comment to help more families discover the show 📧 neurodadverse@gmail.com 🌐 All links & platforms: 👉 linktr.ee/NeuroDADverse 🎧 Listen on: Apple Podcasts • Spotify • Amazon Music • Audible 📺 Watch full episodes & short clips on YouTube 📲 Follow on TikTok, Instagram, Facebook & LinkedIn #NeurodivergentParenting #SENDLife #AutismParenting #ADHDDads #ParentingPodcast #NeuroDadverse #DifferentNotLess #NeurodiversityUK 00:00 – Welcome to The NeuroDADverse 00:28 – Why We Started This Podcast 01:59 – Episode 50 Begins 03:02 – A Week Full of Change 03:33 – Different Teachers & Broken Routines 04:24 – Missing Sports Day as a Parent 05:07 – Sleep Deprivation & Emotional Exhaustion 06:24 – “He Knew Something Was Different” 07:30 – Small Wins in Hard Weeks 08:02 – Sports Day & Sensory Overload 09:08 – Why Frankie Clings to Parents at School 10:00 – Different Parenting Styles & Acceptance 12:10 – “Dance to His Own Beat” 13:03 – Sports Day Expectations vs Reality 14:08 – Why Big Events Feel Too Much 15:22 – Celebrating Progress Without Pressure 16:00 – “It Could’ve Gone Terribly Wrong” 16:32 – Break 17:11 – Wins Section Begins 17:39 – Weekend Away Success 18:15 – Surviving Broken Routine 18:37 – Frankie Joins In & Performs 💃 19:22 – “He Wanted to Show Everyone” 20:01 – From Hard Week → Big Win 20:40 – New Foods & BBQ Wins 🌭 21:28 – Overtired Hysterical Laughter 😅 22:27 – Communication Through Repetition 23:09 – Tiny Moments That Mean Everything 24:17 – Look Ahead to Half-Term 27:17 – Family Time & Routine Recovery 28:13 – Heat, Sensory Needs & Staying Indoors 29:30 – Planning Around Flexibility 30:23 – “We Go With It” 30:40 – Final Reflections 31:01 – You’re Doing Great 💛 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    31 min
  7. Why Don’t Neurodivergent Kids Believe in Themselves? | NeuroDADverse Ep. 49

    22 May

    Why Don’t Neurodivergent Kids Believe in Themselves? | NeuroDADverse Ep. 49

    You can encourage them every single day… and still watch them doubt themselves. In Episode 49 of The NeuroDADverse Podcast, Ben and Dan reflect on self-worth, confidence, rejection sensitivity, and the emotional reality of trying to build belief in neurodivergent children who often struggle to see their own strengths.   This week’s episode gets more reflective and emotional than usual as the dads unpack how autism, ADHD, masking, rejection, and school experiences can deeply affect confidence and identity over time. We also discuss: Why neurodivergent children can struggle to accept praiseThe emotional impact of feeling “different” growing upEncouraging confidence without pressureParents’ evenings and the importance of safe adults in schoolsFeeling seen, encouraged, and understood in educationWhy small moments of acceptance matter so muchParenting through uncertainty while still holding onto hopePlus, Dan shares a genuinely heartwarming update about Frankie being encouraged to run for school council — a moment that would have once felt impossible. This episode is honest, vulnerable, hopeful, and deeply relatable for parents navigating autism, ADHD, SEND parenting, school struggles, and neurodivergent self-esteem. Real conversations about raising neurodivergent children in a neurotypical world. Hosted by two UK dads, NeuroDADverse explores autism, ADHD, SEND parenting, mental load, masking, school systems, identity, and the everyday wins and struggles of neurodivergent family life. If you’re a parent of an autistic child, an ADHD dad, part of a SEND family, or simply looking for honest, relatable parenting conversations — you’re not alone here. 🔔 New episodes weekly 📢 Share, rate, or comment to help more families discover the show 📧 neurodadverse@gmail.com 🌐 All links & platforms: 👉 linktr.ee/NeuroDADverse 🎧 Listen on: Apple Podcasts • Spotify • Amazon Music • Audible 📺 Watch full episodes & short clips on YouTube 📲 Follow on TikTok, Instagram, Facebook & LinkedIn #NeurodivergentParenting #SENDLife #AutismParenting #ADHDDads #ParentingPodcast #NeuroDadverse #DifferentNotLess #NeurodiversityUK Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    30 min
  8. When Burnout Hits Your Neurodivergent Child… What Do You Actually Do? | NeuroDADverse Ep. 48

    15 May

    When Burnout Hits Your Neurodivergent Child… What Do You Actually Do? | NeuroDADverse Ep. 48

    You can feel the burnout building… even before your child says a word. In Episode 48 of The NeuroDADverse Podcast, Ben and Dan talk about emotional exhaustion, sensory overload, teenage burnout, and the quiet parenting decisions that happen behind the scenes every single day.  From Frankie becoming completely deregulated after a difficult car journey, to Mabel being physically sick during the school day from emotional and physical overwhelm, this episode explores the reality of supporting neurodivergent children through periods of burnout and transition. We also discuss: Recognising burnout signs in neurodivergent teensWhy regulation can collapse after seemingly “normal” daysParenting through sickness, stress, and sensory overloadLetting teenagers learn through natural consequencesWhy slowing expectations can sometimes be the biggest winSupporting identity, confidence, and sibling connectionFinding joy in birthdays, trampolines, football hats, makeup, and everyday family moments Plus, Ben reflects on a birthday weekend full of patience, acceptance, and some genuinely heartwarming family connection moments that once felt impossible. This episode is honest, comforting, funny in places, and deeply relatable for parents navigating autism, ADHD, SEND parenting, and neurodivergent family life. 🎙️ NeuroDADverse Podcast: Real conversations about raising neurodivergent children in a neurotypical world. Hosted by two UK dads, NeuroDADverse explores autism, ADHD, SEND parenting, mental load, masking, school systems, identity, and the everyday wins and struggles of neurodivergent family life. If you’re a parent of an autistic child, an ADHD dad, part of a SEND family, or simply looking for honest, relatable parenting conversations, you’re not alone here. 🔔 New episodes weekly 📢 Share, rate, or comment to help more families discover the show 📧 neurodadverse@gmail.com 🌐 All links & platforms: 👉 linktr.ee/NeuroDADverse 🎧 Listen on: Apple Podcasts • Spotify • Amazon Music • Audible 📺 Watch full episodes & short clips on YouTube 📲 Follow on TikTok, Instagram, Facebook & LinkedIn #NeurodivergentParenting #SENDLife #AutismParenting #ParentingPodcast #NeuroDadverse #DifferentNotLess #NeurodiversityUK #AutismParenting #ADHDAwareness #SENDParenting #Neurodiversity #SENDFamily #NeurodivergentFamily Timecodes: 00:00 – Welcome to The NeuroDADverse 00:43 – Episode 48 Begins 01:17 – Week in Three Words 02:07 – “Puke, Cake & Makeup” Explained 😅 04:02 – Challenges Begin 05:52 – Frankie’s Car Journey Deregulation 06:33 – Attachment vs Sensory Overload 08:13 – The Emotional Crash Afterwards 09:43 – Why Some Hard Days Are Still Wins 10:20 – “The World Won’t Change” Parenting Reflection 11:00 – End-of-Term Burnout Begins 12:05 – Mabel Becoming Sick at School 13:06 – Teenagers, Nutrition & Independence 14:18 – School Support During Difficult Moments 15:10 – Shame, Embarrassment & Burnout 16:10 – Learning Through Consequences 17:12 – Why This Felt Like a Different Challenge 17:25 – Break 17:46 – Wins Section Begins 19:50 – Frankie’s Charlton Hat Win ⚽ 20:18 – Self-Care & Motivation Progress 21:14 – Why This Was Such a Big Deal 23:20 – Cowboy Boots, Costumes & Confidence 24:38 – Ben’s Birthday Weekend 25:30 – Slowing Everything Down as Parents 26:16 – Family Connection Around the Table 27:00 – “No Pressure” Parenting Wins 27:57 – Oscar Exploring Makeup & Identity 28:32 – Sibling Connection Through Old Photos 29:01 – “Chronicle the Wins” Reflection 29:57 – Look Ahead to the Week Ahead 31:00 – Incredible Years Parenting Course 32:26 – Simultaneous Parents’ Evenings 😅 33:07 – Preparing for Half-Term & Travel 33:44 – Why ND Holidays Need Scaffolding 34:21 – Why This Podcast Matters 35:19 – Final Reminder: You’re Not Alone Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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The NeuroDADverse is more than just a podcast, it’s a weekly therapy session between two long-time friends reconnecting through the shared highs and lows of neurodivergent parenthood. Danny is raising a six-year-old, while Ben is navigating life with two teenagers. Between them, their lived experiences span early years and adolescence, offering valuable perspective for any parent on the neurodivergent journey. Their conversations blend lived wisdom, raw honesty, and light-hearted reflection, often with Danny just entering stages that Ben has already faced. This dynamic brings warmth, curiosity, and relatable storytelling that resonates across all ages and stages of parenting. At its heart, The NeuroDADverse exists because parenting neurodivergent children can feel incredibly isolating. Many of society’s norms simply don’t apply and it’s rare to find someone who truly hears you. This podcast was born from the need to find and grow that tribe. A space where parents can feel seen, heard, and appreciated. Whether you’re in the thick of meltdowns, laughing uncontrollably with them or even just wondering about diagnoses you’re not alone. Here, we speak with love, lead though our understanding and share with honesty. This is a space for ideas, laughter, and connection. Please remember: You are doing better than you think. You are enough. You are not alone. Welcome to the NeuroDADverse.“ Real talk from two dads raising neurodivergent kids with love, laughter, and plenty of chaos. Connect with us on Instagram, TikTok and watch us on Youtube @NeuroDadversepodcast Theme music by Hands Up! https://www.instagram.com/handsuppunk/?hl=en Show produced by Squid Shack Studios https://www.instagram.com/squidshackstudios/ Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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  • Creator
    Danny Eycott - Ben Wisdom-Quieros
  • Years Active
    2025 - 2026
  • Episodes
    56
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © Danny Eycott - Ben Wisdom-Quieros
  • Show Website
    NeuroDADverse

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