Raising Mums

Dr Gemma Elizabeth: Founder of Our Muslim Homeschool and Raising Mums

Inspirational podcast about intentional motherhood and mindful parenting

  1. 4 days ago

    The Cost of Efficiency: Why Slowing Down Changes Everything

    Slowing down in homeschooling can feel counterintuitive when your to-do list is full. However, constantly rushing through checklists comes with a hidden cost. Ticking off tasks feels productive, but high speed often robs us of true presence. It steals our gratitude and quiet connection with our children. In episode 111 of the Raising Mums podcast, I explain why true purpose requires us to drop the rushing. Discover how choosing slowness creates the space to anchor your homeschool with deeper niyyah (intention) and shukr (gratitude). Plus, I share a simple summer challenge to help you shift from efficiency to deep presence! Important Links Mentioned in This Episode:  ☕️ 50% Off Exhale Coffee:  https://ourmuslimhomeschool.com/coffee💌 JOIN OUR EMAIL LIST: https://ourmuslimhomeschool.com/newsletter for weekly encouragement and tips. ⭐️ LAUNCH YOUR HOMESCHOOL: Join the Waiting List: http://launchyourhomeschool.com/ ⭐️🎙️START A PODCAST with Blubrry: https://ourmuslimhomeschool.com/startyourpodcast .Get your first month of Blubrry podcasting hosting FREE with the affiliate code RaisingMums (aff.) 💚 Intro Music – by PEARLS OF ISLAM: https://www.pearlsofislam.co.uk (Bismillah from the album “Love is My Foundation”)📱Follow me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ourmuslimhomeschool/🔴 Subscribe on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ourmuslimhomeschool

  2. 25 Jul

    Why Schools Fail in the AI Era (feat. Hind Adeagbo)

    To understand why schools fail in the age of Artificial Intelligence, we have to look at how traditional 19th-century classrooms are trying to prepare children for a future that won't even exist by the time they graduate. Is traditional schooling preparing our children for a world that won't exist by the time they graduate? In this episode, Dr. Gemma shares exclusive snippets from a guest presentation delivered to the Launch Your Homeschool community by Hind Adeagbo; mother of seven, home-educator, Co-founder and Head of Stewards.ONE online school. Together, they unpack the massive shifts happening in the job market due to Artificial Intelligence, why rigid school systems are failing to keep pace, and how home educators hold the ultimate advantage in raising agile, future-ready thinkers. In this episode, you’ll discover: Why traditional 19th-century education models can't keep up with 21st-century AI advances. How to approach secondary home education, GCSEs, and real-life skills without fear. The essential mindsets kids need to thrive alongside AI (rather than being replaced by it). Why homeschooling offers the ultimate flexibility to pivot and innovate. Important Links Mentioned in This Episode: ⭐️ LAUNCH YOUR HOMESCHOOL: Join the Waiting List: http://launchyourhomeschool.com/ ⭐️ 💌 JOIN OUR EMAIL LIST: https://ourmuslimhomeschool.com/newsletter for weekly encouragement and tips. 📚 STEWARDS ONE - For more information about this online school: https://www.stewards.one 🎙️START A PODCAST with Blubrry: https://ourmuslimhomeschool.com/startyourpodcast . Get your first month of Blubrry podcasting hosting FREE with the affiliate code RaisingMums (aff.) 💚 Intro Music – by PEARLS OF ISLAM: https://www.pearlsofislam.co.uk (Bismillah from the album “Love is My Foundation”)📱Follow me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ourmuslimhomeschool/🔴 Subscribe on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ourmuslimhomeschool

  3. 21 Jun

    The 2-Hour Homeschool Day: Finding Barakah in the Chaos

    Struggling to manage your time? Learn how to structure a peaceful muslim homeschool day that beats burnout, saves time, and invites barakah into your home. Important Links Mentioned in This Episode: JOIN THE WAITING LIST for Launch Your Homeschool https://ourmuslimhomeschool.com/waiting-list  JOIN OUR EMAIL LIST: https://ourmuslimhomeschool.com/newsletter for weekly encouragement and tips. START A PODCAST with Blubrry:https://ourmuslimhomeschool.com/startyourpodcast . Get your first month of Blubrry podcasting hosting FREE with the affiliate code RaisingMums (aff.) Intro Music – by PEARLS OF ISLAM: https://www.pearlsofislam.co.uk (Bismillah from the album “Love is My Foundation”) Follow me on Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/ourmuslimhomeschool/ Subscribe on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ourmuslimhomeschool Ever feel like there just aren't enough hours in the day to balance your home, your faith, and your children's education? You are definitely not alone. Finding a sustainable routine for a Muslim homeschool day that actually works (without leading straight to burnout) is one of the biggest challenges we face as mothers. In this episode of the podcast, we’re stripping away the textbook expectations and talking about how to build a flexible, intentional schedule that invites barakah into your day, allows you to teach multiple ages together, and leaves you feeling calm and confident.

  4. 14 Jun

    Homeschool History: Islamic Identity and Raising a Strong Ummah

    If there is one subject in my homeschool that I am absolutely, fiercely consistent with year after year; it is history. I love it, it’s a deep personal passion of mine, and I truly believe homeschool history is one of the most powerful tools we have as home educators. 📥 Important Links Mentioned in This Episode: ⭐ Click Here to join the WAITING LIST for Launch Your Homeschool https://ourmuslimhomeschool.com/waiting-list 🚀 ⭐ Our Hijri & Gregorian Book of Centuries: https://amzn.to/4ouRXes (aff.) Other Islamic History Book Recommendations: https://ourmuslimhomeschool.com/2018/09/homeschool-islamic-history-curriculum-choices.html JOIN OUR EMAIL LIST: https://ourmuslimhomeschool.com/newsletter for weekly encouragement and tips. HOMESCHOOLING COURSES: https://ourmuslimhomeschool.com/courses to help you simplify your education journey.  START A PODCAST with Blubrry: https://ourmuslimhomeschool.com/startyourpodcast . Get your first month of Blubrry podcasting hosting FREE with the affiliate code RaisingMums (aff.) Intro Music – by PEARLS OF ISLAM: https://www.pearlsofislam.co.uk (Bismillah from the album “Love is My Foundation”) Follow me on Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/ourmuslimhomeschool/ Subscribe on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ourmuslimhomeschool True history isn't about memorizing dry timelines, dead kings, and random facts just to pass a test. It is a living story. In fact, so many of our deep societal problems today - from growing racial divides to the rise of Islamophobia - could be healed if we simply understood our history better. When our children know where they come from, they understand who they can be. In this week's episode of the podcast, I’m sharing my exact approach to teaching history, how we use Charlotte Mason principles in a Muslim home, and the specific resources I use to anchor my children’s identity. The Charlotte Mason Approach to Homeschool History When it comes to the how of teaching history, I lean heavily on the wisdom of Charlotte Mason. She completely rejected dry, utilitarian textbooks. Instead, she believed history should be taught through "living books"—biographies, letters, literature, and diaries that make the past come alive. Charlotte Mason famously wrote: "The history of a country is a life, a drama, a romance, to be lived over by the child with the actors." She advised starting with the history of your own country when children are young to give them a sense of place, before moving to a world view later. As a Muslim family, I take that brilliant principle and add our own vital layer: We begin with our Islamic history first.Our children need to see the world through the lens of the Prophets, the Seerah, and the growth of the Ummah. Then, we look at the country we live in, and finally, we expand to a global world view. Tracking Homeschool History with a Book of Centuries To ground this learning, we use a Book of Centuries: a personalized, blank timeline book where a child records major events, key figures, and scientific discoveries as they encounter them over the years. Because I struggled to find one that fit the worldview of a Muslim family, we actually created and published our own! Our Book of Centuries includes the Hijri calendar side-by-side with the Gregorian calendar. It allows your children to see exactly what was happening in the Islamic world at the exact same time major events were unfolding in European or world history. Buy it here: https://amzn.to/4ouRXes (aff.) Alongside this, my children produce their own notebooks. We step completely away from dry, consumable worksheets that treat history like a transactional test-prep subject. 📝🙄 Worksheets require zero imagination and usually end up in the bin. Instead, give your child a blank journal. Let them write summaries, draw maps, or sketch historical clothing. What goes onto those pages reflects their unique imagination and personal connection to the story. Building an Unshakeable Islamic Identity Finding high-quality Islamic history resources written in English can be a real struggle. However, there are some beautiful living books out there right now that are making a massive difference: For Scholars & Predecessors: I absolutely love the biographies being written about the Imams of Tarim called Awliya of the Ummah by Umm Layla. For Younger Kids: The Hadi Twin Adventures by Anisa Rasul is fantastic for sparking early historical curiosity. For the Seerah: Anything by Leyla Azam is a beautiful, classic addition to your bookshelf. For Female Role Models: Sheikha Fatima Barkatulla and Sheikha Haifa Younis have both published phenomenal biographies of the female Sahabiyaat. Knowing our Islamic history is the ultimate key to raising a strong Ummah. When our children know the incredible legacy they come from, they develop an unbreakable sense of identity. They won't feel the need to hide their faith or apologize for who they are. Peace and Love,

  5. 7 Jun

    Navigating Homeschool GCSEs: Practical Steps & Emotional Realities

    Exam season has officially wrapped up here in the UK, and my Instagram DMs  have been full of questions from mums wondering how on earth to navigate Homeschool GCSEs or other high school qualifications. Important Links: ⭐️ Click Here to join the WAITING LIST for Launch Your Homeschool:⭐️  https://ourmuslimhomeschool.com/waiting-list  JOIN OUR EMAIL LIST: https://ourmuslimhomeschool.com/newsletter for weekly encouragement and tips. HOMESCHOOLING COURSES: https://ourmuslimhomeschool.com/courses to help you simplify your education journey.  START A PODCAST with Blubrry:https://ourmuslimhomeschool.com/startyourpodcast . Get your first month of Blubrry podcasting hosting FREE with the affiliate code RaisingMums  Intro Music – by PEARLS OF ISLAM: https://www.pearlsofislam.co.uk (Bismillah from the album “Love is My Foundation”) Follow me on Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/ourmuslimhomeschool/ Subscribe on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ourmuslimhomeschool Now, if you are reading this from the US or elsewhere globally (which is about 50% of my audience) you might be thinking, "What is a GCSE, and is this relevant to me?" In the UK, GCSEs are the national exams kids take at the end of high school. They are the British equivalent of your high school transcripts, AP exams, or SATs. But even if you live outside the UK, please don't scroll away! This milestone is universal. We are all eventually faced with the transition from the cozy, protective world of home education into the high-stakes world of standardized testing, transcripts, and the emotional journey of letting our babies grow up. We're in this together. As I stood outside our exam centre, I got a little emotional. Looking around at all the other parents waiting on the pavement, I saw parents who hadn’t just sacrificed their morning to be there. They had probably sacrificed jobs, sleep, hobbies, and free time over the years; all for the sake of the child sitting inside that hall. And they chose to do it. My heart just filled with love and I started making dua for all of them. They didn’t look like me, they didn’t sound like me, and most were not Muslim; but we shared this beautiful commonality. We are all just parents trying to do the absolute best for our children. Your Questions Answered: The Practical Guide to Homeschool GCSEs Navigating formal qualifications outside of the school system can feel like a minefield. There is no single "right" way to do this, but here is exactly how we successfully managed the process in our home: 1. We Spaced Out the Timeline 🗓️ In a traditional school, children are forced to sit 8 to 11 exams all at once at age 16. The pressure is immense! As homeschoolers, we opted out of that timeline. We spread the exams over 3 to 4 years, with my boys receiving their very first GCSE at 12 and 13 years old. This allowed them to build their confidence slowly without breaking under the pressure. 2. The Shift to Self-Taught 🧠 When we first started out, we used online platforms like Whole Brain Home Education and Steward's One, which gave us a fantastic, structured foundation. However, as the boys grew, they naturally transitioned to being completely self-taught; especially in the subjects they loved and excelled at. They had already developed the independent study habits they needed to fly on their own. 3. How Many Subjects Do They Need? 📊 This entirely depends on your child's future ambitions. The Bare Minimum: You generally want the 3 core subjects: Mathematics, English, and Science. Sixth Form/College Route: Traditional UK colleges usually require between 5 to 10 GCSEs depending on the school and your area. Don't panic if your 13-year-old doesn't know their exact career path yet—most don't! 4. The Financial Cost 💰 Let's be completely real: sitting exams as a private candidate is expensive. It costs roughly £200 per exam paper. If your child is sitting nine subjects, that bill hurts! This is another massive benefit of spreading the exams over a few years; it allows you to digest the financial cost in smaller chunks. 5. Check the Specification Carefully! (Learn From My Mistake) 🔍 When selecting your exam boards (like Edexcel, AQA, or Cambridge), read the syllabus—the specification—very carefully. Look for boards that offer plenty of free online past papers (Pearson Edexcel is fantastic for this). Most importantly: Make sure there is no coursework required. Coursework is incredibly difficult to get officially authenticated as a home educator. You want to look for "International GCSEs" (iGCSEs), which are usually 100% exam-based. Our Mistake: My son spent months prepping for a Computer Science iGCSE. We thought there was no coursework, but four weeks before the exam, we realized the board required a mandatory "personal programming project." Because we couldn't find an exam center willing to log and mark his project last minute, he had to pivot entirely to the Cambridge exam board at the absolute last second. Save yourself the panic: check, check, and triple-check the fine print! The Confession: Shifting from a "Necessary Evil" to a Blessing I used to view these exams as a "necessary evil"—something that temporarily dragged us away from our "real," living education at home. But watching my sons go through it completely shifted my perspective. These exams gave my boys a healthy challenge that I naturally shy away from at home because I want to protect them. It gave them focus, direction, and immense confidence. Through this process, they experienced the genuine joy of academia and what it means to pursue Ihsaan (excellence). Allah سبحانه وتعالى provides for our children even when we are initially reluctant or ungrateful. He is so kind and generous, providing our kids with exactly what they need at the perfect time. Alhamdulillah. Lessons in Letting Go As the final papers were handed in this week, a wave of emotion hit me. I will never again take my eldest son to sit his GCSEs. That chapter of our life together is officially over. The truth is... I'm not ready for it to be over. I'm not ready to say goodbye to that stage, or to let go of my little boy. But ready or not, they grow. Our job is to equip them for the world outside our walls, and then trust Allah with the rest. Whether you are preparing transcripts in America or booking exam seats in the UK, remember that exams are just a temporary tool to teach our children discipline and reliance on Allah. To my fellow mamas finishing an academic chapter this month: I see you, and I feel that ache in your heart. Let’s make dua for one another as we navigate the beautiful, painful art of letting them grow up. 🤍 Peace and Love,

  6. 31 May

    Nature Study for Muslim Homeschooling: Beyond the Instagram Aesthetic

    Recently, on my Instagram stories I asked other Muslim Homeschooling mums a simple question: Do your children keep a nature journal? When the results came in, I was absolutely shocked. 50% of the homeschooling mums who responded said NO. We’ve been homeschooling our own children for more than ten years now, and in all that time, we have always prioritized nature study for kids. But knowing what I know about the incredible developmental and spiritual benefits, it made me realise something: either the sisters on Instagram don’t know how to do it, or they aren’t sure why it matters so much. Today, we are going to address both: the how and the why of nature study in Muslim homeschooling. Important Links:  ⭐️Click Here to join the WAITING LIST for Launch Your Homeschool:⭐️  https://ourmuslimhomeschool.com/waiting-list  JOIN OUR EMAIL LIST: https://ourmuslimhomeschool.com/newsletter for weekly encouragement and tips. HOMESCHOOLING COURSES: https://ourmuslimhomeschool.com/courses to help you simplify your education journey.  START A PODCAST with Blubrry: https://ourmuslimhomeschool.com/startyourpodcast . Get your first month of Blubrry podcasting hosting FREE with the affiliate code RaisingMums  Intro Music – by PEARLS OF ISLAM: https://www.pearlsofislam.co.uk (Bismillah from the album “Love is My Foundation”) Follow me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ourmuslimhomeschool/ Subscribe on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ourmuslimhomeschool Useful Resources to Get You Started If you want to dive deeper into these methods, here are a few incredible resources I highly recommend checking out: Pocketful of Pinecones by Karen Andreola (A beautiful, story-based look at how nature study plays out in a homeschool family). Nature and the Divine Names by Farrah Iftikhar (An excellent resource for tying observations directly back to Islamic values). https://beaconbooks.net Exploring Nature with Children (A fantastic weekly curriculum framework to follow). https://raisinglittleshoots.com/buy-exploring-nature-with-children/ Sabbath Mood Homeschool (Great online guides on the practicalities of lessons). https://sabbathmoodhomeschool.com/how-to-do-nature-study/ The Illusion of the "Perfect" Homeschool Aesthetic If you spend any time scrolling through homeschool spaces on Instagram or Pinterest, you’ve definitely seen the gorgeous flat-lays. The perfectly staged wooden tables, the linen clothing, the pristine watercolor paintings of mushrooms or oak leaves, and the carefully placed pinecones. It is beautiful. But if we aren’t careful, it’s easy to look at all of that and think: “Well, that looks lovely for families who live in a cottage in the countryside. But we live in the suburbs. We’re in a city. I don’t have time for that. We need to prioritize other things that are more important. Maybe nature study just isn't for us.” Today, I want to shatter that myth. Nature study is not an aesthetic. It is not a prop for social media, and it is definitely not a luxury "add-on" for your homeschool day. It is a vital, missing piece in modern education. It is not just about pretty photos and flawless watercolors. No! It is the intentional training of a child to look, to reflect, to question, and—most importantly for us as Muslim parents—to form the lifelong habit of seeing the Ayaat, the signs of Allah سبحانه وتعالى, all around them. It is a profound form of worship. And it lays the ultimate foundation for scientific thinking, without killing your child’s sense of awe, wonder, and love. The Core Problem: Science Without the Creator We are living in an era where there is an explosion of gorgeous children's books, online resources, and documentaries about the natural world. There is so much out there! But if you open those books or click those links, you will notice something fundamental is missing. They rarely, if ever, mention the Creator سبحانه وتعالى. Secular modern education treats science as a purely utilitarian subject. When something is utilitarian, it means we only value it because it is useful for a specific task or transaction. In a traditional school setting, a utilitarian approach means we only study the plant or the cell because it’s going to be on a GCSE exam, or because we need the grade to get the certificate, to get the job. It is purely transactional. It’s checking a box for the "system." The famous educator Charlotte Mason actually warned against this over a century ago in A Philosophy of Education. She wrote that while these nature notebooks do a great deal to bring science into common thought, "we are anxious not to make science a utilitarian subject." As the educator Bobby Scott once said: "We must have the courage to teach for the sake of the children rather than for the system." When we strip Allah out of the study of His creation, we teach children how to analyze the world, but we don’t teach them how to marvel at it. We kill their natural curiosity. In Islam, studying the natural world is called Tafakkur: deep reflection. Every single flower, insect, and cloud is a direct reminder of the Names of Allah سبحانه وتعالى. When we look at how perfectly an ecosystem works, we are seeing His Hikmah (Wisdom) and His Khaaliq (Creative Power). Think about Surah Mulk, where Allah says: "Do they not see the birds above them, spreading out their wings and folding them in? None holds them up except the Most Merciful. Indeed He, of all things, is Seeing." (Quran 67:19) Nature study is how we take that Ayah off the page and show it to our children in real life. The Prelude to Science: The Scientific Method in Action Now, some parents worry that if nature study is spiritual, it isn't "rigorous" enough to count as a real Islamic science curriculum. But the truth is, it is the ultimate prelude to science. Before a child can understand abstract scientific concepts, we can give them a rock-solid foundation in the scientific method through simple observation. When you take your child outside, you are training them in the actual scientific method: Observe Question Hypothesis (An educated guess: a prediction you make based on what you’ve observed, which you can test to see if you’re right.) Experiment Conclusion Here are three simple examples of how this looks on a neighborhood walk or at the kitchen table: Plants: You’re walking down your street and you observe moss growing heavily on the sides of the trees. Your child asks a question: "Does moss strictly grow only on the north side of a tree?" Right there, you have the beginning of a real scientific inquiry. Animals: You look at a pond and observe tadpoles swimming. The question arises: "Do they prefer the warm, shallow water near the edge, or the deeper, colder water? Why?" Birds: You notice house sparrows visiting your backyard bird feeder. You observe their behavior and ask: "Do these sparrows prefer the big sunflower seeds or the tiny thistle seeds?" Then you form a hypothesis: "Let’s look at the shape of their beak. Based on that short, thick beak, what can we predict about what they like to eat?" This isn’t dry busywork. This is active, vibrant thinking. Every single one of these observations can be gently, beautifully tied back to the Creator. You can look at that sparrow’s beak and discuss the incredible design of Al-Bari (The Designer), who gave every creature the exact tools it needs to survive. Every nature walk doesn’t need to be followed up by an expensive experiment and intense data collection. Maybe you facilitate a full experiment once a month or once a term. Otherwise, simply observing and questioning is more than enough when they are young. How to Start a Nature Journal (Even with Zero Backyard Access) So, how do we actually implement this without getting overwhelmed? First, let go of the pressure. Your nature walks should have very little formal instruction. Don't stand over your children lecturing them. Your main job is simply to protect their focus and let them observe. Second, remember that you do not need access to a pristine forest. If you have limited access to the outdoors, nature study can happen right inside your home: A basket of seashells collected from a trip or bought cheaply. Looking at the anatomy of a whole fish bought at the local market before you cook it. Stepping outside at night to track the phases of the moon and looking up at the night sky. Simply observing the changing of the seasons through a single window. When your children find something that sparks their interest, they can record it in a nature journal. They can draw it on-site or bring the memory home. Here is my favorite tip from Charlotte Mason homeschool principles: Journals should be kept neat, but they may be worn. Let your children's journals look like they’ve been loved. Let them have a bit of dirt on the corner, or a bent page from being stuffed into a backpack. A worn notebook is proof of a child who is actually interacting with the living world, not just trying to create a perfect piece of art for mom's social media grid. The nature journal simply facilitates their observations and questions. It is the process that matters, not the product at the end. This is not an art class. It’s science… and so much more. Once they’ve drawn or noted their observation, you can expand it at home using "Living Books" (narrative-driven books written by people who passionately love the subject) and reliable reference guides to research the names of what they found. Final Thoughts Brothers and sisters, let's give our children the gift of a living education. Let's step away from the artifici

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