The SpeakUp! Podcast

Martie Bernicker

Welcome to The SpeakUp! Podcast, where we bring you insights and expertise gained from over two decades of helping youth arrive at adulthood healthy, safe, and prepared by fostering open conversations and positive relationships with caring adults. With over two decades of experience engaging with 35,000 youth and families, we're here to share transformative insights on parent-teen communication and relationship strategies.    In this space, we aim to build a community of support around young people, led by our Executive Director, Martie Bernicker, and esteemed guests like Dr. Ken Ginsburg, Dr. Steve Treat, Michael Blanche, and Dr. Mitch Greene. From navigating stress and substance use to strengthening relationships and managing mental chatter, each episode dives into vital topics to guide parents and empower teens. Let's create conversations that matter, bridging understanding and fostering growth together.

Episodes

  1. 12 Jul

    Parenting Young Adults: A Conversation with Dr. B. Janet Hibbs

    Episode Description In this latest SpeakUp! podcast episode, Martie Bernicker, Executive Director of SpeakUp!, sits down with Dr. B. Janet Hibbs, psychologist, family therapist, and co-author of You're Not Done Yet, to explore what it means to parent young adults in today's rapidly changing world. Together, they discuss the concept of emerging adulthood, why the path to independence has become less linear, and how parents can shift from managing to mentoring. Dr. Hibbs shares practical strategies for strengthening connection, supporting young adults without enabling them, managing parental anxiety, and embracing the reality that parenting doesn't end at 18—it simply evolves. This conversation offers reassurance, hope, and actionable insights for anyone raising or supporting a young adult. Guest Info Guest: Dr. B. Janet Hibbs Website: https://www.drbhibbs.com/  Co-Author of: You're Not Done Yet: Parenting Young Adults in an Age of UncertaintyThe Stressed Years of Their LivesTry to See It My WayRelevant Resources Learn more about Dr. Hibbs and her work at drbjanethibbs.com.Pick up a copy of You're Not Done Yet: Parenting Young Adults in an Age of Uncertainty wherever books are sold.Explore SpeakUp!'s Continue the Conversation programs, including Parenting Adult Coffees, Grandparent Coffees, Youth Mental Health First Aid, and QPR Suicide Prevention Training at speakup.org.Production Credits This episode is brought to you by our friends at the Uncommon Individual Foundation (UIF), a catalyst for change through mentoring. UIF's ONTRACK Plus software is transforming the educational landscape for underserved students by creating pathways to college credits and scholarships. Learn more at uif.org. Website Learn more at www.speakup.org Follow SpeakUp! Instagram: @speakuporg Facebook: @speakup.pa LinkedIn: @speakuporg Production credits This episode is brought to you by our friends at the Uncommon Individual Foundation (UIF), a catalyst for change through mentoring. UIF’s ONTRACK Plus software is transforming the educational landscape for underserved students, by creating pathways to college credits and scholarships. Discover more at: uif.org Website Learn more at www.speakup.org Social Instagram: speakuporg Facebook: speakup.pa LinkedIn: speakuporg

  2. 28/10/2025

    See Teens as Problem-Solvers, Not Problems to be Solved with Dr. Ken Ginsburg

    In this latest SpeakUp! podcast episode, Martie Bernicker, the Executive Director of SpeakUp!, interviews Dr. Ken Ginsburg, a renowned expert in adolescent medicine and resilience-building, about viewing teens as problem-solvers rather than problems. Dr. Ginsburg emphasizes a strength-based approach, recognizing teens as experts in their own lives and encouraging parents to foster open communication and authentic self-expression. The discussion offers actionable strategies for parents, such as actively listening and understanding their teen’s perspective, reframing their roles as supportive guides, and challenging negative narratives about adolescence. Dr. Ginsburg’s insights provide a roadmap for parents to thrive alongside their teens, celebrating their unique potential and fostering resilience and confidence. Guest info (handles/links) Guest: Dr. Ken Ginsburg, @parentandteen, parentandteen.com Relevant resources Check out Ken’s latest books - "Lighthouse Parenting: Raising Your Child With Loving Guidance for a Lifelong Bond" and “Congrats - You’re Having a Teen” on Amazon.com. Visit the Center for Parent Teen Communication’s website at parentandteen.com for more information and strategies, and sign up for their weekly parenting e-newsletter. Production credits This episode is brought to you by our friends at the Uncommon Individual Foundation (UIF), a catalyst for change through mentoring. UIF’s ONTRACK Plus software is transforming the educational landscape for underserved students, by creating pathways to college credits and scholarships. Discover more at: uif.org Website Learn more at www.speakup.org Social Instagram: speakuporg Facebook: speakup.pa LinkedIn: speakuporg

  3. 11/09/2025

    Courage Over Confidence: Managing Mind Chatter and Winning the Mental Game with Dr. Mitch Greene

    In Episode 5 of The SpeakUp! Podcast, "Courage Over Confidence: Managing Mind Chatter and Winning the Mental Game," host Martie Bernicker and guest Dr. Mitchell Greene delve into the mental challenges faced by young athletes. They explore how parents and caring adults can support teens through sports’ ups and downs, focusing on managing negative self-talk, recovering from injuries, and maintaining mental health. Dr. Greene shares insights from his book, "Courage Over Confidence," offering practical strategies for fostering resilience and redefining success beyond winning. This episode provides valuable advice on handling mind chatter, setting realistic goals, and prioritizing growth and well-being in athletics. Guest info Guest: Dr. Mitchell Greene, @greenepsych, greenepsych.com Relevant resources Check out Dr. Mitch Greene’s latest book - “Courage Over Confidence: Managing Mind Chatter and Winning the Mental Game” - on Amazon.com, visit his website greenepsych.com where you can sign up for his newsletters and follow him on Instagram @greenepsych. Production credits This episode is brought to you by our friends at the Uncommon Individual Foundation (UIF), a catalyst for change through mentoring. UIF’s ONTRACK Plus software is transforming the educational landscape for underserved students, by creating pathways to college credits and scholarships. Discover more at: uif.org Website Learn more at www.speakup.org Social Instagram: speakuporg Facebook: speakup.pa LinkedIn: speakuporg

  4. 19/05/2025

    Moving from Control to Influence: A Conversation with Dr. Steve Treat

    In this episode of The SpeakUp! Podcast, Dr. Steve Treat, a seasoned therapist and former CEO of Council for Relationships, discusses how parents can shift from controlling to influencing their teenagers through stronger relationships. Engaged by Martie Bernicker, Executive Director of SpeakUp!, Dr. Treat emphasizes the power of genuine relationships built over time, advocating for parents to be present without interrupting, engage in open dialogue, and seek feedback on their parenting. He advises transitioning from a purely parental role to recognizing teenagers as peers, valuing their perspectives while maintaining boundaries. Even for those new to this approach, Dr. Treat provides practical tips, such as being available, incorporating playtime, and managing interaction intensity. The episode concludes with three actionable tips: recognizing normal teenage behavior, assessing reinforced behaviors, and mindful communication to foster healthier relationships. The overarching message underscores the importance of relationships and open dialogue in parenting teenagers. Guest: Dr. Steve Treat Production credits This episode is brought to you by our friends at the Uncommon Individual Foundation (UIF), a catalyst for change through mentoring. UIF’s ONTRACK Plus software is transforming the educational landscape for underserved students, by creating pathways to college credits and scholarships. Discover more at: uif.org Website Learn more at www.speakup.org Social Instagram: speakuporg Facebook: speakup.pa LinkedIn: speakuporg Production credits This episode is brought to you by our friends at the Uncommon Individual Foundation (UIF), a catalyst for change through mentoring. UIF’s ONTRACK Plus software is transforming the educational landscape for underserved students, by creating pathways to college credits and scholarships. Discover more at: uif.org Website Learn more at www.speakup.org Social Instagram: speakuporg Facebook: speakup.pa LinkedIn: speakuporg

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Welcome to The SpeakUp! Podcast, where we bring you insights and expertise gained from over two decades of helping youth arrive at adulthood healthy, safe, and prepared by fostering open conversations and positive relationships with caring adults. With over two decades of experience engaging with 35,000 youth and families, we're here to share transformative insights on parent-teen communication and relationship strategies.    In this space, we aim to build a community of support around young people, led by our Executive Director, Martie Bernicker, and esteemed guests like Dr. Ken Ginsburg, Dr. Steve Treat, Michael Blanche, and Dr. Mitch Greene. From navigating stress and substance use to strengthening relationships and managing mental chatter, each episode dives into vital topics to guide parents and empower teens. Let's create conversations that matter, bridging understanding and fostering growth together.