Shmiras Einayim

Rabbi Ari Klapper

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Frank, supportive guidance on maintaining spiritual purity in the modern world. Rabbi Ari Klapper combines Halacha with practical strategies for men struggling with visual temptation. Addresses the daily battle between religious conviction and natural urges with honesty, removing shame and isolation. You're not alone in this nisayon. Practical halachic advice for smartphones, the internet, and daily life challenges.

28/07/2025

Ep. 11 - See Beyond Temptation

Who are you when no one is watching? And what does your name say about your mission in this world? This episode takes us into one of the most powerful scenes in Torah: Yosef alone, far from home, facing a test no one would ever know about—except Hashem. What gave him the strength to walk away when everything inside him said yes? The answer: he remembered who he was. Rabbi Klapper uncovers the profound idea that a Jew’s name isn’t just a label—it’s a reflection of their essence. Yosef saw his father’s face and remembered his future—his name engraved on the Choshen, his destiny as one of the Shvatim—and it gave him the clarity and strength to say no. But what if we didn’t say no? Rabbi Klapper doesn’t stop with the tzaddik who stands strong—he brings us to Yehuda, who fell and got up again. The Torah’s message is clear: whether you overcome or stumble, you’re still part of the story. The Yetzer Hara wants us to forget who we are. Tshuva helps us remember. This episode gives the listener tools to fight temptation in private, resist the crushing voice of shame, and believe that every struggle and every comeback is part of a divine plan. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

19 min
14/07/2025

Ep. 10 - The Power in Privacy

What if the key to your deepest strength is what you choose to keep hidden? In a world that tells us to flaunt everything, the Torah tells us something radically different: keep the most powerful parts of yourself private. Real power, real holiness, lies in what you don’t reveal. In this episode, Rabbi Klapper takes us deep into the heart of tznius—not just as a dress code or a social rule, but as a spiritual strategy for greatness. Why did Rochel Imeinu give away her simanim? Why did Shaul HaMelech and Esther Hamalka keep their identities secret until the perfect moment? Because true strength is built in silence, and only revealed when it counts. But this idea doesn’t stay in the abstract. It speaks directly to one of the hardest challenges we face—Shmiras Einayim. Rabbi Klapper explains how guarding our eyes, our desires, and our inner world preserves something priceless: the ability to build a powerful, lasting connection with a future spouse. What seems like a restriction is really an investment. Every moment of self-control now creates lifelong depth later. And even if we’ve fallen, we can always rebuild. Hashem gave us the gift of teshuva—and the strength to hold out for something infinitely greater. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

27 min
30/06/2025

Ep. 9 - Two Types of Embarrassment

Can shame lift you—or destroy you? It depends on what you believe about yourself. Everyone feels busha. It’s one of the defining traits of a Jew. But not all embarrassment is created equal. Some forms of shame tear a person down, convincing them they’re worthless and hopeless. Other forms awaken something deeper—reminding you that you’re too valuable to live beneath your greatness. In this powerful and deeply personal episode, Rabbi Klapper explores the difference between toxic guilt and uplifting embarrassment. Why do we sometimes feel like giving up after a fall? And what would change if we believed we were too holy to fall, not too dirty to rise? Drawing on Torah sources, psychological insight, and the sefer From Boys to Men by Dr. Shloime Zimmerman, this shiur brings clarity to the inner chaos many experience when struggling with taivah and self-worth. You’ll discover why your Yetzer Hara often disguises himself as your biggest cheerleader, how social norms distort your self-image, and most importantly—how to remember that you're a Ben Melech, no matter how far you've fallen. If you've ever felt crushed by failure or unsure of your value, this episode will help you rebuild your inner world from the foundation of truth: you are already worthy. Now act like it. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

24 min
16/06/2025

Ep. 8 - You are Normal

What if your deepest struggles don’t define you—but reveal who you really are?When it comes to Shemiras Einayim and controlling our thoughts, many people believe that the battle itself is a sign of failure. But Rabbi Klapper offers a powerful truth: the fight doesn’t mean you’re broken—it means you’re alive. Hashem designed this world with challenges so that we could grow through them. That includes the taiva itself. It’s not inherently evil—it’s meant to become holy. So instead of asking, “Why do I have this?” the real question is, “What am I meant to do with it?”In this episode, we dive into the root of the Yetzer Hara, why Hashem gave us this powerful drive, and how holding it back doesn’t weaken it—it strengthens its potential. Why didn’t Hashem just make us without temptation? And how can understanding our mahus—our essence—help us fight back without losing ourselves in shame or guilt? With stories from the Gemara, insights from the Chazal, and examples from everyday life, Rabbi Klapper shows how embracing who you really are gives you the strength to stand tall, even when you fall.Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

21 min
02/06/2025

Ep. 7 - Knowing Your Essence

What if your biggest fall isn’t the sin—but what you believe about yourself afterward?So many people striving for growth fall into a dangerous trap—not because of their Yetzer Hara, but because of how they respond to it. One misstep, and suddenly, it feels like all their progress has vanished. But Rabbi Klapper offers a radically honest and comforting truth: You are not your failure. You are normal. And falling doesn’t make you broken—it makes you human. The true test isn’t whether you fall, but whether you get back up.In this deeply affirming episode, we explore the power of healthy busha, how to tell the difference between shame that destroys and shame that uplifts, and why your essence—your mahut—is never defined by your mistakes. Why does the Yetzer Hara push perfection so hard? How does focusing on small, winnable battles reshape your identity? And why is just showing up to keep trying the greatest victory of all? With stories, insights, and practical tools, Rabbi Klapper gives you permission to stop being perfect—and start being real.Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

26 min
19/05/2025

Ep. 6 - Using Your Time Right

What if the best way to fight the Yetzer Hara is not to fight it at all? When we imagine spiritual growth, we often picture intense battles—resisting temptation, wrestling with taivos, fighting off distractions. But the Torah offers a surprising strategy: stay too busy for the Yetzer Hara to catch up. In this episode, Rabbi Klapper explores the concept of misiach daas—not by ignoring the battle, but by turning your focus elsewhere. When your time is filled with purpose, you leave no space for the Yetzer Hara to sneak in. Through a deep look at Paro’s strategy in Mitzrayim and its reversal in avodas Hashem, we uncover how keeping our minds occupied is more than a distraction tactic—it’s a spiritual weapon. From building Torah learning habits one small step at a time, to finding hobbies, jobs, or friends that keep us energized and grounded, this shiur guides you toward a life of intentional action. Why does boredom open the door to aveiros? How can your free time become a tool for growth instead of a trap for failure? And what does it mean to “walk like a businessman” in your daily life? With clarity and warmth, Rabbi Klapper offers a new lens on time management—not as a productivity hack, but as the foundation of kedusha. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

32 min
06/05/2025

Ep. 5 - How to do Teshuva

What if the hardest part of teshuva isn’t change, but admitting you need to? Teshuva doesn't begin with dramatic resolutions or perfect results. It begins with a moment of clarity—a quiet but powerful realization: Something’s not right. I want more. That simple decision to face ourselves honestly is already a massive step forward. Yet for many, this first step is the most frightening. It means confronting our habits, our history, and the stories we tell ourselves to stay comfortable. In this episode, we uncover the building blocks of real teshuva—what it means to separate recognition from action, how to avoid getting stuck in guilt, and why even a single decision to change shifts your entire direction in life. Drawing from Torah sources and personal experience, Rabbi Klapper offers a step-by-step path to teshuva that’s honest, practical, and sustainable. Whether you’re just beginning or returning again after a fall, this journey starts with one choice: to stop hiding and start growing. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

36 min
22/04/2025

Ep. 4 - Keep Fighting, Keep Rising

What if the Torah itself is the key to breaking free from the Yetzer Hara? Many people assume that learning Torah and personal struggles exist in separate worlds. But Chazal teach us that Torah is not just wisdom—it is the ultimate weapon against the Yetzer Hara. The moment we hold onto it, even if we aren’t perfect, we give ourselves a fighting chance. Letting go, on the other hand, almost guarantees failure. In this episode, we explore why learning—even in the midst of struggle—is the single greatest strategy for overcoming challenges. Why do people give up when they feel like they’re living a double life? How does the Yetzer Hara convince us that failure is final? And why does Hashem say, Just keep holding on? Through real-world stories, deep Torah insights, and practical eitzos, this shiur will give you the tools to stay strong, keep learning, and find the strength to overcome. Hosted by Rabbi Ari Klapper and produced by Eli Podcast Productions, this episode is part of the Real Judaism series, available on RealJudaism.org. Don't forget to subscribe and share to stay connected with our daily lessons and timeless Torah insights!

26 min

Frank, supportive guidance on maintaining spiritual purity in the modern world. Rabbi Ari Klapper combines Halacha with practical strategies for men struggling with visual temptation. Addresses the daily battle between religious conviction and natural urges with honesty, removing shame and isolation. You're not alone in this nisayon. Practical halachic advice for smartphones, the internet, and daily life challenges.

Creator

Rabbi Ari Klapper
Years Active

2024 - 2025
Episodes

27
Rating

Clean
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© Rabbi Ari Klapper
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Shmiras Einayim