Theirapist

Theirapist
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Welcome to Theirapist - the podcast where queerness meets curiosity and candid conversation. Hosted by Chloe Charles, a queer, non-binary, sober, psychodynamic therapist and clinical supervisor. Theirapist explores the rich, complex, and often messy realities of being LGBTQIA+ in today’s world. Each episode features open-hearted interviews with guests and allies from across the spectrum, diving into themes like race, mental health, drag, menopause, chemsex, queer rights, parenting, neurodiversity, dating, polyamory, and everything in between. With a grounding in therapeutic insight and lived experience, this show offers both reflection and real talk; no topic is off-limits, and nuance is always welcome. Whether you’re queer, questioning, an ally, or just curious, come for the conversation, stay for the connection. This is therapy-adjacent, radically honest, and deeply grounded in queer experience.

Episodes

  1. 1 FEB

    S2. Ep. 1: Inclusive Language, Inclusive Care: Abortion Access for Everyone

    *Trigger warning: Discusses the topic of abortion which some listeners may find distressing. In this episode, I sit down with Vik, also known as the Chatty Abortion Midwife, to talk about inclusive language and what it really takes to create abortion care that welcomes trans and gender non-conforming people. Vik shares her experience working in abortion care, why language matters so deeply in medical settings, and how assumptions about gender can create barriers to access. We explore the process of developing inclusive policies, the fact that women are people and the impact this has on patient safety and dignity.  This conversation is rooted in care. It’s about moving beyond gendered frameworks and towards abortion access that truly includes everyone

    48 min

  2. 07/12/2025

    Ep 11: Beyond the Binary: A Path Through Culture, Family & Queerness

    I sit down with Maz, a Black, Queer, Non-binary, Muslim, Autistic individual, to explore their powerful journey of identity discovery. Maz shares what it was like growing up in Saudi Arabia, navigating cultural norms, and managing the complex dynamics within their family, especially their parent’s reaction to their queerness. We talk about the intersections of race, gender, culture, religion and neurodivergence, and how these layers have shaped Maz’s mental health and sense of self.

    39 min

  3. 09/11/2025

    Ep10: Unmasking Across Continents; Identity, Autism & Queer Resilience

    In this candid and open episode, I sit down with Chelsea, a queer, autistic woman to discuss her  journey of self discovery. Chelsea opens up about growing up in Texas, the pressures of masking, and the emotional impact of discovering her autistic identity later in life. We explore what unmasking looks for her, the power of self-advocacy, and the courage it takes to release expectations and live in alignment with your truth. From navigating cultural shifts to embracing vulnerability and queerness with pride, Chelsea’s story shines a light on what it means to rebuild your identity with intention, compassion, and resilience.  This conversation is a beautiful reminder that authenticity isn’t something we find, it’s something we choose, again and again.

    31 min

  4. 26/10/2025

    Ep9: Gender, Neurodiversity & Love Beyond Labels

    In this thoughtful episode, I sit down with Sammy, a secondary school teacher, to talk about their powerful journey of embracing their non-binary identity and navigating life as a neurodivergent person. Sammy opens up about the intersection of gender and audhd, the complexities of ace-allo relationships, and the realities of being out at work. We also explore the importance of visibility in media, inclusive education, and how allies can help create safer, more accepting spaces for queer and neurodivergent communities.  This is a rich and affirming conversation about authenticity, advocacy, and the strength it takes to live your truth.

    43 min

  5. 28/09/2025

    Ep8: Finding Freedom in Your Fifties and Beyond

    In this heartfelt episode, I sit down with Nick Gellatly, a lay minister and first-year university student, to explore his transformative journey of coming out in his late fifties. Nick shares candid insights into his life, from his early career in human resources to his recent embrace of digital media production. We delve into the challenges and triumphs of living authentically, including Nick’s experiences with food and weight struggles, the impact of societal expectations, and the joy of newfound freedom.  This is an inspiring conversation about resilience, identity, and the power of self-acceptance.

    48 min

  6. 13/09/2025

    Ep7: Life after Jehovah’s Witness: Finally Free

    Trigger Warning: This episode discusses themes of religious practices, as well as threats of physical and sexual harm. Listener discretion is strongly advised. This content is intended for mature audiences (18+). Join Kelly Brazen and I, as we discuss the challenges and triumphs of finding their true self. Kelly is a queer personal trainer from London, who shares their journey of self-discovery and acceptance. From growing up in a Jehovah's Witness family to embracing their identity through drag and community, tune in for an inspiring conversation about resilience, identity, and the power of chosen family.

    32 min

  7. 07/09/2025

    Ep6: No Bullsh*t Therapy: Blending Coaching, Compassion & Authenticity

    ✨SPECIAL EDITION ✨ Join Caroline Eyles and I as we dive into the concept of No Bullsh*t Therapy - a refreshing approach that balances directness with compassion in the therapeutic space. We explore the challenges of emotional avoidance, the importance of self-acceptance, and how to spot red flags in relationships. Caroline also shares her insights on blending coaching and therapy to support authentic growth, encouraging you to embrace your true self and navigate your emotional world with confidence.  This is a real and empowering conversation about authenticity, courage, and breaking free from avoidance to live more fully.

    44 min

  8. 31/08/2025

    Ep5: Recovery & Reclaiming Identity: Chemsex, ADHD & Queer Community

    *Discusses themes 18+ including themes of a sexual nature and addiction. In this conversation, Declan Hunter-Reed shares his journey of self-discovery, identity, and recovery from chemsex and substance use. He discusses the challenges he faced growing up as a gay man without role models, the impact of ADHD on his life, and the importance of community support in recovery. Declan emphasises the need for open conversations about chemsex and the stigma surrounding it, advocating for a safe space for queer men to share their experiences. He highlights the power of choice in recovery and the possibility of rebuilding one's life at any age.

    45 min

  9. 24/08/2025

    Ep4: Unmasking at 40: Neurodivergence, Queer Parenting and Self-Compassion

    Join Terri Jayne Bryan and I as we dive into the late-in-life discovery of ADHD, the intersections of neurodivergence and queer identity, and the messy, beautiful realities of parenting. Terri shares the highs and lows of a diagnosis at 40, how it shapes relationships and self-understanding, and why self-compassion is key. This is a conversation about growth, community, and embracing homemade haircuts.

    38 min

  10. 17/08/2025

    Ep3: Unfiltered: Fatphobia, Drag & Self-Worth

    In this glitter-soaked conversation, I sit down with the dazzling Rubella Vaxine to spill the tea on the many layers of drag. From the rush of the spotlight to the backstage battles with anxiety, Rubella opens up about the power of self-love in a world that doesn’t always “get” drag. We dive into the evolving LGBTQ+ scene, the magic of chosen family, and the fierce importance of inclusivity. With honesty and humour, Rubella also tackles body image and the misconceptions that cling to drag queens like last night’s lashes. This episode serves up realness, resilience, and rhinestones, shining a light on how drag transforms not just performers, but audiences too.

    27 min

  11. 10/08/2025

    Ep2: The Duality Dilemma: Living Between Labels, Limits and Liberation

    In this compelling episode, Amy-Leigh Richardson, a South African-born sales director, powerhouse professional, and passionate advocate, opens up about the nuanced intersections of her identity. With warmth, wit, and unflinching honesty, Amy shares her lived experience navigating the world as a pansexual woman with ADHD, now entering the transformative terrain of menopause. Together, we explore what it means to exist at the edges, never quite fitting the mould, and never wanting to. From boardrooms to bedrooms, to bisexual visibility, she reflects on the unique pressures faced by women like her - and why we need to make more room for fluidity, neurodiversity, and midlife reinvention.

    46 min
  12. Ep1: Navigating the Complexities of Race, Class, and Identity

    31/07/2025

    Ep1: Navigating the Complexities of Race, Class, and Identity

    Join us for an insightful conversation with Naomi McKay, a mixed-race, bisexual overachiever, as she shares her journey navigating the complexities of race, class, and identity. From her experiences in a predominantly white Yorkshire town to her reflections on intersectionality, Naomi opens up about the challenges and triumphs of living authentically. Discover how her upbringing, education, and personal relationships have shaped her understanding of herself and the world around her. This episode is a candid exploration of identity, belonging, and the power of embracing one's true self.

    45 min
  • 12 Episodes

Ratings & Reviews

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About

Welcome to Theirapist - the podcast where queerness meets curiosity and candid conversation. Hosted by Chloe Charles, a queer, non-binary, sober, psychodynamic therapist and clinical supervisor. Theirapist explores the rich, complex, and often messy realities of being LGBTQIA+ in today’s world. Each episode features open-hearted interviews with guests and allies from across the spectrum, diving into themes like race, mental health, drag, menopause, chemsex, queer rights, parenting, neurodiversity, dating, polyamory, and everything in between. With a grounding in therapeutic insight and lived experience, this show offers both reflection and real talk; no topic is off-limits, and nuance is always welcome. Whether you’re queer, questioning, an ally, or just curious, come for the conversation, stay for the connection. This is therapy-adjacent, radically honest, and deeply grounded in queer experience.

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  • Creator
    Theirapist
  • Years Active
    2025 - 2026
  • Episodes
    12
  • Rating
    Explicit
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    © Copyright 2025 All rights reserved.
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