This Won't Fix You

Nadine Pittam
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Have you ever wanted to go beyond the therapist’s waiting room to find out what happens in counselling sessions? Join me on This Won’t Fix You, where I take you into a library of interesting therapy-inspired ways to help you understand - and maybe even marvel at – what it is to be human, from our yearnings and motivations through to our frustrations and the patterns that block us as we muddle through life.

  1. 16/08/2025

    Farewell, friends

    Send me a text (Note: I can't reply, but I will read your comment and might respond to your message in a future episode) Support the show Nadine’s links: Podcast: www.thiswontfixyou.com Counselling: www.nadinepittam.com Instagram: thiswontfixyou Do you like and value what I do here? Show your appreciation by visiting my Buy Me A Coffee page where you can show your gratitude! Subscribe in the podcast app of your choice. If you like what you hear, please share with a friend… Rest assured, if the idea comes from someone else I will always credit that person, and there is definitely water-tight confidentiality for my clients. Find me at www.nadinepittam.com Thanks to: Helen Burrell for logo help Audio is The Beat of Nature by Olexy from Pixabay

    2 min

  2. 11/07/2025

    Clutter as a burial mound with Helen Sanderson

    I welcome Helen Sanderson, the Clutter Therapist, to explore her metaphor of clutter as a burial mound.  Helen explains how clutter often symbolises unresolved trauma, bereavement or unrealised dreams, and likens decluttering to an excavation where hidden treasures and forgotten parts of ourselves are unearthed.  Her approach focuses on creating healing spaces by addressing the emotions tied to possessions, rather than striving for superficial perfection.  This therapeutic process helps individuals reconnect with their true selves while reorganising their physical environment. Helen Sanderson's website: https://www.helensanderson.com/ Send me a text (Note: I can't reply, but I will read your comment and might respond to your message in a future episode) Support the show Nadine’s links: Podcast: www.thiswontfixyou.com Counselling: www.nadinepittam.com Instagram: thiswontfixyou Do you like and value what I do here? Show your appreciation by visiting my Buy Me A Coffee page where you can show your gratitude! Subscribe in the podcast app of your choice. If you like what you hear, please share with a friend… Rest assured, if the idea comes from someone else I will always credit that person, and there is definitely water-tight confidentiality for my clients. Find me at www.nadinepittam.com Thanks to: Helen Burrell for logo help Audio is The Beat of Nature by Olexy from Pixabay

    50 min

  3. 20/04/2025

    Prioritising Myself or My Relationship: B-Side

    If you've ever found yourself bitching about somebody, this episode is for you! Find a new way of seeing everyone else's behaviours. Send me a text (Note: I can't reply, but I will read your comment and might respond to your message in a future episode) Support the show Nadine’s links: Podcast: www.thiswontfixyou.com Counselling: www.nadinepittam.com Instagram: thiswontfixyou Do you like and value what I do here? Show your appreciation by visiting my Buy Me A Coffee page where you can show your gratitude! Subscribe in the podcast app of your choice. If you like what you hear, please share with a friend… Rest assured, if the idea comes from someone else I will always credit that person, and there is definitely water-tight confidentiality for my clients. Find me at www.nadinepittam.com Thanks to: Helen Burrell for logo help Audio is The Beat of Nature by Olexy from Pixabay

    17 min

  4. 28/02/2025

    Prioritising Myself or My Relationship: A-Side

    Relationships (all relationships: friendships, family relations as well as intimate relationships) have a dynamic energy that is constantly in flux. Meg Harper and I talk about this ever-present tension between protecting ourselves as individuals (perhaps at the expense of a relationship) and protecting our relationship(s) perhaps at the expense of ourselves. We start with a quote from Marisa G Franco’s book: Platonic, which is all about attachment styles and how they influence the ways we operate in relationships. Meg Harper's website: https://megharper.co.uk/ Send me a text (Note: I can't reply, but I will read your comment and might respond to your message in a future episode) Support the show Nadine’s links: Podcast: www.thiswontfixyou.com Counselling: www.nadinepittam.com Instagram: thiswontfixyou Do you like and value what I do here? Show your appreciation by visiting my Buy Me A Coffee page where you can show your gratitude! Subscribe in the podcast app of your choice. If you like what you hear, please share with a friend… Rest assured, if the idea comes from someone else I will always credit that person, and there is definitely water-tight confidentiality for my clients. Find me at www.nadinepittam.com Thanks to: Helen Burrell for logo help Audio is The Beat of Nature by Olexy from Pixabay

    53 min

  5. 14/02/2025

    Trigger Warning B-Side

    Trauma. This episode I build on Gabor Mate's metaphor that a trigger is just one part of what causes people problems. It distinguishes between "small t" and "Capital T" trauma. The latter is defined as experiences too terrifying for the psyche to process. I talk about the "Window of Tolerance" model, featuring three zones: a green band (regulated state), orange bands (increasing disregulation), and red bands (hyper-arousal and hypo-arousal). The therapeutic approach emphasises keeping clients within their tolerance window, using the EMDR therapy metaphor of "building a bigger boat" to handle trauma gradually. This episode contains passing reference to abuse. Send me a text (Note: I can't reply, but I will read your comment and might respond to your message in a future episode) Support the show Nadine’s links: Podcast: www.thiswontfixyou.com Counselling: www.nadinepittam.com Instagram: thiswontfixyou Do you like and value what I do here? Show your appreciation by visiting my Buy Me A Coffee page where you can show your gratitude! Subscribe in the podcast app of your choice. If you like what you hear, please share with a friend… Rest assured, if the idea comes from someone else I will always credit that person, and there is definitely water-tight confidentiality for my clients. Find me at www.nadinepittam.com Thanks to: Helen Burrell for logo help Audio is The Beat of Nature by Olexy from Pixabay

    20 min

  6. 24/01/2025

    Trigger Warning A-Side

    'Being triggered' is so much more in our awareness than ever before. How do we identify our triggers and what can we do and what can we reasonably ask others to do to help us manage them? Psychotherapist, Emma McDermott, and I chat about it. Send me a text (Note: I can't reply, but I will read your comment and might respond to your message in a future episode) Support the show Nadine’s links: Podcast: www.thiswontfixyou.com Counselling: www.nadinepittam.com Instagram: thiswontfixyou Do you like and value what I do here? Show your appreciation by visiting my Buy Me A Coffee page where you can show your gratitude! Subscribe in the podcast app of your choice. If you like what you hear, please share with a friend… Rest assured, if the idea comes from someone else I will always credit that person, and there is definitely water-tight confidentiality for my clients. Find me at www.nadinepittam.com Thanks to: Helen Burrell for logo help Audio is The Beat of Nature by Olexy from Pixabay

    52 min

  7. 10/01/2025

    Drama Triangle - Relationship Games We Don't Know We're Playing: B-Side

    Episode Key Points: The Drama Triangle fundamentally revolves around controlFocus on the Rescuer role as the most socially celebrated and potentially toxic positionRescuers often believe their worth is tied to how much they help othersSigns You Might Be a Rescuer: Feeling exhausted by constant requests for helpGetting frustrated when people don't take your adviceFinding others' suffering difficult to bearBelieving your goodness is measured by how effectively you helpKey Insights: Society celebrates selflessness without teaching healthy boundariesHelping without limits can disempower othersTrue support involves inviting others to find their own solutionsCo-dependency occurs when both parties are controlling each other's livesTherapeutic Approach: Learn self-worth independent of helping othersValue others' perspectives and processesRecognize when "helping" is actually controllingUnderstand that withdrawing support can be a form of genuine carePractical Advice: Ask "How can I support you?" instead of "What you need to do is..."Avoid lecturing or judgingSet clear boundariesRecognize your own feelings of inadequacy driving rescue behaviorsTakeaway: Healthy support means empowering others, not solving their problems for them. Send me a text (Note: I can't reply, but I will read your comment and might respond to your message in a future episode) Support the show Nadine’s links: Podcast: www.thiswontfixyou.com Counselling: www.nadinepittam.com Instagram: thiswontfixyou Do you like and value what I do here? Show your appreciation by visiting my Buy Me A Coffee page where you can show your gratitude! Subscribe in the podcast app of your choice. If you like what you hear, please share with a friend… Rest assured, if the idea comes from someone else I will always credit that person, and there is definitely water-tight confidentiality for my clients. Find me at www.nadinepittam.com Thanks to: Helen Burrell for logo help Audio is The Beat of Nature by Olexy from Pixabay

    24 min

  8. 13/12/2024

    Drama Triangle - Relationship Games We Don't Know We're Playing: A-Side

    Most of us communicate in ways which are unhealthy at least some of the time. This episode, Nadine sits with Richard Chadwick to discuss the Drama Triangle, especially how the unhelpful roles of Rescuer, Victim and Persecutor are embedded in our culture and in our psyches. I challenge you to not recognise yourself in here somewhere! Richard Chadwick is a therapist working in the north west and online. You can view his BACP profile here. Send me a text (Note: I can't reply, but I will read your comment and might respond to your message in a future episode) Support the show Nadine’s links: Podcast: www.thiswontfixyou.com Counselling: www.nadinepittam.com Instagram: thiswontfixyou Do you like and value what I do here? Show your appreciation by visiting my Buy Me A Coffee page where you can show your gratitude! Subscribe in the podcast app of your choice. If you like what you hear, please share with a friend… Rest assured, if the idea comes from someone else I will always credit that person, and there is definitely water-tight confidentiality for my clients. Find me at www.nadinepittam.com Thanks to: Helen Burrell for logo help Audio is The Beat of Nature by Olexy from Pixabay

    41 min
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Have you ever wanted to go beyond the therapist’s waiting room to find out what happens in counselling sessions? Join me on This Won’t Fix You, where I take you into a library of interesting therapy-inspired ways to help you understand - and maybe even marvel at – what it is to be human, from our yearnings and motivations through to our frustrations and the patterns that block us as we muddle through life.

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  • Creator
    Nadine Pittam
  • Years Active
    2024 - 2025
  • Episodes
    27
  • Rating
    Clean
  • Copyright
    © 2025 This Won't Fix You
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