Words With Myself

Luke Rixson
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Words With Myself is a solo podcast of quiet confrontation and honest exploration. Each episode is a spoken journal, unscripted, unfiltered, and unafraid to sit in the silence between thoughts. Host Luke Rixson doesn’t offer advice. He reflects aloud. Through themes like identity, ego, fear, stillness, and purpose, he invites listeners to eavesdrop on the kind of conversations most people only have with themselves. This is not self-help. It’s self-inquiry. A space to slow down, question deeply, and feel fully. Not to fix yourself, but to meet yourself.

  1. 5 DAYS AGO

    What It Means To Be Fearless

    To some degree, everything is in relationship. But when it comes to personal relationships, what we are really talking about is closeness. Proximity. How much space exists between you and somebody else, and how much of that space is being created by what you are unwilling to reveal. In this episode I talk about the distance we create in relationships, how that distance is built through fear, shame, self-judgment, and the need to control how other people see us. I get into openness, honesty, vulnerability, self-acceptance, and why so many relationships feel close on the surface but still aren’t truly intimate. Because if you cannot be fully yourself with somebody, if you cannot say what you feel, think, or fear, then the relationship is always going to be limited by that. This is really about learning to accept yourself enough to be seen, and understanding that real relationship can only exist where there is openness.

    19 min

  2. 5 APR

    You Are Not Who You Think You Are

    There’s a good chance that who you think you are isn’t actually who you are. Most of us build this identity from selective experiences and then just stick to it. We pick a version of ourselves that makes sense and say “this is me” and then we try to be consistent with that. But it’s not real. You’re not just one thing. You’re not just a good person or a bad person or a confident person or an introvert or whatever label you’ve given yourself. You’re a mix. You’re constantly changing. In this episode I talk about how we create these identities, why we hold onto them, and how they can actually limit us without us realising it. Also get into the fear of changing, the pressure to stay the same for other people, and why it feels so uncomfortable to show up differently even when you want to. It’s basically just about letting go of this fixed idea of who you are and realising you don’t actually have to be that person if it’s not working anymore.

    13 min

  3. 29 MAR

    Let Meaning Find You

    We all want purpose. We all want something that feels meaningful. But not everyone has that thing. And when you don’t, it can feel like something is wrong with you. Like you’re missing something that everyone else seems to have. I’ve spent a lot of time in that space. Not really knowing what I wanted to do, trying different things, not connecting with anything deeply, and feeling like I needed to figure it out. In this episode I talk about that feeling of being directionless, what actually happens when you don’t have a clear purpose, and why searching for meaning can sometimes be the thing that stops you from finding it. We get into chasing feelings, having too many options, being a generalist, and why comfort on its own isn’t enough. And also what actually creates meaning, or at least what I’ve come to understand about it. This isn’t really a “here’s how to find your purpose” episode. It’s more just an honest look at what it feels like when you don’t have one, and what to do with that.

    19 min

  4. 22 MAR

    Who’s Keeping Score?

    Who’s actually keeping score in your life? In this episode, we talk about success, failure, and how easily we label ourselves based on a few moments. The truth is, nothing is that fixed. You can feel lost one minute and everything can change the next. This is about zooming out, understanding the difference between what you're feeling right now and how your life is really unfolding over time. Most of what we call “failure” is just part of the process. If you’ve been feeling stuck, behind, or unsure if things are working out, this episode is a reminder that not everything needs to make sense yet. Just keep going.   Whether you’re in the thick of a hard chapter or standing at an unforeseen turning point, this episode invites you to reframe your pain as preparation, to accept that success and failure are not permanent verdicts, and to find steadiness in an unfolding journey. Stay with us — what looks like an ending may be the turning point you’ve been living toward. Thank you for listening.

    15 min

  5. 15 MAR

    Freedom Terrifies Us More Than Failure

    Most people say they want freedom. The freedom to live differently. To travel. To start something new. To walk away from the life that doesn’t quite feel like their own. But when the moment comes, when there’s no clear plan, no guarantees, no structure, that same freedom becomes terrifying. In this episode, we explore the strange tension between freedom, responsibility, and meaning. Why people often fear the very life they say they want. Why uncertainty feels so dangerous. And why the safest path can quietly turn into a life lived on autopilot. We talk about risk, failure, responsibility, and the example we set for the people around us, especially the ones who look to us for guidance. Because in the end, the only thing we truly lose is time. And the real question is simple: How do you want to spend yours?

    18 min

  6. 1 MAR

    Will it ever be enough?

    Is it ever enough? The episode opens with that single, aching question—an ember that grows into a wildfire. You are pushed into a room with a mirror that only shows effort: long nights, missed dinners, the quiet calculus of what must be sacrificed to climb one rung higher. The narrator becomes your companion and your judge, tracing the familiar contours of perfectionism as if reading a ledger of losses. We follow a scene of relentless motion—hands on a wheel, a stone in the palms, the grating repetition of trying. The Sisyphus story is more than myth here; it’s the daily commute, the bargaining with time, the split-second exchange where work wins and family sacrifices a piece of itself. You feel the tension of choices: do more at the cost of what you love, or step back and risk being labeled as not enough? The narrative tilts from pressure to philosophy, folding in Buddhist whispers about suffering and sacrifice. Mortality arrives not as a lecture but as an unexpected ally: because everything ends, the tyranny of ‘‘more’’ loses its power. Loss becomes clarity. You begin to see the invisible price tags attached to every ambition and the narrowing tunnel vision that chasing one outcome creates. Through confession and clarity, the episode interrogates the word ‘‘try’’—how it implies conditional worth and anchors us to outcomes we cannot control. Using vivid examples and honest admissions, the storyteller shows how trying can feed anxiety, while doing—without guarantee—radically frees you. Action divorced from outcome becomes a form of truth-telling; it is how you discover what matters, not how you prove your value. Truth, here, is not tidy. It is a jagged, compassionate mirror that refuses the comfort of neat answers. The host invites you to notice your own lies: the stories you tell to avoid the sting of uncertainty, the cognitive dissonance between belief and behavior. These are the small betrayals that dull life. The alternative offered is not certainty, but attention—living with honest intention and the courage to adapt when reality demands it. As the episode moves toward its emotional arc, fear loses its grip not by being silenced but by being seen. You are encouraged to stop bargaining with guarantees and instead to start participating in the experiment of your life. There is a paradoxical liberation in recognizing limits: because you cannot hold everything forever, you have nothing to lose by doing what truly matters to you. By the final scene the voice is calmer, less demanding. You have been led from pressure to possibility—through sacrifice, truth, and the small act of choosing to do without expecting a trophy. The invitation is simple and stubborn: stop trying to prove your worth, and start living to experience it. Set yourself free. Watch the show. Marvel at the ordinary miracle of being alive—you might discover that the only thing required for a meaningful life is the courage to act without the guarantee of victory.

    19 min

  7. 22 FEB

    The Other Side of Suffering

    Imagine a life built like a fortress, quiet, safe, and carefully arranged to keep every threat at bay. In this episode we follow a listener who realises their fortress is also a prison: every avoided conversation, every unspoken boundary, every friendship never pursued has been a brick in a wall that keeps them from real growth. The narrator pulls back the curtain on mainstream spirituality that feels like escape, revealing how comfort can be a sophisticated form of avoidance. The story pivots into the painful mirror of self-examination. We walk through a raw, intimate scene where someone asks the hardest questions: Where did I permit harm? When did I stay silent? What shame, fear, or guilt have I buried to survive? Those moments of honesty are framed not as self-flagellation but as the courageous work of naming the truth, the only way to lift the weight of resentment and reclaim agency. Through vivid examples: failed relationships, brittle boundaries, and the illusion of moral superiority. The episode stakes out what real strength looks like. Strength isn’t being untroubled by anger or upset; it’s sitting in those feelings, facing fear, and exposing yourself to the very things that once made you small. The narrative threads together how practicing boundaries, communicating clearly, and embracing shadow work stress-tests who we think we are. The climax reframes suffering as a necessary passage, not punishment: growth happens on the other side of discomfort. The host urges listeners to stop preparing forever and to begin trying — to step into the uncomfortable, fail bravely, and learn through lived experience. This is a call to trade hollow safety for the messy, fierce work of becoming whole. By the end, the episode leaves you with a hard promise: if you truly want change, you must be willing to be uncomfortable. It’s an invitation to start small, expose the fears you’ve hidden, and let the pressure of life reveal what’s real. Tune in to be guided through shame, discovery, and the gritty freedom that follows when you finally choose to feel.

    19 min

  8. 16 FEB

    When Convenience and Comfort Steal Meaning

    Imagine a warm blanket and a crackling fire — safe, predictable, pleasant. Now imagine that same warmth wrapped around a life you accepted because the alternative felt unknown or lonely. This episode begins there, in the quiet deception of comfort: not always a blessing, but often a soft surrender to what is familiar. We walk with the narrator through the history of daily life, from hunting and preparing food to tending fires and mending tools, and feel what those tasks gave: purpose, skill, rhythm. Then the story shifts to the present — supermarkets, dishwashers, and instant entertainment — and a slow, stealthy theft takes place. Convenience removes the friction that taught us how to live well, leaving behind a hollow ease that masquerades as progress. To make it personal, the voice paints a moment by a riverside in rural Thailand: a seven-year-old catching fish with practiced hands, a simple act that holds more survival knowledge and human meaning than entire cities. That image becomes a mirror. The narrator admits to envy — envy for those who can sleep inside the comforting illusion and for the innocence of people who don’t see the cracks. But once you see the illusion, you cannot unsee it. We then travel into the quiet room of modern minds, where overthinking and anxiety are not diseases but symptoms: brains built for real problems left idle by convenience, creating their own turmoil. Technology becomes a double-edged sword — miraculous yet anesthetizing, a surrogate for intimacy, truth, and work. As AI and media bend reality into a maze of uncertainty, truth itself begins to feel like a needle in an ever-growing haystack. The narrative becomes urgent. The narrator confesses a refusal to keep pretending, to keep participating in the mirage. That refusal is painful because it isolates: to leave the theater of convenience is to lose friends, routines, and the easy certainties of modern life. Yet the moral center of the episode is not solitary escape but collective rebuilding — the conviction that what’s lost must be reclaimed together. By episode’s end, this is not just a lament but a plan and a promise: to create real communities where children learn by doing, where relationships are lived not curated, and where work is meaningful again. The narrator’s mission becomes yours to witness — a call to feel the world fully, to choose discomfort over lie, and to join in building a life that truly sustains. Listen in for a candid, evocative journey from the warmth of the easy chair to the riverside and back, a story that asks hard questions and offers a fierce, hopeful answer: life regained through collective courage and real, messy living.

    15 min
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Words With Myself is a solo podcast of quiet confrontation and honest exploration. Each episode is a spoken journal, unscripted, unfiltered, and unafraid to sit in the silence between thoughts. Host Luke Rixson doesn’t offer advice. He reflects aloud. Through themes like identity, ego, fear, stillness, and purpose, he invites listeners to eavesdrop on the kind of conversations most people only have with themselves. This is not self-help. It’s self-inquiry. A space to slow down, question deeply, and feel fully. Not to fix yourself, but to meet yourself.

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  • Creator
    Luke Rixson
  • Years Active
    2021 - 2026
  • Episodes
    100
  • Rating
    Clean
  • Copyright
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