Dildo Whisperer

Romaine Patterson
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The Dildo Whisperer is where people go to get the sex education that their schools refused to give them and their parents were too embarrassed to discuss. This is sex education that is inclusive, inspiring and transformative! Listeners have the opportunity to ask questions, hear sex toy reviews and get insight from some of the top sexperts in the country. Hosted by Romaine Patterson and produced by DNR Studios.

  1. 4 DAYS AGO

    Finding Pleasure in Pain: Part 3- Different Types of Pain Play

    Pain doesn't always mean suffering — sometimes, it means connection, trust, and unexpected pleasure. In this  third episode of Finding Pleasure in Pain series, we explore the many types of pain play within BDSM, from impact and sensation play to psychological and endurance-based dynamics. We'll break down how pain can feel pleasurable, why different bodies and minds experience it differently, and how consent, communication, and aftercare transform pain into a powerful, intimate exchange. Whether you're kink-curious, experienced, or simply looking to understand BDSM more deeply, this episode offers a compassionate, educational look at how pain can become pleasure — safely, consensually, and intentionally. Send the us your sex and relationship questions and maybe you will inspire the next episode of The Dildo Whisperer. We have two ways to reach the show. You can call into our show at 844-695-2766 or you can email us at Askthedw@gmail.com. Follow us on social media @dildowhisperer The Dildo Whisperer is produced by DNR Studios. To subscribe to this show and the rest of the DNR Network of shows including the Cookie Jar Podcast visit: www.dnrstudios.com

    55 min

  2. 4 FEB

    Dating a Trans Person- Understanding Gender Identity vs. Sexual Orientation

    What does it actually mean to date a trans person—and how is gender identity different from sexual orientation? In this episode of the Dildo Whisperer, we break down the basics without dumbing it down. We explore common myths, unpack attraction and labels, and talk about what respectful, affirming dating looks like when your partner is trans. From pronouns and communication to sex, pleasure, and consent, this conversation centers curiosity over assumptions and people over labels. Whether you're dating a trans person, questioning your own attractions, or just want to be a better, more informed partner, this episode offers sex-positive education rooted in respect, compassion, and real-world dating dynamics.  Dating a trans person is dating a person—and that's where we start. Send the us your sex and relationship questions and maybe you will inspire the next episode of The Dildo Whisperer. We have two ways to reach the show. You can call into our show at 844-695-2766 or you can email us at Askthedw@gmail.com. Follow us on social media @dildowhisperer The Dildo Whisperer is produced by DNR Studios. To subscribe to this show and the rest of the DNR Network of shows including the Cookie Jar Podcast visit: www.dnrstudios.com

    1h 6m

  3. 28 JAN

    A Conversation About Consent- ENCORE

    Your Dildo Whisperer is still dealing with her cross country move. Which means this week's episode is an encore episode! Enjoy this encore and we will be back with new episodes soon.  ENCORE Episode This week the Dildo Whisperer is having a conversation about consent. It is a topic that isn't talked about nearly enough and people often misunderstand what it means to get consent. Romaine and Ajay talk about personal experiences of times when consent was about mental health, personal preference and when the line gets a little blury. This is a dildo whisperer conversation you don't want to miss.  Send the us your sex and relationship questions and maybe you will inspire the next episode of The Dildo Whisperer. We have two ways to reach the show. You can call into our show at 844-695-2766 or you can email us at Askthedw@gmail.com. Follow us on social media @dildowhisperer The Dildo Whisperer is produced by DNR Studios. To subscribe to this show and the rest of the DNR Network of shows including the Cookie Jar Podcast visit: www.dnrstudios.com

    44 min

  4. 14 JAN

    Year In Review

    The Dildo Whisperer is wrapping up the 3rd season of the show with a look back at Romaine and Ajay's top 3 episodes of 2025. This is a fun look back on episodes that were both serious and comical but most importantly educational. Tune in to hear about some of the episodes you may have missed.  Send the us your sex and relationship questions and maybe you will inspire the next episode of The Dildo Whisperer. We have two ways to reach the show. You can call into our show at 844-695-2766 or you can email us at Askthedw@gmail.com. Follow us on social media @dildowhisperer The Dildo Whisperer is produced by DNR Studios. To subscribe to this show and the rest of the DNR Network of shows including the Cookie Jar Podcast visit: www.dnrstudios.com

    51 min

  5. 7 JAN

    Finding Pleasure in Pain: Part 2 — Consent, Communication & Negotiation

    In part 2 of our Finding Pleasure in Pain series we will focus on why pain can be an erotic, intimate, empowering — and deeply pleasurable part of sex — when it's done with care, clarity, and consent. In this episode, we explore how people find pleasure in intense sensation, why the brain sometimes loves a little sting, and what it really takes to make pain play safe, connected, and mutually satisfying. We break down the foundations of informed consent, walk through real-world negotiation tips, and share communication tools that keep partners grounded and in control. From exploring fantasies to navigating boundaries and aftercare, this episode offers a shame-free, practical guide to transforming pain into pleasure through trust, intention, and collaboration. Whether you're curious about trying impact play for the first time or looking to deepen an existing dynamic, this conversation will help you approach erotic pain with confidence, respect, and enthusiasm. Send the us your sex and relationship questions and maybe you will inspire the next episode of The Dildo Whisperer. We have two ways to reach the show. You can call into our show at 844-695-2766 or you can email us at Askthedw@gmail.com. Follow us on social media @dildowhisperer The Dildo Whisperer is produced by DNR Studios. To subscribe to this show and the rest of the DNR Network of shows including the Cookie Jar Podcast visit: www.dnrstudios.com

    48 min

  6. 31/12/2025

    Finding Pleasure in Pain Series: Part 1- Understanding Kink, Sensation, and Consent

    Why do some people find pleasure in pain? In this educational, sex-positive series, we are going to explore the science and psychology behind erotic pain—how certain sensations activate the brain's pleasure centers, why trust and vulnerability deepen the experience, and how kink dynamics create powerful emotional intimacy. In part 1 of this series we break down different types of sensation play, from spanking and scratching to temperature play and BDSM tools, all through a lens of consent, safety, and communication. Whether you're curious about kink, experienced in BDSM, or simply interested in how pleasure works, this episode offers a thoughtful, judgment-free look at the beauty of consensual pain and the connection it can create. Each part of this series we will feature deeper exploration into these topics. Send the us your sex and relationship questions and maybe you will inspire the next episode of The Dildo Whisperer. We have two ways to reach the show. You can call into our show at 844-695-2766 or you can email us at Askthedw@gmail.com. Follow us on social media @dildowhisperer The Dildo Whisperer is produced by DNR Studios. To subscribe to this show and the rest of the DNR Network of shows including the Cookie Jar Podcast visit: www.dnrstudios.com

    29 min

  7. 24/12/2025

    Holiday Heat- Bringing Seasonal Spice Into Your Sex Life

    The holidays aren't just about twinkling lights and cozy sweaters—they're also a perfect chance to spark intimacy, reconnect with your body, and bring a little extra spice into the season. In this episode, we unwrap creative, consensual ways to blend holiday traditions with pleasure: from festive sensory play and sexy gift ideas to roleplay, themed lingerie, and cozy rituals that can deepen connection. Whether you're single, partnered, or somewhere in between, this episode offers fun, shame-free tips for turning your holidays into a season of warmth, pleasure, and joy. Send the us your sex and relationship questions and maybe you will inspire the next episode of The Dildo Whisperer. We have two ways to reach the show. You can call into our show at 844-695-2766 or you can email us at Askthedw@gmail.com. Follow us on social media @dildowhisperer The Dildo Whisperer is produced by DNR Studios. To subscribe to this show and the rest of the DNR Network of shows including the Cookie Jar Podcast visit: www.dnrstudios.com

    28 min

  8. 17/12/2025

    Gratitude and Pleasure- Honoring a Healthy Sex Life

    In this heart-centered episode, we explore how gratitude can transform your sexual well-being—from deepening emotional connection to boosting desire, confidence, and communication. Whether you're solo, partnered, monogamous, or somewhere in between, we break down how gratitude helps cultivate a more fulfilling, joyful, and authentic sex life. We'll dive into self-love practices, partner appreciation rituals, body positivity, and the simple moments that keep intimacy thriving beyond the bedroom. Tune in for a grounded, shame-free conversation about celebrating what's working, honoring growth, and saying "thank you" in ways that matter. Send the us your sex and relationship questions and maybe you will inspire the next episode of The Dildo Whisperer. We have two ways to reach the show. You can call into our show at 844-695-2766 or you can email us at Askthedw@gmail.com. Follow us on social media @dildowhisperer The Dildo Whisperer is produced by DNR Studios. To subscribe to this show and the rest of the DNR Network of shows including the Cookie Jar Podcast visit: www.dnrstudios.com

    47 min
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The Dildo Whisperer is where people go to get the sex education that their schools refused to give them and their parents were too embarrassed to discuss. This is sex education that is inclusive, inspiring and transformative! Listeners have the opportunity to ask questions, hear sex toy reviews and get insight from some of the top sexperts in the country. Hosted by Romaine Patterson and produced by DNR Studios.

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  • Creator
    Romaine Patterson
  • Years Active
    2023 - 2026
  • Episodes
    138
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © 2023
  • Show Website
    Dildo Whisperer

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