The Love Agenda

Tongalag
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A story-driven podcast that explores dating dilemmas, relationships, and the search for true soulmates through conversations with quality singles—revealing a vibrant mosaic of modern love that challenges assumptions, dismantles stereotypes, and brings clarity to the emotional chaos of dating. This podcast exists to help you date smarter—with emotional fluency, clarity, and confidence. Hosted by Tongalag Liu (aka Tea) - a relationship analyst, researcher, and founder of Heartsync™ Relationship Intelligence. With over 20 years of studying human behavior, relationships, and compatibility, she helps people make clearer, more intentional decisions in love. Collaboration: hello@theloveagenda.co

  1. 7月23日

    The Unexpected Truth About Why Western Men Are Falling for Asian Women (w/Xiaoli)

    Tea sits down with veteran matchmaker Xiao Li (Shelly), who has spent more than a decade helping Asian and Western singles meet, date, and build marriages across the Bay Area, LA, and New York. Shelly breaks down the most common misconceptions Western men have about Asian women and the assumptions Asian women bring about Western men, especially around first-date physical boundaries, planning, and what “generous” is supposed to look like.  We talk about what modern Asian women want now, and get real about the hard stuff people avoid like commitment timing, ghosting, saving face with family, and money habits that can turn into long-term conflict if you never name them. If you’re dating outside your culture for the first time or you’re already in an intercultural relationship and want it to last, press play and take notes.  🧧 Meet Xiaoli Share your thoughts, or send in questions📝 Support the show 💖 Meet the host - Tea 🎯 The mission and ecosystem of The Love Agenda ☀️Apply to be a guest 🙋🏻‍♀️ Send in your relationship questions ☕️Take me out for a virtual coffee  ✨Social Media

  2. 7月4日

    A Former Dominatrix Reveals How To Open-up A Conversation About Kinks And Fantasies With Your Partner. (w/Amanda D.)

    The fastest way to kill intimacy isn’t “bad sex” it’s the silence around it. Tea sits down with Amanda, a certified sexologist, intimacy coach, and former professional dominatrix, to talk about the part of dating and relationships most people overthink and under-discuss: sexual communication. If you’ve ever wanted to ask for something new but worried it would sound awkward, risky, or “too much,” this conversation gives you a clear path forward. We get real about why sex is one of the hardest topics to talk about even in strong relationships, and how silence quietly grows into distance. With Amanda’s guidance, we share a practical way to bring up desires, handle boundaries, and protect trust while dating, married, or anywhere in between.  📋 Amanda's Worksheet ☎️ Book A Call With Amanda  Share your thoughts, or send in questions📝 Support the show 💖 Meet the host - Tea 🎯 The mission and ecosystem of The Love Agenda ☀️Apply to be a guest 🙋🏻‍♀️ Send in your relationship questions ☕️Take me out for a virtual coffee  ✨Social Media

  3. 6月18日

    The Truth and Facts About Dating Single Parents: Priorities, Challenges x 10 Essential Tips (With Pat H.)

    Dating a single parent can feel like stepping into a world with invisible rules, until you realize the rules are just real life: kids, custody, work, and a limited amount of time. I’m joined by Pat Hankin, co-author of Field Guide for Single Parents, whose insights come from years of data and patterns gathered from a massive single parent community. We get honest about what makes dating a single mom or single dad different, and what “support” should actually look like when you’re not trying to become the savior of someone’s family system. We talk through the practical problems that derail promising connections,  and how to make dating work. We also dig into online dating safety and why some single mothers avoid dating.  If you’re considering a relationship with a single parent, you’ll leave with clearer boundaries, better questions to ask, and a calmer way to judge what’s actually a red flag versus normal parenting logistics.  📕The Field Guide for Single Parents by Pat Hankin 📘The Book of Beautiful Questions by Warren Berger Share your thoughts, or send in questions📝 Support the show 💖 Meet the host - Tea 🎯 The mission and ecosystem of The Love Agenda ☀️Apply to be a guest 🙋🏻‍♀️ Send in your relationship questions ☕️Take me out for a virtual coffee  ✨Social Media

  4. 6月4日

    The Surprisingly Simple Tips Fix and Save Your Communication Breakdowns (w/Sandy G.)

    Most relationship communication advice fixates on what to say, but the real breakthrough comes earlier than that: understanding what’s driving you. W I sit down with Sandy Gerber, emotional intelligence expert, to unpack why certain people feel effortless to connect with and why other conversations seem to go off the rails no matter how “careful” your words are. Sandy breaks down her model of successful communication,  and we talk about the fundamentals that shape everything from dating choices to everyday friction, and tips on how you can instantly reduce confusion, resentment, and mind reading. We also get into nonverbal communication and first impressions. Sandy shares “connection cues” like mirroring posture and tone, watching where someone’s feet point, and how to look more approachable when you’re nervous. Then we move into emotional regulation tools for high-stakes moments. We map out the necessary conversations and how to make conflict resolution cleaner and kinder. If you want healthier relationships, better communication skills, and more confident dating, this episode is for you. Find Sandy Gerber  Share your thoughts, or send in questions📝 Support the show 💖 Meet the host - Tea 🎯 The mission and ecosystem of The Love Agenda ☀️Apply to be a guest 🙋🏻‍♀️ Send in your relationship questions ☕️Take me out for a virtual coffee  ✨Social Media

  5. 5月20日

    Beyond the "Nice Guy": How To Build Authentic Confidence That Attracts (w/Jason L.)

    If you’ve ever wondered why “being a good guy” still isn’t leading to the relationship you want, this conversation puts language to the problem and a roadmap to the solution. I sit down with Jason Lange, a men’s embodiment coach and certified No More Mr. Nice Guy coach, to talk about the quiet ways men lose themselves in dating: people-pleasing, hiding desire, avoiding tension, and trying to earn love by staying “easy” instead of being real. We break down Nice Guy Syndrome, the “man box” pressure to be invulnerable, and why so many men live from the neck up, then feel confused when partners ask for emotional presence. You’ll hear the difference between domination and relational leadership, plus a surprisingly useful tango metaphor for what attunement actually looks like. We also get practical about modern dating dynamics: how clear planning builds trust, why emotional leadership matters (especially around defining the relationship), and how men’s groups create the brotherhood, accountability, and nervous system resilience that makes intimacy easier at home.  If you want a healthier form of masculinity that includes both strength and heart, this one is for you. It is also a great episode for women to understand the challenges men face in dating! Find Jason here Share your thoughts, or send in questions📝 Support the show 💖 Meet the host - Tea 🎯 The mission and ecosystem of The Love Agenda ☀️Apply to be a guest 🙋🏻‍♀️ Send in your relationship questions ☕️Take me out for a virtual coffee  ✨Social Media

  6. 5月6日

    The Intentional Alpha: From Financial Freedom to the Chaos of Modern Love (w/Ed)

    I sit down with Ed, a Berkeley and Stanford trained engineer who had a startup exit ($8 Billion project), retired early, and is now rebuilding love after a long marriage while staying on great terms with his ex-wife. He is thoughtful, active, and honest about what it is like to re-enter online dating in midlife with real intention. We get into the stuff people usually avoid: when chemistry turns physical fast, how sex boundaries can protect trust, and why rushing into sex often clouds judgment for both men and women. We also talk about the modern breakup problem, ghosting and ending relationships through text, and how conflict avoidance shows up as avoidant attachment behaviors. We discuss self-awareness, the perfect label, anxious attachment and communications. Ed also shares the most surprising tools he is using right now: an AI dating coach and an attachment-focused AI journaling app that helped him uncover deeper patterns through Internal Family Systems style prompts.  We close with practical relationship advice. If you want more clarity in dating after divorce, better communication, and stronger emotional intelligence, you will get a lot from this conversation. Resources: 📗 Eight Dates by John Gottman Share your thoughts, or send in questions📝 Support the show 💖 Meet the host - Tea 🎯 The mission and ecosystem of The Love Agenda ☀️Apply to be a guest 🙋🏻‍♀️ Send in your relationship questions ☕️Take me out for a virtual coffee  ✨Social Media

  7. 4月22日

    How A Great Matchmaker Sees Compatibility, Insights From Matching Thousands of Couples (w/Dara Rahill)

    Today, I am joined by Dara Rahill, a former top-ranked premium matchmaker at the country's largest matchmaking platform, and now the founder of Dara Rae Matchmaking, to reveal what actually predicts a healthy long-term relationship when you look beyond photos, height filters, and perfect-on-paper stats.  We dig into the behind-the-scenes reality of modern dating:  “checklists”, dating profiles, and how dating app culture amplifies snap judgments.  Dara explains how real compatibility is assessed, plus the intuitive “art” a matchmaker develops after interviewing thousands of singles. We also unpack why even highly sought-after people sometimes choose high-end matchmaking services. One of the most eye-opening parts is who can be hardest to match and why. We also challenge the myth of instant chemistry, exploring how attraction can grow through repeated exposure. If you’re tired of guessing, lower-stakes clarity starts here. Great episode for both men and women. 🎀 Dara Rae Matchmaking 🫶 Dara Rae Instagram Share your thoughts, or send in questions📝 Support the show 💖 Meet the host - Tea 🎯 The mission and ecosystem of The Love Agenda ☀️Apply to be a guest 🙋🏻‍♀️ Send in your relationship questions ☕️Take me out for a virtual coffee  ✨Social Media

  8. 4月7日

    What Dating Bay Area Engineers Really Feels Like (w/Violina)

    Dating a Bay Area engineer can look perfect on paper… but feel unexpectedly lonely in real life. In this episode, we get brutally honest about what it’s actually like dating engineers in Silicon Valley—the parts that feel safe and stable, and the parts that quietly hurt. Violina is back, and we’re sharing real stories, unpacking patterns we kept running into, and reflecting on the moments that led to some big realizations. We also talk about the green flags—what draws so many people to engineers in the first place—and why those same traits can sometimes create disconnect in relationships. This is about understanding what works, what doesn’t, and what actually matters in the long run. If you’ve ever felt like you’re dating someone who tries to debug emotions instead of actually feeling them, this conversation will hit home. Whether you’re dating in the Bay Area, seeing a software engineer, or you are an engineer wanting to understand how this dynamic can land, this episode offers clarity—and some practical questions you’ll wish you had asked earlier. Share your thoughts, or send in questions📝 Support the show 💖 Meet the host - Tea 🎯 The mission and ecosystem of The Love Agenda ☀️Apply to be a guest 🙋🏻‍♀️ Send in your relationship questions ☕️Take me out for a virtual coffee  ✨Social Media

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A story-driven podcast that explores dating dilemmas, relationships, and the search for true soulmates through conversations with quality singles—revealing a vibrant mosaic of modern love that challenges assumptions, dismantles stereotypes, and brings clarity to the emotional chaos of dating. This podcast exists to help you date smarter—with emotional fluency, clarity, and confidence. Hosted by Tongalag Liu (aka Tea) - a relationship analyst, researcher, and founder of Heartsync™ Relationship Intelligence. With over 20 years of studying human behavior, relationships, and compatibility, she helps people make clearer, more intentional decisions in love. Collaboration: hello@theloveagenda.co

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  • 創作者
    Tongalag
  • 活躍年份
    2026年
  • 單集
    17
  • 分級
    兒童不宜
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    © 2026 The Love Agenda
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    The Love Agenda