ManTalks Podcast

Connor Beaton

The ManTalks podcast features conversations between one of the leading men’s work facilitators and philosopher, Connor Beaton, and world class guests with expertise in mindset, life purpose, psychology, relational communication, sexual intimacy, business and spirituality. For more information about ManTalks go to: http://www.mantalks.com

  1. 23 HR AGO

    Why Weddings Have Lost Their Meaning with Stephen Jenkinson

    I sit down once again with Stephen Jenkinson to explore his latest work on matrimony, ritual, and the mothering of culture. We talk about how weddings have lost much of their meaning, what it means to return to vows with real weight, and how ritual can nourish not just a couple but an entire community. Stephen shares how he reconstructs ceremony from broken shards of tradition and why it matters now more than ever. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 - Introduction 01:19 - Matrimony vs. Marriage 06:10 - The Mothering of Culture 13:32 - Rituals, Ceremony & Lost Meaning 25:52 - Blessing and Vows 45:55 - Creating Old Order Matrimony 52:34 - Reimagining the Wedding Ritual 01:04:38 - Remembering Ritual & Culture 01:08:16 - Closing Thoughts *** Tired of feeling like you're never enough? Build your self-worth with help from this free guide: https://training.mantalks.com/self-worth Pick up my book, Men's Work: A Practical Guide To Face Your Darkness, End Self-Sabotage, And Find Freedom: https://mantalks.com/mens-work-book/ Heard about attachment but don’t know where to start? Try the FREE Ultimate Guide To Attachment Check out some other free resources: How To Quit Porn | Anger Meditation | How To Lead In Your Relationship Build brotherhood with a powerful group of like-minded men from around the world. Check out The Alliance.  Enjoy the podcast? Leave a review on Apple Podcasts, Stitcher, or Podchaser. It helps us get into the ears of new listeners, expand the ManTalks Community, and help others find the tools and training they’re looking for. And don't forget to subscribe on Apple Podcasts | Google Podcasts | Spotify For more, visit us at ManTalks.com | Facebook | Instagram

    1h 9m
  2. 4 DAYS AGO

    Healing Complex Trauma - A Man's Guide

    I break down what complex trauma really is - and how it quietly shapes the way many men think, love, and connect. I share the difference between acute trauma and complex trauma, how it’s formed in childhood through neglect or inconsistency, and how these early wounds show up in adult relationships. Most importantly, I give you real, actionable tools to begin healing and reconnecting with your sense of safety and self-worth. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 - The hidden struggle many men face 02:23 - What complex trauma really means 07:03 - How complex trauma is formed 11:34 - The telltale signs and survival patterns 17:55 - How to start healing complex trauma 20:26 - Building safety in relationships 24:11 - Learning to regulate your nervous system 27:23 - Final thoughts and Carl Jung’s reminder *** Tired of feeling like you're never enough? Build your self-worth with help from this free guide: https://training.mantalks.com/self-worth Pick up my book, Men's Work: A Practical Guide To Face Your Darkness, End Self-Sabotage, And Find Freedom: https://mantalks.com/mens-work-book/ Heard about attachment but don’t know where to start? Try the FREE Ultimate Guide To Attachment Check out some other free resources: How To Quit Porn | Anger Meditation | How To Lead In Your Relationship Build brotherhood with a powerful group of like-minded men from around the world. Check out The Alliance.  Enjoy the podcast? Leave a review on Apple Podcasts, Stitcher, or Podchaser. It helps us get into the ears of new listeners, expand the ManTalks Community, and help others find the tools and training they’re looking for. And don't forget to subscribe on Apple Podcasts | Google Podcasts | Spotify For more, visit us at ManTalks.com | Facebook | Instagram

    29 min
  3. 6 OCT

    What A Sexless Marriage REALLY Does To A Man (And How To Resolve It)

    I dive deep into what really happens to men in a sexless marriage — emotionally, psychologically, and biologically. I break down why rejection cuts so deeply, how it impacts a man’s confidence and identity, and what couples can do to rebuild trust, safety, and intimacy. Whether you’re in a relationship that’s lost its spark or trying to understand your partner better, this conversation offers a roadmap back to connection. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 – Why a sexless marriage hurts men 02:53 – Rejection and the male nervous system 05:25 – Hormonal and emotional fallout 10:32 – When sex becomes a bargaining chip 13:15 – Resentment and emotional withdrawal 17:03 – How to start rebuilding intimacy 22:54 – Practical steps for reconnection 28:29 – Co-creating a new vision for your sex life 31:06 – Final reflections and takeaways *** Tired of feeling like you're never enough? Build your self-worth with help from this free guide: https://training.mantalks.com/self-worth Pick up my book, Men's Work: A Practical Guide To Face Your Darkness, End Self-Sabotage, And Find Freedom: https://mantalks.com/mens-work-book/ Heard about attachment but don’t know where to start? Try the FREE Ultimate Guide To Attachment Check out some other free resources: How To Quit Porn | Anger Meditation | How To Lead In Your Relationship Build brotherhood with a powerful group of like-minded men from around the world. Check out The Alliance.  Enjoy the podcast? Leave a review on Apple Podcasts, Stitcher, or Podchaser. It helps us get into the ears of new listeners, expand the ManTalks Community, and help others find the tools and training they’re looking for. And don't forget to subscribe on Apple Podcasts | Google Podcasts | Spotify For more, visit us at ManTalks.com | Facebook | Instagram

    33 min
  4. 2 OCT

    How To Develop Unshakable Self-Worth - The hidden Connection Between Attachment and Confidence

    I explore the real roots of self-worth and why so many of us struggle with it despite doing “all the right things.” I share how childhood experiences shape attachment and how that impacts our ability to value ourselves as adults. I also break down the crucial practices that build self-worth — from expressing needs and boundaries to taking healthy risks. Finally, I open up about my own journey of failing my way to success and how you can begin your own process of healing. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 – What really damages self-worth 02:29 – Attachment and early development 07:23 – Childhood shame and adult struggles 11:41 – Hostility to needs and boundaries 15:23 – Expressing desires and boundaries 18:58 – The risks of lacking self-worth 23:24 – Doing hard things builds value 25:05 – ManTalks Alliance invitation *** Tired of feeling like you're never enough? Build your self-worth with help from this free guide: https://training.mantalks.com/self-worth Pick up my book, Men's Work: A Practical Guide To Face Your Darkness, End Self-Sabotage, And Find Freedom: https://mantalks.com/mens-work-book/ Heard about attachment but don’t know where to start? Try the FREE Ultimate Guide To Attachment Check out some other free resources: How To Quit Porn | Anger Meditation | How To Lead In Your Relationship Build brotherhood with a powerful group of like-minded men from around the world. Check out The Alliance.  Enjoy the podcast? Leave a review on Apple Podcasts, Stitcher, or Podchaser. It helps us get into the ears of new listeners, expand the ManTalks Community, and help others find the tools and training they’re looking for. And don't forget to subscribe on Apple Podcasts | Google Podcasts | Spotify For more, visit us at ManTalks.com | Facebook | Instagram

    26 min
  5. 29 SEPT

    3 Dark Leadership Traits You Need (But Don’t Want to Admit)

    I dive into the three “dark traits” that every great leader throughout history has had to master. From unpredictability to high stress tolerance to a lack of empathy, these qualities can make or break your leadership in relationships, business, and self-mastery. I unpack how to wield them without being consumed by them, drawing from history, psychology, and personal experience. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 – Why great leaders need dark traits 02:05 – Trait #1: Unpredictability 10:20 – Trait #2: High Stress Tolerance 18:15 – Trait #3: Lack of Empathy 27:48 – Integrating the dark traits 29:08 – Carl Jung on wrestling with the shadow *** Tired of feeling like you're never enough? Build your self-worth with help from this free guide: https://training.mantalks.com/self-worth Pick up my book, Men's Work: A Practical Guide To Face Your Darkness, End Self-Sabotage, And Find Freedom: https://mantalks.com/mens-work-book/ Heard about attachment but don’t know where to start? Try the FREE Ultimate Guide To Attachment Check out some other free resources: How To Quit Porn | Anger Meditation | How To Lead In Your Relationship Build brotherhood with a powerful group of like-minded men from around the world. Check out The Alliance.  Enjoy the podcast? Leave a review on Apple Podcasts, Stitcher, or Podchaser. It helps us get into the ears of new listeners, expand the ManTalks Community, and help others find the tools and training they’re looking for. And don't forget to subscribe on Apple Podcasts | Google Podcasts | Spotify For more, visit us at ManTalks.com | Facebook | Instagram

    31 min
  6. 25 SEPT

    Stop Sabotaging Your Relationships- Anxious Attachment Trap

    I dive into the anxious attachment trap and why it keeps sabotaging relationships. I share the hidden beliefs and behaviors that fuel insecurity, and I break down practical strategies to move toward secure attachment. You’ll learn how to interrupt the cycle, communicate clearly, and start building safety and stability in your relationships. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 - Understanding anxious attachment 02:44 - Why it’s not your fault 03:57 - Common red flags and behaviors 05:54 - Pre-breakup anxiety explained 07:04 - Why you attract avoidant partners 10:16 - Breaking the cycle of anxiety 12:50 - How to communicate anxiety without pushing partners away 16:45 - Expressing your needs clearly 17:59 - Self-soothing strategies for anxious attachment 20:29 - Building security in your relationship *** Tired of feeling like you're never enough? Build your self-worth with help from this free guide: https://training.mantalks.com/self-worth Pick up my book, Men's Work: A Practical Guide To Face Your Darkness, End Self-Sabotage, And Find Freedom: https://mantalks.com/mens-work-book/ Heard about attachment but don’t know where to start? Try the FREE Ultimate Guide To Attachment Check out some other free resources: How To Quit Porn | Anger Meditation | How To Lead In Your Relationship Build brotherhood with a powerful group of like-minded men from around the world. Check out The Alliance.  Enjoy the podcast? Leave a review on Apple Podcasts, Stitcher, or Podchaser. It helps us get into the ears of new listeners, expand the ManTalks Community, and help others find the tools and training they’re looking for. And don't forget to subscribe on Apple Podcasts | Google Podcasts | Spotify For more, visit us at ManTalks.com | Facebook | Instagram

    22 min
  7. 22 SEPT

    The Rise of Misanthropy - Why Do So Many People Hate Each Other?

    I explore the rise of misanthropy and why so many people seem to be losing faith in humanity. I unpack how social media, economics, and cultural conflicts fuel this growing sense of distrust and despair. I also share why I believe practicing a radical faith in humanity is not only possible but necessary. Join me as I challenge the narratives of fear and invite you to see a different way forward. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 – Introduction: What is misanthropy? 00:58 – Social media and amplified othering 03:38 – Economics and generational insecurity 04:47 – Gender conflict and family strain 11:20 – The idea of “Virtuous Misanthropy” 16:49 – Catastrophic thinking and the future 22:35 – Radical faith in humanity 23:38 – Closing thoughts and invitation *** Tired of feeling like you're never enough? Build your self-worth with help from this free guide: https://training.mantalks.com/self-worth Pick up my book, Men's Work: A Practical Guide To Face Your Darkness, End Self-Sabotage, And Find Freedom: https://mantalks.com/mens-work-book/ Heard about attachment but don’t know where to start? Try the FREE Ultimate Guide To Attachment Check out some other free resources: How To Quit Porn | Anger Meditation | How To Lead In Your Relationship Build brotherhood with a powerful group of like-minded men from around the world. Check out The Alliance.  Enjoy the podcast? Leave a review on Apple Podcasts, Stitcher, or Podchaser. It helps us get into the ears of new listeners, expand the ManTalks Community, and help others find the tools and training they’re looking for. And don't forget to subscribe on Apple Podcasts | Google Podcasts | Spotify For more, visit us at ManTalks.com | Facebook | Instagram

    25 min
  8. 18 SEPT

    The Psychology Of The Man Child - Carl Jung and the Puer Aeternus

    I dive into Carl Jung’s concept of the Puer Aeternus—the eternal child, or what we might call the “man-child.” I explore how this archetype shows up in our lives through procrastination, fantasy, and avoidance of responsibility. I share myths like Icarus and Peter Pan, the shadow side of this archetype, and practical steps to move from the eternal boy to the integrated man. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:01 – The Puer Aeternus: Eternal Child 02:42 – Fixation on Youth vs. Responsibility 04:12 – The Provisional Life 07:01 – Myth of Icarus 08:12 – Peter Pan and Neverland 10:33 – The Seduction of Youth 13:24 – The Shadow Side 16:34 – Step 1: Accept Limitations 18:47 – Step 2: Embrace the Ordinary 20:14 – Step 3: Facing Failure 21:50 – Step 4: Commit to the Process 23:29 – Step 5: Seek a Mentor 25:28 – From Eternal Boy to Integrated Man 26:21 – Brutal Honesty and Feedback 27:43 – Closing Thoughts *** Tired of feeling like you're never enough? Build your self-worth with help from this free guide: https://training.mantalks.com/self-worth Pick up my book, Men's Work: A Practical Guide To Face Your Darkness, End Self-Sabotage, And Find Freedom: https://mantalks.com/mens-work-book/ Heard about attachment but don’t know where to start? Try the FREE Ultimate Guide To Attachment Check out some other free resources: How To Quit Porn | Anger Meditation | How To Lead In Your Relationship Build brotherhood with a powerful group of like-minded men from around the world. Check out The Alliance.  Enjoy the podcast? Leave a review on Apple Podcasts, Stitcher, or Podchaser. It helps us get into the ears of new listeners, expand the ManTalks Community, and help others find the tools and training they’re looking for. And don't forget to subscribe on Apple Podcasts | Google Podcasts | Spotify For more, visit us at ManTalks.com | Facebook | Instagram

    29 min

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The ManTalks podcast features conversations between one of the leading men’s work facilitators and philosopher, Connor Beaton, and world class guests with expertise in mindset, life purpose, psychology, relational communication, sexual intimacy, business and spirituality. For more information about ManTalks go to: http://www.mantalks.com

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