What if the thing between you and your next quantum leap isn't more effort, but believing you're already worthy of what you want? Jessica sits down with founder, podcaster, and TBMer Ellie to bust the biggest myth about confidence: that you either have it or you don't. Ellie shares how she built hers through finding Expanders, nervous system regulation, and taking aligned action just beyond her comfort zone. You'll also hear how monthly reflection shows you the progress you're actually making, how Ellie held her price while selling her Amsterdam home when every part of her wanted to settle, and why "fractional" Expanders shift your beliefs one piece at a time. If you've been overworking, doubting you're confident enough, or feeling tested right before a breakthrough, this episode is for you. Your next moment of expansion may come from regulation and surrender, not force. Full show notes → https://tobemagnetic.com/expanded-podcast Resources: The TBM App Has Upleveled! Our app just got a major upgrade to make your manifestation ritual easier and more personalized. Get curated weekly practices, personalized playlists, a first-year roadmap, and all the DIs you know and love to uplevel every area of your life. Free Masterclass: Step Into Your F*ck It Energy If you missed our live masterclass with Lacy and Jessica — don't worry, you can still watch the replay! Learn how to step into your f*ck it energy and feel genuinely safe being seen. Join the Pathway Membership Use code EXPANDED for 20% off your first month! The Pathway Membership gives you unlimited access to all of our manifestation workshops—including How to Manifest, Unblocking Your Inner Child, Shadow, Love, Money, Rock Bottoms, Ruts, and Energetic Updates —plus 70+ self-hypnosis tracks designed to unlock your full potential. LEARN MORE HERE Get the latest from TBM Join the Pathway now - Return to Magic Challenge, Money Challenge, and Nervous System Reset available now! New to TBM? Free Offerings to Get You Started Learn the Process! Expanded Podcast - How to Manifest Anything You Desire Get Expanded! The Motivation - Testimonial LibraryReady to find out what’s holding you back? Try our Free Clarity Exercise Be an EXPANDER! Share Your Manifestation Story Submit to Be a Process GuestWhat did you manifest during the Be Seen Challenge? Share a voice note of your question, block, or Process to be featured in an episode! This Episode Is Brought to You By: Blueland - Get 15% off your first order at Blueland.com/TBMPowerDuo Laundry TabletsIn this episode we talk about: How Ellie went from a stable upbringing in the Netherlands to pursuing entrepreneurshipUsing your astrology, human design, and Authentic Code to guide career and life decisionsFinding Expanders when no one in your immediate environment reflects your desired lifeCurating social media specifically to normalize your manifestationsWhy fractional Expanders can be just as powerful as traditional role modelsUsing connection and community to get into the orbit of your ExpandersSeparating your deeper purpose from a specific career titleVision boards, goal boards, aligned action, and Ellie’s quarterly manifestation practiceWhy ambitious people need to consciously recognize their progressThe discomfort, limiting beliefs, and nervous system activation that can precede an up-levelKnowing whether you need more action or more surrenderWhy confidence comes from repetition, self-trust, and tolerating discomfortUsing body language, regulation, breathwork, and somatic tools to feel safer taking up space Mentioned In the Episode: Find our Be Seen Challenge plus all our workshops and all workshops mentioned inside our Pathway Membership! (Including the Sleep DI, and all of our Regulation and Unblocking DIs) Connect with Ellie!elliedewit_ on IGListen to CareerYap podcastConnect with Ellie on LinkedInEllie’s substack: https://careeryap.substack.com/ HOW TO MANIFEST by Lacy Phillips (with exercises by Jessica Gill) Available now! The Expanded Podcast, from To Be Magnetic™ (TBM), is the leading manifestation podcast rooted in neuroscience, psychology, and energetics. Hosted by TBM’s Chief Content Officer Jessica Gill, with monthly appearances from founder Lacy Phillips, Expanded is where science and the mystical meet to help you manifest in the most grounded, practical, and life-changing way. At TBM, we’ve redefined manifestation through Neural Manifestation™—our proven, science-backed method developed with neuroscientist Dr. Tara Swart. This process helps you reprogram limiting beliefs at the subconscious level so you can create the life most aligned with your authenticity. Each week, we take you inside the TBM practice to help you expand your subconscious to believe what you desire is possible. Through expert interviews, thought leader conversations, TBM teachings, and real member success stories, you’ll learn how to: – Rewire your subconscious mind and step into your worth – Heal your inner child and integrate shadow work – Set boundaries, strengthen intuition, and reclaim self-worth – Manifest relationships, careers, abundance, and experiences that align with your true self With over than 40 million downloads and a global community in over 100 countries, Expanded has become the gold standard in manifestation content. Think of it as your weekly practice for expanding your mind, believing what you want is possible, and manifesting the life you’re meant to live. Past guests include leading voices such as Mel Robbins, Lewis Howes, Jenna Zoe, Martha Beck, Dr. Joe Dispenza, Dr. Gabor Maté, Mark Groves, and Brianna Wiest. Where To Find Us!@tobemagnetic (IG)@LacyannephillipsLacy Launched a Substack! - By Candlelight - Join Here@Jessicaashleygill@tobemagnetic (youtube)@expandedpodcast
