Becoming Rich

2 days ago

How to Trust Divine Timing in Love

In today’s episode, “How to Trust Divine Timing in Love,” I’m talking about one of the biggest fears so many people carry when it comes to relationships... Because when you desire love but it hasn't arrived yet, it's so easy to believe you're doing something wrong, that you're behind, or that you've somehow missed your chance. But what if none of that is true? What if your path was never meant to look like anyone else's? We're diving into the perspective shift that changed everything for me, from trying to control when and how love would show up... into trusting that life has a way of bringing us exactly what we need, exactly when we're ready to receive it. I share my own journey of wanting so badly to meet someone "naturally," the unexpected role dating apps played in my growth, and why the experiences that don't become forever can still be some of the most valuable parts of your story. We talk about: ✨ Why comparing your dating timeline to someone else's only creates unnecessary suffering ✨ The difference between surrendering and giving up ✨ Why you can't force what's meant for you (and why you don't need to) ✨ How to trust your own unique path instead of trying to copy someone else's ✨ Why every relationship, date, and season is preparing you for something greater ✨ How to follow inspired action without becoming attached to outcomes ✨ The power of scripting the feeling instead of the specific outcome ✨ Why becoming available for love is more important than chasing it ✨ How trusting divine timing creates more peace, presence, and possibility 🌹 Rewire Love Patterns, Self-Concept & Inner Beliefs: The 818 Method If you're ready to rewire the beliefs, patterns, and subconscious programming that have been shaping your relationships, self-worth, and reality, The 818 Method was created for you. This is the exact process I used to shift my self-concept, heal old patterns, and become the version of myself who naturally attracts healthier relationships, greater abundance, and deeper fulfillment. ✨ Rewire love patterns ✨ Upgrade your self-concept ✨ Transform limiting beliefs ✨ Create lasting internal change Because your reality changes when you do. Let's connect: 🌹 Email: campolongorachel@gmail.com 🌹 Personal Instagram @rachelmonica.c 🌹 Website: https://stan.store/rachelmonicac 🌹 Connect with my Healer/Reiki Master, Casey (receive $$ off using my name): Website: https://www.ahealersden.com/

32 min

17 Jun

3 Things That Will Save You Years of Dating the Wrong People

In today’s episode, “3 Things That Will Save You Years of Dating the Wrong People,” I’m breaking down the three biggest shifts that completely changed the way I approached dating, relationships, and finding a partner who was actually aligned with the life I wanted to create. Because dating is not about getting chosen. It’s not about convincing someone to like you. And it’s definitely not about trying to force every connection into becoming your future husband. Dating is information. Dating is clarity. Dating is one of the fastest ways to learn what you truly want, what you no longer want, and who you are becoming. We’re diving into the mindset shift that takes dating from something exhausting, discouraging, and emotionally draining... into something empowering, intentional, and even enjoyable. I share my own experiences navigating dating, the mistakes I made, what eventually changed, and the lessons that helped me attract a relationship that feels healthier, more aligned, and more secure than anything I had experienced before. We talk about: ✨ The real purpose of dating (and why most people approach it backwards) ✨ Why dating should be about gathering data, not securing a relationship ✨ How expectations create unnecessary disappointment ✨ The difference between being open to possibilities and attached to outcomes ✨ Why the quality of your relationship with yourself determines what you'll tolerate from others ✨ How self-worth creates standards, boundaries, and discernment ✨ Why healthy dating starts long before you meet the right person ✨ How experience helps you get clear on what you truly desire in a partner ✨ Why every relationship, date, and connection is serving you in some way ✨ How to stop dating to be chosen and start dating from a place of choice 🌹 Rewire Love Patterns, Self-Concept & Inner Beliefs: The 818 Method If you're ready to rewire the beliefs, patterns, and subconscious programming that have been shaping your relationships, self-worth, and reality, The 818 Method was created for you. This is the exact process I used to shift my self-concept, heal old patterns, and become the version of myself who naturally attracts healthier relationships, greater abundance, and deeper fulfillment. ✨ Rewire love patterns ✨ Upgrade your self-concept ✨ Transform limiting beliefs ✨ Create lasting internal change Because your reality changes when you do. Let's connect: 🌹 Email: campolongorachel@gmail.com 🌹 Personal Instagram @rachelmonica.c 🌹 Website: https://stan.store/rachelmonicac 🌹 Connect with my Healer/Reiki Master, Casey (receive $$ off using my name): Website: https://www.ahealersden.com/

37 min

10 Jun

For The Girl Who Feels Like She’s Failing

In today’s episode, “For The Girl Who Feels Like She’s Failing,” I’m speaking directly to the version of you who feels overwhelmed, discouraged, exhausted, or like nothing is working fast enough. Cause HIII I'm also going through it! You are not failing. You are growing. And sometimes growth doesn’t look like confidence, certainty, or momentum. Sometimes it looks like falling apart. Sometimes it looks like questioning everything. Sometimes it looks like tears, frustration, and not knowing what comes next. We’re talking about why hard seasons are not signs that something has gone wrong, why breakdowns often serve a purpose we can’t yet see, and how some of the most important growth happens in the moments we’re most tempted to judge. I also challenge some of the biggest beliefs circulating in the manifestation and healing space, including the idea that you need to be perfectly healed, fully regulated, or completely "fixed" before you can receive success, abundance, love, or the life you desire. Because that simply isn’t true. I share my own experiences with manifestation, attracting my relationship, building my business, and the deeper reality that while the manifestation itself may happen in a moment... The foundation was built long before it arrived. We talk about: ✨ Why feeling emotional is not a sign that you're broken ✨ How to stop attaching negative meaning to difficult seasons ✨ Why breakdowns can actually be signs of growth and self-awareness ✨ The manifestation advice I no longer fully believe ✨ Why success is still available to you even when you're struggling ✨ The difference between receiving something and building the foundation to sustain it ✨ How healing, self-worth, and personal growth create lasting love and success ✨ Why trusting divine timing becomes easier when you focus on who you're becoming This episode is your reminder that you do not need to have it all figured out. You do not need to be perfectly healed. You do not need to earn your worth through constant improvement. Your success is not disappearing because you're having a hard week. Your manifestations are not cancelled because you're emotional. And your life is not falling apart just because it feels messy right now. Keep going. Everything is unfolding exactly as it needs to. 🌹 Rewire Love Patterns, Self-Concept & Inner Beliefs: The 818 Method If you're ready to rewire the beliefs, patterns, and subconscious programming that have been shaping your relationships, self-worth, and reality, The 818 Method was created for you. This is the exact process I used to shift my self-concept, heal old patterns, and become the version of myself who naturally attracts healthier relationships, greater abundance, and deeper fulfillment. ✨ Rewire love patterns ✨ Upgrade your self-concept ✨ Transform limiting beliefs ✨ Create lasting internal change Because your reality changes when you do. Let's connect: 🌹 Email: campolongorachel@gmail.com 🌹 Personal Instagram @rachelmonica.c 🌹 Website: https://stan.store/rachelmonicac 🌹 Connect with my Healer/Reiki Master, Casey (receive $$ off using my name): Website: https://www.ahealersden.com/

29 min

3 Jun

The Power of Your Words: Speaking Love Over Your Partner

In today’s episode, “The Power of Your Words: Speaking Love Over Your Partner,” I’m diving into one of the most overlooked forces in our relationships, our words. Because the way we speak to the people we love matters more than we realize. Our words don't just communicate... They create. They shape identities, influence beliefs, strengthen connection, and can either help someone flourish or slowly diminish them over time. We’re talking about the incredible power of appreciation, encouragement, and conscious communication, and why what you consistently focus on in your partner, your children, your friends, and even yourself, tends to expand. I share my thoughts on how speaking life into the people we love can transform relationships, why feeling seen and appreciated is such a fundamental human need, and how the energy behind our words often becomes the reality we experience. One of the greatest gifts we can give another human being is helping them remember who they are. 🌹 Rewire Love Patterns, Self-Concept & Inner Beliefs: The 818 Method If you're ready to rewire the beliefs, patterns, and subconscious programming that have been shaping your relationships, self-worth, and reality, The 818 Method was created for you. This is the exact process I used to shift my self-concept, heal old patterns, and become the version of myself who naturally attracts healthier relationships, greater abundance, and deeper fulfillment. ✨ Rewire love patterns ✨ Upgrade your self-concept ✨ Transform limiting beliefs ✨ Create lasting internal change Because your reality changes when you do. Let's connect: 🌹 Email: campolongorachel@gmail.com 🌹 Personal Instagram @rachelmonica.c 🌹 Website: https://stan.store/rachelmonicac 🌹 Connect with my Healer/Reiki Master, Casey (receive $$ off using my name): Website: https://www.ahealersden.com/

31 min

27 May

Affirmations to Reprogram Your Subconscious Mind | 432hz (Wealth, Love, Healing, Joy)

Tonight’s track, “Affirmations to Reprogram Your Subconscious Mind | 432hz (Wealth, Love, Healing, Joy)”, was created to gently guide your mind into a deeply receptive state where transformation can happen effortlessly. This subconscious reprogramming track was created as part of my 818 Method — a transformational process designed to help you break old looping patterns, rewire limiting beliefs, and embody a new reality rooted in self-worth, peace, abundance, and secure love. AVAILABLE NOW // https://stan.store/rachelmonicac/p/rewire-love-patterns-selfconcept--inner-beliefs This is not something you need to “try” to do. There is nothing to focus on, nothing to force, and nothing to get right. Simply allow yourself to lie down, breathe, and let the sound + affirmations do the work for you as you drift into sleep. This track is designed with I AM / YOU ARE subconscious reprogramming affirmations, which are intentionally structured to bypass resistance in the mind and speak directly to your subconscious programming, the part of you that shapes your beliefs, identity, emotional patterns, and reality itself. As you listen, you may notice your thoughts slowing down… your body softening… and your awareness gently drifting between wakefulness and sleep. This is the state where change becomes natural. The 432hz frequency in this track resonates inside our body, releases emotional blockages and expands our consciousness. It supports a relaxed nervous system state, helping you sink more easily into rest, presence, and subconscious receptivity. You do not need to listen actively. In fact, the less you try, the deeper this works. Let the words pass through you. Let them be absorbed without effort. Let your mind rest. And as you sleep, these affirmations are designed to gently replace old subconscious patterns with new beliefs aligned with: ✨ Wealth and financial expansion ✨ Love that feels safe, aligned, and reciprocal ✨ Deep emotional and physical healing ✨ Joy, peace, and inner harmony This is a return to your natural state of alignment. You are safe to receive. You are safe to rest. You are safe to change while doing nothing at all. Become the woman who no longer abandons herself, settles for less, or doubts her worth. 🌹 Rewire Love Patterns, Self-Concept & Inner Beliefs: The 818 Method If you're ready to rewire the beliefs, patterns, and subconscious programming that have been shaping your relationships, self-worth, and reality, The 818 Method was created for you. This is the exact process I used to shift my self-concept, heal old patterns, and become the version of myself who naturally attracts healthier relationships, greater abundance, and deeper fulfillment. ✨ Rewire love patterns ✨ Upgrade your self-concept ✨ Transform limiting beliefs ✨ Create lasting internal change Because your reality changes when you do. Let's connect: 🌹 Email: campolongorachel@gmail.com 🌹 Personal Instagram @rachelmonica.c 🌹 Website: https://stan.store/rachelmonicac 🌹 Connect with my Healer/Reiki Master, Casey (receive $$ off using my name): Website: https://www.ahealersden.com/

3h 3m

20 May

What Healthy Love Actually Feels Like

In today’s episode, “What Healthy Love Actually Feels Like,” I’m diving deep into the reality of what a truly healthy relationship looks and feels like beyond the fantasy, the trauma bonds, and the unrealistic expectations social media often sells us. Because healthy love is not about perfection… It’s about emotional safety, communication, alignment, and the willingness to grow together through both the beautiful moments and the hard ones. We’re talking about the difference between chaotic attachment and genuine connection, and why real love is not the absence of triggers or conflict… but the presence of emotional maturity, repair, and mutual understanding. I also open up about my own relationship, the ways my partner makes me feel emotionally safe, supported, and deeply loved, and how healing relationships still require work, hard conversations, and navigating wounds together consciously. We talk about: ✨ What healthy love actually feels like emotionally and energetically ✨ Why peace and passion can exist together ✨ Why communication is one of the most important parts of a lasting relationship ✨ How emotionally healthy couples move through conflict and repair ✨ Why healthy love allows you to become more of yourself, not less ✨ The importance of emotional safety, accountability, and self-awareness in relationships 🌹 Rewire Love Patterns, Self-Concept & Inner Beliefs: The 818 Method If you're ready to rewire the beliefs, patterns, and subconscious programming that have been shaping your relationships, self-worth, and reality, The 818 Method was created for you. This is the exact process I used to shift my self-concept, heal old patterns, and become the version of myself who naturally attracts healthier relationships, greater abundance, and deeper fulfillment. - Rewire love patterns - Upgrade your self-concept - Transform limiting beliefs - Create lasting internal change Because your reality changes when you do. Let's connect: 🌹 Email: campolongorachel@gmail.com 🌹 Personal Instagram @rachelmonica.c 🌹 Website: https://stan.store/rachelmonicac 🌹 Connect with my Healer/Reiki Master, Casey (receive $$ off using my name): Website: https://www.ahealersden.com/

39 min

13 May

Letting Go of the Pressure to Constantly Improve

In today’s episode, “Letting Go of the Pressure to Constantly Improve,” I’m breaking down one of the biggest reasons so many people feel exhausted, anxious, and disconnected on their healing journey… and how to finally shift out of the constant feeling that you need to “fix” yourself to deserve peace. Because growth is beautiful… But when self-development becomes rooted in pressure, lack, or the belief that you’re never enough as you are, it stops feeling empowering and starts feeling heavy. We’re diving into the perspective shift that changes everything, from constantly chasing the next level, healing milestone, or manifestation… into learning how to feel fulfilled, present, and safe within yourself NOW. I also share a recent personal realization I had around manifestation, gratitude, and finally allowing myself to fully appreciate the life I’ve already created instead of only focusing on what’s still missing. We talk about: Why the pressure to constantly improve can actually keep you stuck Why manifestation is about state of being, not constant fixing How gratitude reconnects you to abundance and alignment Why your nervous system needs peace, not pressure, to expand The importance of allowing yourself to enjoy your life while becoming more How focusing too much on what’s missing disconnects you from the present moment Why fulfillment and inner peace are the real foundation of manifestation You are allowed to desire more while also deeply appreciating what already exists. And maybe the version of you you’ve been trying so hard to become… is someone who finally lets themselves breathe. 🌹 🌹 Rewire Love Patterns, Self-Concept & Inner Beliefs: The 818 Method If you're ready to rewire the beliefs, patterns, and subconscious programming that have been shaping your relationships, self-worth, and reality, The 818 Method was created for you. This is the exact process I used to shift my self-concept, heal old patterns, and become the version of myself who naturally attracts healthier relationships, greater abundance, and deeper fulfillment. - Rewire love patterns - Upgrade your self-concept - Transform limiting beliefs - Create lasting internal change Because your reality changes when you do. Let's connect: 🌹 Email: campolongorachel@gmail.com 🌹 Personal Instagram @rachelmonica.c 🌹 Website: https://stan.store/rachelmonicac 🌹 Connect with my Healer/Reiki Master, Casey (receive $$ off using my name): Website: https://www.ahealersden.com/

23 min

6 May

You’re Not Being Yourself (And It’s Blocking You)

In today’s episode, “You’re Not Being Yourself (And It’s Blocking You),” I’m breaking down one of the biggest reasons you feel unseen, disconnected, or like things aren’t fully aligning in your life… and how to shift back into the version of you that naturally attracts what’s meant for you. Because most people don’t struggle to attract what they want because they’re “not good enough”… They struggle because they’re not fully being themselves. We’re diving into the perspective shift that changes everything — from performing, filtering, and trying to be liked… into becoming someone who is fully expressed, aligned, and available to be truly seen. I also share a personal story about my relationship, and how the very parts of me I once thought would make people not like me… ended up being the exact parts my partner loves the most. We talk about: Why people-pleasing and performing block true connection How hiding parts of yourself leads to feeling unseen and unfulfilled Why authenticity is the energy that attracts aligned people and opportunities The fear of being fully seen (and why it’s actually the path to freedom) How to stop trying to be liked and start being real Why you can’t attract your people if you’re not showing them who you are How authenticity deepens love, connection, and self-trust You don’t need to become someone else to attract what you want. You need to become more of who you already are. 🌹 Rewire Love Patterns, Self-Concept & Inner Beliefs: The 818 Method If you're ready to rewire the beliefs, patterns, and subconscious programming that have been shaping your relationships, self-worth, and reality, The 818 Method was created for you. This is the exact process I used to shift my self-concept, heal old patterns, and become the version of myself who naturally attracts healthier relationships, greater abundance, and deeper fulfillment. - Rewire love patterns - Upgrade your self-concept - Transform limiting beliefs - Create lasting internal change Because your reality changes when you do. Let's connect: 🌹 Email: campolongorachel@gmail.com 🌹 Personal Instagram @rachelmonica.c 🌹 Website: https://stan.store/rachelmonicac 🌹 Connect with my Healer/Reiki Master, Casey (receive $$ off using my name): Website: https://www.ahealersden.com/

35 min

Becoming Rich

How to Trust Divine Timing in Love

3 Things That Will Save You Years of Dating the Wrong People

For The Girl Who Feels Like She’s Failing

The Power of Your Words: Speaking Love Over Your Partner

Affirmations to Reprogram Your Subconscious Mind | 432hz (Wealth, Love, Healing, Joy)

What Healthy Love Actually Feels Like

Letting Go of the Pressure to Constantly Improve

You’re Not Being Yourself (And It’s Blocking You)

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Becoming Rich

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How to Trust Divine Timing in Love

3 Things That Will Save You Years of Dating the Wrong People

For The Girl Who Feels Like She’s Failing

The Power of Your Words: Speaking Love Over Your Partner

Affirmations to Reprogram Your Subconscious Mind | 432hz (Wealth, Love, Healing, Joy)

What Healthy Love Actually Feels Like

Letting Go of the Pressure to Constantly Improve

You’re Not Being Yourself (And It’s Blocking You)

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