So Be It: Build Calm Confidence & Bold Action with Science-Backed Self-Help

Dr Amen Kaur

So Be It helps purpose-led women build calm confidence and take bold action through science-backed self-help. Formerly The Toxic Relationship Detox - this new chapter continues the same soul-led mission: to help you heal your worth, reclaim your power, and create freedom, success, and wealth - without burnout. Hosted by Dr Amen Kaur, each episode blends psychology, self-help, and leadership strategy to help you overcome imposter syndrome, grow lasting confidence, and lead your life and career with clarity and courage. This is your space for transformation - where inner healing becomes calm, confident, prosperous action. 💎 Take the Next Step If you love So Be It, go deeper with the So Be Prosperous Program - a science-backed coaching experience for ambitious women ready to rise into purpose, confidence, and aligned success. ✨ Book your free Prosperity Activation Session → bit.ly/worth2wealth 🎧 New episodes weekly with Dr Amen Kaur  📺 YouTube @dramenkaur 🎥 TikTok @dramenkaur 📷 Instagram @dramenkaur 🧠 Best for: Women’s empowerment • confidence • self-help • relationships • entrepreneurship • manifestation • emotional healing • science-backed psychology for growth. ⚠️ Disclaimer: This content is for educational purposes only and not a substitute for professional therapeutic, medical, business, or financial advice.

  1. 1 OCT

    The Hidden Manifestation Technique That Changes Everything in 2025

    Send us a text Book in your 1-1 Click here  Ever feel like you’re flooring the gas on your goals while an invisible handbrake drags you back? In this episode, Dr. Amen Kaur reveals why manifestation isn’t working - and introduces the one powerful manifestation exercise that blends science, spirituality, and nervous system healing to unlock results in 2025. You’ll learn: Why affirmations, vision boards, and hacks stop working - and how to fix it.How labels like “too much” or “not enough” create identity blocks in your subconscious mind.A practical 4-step framework (awareness, choice, embodiment, integration) to rewire your nervous system and build an abundance mindset.The real science of manifestation: how your brain, body, and consciousness create reality.Instead of forcing outcomes, you’ll discover how to release old trauma patterns, regulate your state, and align your energy so abundance feels safe in your body. With client stories and practical tools, Dr. Amen Kaur shows you how to move from procrastination and comparison into clarity, calm focus, and inspired action. 💫 If this episode gives you clarity, please like, share, and leave a review - it helps others find this work. 💫 Ready to make 2025 the year of transformation? Book your free 1:1 breakthrough session with Dr. Amen Kaur (click here) and let’s peel away the labels so you can step into who you were meant to be. 🧠 From Insight to Embodiment: Your Path to Prosperity Listening is just the first step. Transformation happens when you embody what you learn - shifting from fear into calm confidence. This is where healing becomes prosperity. 💫 Book Your FREE 1:1 Prosperity Activation For purpose-led women ready for calm confidence, clarity, and success. ✨ Regulate your nervous system ✨ Align energy to attract abundance ✨ Build confidence to take bold action ✨ Create clarity for your next step ⚡ Spaces are limited - book now: https://bit.ly/worth2wealth 🎧 More Ways to Grow 📺 YouTube: @dramenkaur 📷 Instagram: @dramenkaur 🎥 TikTok: @dramenkaur 💎 Join the So Be Prosperous program: https://bit.ly/worth2wealth 🧠 Best For: Women’s empowerment, self-help, confidence, mindset, healing, manifestation, entrepreneurship, psychology-based growth. ⚖️ Disclaimer This podcast is for educational purposes only and does not replace professional advice. If engaging in guided practices, ensure you’re in a safe, grounded space. By listening, you accept full responsibility for how you use this information.

    25 min
  2. 24 SEPT

    Overthinking Is Stealing Your Success

    Send us a text Click here for Resources Have you ever found yourself caught in an endless loop of replaying conversations, wondering if you said the right thing or how others perceived you? You’re not alone. Overanalyzing isn’t just an annoying habit. It is rooted in our evolutionary biology and neurological wiring. When we replay social interactions, our brains are actually seeking validation and safety. MRI studies show that rejection activates the same regions of the brain as physical pain, while approval triggers dopamine, creating a temporary high that keeps us stuck in the cycle. From childhood, many of us, especially women, were conditioned to equate fitting in with safety. Be good. Follow the rules. Don’t stand out. Over time, our nervous systems learned to chase approval instead of trusting our own compass. The cost is enormous. Overthinking drains our energy and keeps us stuck in the past or anxious about the future. Our real power is only available in the present moment. Research shows that successful people share one key trait: they care less about others’ opinions and act boldly from their inner vision. In this episode of my self help podcast for women and growth minded listeners, I, Dr. Amen Kaur, share a simple three step framework to break free. First, catch yourself in the overthinking loop. Second, regulate your nervous system through breath and presence. Third, take one small action that affirms who you are in this moment. I also share my mantra “So Be It,” which helps you embody the version of yourself who takes action. Clarity doesn’t come from thinking more. It comes from being who you truly are. Whether you are navigating overthinking, seeking personal growth, or building the confidence to follow your dreams, this episode will give you the tools to move forward. If you are ready to step into who you want to be, book a free consultation with me, Dr. Amen Kaur, and discover how to embody your vision and release the old conditioning that is keeping you stuck. The power is within you. So be it. 🧠 From Insight to Embodiment: Your Path to Prosperity Listening is just the first step. Transformation happens when you embody what you learn - shifting from fear into calm confidence. This is where healing becomes prosperity. 💫 Book Your FREE 1:1 Prosperity Activation For purpose-led women ready for calm confidence, clarity, and success. ✨ Regulate your nervous system ✨ Align energy to attract abundance ✨ Build confidence to take bold action ✨ Create clarity for your next step ⚡ Spaces are limited - book now: https://bit.ly/worth2wealth 🎧 More Ways to Grow 📺 YouTube: @dramenkaur 📷 Instagram: @dramenkaur 🎥 TikTok: @dramenkaur 💎 Join the So Be Prosperous program: https://bit.ly/worth2wealth 🧠 Best For: Women’s empowerment, self-help, confidence, mindset, healing, manifestation, entrepreneurship, psychology-based growth. ⚖️ Disclaimer This podcast is for educational purposes only and does not replace professional advice. If engaging in guided practices, ensure you’re in a safe, grounded space. By listening, you accept full responsibility for how you use this information.

    14 min
  3. 17 SEPT

    Trauma Healing Journey: Turning Breakdowns into Breakthroughs

    Send us a text From Trauma to Triumph: Unlock Your Hero’s Healing Journey What if your deepest wounds were the key to your greatest transformation? In this powerful episode, Dr. Amen Kaur reveals how your trauma isn’t the end of your story-it’s the beginning of your Hero’s Journey. Drawing from trauma-informed wisdom, success psychology, and cutting-edge neuroscience, this episode is designed for spiritual, high-achieving women ready to break free from survival mode and step into their next evolution. 💡 What You’ll Learn: How trauma impacts the brain and why feeling “stuck” is actually a sign of your body’s protective wisdom.The 3-Step Hero’s Healing Path to reframe pain into purpose:Reframe your loss as the start of your transformation.Heal and regulate your nervous system to release trauma.Return with gifts to create a life of connection, wisdom, and abundance.How to alchemize shame and fear into resilience, self-worth, and authentic success.This episode blends science and spirituality, offering actionable steps to help you regulate, release, and rise. It’s time to transform your pain into power and step into the life you were meant to live. 👉 Ready to begin your Hero’s Journey? Book a free clarity session and explore The Prosperity Codes, Dr. Amen Kaur’s signature program designed to help you transition from your old life into a purpose-driven, prosperous new chapter.  Click here 🔔 Don’t forget to share, rate, and review this episode to support your journey-and inspire others to start theirs. Your transformation starts here. 🧠 From Insight to Embodiment: Your Path to Prosperity Listening is just the first step. Transformation happens when you embody what you learn - shifting from fear into calm confidence. This is where healing becomes prosperity. 💫 Book Your FREE 1:1 Prosperity Activation For purpose-led women ready for calm confidence, clarity, and success. ✨ Regulate your nervous system ✨ Align energy to attract abundance ✨ Build confidence to take bold action ✨ Create clarity for your next step ⚡ Spaces are limited - book now: https://bit.ly/worth2wealth 🎧 More Ways to Grow 📺 YouTube: @dramenkaur 📷 Instagram: @dramenkaur 🎥 TikTok: @dramenkaur 💎 Join the So Be Prosperous program: https://bit.ly/worth2wealth 🧠 Best For: Women’s empowerment, self-help, confidence, mindset, healing, manifestation, entrepreneurship, psychology-based growth. ⚖️ Disclaimer This podcast is for educational purposes only and does not replace professional advice. If engaging in guided practices, ensure you’re in a safe, grounded space. By listening, you accept full responsibility for how you use this information.

    14 min
  4. 8 SEPT

    When Someone Judges You, It’s Their Pain, Not You

    Send us a text 👉 Release Judgment, Reclaim Your Power: Transform Pain into Freedom Description: What if every judgment you’ve faced wasn’t about you- but a reflection of someone else’s unhealed pain? In this transformative episode of The Soul-Led CEO Dr. Amen Kaur shows you how to release the sting of judgment, reclaim your self-worth, and step into freedom, abundance, and soul-aligned success. By the end of this episode, you’ll learn how to alchemize even the most painful experiences into opportunities for growth, creativity, and wealth. What you’ll discover: Why judgment is never about you-and how to stop taking it personally.Simple, science-backed techniques to regulate your nervous system and release survival patterns.How healing ancestral wounds unlocks sustainable, soul-aligned success.Practical steps to turn pain into empowerment and embody your highest potential.✨ Thank you for listening! If this resonates, share it with a fellow soul-led leader and subscribe for more wisdom. Ready to go deeper? Explore my free 1:1 session here and let’s transform your healing journey together. Your freedom and abundance are waiting. 🧠 From Insight to Embodiment: Your Path to Prosperity Listening is just the first step. Transformation happens when you embody what you learn - shifting from fear into calm confidence. This is where healing becomes prosperity. 💫 Book Your FREE 1:1 Prosperity Activation For purpose-led women ready for calm confidence, clarity, and success. ✨ Regulate your nervous system ✨ Align energy to attract abundance ✨ Build confidence to take bold action ✨ Create clarity for your next step ⚡ Spaces are limited - book now: https://bit.ly/worth2wealth 🎧 More Ways to Grow 📺 YouTube: @dramenkaur 📷 Instagram: @dramenkaur 🎥 TikTok: @dramenkaur 💎 Join the So Be Prosperous program: https://bit.ly/worth2wealth 🧠 Best For: Women’s empowerment, self-help, confidence, mindset, healing, manifestation, entrepreneurship, psychology-based growth. ⚖️ Disclaimer This podcast is for educational purposes only and does not replace professional advice. If engaging in guided practices, ensure you’re in a safe, grounded space. By listening, you accept full responsibility for how you use this information.

    12 min
  5. 21 AUG

    What If Manifestation Isn’t Broken — You’ve Just Evolved (And How to Embody It Now)

    Send us a text What if your struggle with manifestation isn’t failure—  but the next level of your evolution calling you forward? In this episode Dr. Amen Kaur guide spiritual high-achievers who are secretly exhausted from “doing all the things” into a new paradigm of soul-led success. This is for you if… You’ve built vision boards, said affirmations, and scripted your desires… but it all feels flat.You’ve achieved so much already, but deep down you feel stuck in an identity void - no longer who you were, not yet who you’re becoming.You crave prosperity and purpose without the burnout of chasing and proving.It’s not that you’re failing.  It’s that you’ve outgrown the old paradigm. 🌍 The collective is evolving with you: The hustle-based systems of control are crumbling.AI is replacing task-based productivity.The invitation is to return to who you really are - to embody love, presence, and your unique wealth frequency.💡 In this episode, you’ll discover: Why manifestation methods that once worked now keep you stuck in “spiritual hustle.”How your nervous system - not your vision board - holds the key to prosperity, ease, and receiving.The difference between doing to get and being to become.What it means to step into your 5D CEO frequency and lead from soul.This isn’t about fixing.  It’s about remembering. ✨ Try this (today):  Before bed, take 60 seconds to fully feel what it would be like if your desire had already arrived.  Notice the breath, the sensations, the frequency.  That’s the beginning of embodiment. 💌 If this speaks to you:  Share it with a fellow soul-led leader.  Or connect with me for a free 1:1 Clarity Call — where we align your energy, your vision, and your next step. Or start with the Safe to Receive program Because your evolution is sacred.  And your wealth is your birthright. 🧠 From Insight to Embodiment: Your Path to Prosperity Listening is just the first step. Transformation happens when you embody what you learn - shifting from fear into calm confidence. This is where healing becomes prosperity. 💫 Book Your FREE 1:1 Prosperity Activation For purpose-led women ready for calm confidence, clarity, and success. ✨ Regulate your nervous system ✨ Align energy to attract abundance ✨ Build confidence to take bold action ✨ Create clarity for your next step ⚡ Spaces are limited - book now: https://bit.ly/worth2wealth 🎧 More Ways to Grow 📺 YouTube: @dramenkaur 📷 Instagram: @dramenkaur 🎥 TikTok: @dramenkaur 💎 Join the So Be Prosperous program: https://bit.ly/worth2wealth 🧠 Best For: Women’s empowerment, self-help, confidence, mindset, healing, manifestation, entrepreneurship, psychology-based growth. ⚖️ Disclaimer This podcast is for educational purposes only and does not replace professional advice. If engaging in guided practices, ensure you’re in a safe, grounded space. By listening, you accept full responsibility for how you use this information.

    13 min
  6. 31 JUL

    Why Fixing Yourself Fails — The Real Key to Lasting Change

    Send us a text Still feeling stuck, even after all the journaling, healing, or manifesting? You’re not broken — you’ve just been trying to fix something that actually needs to be nourished.In this episode, Dr Amen Kaur—trauma-informed, executive and scientist-turned-soul-led mentor—guides you through a powerful reframe: real transformation doesn’t come from willpower or self-criticism. It begins when you meet the real, unmet needs underneath your patterns. You’ll discover: Why willpower-based healing fails (and what neuroscience reveals about lasting change)The identity void: that liminal space between your past self and the version you’re becomingHow unmet needs like worthiness, rest, and safety drive our behaviorThe truth about nervous system regulation, Maslow’s hierarchy, and trauma integrationA new way forward that centers nourishment, not pressureThis episode blends soulful truth with scientific grounding, offering high-achieving, spiritually aware women a roadmap out of burnout and into embodied leadership. Your stuckness isn’t a flaw. It’s a message from your soul. One that says: You’re ready to meet your needs and become who you truly are.✨ If you’re ready to stop fixing and start becoming —  share this with a friend, and book a 1:1 session with Amen. In our session, we’ll gently uncover the real need beneath the loop you keep finding yourself in — so you can finally feel clear, safe, and aligned again. The real you isn’t lost. She’s just waiting to be birthed. 👉 Book now click here — and let’s meet the part of you that’s been waiting to be seen. 🧠 From Insight to Embodiment: Your Path to Prosperity Listening is just the first step. Transformation happens when you embody what you learn - shifting from fear into calm confidence. This is where healing becomes prosperity. 💫 Book Your FREE 1:1 Prosperity Activation For purpose-led women ready for calm confidence, clarity, and success. ✨ Regulate your nervous system ✨ Align energy to attract abundance ✨ Build confidence to take bold action ✨ Create clarity for your next step ⚡ Spaces are limited - book now: https://bit.ly/worth2wealth 🎧 More Ways to Grow 📺 YouTube: @dramenkaur 📷 Instagram: @dramenkaur 🎥 TikTok: @dramenkaur 💎 Join the So Be Prosperous program: https://bit.ly/worth2wealth 🧠 Best For: Women’s empowerment, self-help, confidence, mindset, healing, manifestation, entrepreneurship, psychology-based growth. ⚖️ Disclaimer This podcast is for educational purposes only and does not replace professional advice. If engaging in guided practices, ensure you’re in a safe, grounded space. By listening, you accept full responsibility for how you use this information.

    16 min
  7. 24 JUL

    The Secret Test That Proves Your Manifestation Is Actually Working

    Send us a text Are you manfesting correctly?  Ever wonder why your vision boards and affirmations aren’t delivering results — even when you’re “doing everything right”? Here’s the truth:  It’s not your clarity.  It’s not your dedication.  And it’s definitely not your manifesting technique. ✨ The real block?  Your nervous system still doesn’t feel safe receiving what you’ve been asking for. In this episode, I reveal Neville Goddard’s forgotten manifestation test — a powerful somatic clue that shows whether your identity has truly shifted: “If your reactions are the same, you have not changed.”We explore the physical signs your body gives you when you’re still anchored in an outdated self-concept — things like: Chest tightening after rejectionVoice trembling when you speak your priceShrinking when someone questions your worthThese aren’t random.  They’re trauma echoes — unconscious nervous system patterns that reveal where your beliefs haven’t fully caught up to your desire. 💡 You’ll also hear the real story of Layla, a gifted healer who couldn’t launch her business — not because she lacked strategy, but because she was still unconsciously holding onto the belief: “I’m not good enough to be paid for who I really am.”Once she addressed her somatic reactions — not just her marketing — she finally posted confidently, stated her rates, and began receiving in alignment with her worth. This is the new paradigm of manifestation: ➡️ Regulate your nervous system ➡️ Rewire your identity ➡️ Receive without resistance When your reactions change…  Your world has no choice but to follow. 🎯 Ready to explore your own manifestation blocks? Book a 1:1 discovery session with me to uncover the trauma-rooted loops behind your money blocks, visibility fears, and voice wounds. Together, we’ll rewire your nervous system to feel safe receiving everything you’ve been affirming all along. 👉 https://bit.ly/worth2wealth 🧠 From Insight to Embodiment: Your Path to Prosperity Listening is just the first step. Transformation happens when you embody what you learn - shifting from fear into calm confidence. This is where healing becomes prosperity. 💫 Book Your FREE 1:1 Prosperity Activation For purpose-led women ready for calm confidence, clarity, and success. ✨ Regulate your nervous system ✨ Align energy to attract abundance ✨ Build confidence to take bold action ✨ Create clarity for your next step ⚡ Spaces are limited - book now: https://bit.ly/worth2wealth 🎧 More Ways to Grow 📺 YouTube: @dramenkaur 📷 Instagram: @dramenkaur 🎥 TikTok: @dramenkaur 💎 Join the So Be Prosperous program: https://bit.ly/worth2wealth 🧠 Best For: Women’s empowerment, self-help, confidence, mindset, healing, manifestation, entrepreneurship, psychology-based growth. ⚖️ Disclaimer This podcast is for educational purposes only and does not replace professional advice. If engaging in guided practices, ensure you’re in a safe, grounded space. By listening, you accept full responsibility for how you use this information.

    13 min

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So Be It helps purpose-led women build calm confidence and take bold action through science-backed self-help. Formerly The Toxic Relationship Detox - this new chapter continues the same soul-led mission: to help you heal your worth, reclaim your power, and create freedom, success, and wealth - without burnout. Hosted by Dr Amen Kaur, each episode blends psychology, self-help, and leadership strategy to help you overcome imposter syndrome, grow lasting confidence, and lead your life and career with clarity and courage. This is your space for transformation - where inner healing becomes calm, confident, prosperous action. 💎 Take the Next Step If you love So Be It, go deeper with the So Be Prosperous Program - a science-backed coaching experience for ambitious women ready to rise into purpose, confidence, and aligned success. ✨ Book your free Prosperity Activation Session → bit.ly/worth2wealth 🎧 New episodes weekly with Dr Amen Kaur  📺 YouTube @dramenkaur 🎥 TikTok @dramenkaur 📷 Instagram @dramenkaur 🧠 Best for: Women’s empowerment • confidence • self-help • relationships • entrepreneurship • manifestation • emotional healing • science-backed psychology for growth. ⚠️ Disclaimer: This content is for educational purposes only and not a substitute for professional therapeutic, medical, business, or financial advice.

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