Desirable

Desirable

We are here to make you believe in love again! ❤️💙Welcome Desirables! Our podcast is an invitation to rethink what’s possible in love, intimacy, and relationships. Through honest conversations with top experts, inspiring couples, and thought leaders, we explore fresh ideas, tools, and mindsets that help you navigate dating, deepen connection, and create extraordinary relationships that nourish your heart and soul. Whether you’re single and seeking or a couple looking to grow, this is the space for open hearts, conscious minds, and anyone with the courage to make love the most Desirable adventure of their life. 

Episodes

  1. 11 DEC

    Why It's EASIEST To Travel with Newborns!

    World-traveling parents Corinne and River Hately-Richards share how conscious parenting, worldschooling, and a life on the move shaped their family values and the way their daughters experience the world. They open up about the surprising benefits of travel with young children, how real-world learning builds confidence, and what it takes to stay connected as a couple while raising kids outside traditional expectations. This conversation opens the door to reimagining family life, exploring gentle parenting, and questioning what “stability” really means for a child. Corinne & River share:  ✅ Why routine does not have to mean staying in one place  ✅ How travel with young kids builds confidence, communication, and curiosity  ✅ Why newborns can be the easiest age to travel with  ✅ How worldschooling and homeschooling fit into conscious parenting  ✅ The realities of parenting while traveling, from exhaustion to deeper connection  ✅ Practical tips for family travel, from snacks to strollers to choosing destinations Timestamps: 00:00 Challenging Traditional Parenting Expectations and Societal Pressure 02:10 Conscious Parenting: Rethinking Routine and Stability for Kids 04:15 Traveling With Babies and Toddlers: Why Early Years Are the Easiest 06:00 Raising Confident Kids Through Travel and Real-World Learning 08:25 Worldschooling Benefits: Global Friendships and Cultural Exposure 10:40 Healing, Loss, and Signs: Corinne’s Childhood and the Oak Leaf Story 13:15 River’s Nontraditional Upbringing and Redefining “Home” 15:40 Leaving Corporate Life for a Nomadic Family Lifestyle 18:20 How Long-Term Travel Shapes Identity, Belonging, and Perspective 21:00 Best Countries for Family Travel and Kid-Friendly Destinations 24:10 Affordable Family Travel Tips and Exploring Your Own Country 26:00 A Day in the Life: Parenting While Traveling Full Time 28:30 Parenting Challenges: Sleep Deprivation, Exhaustion, and Emotional Load 31:00 How Parenthood Changes Intimacy, Connection, and Relationships 34:15 Modern Fatherhood: Vulnerability, Emotional Growth, and Parenting Roles 37:00 Core Family Values: Priorities, Presence, and Raising Emotionally Healthy Kids 39:00 Homeschooling vs. Worldschooling: Education Through Travel 42:30 Working Together as Partners and Running a Social Media Family Business 46:00 Social Media Pressure, Mental Health, and Sharing Family Life Online 50:00 Essential Travel Tips for Parents: Gear, Packing, and Mindset 53:00 Fun Moment: The Surprise Quiz With Corinne and River 57:00 Gentle Parenting and Screen Time Boundaries for Young Kids 01:03:00 Final Reflections: Why Parents Should Try New Lifestyles 01:08:35 Closing Thoughts and Gratitude Follow Corinne & River: 💜 Instagram: @hatelyrichardsfamily 💜 YouTube: @hatelyrichardsfamily 💜 Website: northsouthtravels.com Connect with Us: 💜 Sign up for Sonya Love's Dare To Love coaching program

    1h 5m
  2. 28 NOV

    Fatherhood Expert: 'Men with High Testosterone Make Worse Dads' | Anna Machin

    Follow  Dr. Anna! 💜 Instagram 💜 Website Can AI ever truly replace love? In this eye-opening episode of Desirable, we explore with Dr. Anna Machin how artificial intelligence is reshaping relationships and why it can never replicate the chemistry of human connection.  From AI “romances” to the neuroscience of love, fatherhood, and dating in the modern world, this conversation dives into what makes us human in the age of machines. We cover: ✅ Why one in four young women and one in three young men have had a romantic AI experience ✅ The hidden dangers of AI “companionship"": increased isolation, depression, and distorted expectations ✅ Why only human love triggers oxytocin, dopamine, and the brain chemistry that keeps us healthy and alive ✅ How modern dating apps skew toward shallow connections and one app trying to flip the script ✅ The science of fatherhood: how men’s hormones and brains change when they become dads ✅ Why the first 1000 days of life are critical for love and secure attachment ✅ The biology of cheating detection, smell, and genetic compatibility ✅ Why friendship, family, and community are as vital as romantic love This is a deep dive into the future of relationships and a reminder that no algorithm can replace the heartbeat of human love. 00:00 Understanding Testosterone and Empathy 00:24 The Dangers of AI in Human Relationships 03:08 The Impact of AI on Mental Health 04:31 The Unrealistic Expectations Set by AI 07:54 The Role of AI in Child Development 09:37 The Future of Love and AI 16:28 The Challenges of Modern Dating 26:03 The Science Behind Attraction 32:54 Understanding Love and Its Complexities 34:07 The Fairy Tale of Love vs. Reality 35:13 Stages of Love: Attraction to Companionate 36:37 Impact of Childhood on Love and Relationships 40:58 The Importance of the First 1000 Days 47:31 The Mystery Item Experiment 47:58 The Science of Attraction and Symmetry 53:22 Monogamy vs. Polyamory: Biological and Social Perspectives 58:19 Challenges in Modern Dating and Relationships 01:05:36 Polyamory and Parenting Dynamics 01:06:23 Diverse Family Structures 01:09:15 Challenges of Adoption 01:15:24 Understanding Fatherhood 01:19:33 The Importance of Fathers 01:32:28 Supporting Fatherhood and Single Moms    Connect with Us: 💜 Sign up for Sonya Love's Dare To Love coaching program

    1h 38m
  3. 18 NOV

    Man Admits to Cheating on His Wife. 10 years later, He Marries Again. | Laterras R. Whitfield

    Follow Laterras R. Whitfield! 💜 Instagram 💜 YouTube Can a cheater ever truly change? In this powerful episode of Desirable, Laterras Whitfield opens up about the darkest chapter of his life—his infidelity—and the transformation that turned his greatest failure into a ministry of honesty, healing, and emotional responsibility. With raw vulnerability, Laterras, Sonya, and Agon dive into the roots of betrayal, the role of intimacy, the wounds men often hide, and the kind of love that demands transparency over perfection. Laterras shares: ✅ Why “once a cheater, always a cheater” steals the possibility of redemption ✅ How sexual misalignment, rejection, and silence fueled a five-year cycle of cheating ✅ The moment therapy forced him to face childhood trauma, shame & inherited patterns ✅ Why sex is sacred—and why sexless marriages quietly break people ✅ The importance of emotional safety so men stop hiding failure, fear, and desire ✅ How he rebuilt himself through transparency, accountability & faith ✅ His upcoming book Student of Love and why he refuses to call himself an “expert” Sonya & Agon open up about: — Sonya’s healing from infidelity in her own family — How Agon’s porn addiction improved only when Sonya created safety instead of shame — Why men’s safety is often ignored in conversations about trust and connection This episode is about change, redemption, and the courage to rebuild love with honesty—not perfection.    00:00 Introduction: Brutal Honesty 00:03 Confessions of a Serial Cheater 01:49 Understanding the Pattern of Cheating 04:18 The Feather Story: Intimacy Issues in Marriage 09:42 The Turning Point: Seeking Therapy and Healing 20:45 The Importance of Safety and Vulnerability in Relationships 24:49 The Power of Transparency and Trust 36:23 Building a Stronger Future Together 40:39 Realizing the Tribe Within 41:06 When to End a Relationship 42:59 Commitment Beyond Feelings 43:19 Grounds for Divorce 46:27 Misalignment in Marriage 52:50 Redefining Masculine Value 59:50 The Mystery Bride 01:01:38 Journey to Transparency 01:08:35 Becoming a Student of Love 01:12:15 Conclusion and Book Release Connect with Us: 💜 Sign up for Sonya Love's Dare To Love coaching program

    1h 13m
  4. 11 NOV

    A Psychologist's Take on Delusional Female Entitlement in Dating | Orion Taraban

    Follow Dr. Orion! 💜 Instagram 💜 YouTube Who really has the advantage in today’s dating world: men or women? In this provocative episode of Desirable, clinical psychologist Dr. Orion Taraban joins Sonya Love & Agon Love to break down the raw dynamics of modern dating, from age gaps and attraction to the shifting power of sex and commitment.  With several years of experience working with thousands of clients, Orion brings psychological insight into the realities few people want to admit. They dive into: ✅ Why women peak earlier in desirability, while men “come into their value” later in life ✅ The role of youth, beauty, maturity, and stability in attraction ✅ Why “commitment before sex” is less effective in today’s competitive landscape ✅ How dating apps amplify mismatched expectations and age gaps ✅ Why many men secretly carry torches for past lovers for decades ✅ Orion’s personal journey as a “romantic in recovery” and lessons from his mistakes ✅ The philosophical question: are we losing true love by reducing dating to swipes and numbers? This episode challenges modern dating norms and asks the hard questions: what do we really want, and what does it cost to get it?   00:00 Introduction: Women's Peak Age According to Men 00:31 Dating Dynamics and Gender Differences 01:23 Challenges in Modern Dating 03:26 The Role of Sex in Relationships 05:42 Marriage and Commitment 07:29 Understanding Love and Relationships 13:00 Men's Dating Strategies and Challenges 17:01 Improving Dating Profiles 20:02 The Impact of Sex on Relationship Dynamics 34:00 Why Women Get Ghosted After Sex 36:46 The Cost of Casual Encounters 38:05 Spotting Red Flags in Dating 39:27 The Shift in Effort Post-Sex 40:49 The Role of Commitment and Effort 42:41 Navigating Modern Dating and Relationships 45:00 Conventional vs. Unconventional Dating 46:31 The Importance of Self-Honesty in Dating 48:46 The Reality of Long-Term Relationships 49:37 The Future of Relationships 51:13 Advice for New Daters 58:54 Personal Reflections on Dating 01:14:32 The Mystery Item: A Sentimental Chair 01:18:57 Closing Thoughts and Future Plans Connect with Us: 💜 Sign up for Sonya Love's Dare To Love coaching program

    1h 20m
  5. 27 OCT

    Why Feeling "Chemistry" Is Actually a Red Flag | Kirby Fling

    Follow Kirby! 💜 Instagram 💜 YouTube 💜 Website  Why do so many of us repeat the same painful relationship patterns... no matter how hard we try to change? In this episode of Desirable, Attachment Styles Expert Kirby Fling breaks down the science of attachment, the role of trauma in shaping memory, and practical tools for rewiring our patterns in love, parenting, and even the workplace.  With an engineer’s mindset and years of study, he reveals how early childhood wounds echo through our adult lives and how to finally break free! You’ll learn: ✅ Why attachment is more than four rigid labels and how anxious and avoidant behaviors overlap ✅ The five pillars of secure attachment every child, partner, and employee needs ✅ How trauma erases memory and hardwires autopilot stress responses ✅ Why repair after conflict matters more than avoiding conflict altogether ✅ Practical tools like the “Ideal Parent Figure Protocol” for rewiring insecure attachment ✅ Why self-work, humility, and autonomy are the foundation of healthy love ✅ How to use dating as a vetting process, not a validation loop Kirby’s approach is a roadmap to healing yourself, parenting consciously, and building relationships that last. Chapters: 00:00 Introduction: Understanding Love and Relationships 00:38 Steps to Self-Discovery in Relationships 01:10 The Role of Validation and Transactional Relationships 02:14 The Importance of Early Dating Dynamics 05:13 Attachment Styles and Their Impact 26:52 The Five Pillars of Attachment 42:53 Building Emotional Resilience 43:45 Ideal Parent Figure Protocol (IPF) 44:37 Rewiring the Nervous System 46:11 Creating New Emotional Memories 47:27 The Power of Secure Attachment 56:01 The Role of Emotions in Learning 01:00:14 The Importance of Social Status 01:04:36 Emotional Expression and Cultural Norms 01:10:27 Navigating Emotional Vulnerability in Relationships 01:17:18 Interactive Segment: Relationship Advice 01:25:23 Final Thoughts on Self-Relationship Connect with Us: 💜 Sign up for Sonya Love's Dare To Love coaching program

    1h 25m
  6. 18 OCT

    Confronting a former CIA Spy: ‘Are You Lying About Leaving the CIA?! | Andrew Bustamante

    Want to learn more from Andrew? 💜 Find your Spy Superpower 💜 Read Andrew’s CIA book ‘Shadow Cell’ 💜 Follow Andy on YouTube 💜 Explore Spy School 💜 Support Andy's sponsor Axolt Brain 💜 Listen to the podcast What can we learn from CIA spies about love and relationships? Former CIA intelligence officer Andrew Bustamante reveals how the same psychological tactics used in espionage can build—or destroy—trust, intimacy, and even family life.  Once a covert CIA operative, Andrew still speaks like a man who may never have fully left the agency… leaving viewers wondering how deep the secrets go. In this fascinating episode of Desirable, Andrew breaks down how spycraft shapes everything from marriage to parenting—and even how public figures like Charlie Kirk prove we’re all being subtly controlled by information, narrative, and emotional manipulation. He shares: ✅ How he proposed to his CIA-agent wife through a covert six-month operation ✅ The emotional cost of loving someone trained never to trust ✅ Why he parents like a spy—teaching his kids with “the illusion of choice” ✅ How the CIA recruits through trauma, loyalty & validation needs ✅ Why intelligence isn’t fact—it’s probability—and how that controls public thinking ✅ The truth about conspiracies, propaganda & mass persuasion ✅ The two spy tools that can strengthen any relationship: perspective-shifting & curiosity ✅ What real emotional security looks like when you’ve been trained to lie for a living This is a rare look inside both the human and psychological side of espionage—and what it can teach us about love, control, and raising the next generation.   Chapters: 00:00 Intro 01:51 The Proposal Story 14:29 Challenges of Marriage and Parenthood 24:04 Understanding Human Behavior 26:12 The Three Lives Concept 32:45 Parenting with CIA Insights 34:06 Non-Traditional Parenting Choices 35:25 The Illusion of Choice 35:41 Deciding to Homeschool 36:20 Challenges with Traditional Schooling 38:52 CIA Training and Breaking the System 43:57 The Impact of Father Figures 48:15 CIA Recruitment and Loyalty 01:00:29 The Culture of Silent Professionals 01:09:52 Personal Safety and Family Concerns 01:10:09 Navigating Public Exposure and Security Measures 01:13:25 The Reality of Intelligence Work 01:15:27 The Anatomy of a Conspiracy 01:18:12 Cultural Observations and Political Divisions 01:36:19 CIA Tools for Relationship Building 01:41:39 Concluding Thoughts on Relationships and Personal Growth Connect with Us: 💜 Sign up for Sonya Love's Dare To Love coaching program

    1h 44m
  7. 7 OCT

    Narcissism Survivor: Women Are Worse than Men As Narcissists! | Dr. Sara Al Madani

    Follow Sara: 💜 Instagram:  https://www.instagram.com/saraalmadani/ 💜 Website: https://saraalmadani.com Dr. Sara Al Madani has survived narcissistic abuse, built 9 businesses, raised her son as a single mother, and written a book that says it all: Dear Narcissist, F*** You.  On Desirable, she opens up about the price of authenticity, the power of healing, and why self-love is the foundation for real confidence, parenting, and relationships. In this powerful conversation, Sara shares: ✅ Why entrepreneurial success comes from healing, not hustle ✅ How she balances masculine energy in business with feminine in love ✅ Radical parenting lessons from raising her son with honesty and respect ✅ The hidden cost of narcissistic relationships and how to break trauma bonds ✅ Why forgiveness is freedom, not weakness ✅ Her unapologetic take on Real Housewives and using the platform to spread truth ✅ Why being hated is the ultimate proof of authenticity This is a roadmap to healing, reclaiming self-worth, and daring to live as your truest self!    TIMESTAMPS: 00:00 Introduction: Redefining Parenthood 00:25 Meet Sara Al Madani: A Modern Emirati Woman 00:46 Struggles and Triumphs in Love 01:19 The Journey of Forgiveness 01:58 Surprising News and Future Plans 02:37 Balancing Business and Motherhood 03:08 Challenging Societal Norms 04:57 Embracing Masculine and Feminine Energies 11:00 Raising Children with Honesty and Independence 15:34 Facing Criticism and Staying Authentic 25:34 Surviving Narcissistic Relationships 35:49 Understanding Narcissism 36:22 Self-Reflection and Growth 37:59 The Power of Solitude 48:31 The Journey of Forgiveness 01:01:24 The Importance of Self-Investment 01:05:03 Navigating Reality TV with Spirituality Connect with Us: 💜 Sign up for Sonya Love's Dare To Love coaching program

    1h 10m
  8. 29 SEPT

    Grammy Winning Manager: "This No.1 Rapper Spat in my Food!" | CharlieRocket

    Follow Charlie Rocket! 💜 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/charlie/ 💜 YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@charlierocketofficial/videos 💜 Dream Machine: https://www.instagram.com/dreammachine/ What would you call someone who walks away from millions in the music industry… at the height of success… to chase an “impossible” dream? Delusional? Correct.  But also inspiring? Absolutely. For Charlie Rocket, the answer was simple: believe bigger. Grammy-winning music manager turned Emmy-winning athlete, philanthropist, and dreamer, Charlie embodies what he calls “delusional optimism.”  He’s proof that belief creates reality, and that setbacks are just setups for something greater. In this electrifying episode of Desirable, Charlie opens up about: ✅ Manifesting a Nike commercial with LeBron James and Serena Williams after creating his own ad for $660 ✅ Walking away from fame, money, and music at 300 pounds with a brain tumor ✅ Reinventing himself again and again: athlete, CEO, philanthropist ✅ Why words are spells and how to reprogram identity with superhero names ✅ Turning heartbreak, rejection, and “crazy” labels into fuel for belief ✅ The power of service: helping others make their dreams come true first ✅ Finding love, health, and fulfillment beyond success It’s living proof that dreams are real the moment you decide to believe! TIMESTAMPS: 00:00 The Vegas Incident: A Shocking Encounter with Soulja Boy 00:20 Charlie Rocket's Rise in the Music Industry 00:46 A Life-Changing Vision: From Music Mogul to Nike Athlete 02:32 The Power of Belief and Overcoming Adversity 04:42 The Journey of Reinvention: From Manager to Athlete 07:31 The Turning Point: Health Scare and New Beginnings 08:38 Manifesting Dreams: The Nike Commercial Vision 15:18 The Search for a Videographer: A Stroke of Luck 54:49 The Creative Vision: PVC Pipe and Anamorphic Lens 55:56 Unexpected Call from Nike 56:47 Nike's New Direction 58:49 The Dream Crazy Commercial 59:33 Reflecting on the Journey 01:01:39 Believing in Yourself 01:03:56 Overcoming Childhood Doubts 01:11:25 The Power of Vulnerability 01:15:39 Chasing Dreams and Finding Love 01:21:35 The Importance of Transparency 01:25:01 Celebrating Love and Relationships 01:38:28 The Impact of Social Media 01:42:37 Dream Big: The Notebook Connect with Us: 💜 Sign up for Sonya Love's Dare To Love coaching program

    1h 45m
  9. 29 SEPT

    Interabled Parents: "My Husband Satisfies Me!" ft. Winston & Mayfair Clements

    Follow The Clements! 💜 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theclements_/ 💜 YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@TheClements 💜 Podcast: https://www.youtube.com/@TwoandTenThousandPodcast 💜 Website: https://www.theclements.co 🎙️ “You cannot convince me that Winston satisfies Mayfair’s needs…” That’s the kind of comment Winston & Mayfair Clements have faced ever since their engagement photos went viral. Instead of congratulations, strangers questioned their love, their intimacy, even their ability to raise children. But here’s the truth: Winston has survived over 200 bone fractures from brittle bone disease — and turned that challenge into a platform for impact. Together, he and Mayfair have built a marriage, a family, and a mission that proves love truly knows no limits. In this powerful episode of Desirable, Winston & Mayfair open up about: ✅ Facing viral scrutiny with humor and resilience ✅ Navigating intimacy and communication in an inter-abled marriage ✅ Raising their daughter while blending travel, purpose, and faith ✅ Redefining what it means to support each other’s hearts ✅ Building a legacy of compassion and inclusion This is one of the most inspiring love stories we’ve ever shared — and we hope it makes you believe in love again, too. ❤️ TIMESTAMPS: 00:00 Introduction and Mission of the Podcast 00:39 How We Fell in Love: Two Versions 02:38 Building a Relationship and Community 08:01 Family Reactions and Acceptance 11:47 Dealing with Public Perception and Negativity 20:39 Pursuing Dreams and Career Changes 31:33 Parenting and Maintaining Intimacy 39:46 The Importance of Therapy and Counseling 40:52 The Decision to Seek Counseling 41:27 The Role of Spiritual Guidance 43:28 Maintaining Connection in a Busy Life 46:33 Understanding Brittle Bone Disease 47:48 Faith and Overcoming Challenges 51:13 Parenting and Inclusivity 54:13 The Importance of Community 56:55 Men and Emotional Responsibility 01:00:32 Navigating Postpartum Challenges 01:04:46 Disability and Social Interactions 01:16:44 Choosing to Have Children 01:19:29 Believing in Love Again 01:23:00 Final Thoughts and Gratitude Connect with Us: 💜 Sign up for Sonya Love's Dare To Love coaching program

    1h 24m
  10. 29 SEPT

    Why we got married by the two of us!

    Are you truly prepared for a lifelong commitment? How can you survive your own trauma to still find The One? For the first time ever after years of being known as the faces of a viral social media channel, newly-married couple Sonya Love and Agon Love sit down to reveal the raw, unfiltered truth about their relationship! From waiting 6 months before getting intimate, confronting childhood trauma, to even postponing their wedding, this is the side of their love story you’ve never seen. They open up about: ✅ Why they almost canceled their wedding ✅ The real reason they said “I do” alone ✅ Childhood trauma, toxic relationships, and how healing shaped their love ✅ Why they waited 6 months before having sex and what it taught them ✅ Fears about parenthood and breaking cycles from their families Join us for this heartfelt conversation that will make you believe in love again! TIMESTAMPS: 00:00 Wedding and Podcast Introduction 01:09 Our Unique Wedding Plans 03:13 The Importance of Choosing the Right Partner 04:07 Overcoming a Troubled Past 06:45 The Journey to Self-Love and Healthy Relationships 14:27 Advice for Those in Toxic Relationships 19:30 The Beginnings of Our Love Story 20:08 Meeting During COVID: Our First Date 37:30 Navigating Early Relationship Challenges 38:55 Ego and Insecurities in Love 40:26 Building a Strong Foundation 42:45 Parenthood: A New Chapter 44:56 Fears and Realizations About Parenting 50:24 Balancing Parenthood and Partnership 59:04 Viewer Segment: Am I the Asshole? 01:06:40 Embracing Past Relationships 01:15:34 Looking Forward to Marriage Connect with Us: 💜 Sign up for Sonya Love's Dare To Love coaching program

    1h 13m

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We are here to make you believe in love again! ❤️💙Welcome Desirables! Our podcast is an invitation to rethink what’s possible in love, intimacy, and relationships. Through honest conversations with top experts, inspiring couples, and thought leaders, we explore fresh ideas, tools, and mindsets that help you navigate dating, deepen connection, and create extraordinary relationships that nourish your heart and soul. Whether you’re single and seeking or a couple looking to grow, this is the space for open hearts, conscious minds, and anyone with the courage to make love the most Desirable adventure of their life.