Authentic Identity

Blake

Blake and his guests are on a mission to find their authentic identity and help others find theirs.

Episodes

  1. Beating Male Loneliness With Brotherhood

    17 JAN

    Beating Male Loneliness With Brotherhood

    We share a candid talk with Ty Condie about building men who are strong, kind, and capable, and why optimization beats average across health, home, and work. Vulnerability, real friendship, and the “warrior monk” standard tie the hour together with practical next steps and honest stories. • four pillars of the Dad’s Movement: health, leadership, friendship, fun • why many high performers have zero 3 a.m. friends • health optimization over aesthetics and longevity as the goal • leadership at home through hard, honest conversations • vulnerability as strength and the end of performance masks • the catalyst event structure and who it serves • obsession vs apathy and qualifying for real change • capability with restraint: the warrior monk model • rock bottom, anger, and the 90 percent response rule • how to connect with Ty and join the community Find Blue Form Media here: https://blueformmedia.com/home Find Ty on Instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/dadsmovement?igsh=MW9jcTkxZTZ1dWYweg== [00:00:00] Welcome and Intro. [00:10:24] Local Focus And Community In St. George. [00:16:20] Launch Wins And Taking Imperfect Action. [00:23:20] Hard Conversations With Your Family.    [00:32:45] Vulnerability On Stage And On Camera.  [00:39:40] Truth Precedes Transformation.  [00:45:12] Brotherhood, Boundaries, And Real Help. [00:53:44] Most Qualified To Help Who You Were.  [00:56:20] Closing And Where To Find Ty.

    1hr 15min
  2. Conspiracies, Corruption, and Cigars with the Dino Boys

    04/04/2025

    Conspiracies, Corruption, and Cigars with the Dino Boys

    Blake, Brad, and David dive deep into the systems that control our society and how to break free from them to live more authentically. • Media and entertainment serve as distractions from real issues happening in the world • The education system was designed by Rockefeller to create workers, not free thinkers • Healthcare and pharmaceutical industries profit from keeping people sick rather than healing them • Brad shares his personal journey through addiction and how rehab centers often perpetuate problems rather than solve them • Modern technology and convenience aren't the enemy—it's the greed and control mechanisms behind them • Self-sufficiency and critical thinking are actively discouraged because they threaten established power structures • Building real community connections is essential to breaking free from societal programming • True preparedness isn't about hoarding supplies but developing skills and adaptability • The age of information gives us unprecedented access to knowledge but requires discernment The most important thing you can do is talk to people. Break out of isolation, build community, and have real conversations that challenge your thinking. Stop hiding behind screens and start engaging with those around you. [00:00:00] Welcome. [00:08:45] Changing Values and Social Movements. [00:21:30] Education System Control and Indoctrination. [00:43:05] Big Pharma and Healthcare Exploitation. [01:05:00] Brad's Addiction and Rehab Experience. [01:33:00] Holistic Health vs Traditional Medicine. [01:46:55] Conspiracies, Government Control and Media. [02:10:15] Community Building and Personal Preparedness.

    2h 13m
  3. Army Brat to Entrepreneur

    07/03/2025

    Army Brat to Entrepreneur

    What does it truly mean to be authentic in a world where we're constantly pressured to adopt labels and identities? Jay Crew takes us on a powerful journey through his remarkable life—from army brat to foster child to successful entrepreneur and marketing expert—revealing the hard-won wisdom that transformed his understanding of himself and human potential. Jay's definition of authenticity as "honesty without fear" cuts through the noise of self-help platitudes, offering a refreshingly clear path for anyone struggling to find their true self. He explains how therapy taught him to not just talk about emotions but physically release them, describing a powerful practice of "shaking out" trapped feelings that create blockages in our bodies and lives. The conversation takes a fascinating turn when Jay unpacks how we hide behind labels as substitutes for true identity. Whether it's defining ourselves by our profession, hobbies, or even taste in music, these labels often mask our authentic nature. Jay offers insight into why the most influential people in any group are those who transcend their group identity to express something authentically their own. Perhaps most valuable is Jay's perspective on service as life's purpose. Through his work with fiancée Danita Young in their health and fitness coaching business, he's discovered that focusing on providing value rather than seeking rewards leads to greater fulfillment and success. His distinction between "doing your best" and "doing what's required" provides a practical framework for anyone looking to live and work more authentically. Ready to strip away the false identities holding you back and discover what honesty without fear could look like in your life? This episode might just be the catalyst you need to begin your own journey toward authentic living. [00:00:00] Intro and welcome. [00:08:10] Whiskey Talk and Relationship Wisdom. [00:16:10] Jay's Life Story and Adoption Journey. [00:30:40] Therapy and Emotional Healing. [00:43:07] Defining Authentic Self. [00:54:05] Identity vs. Authenticity. [01:04:20] Service as Life's Purpose.

    1hr 17min
  4. Entrepreneurship, Resilience, and Finding Authentic Balance

    20/02/2025

    Entrepreneurship, Resilience, and Finding Authentic Balance

    Ever wondered how stepping away from your business could actually fuel its growth? Join us as we sit down with the inspirational Danita Young, whose journey through entrepreneurship, faith, and self-discovery is nothing short of transformative. From savoring the soothing notes of London Fog tea to tackling the complex layers of work-life balance, Danita shares her unique perspective on maintaining authenticity and energy in all aspects of life. Her story is a testament to resilience and the power of breaking away from traditional molds to find one's true path. Growing up in the Mormon faith, both Danita and I have navigated the intricate dance between religious expectations and personal freedom. We explore the dual nature of structured environments—appreciating their sense of community while confronting the limitations they can impose. Through shared experiences, we highlight the need for authenticity beyond prescribed norms and the emotional journey of challenging limiting beliefs. Whether it's balancing military duties with family life or finding humor and playfulness amidst life's pressures, Danita's insights offer a refreshing look at living a fulfilled and authentic life. Discover how vulnerability can be a powerful catalyst for community building and personal growth. We discuss the role of podcasting as a tool for fostering connections, highlighting stories that bind us through shared human experiences. From tackling taboo topics to embracing the joy of play and creativity, our conversation with Danita underscores the importance of nurturing the inner child while setting boundaries. Tune in to uncover the empowering essence of resilience, the joy of rebuilding from rock bottom, and the art of finding balance through authenticity and genuine self-expression. [00:00:00] Intro and welcome. [00:09:26] Faith and Self-Discovery. 00:13:34] Breaking Away From Mormon Culture. [00:24:07] Navigating Mormon Expectations and Military Service. [00:31:59] Challenging Limiting Beliefs and Perspectives. [00:42:58] Foundation Work and Healing Play. [00:55:08] Discovering Balance Through Play and Authenticity. [01:08:00] Empowering Vulnerability and Taboo Topics. [01:21:11] Shared Human Experience and Evolution. [01:26:01] Rock Bottom and Building Community. [01:33:11] Entrepreneurship and Resilience Through Adversity. [01:38:17] Building Community Through Podcasting.

    1hr 41min

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Blake and his guests are on a mission to find their authentic identity and help others find theirs.