M2: Managing Managers

Thomas Cox
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Managing managers is MUCH harder than just managing a team -- it's not just you figuring out what works for you. You have to help others figure out what works for them. Thus, to be effective, you must understand leadership at a 10x level. M2 is produced by the Transformative Leadership Lab: txl-lab.com.

Episodes

  1. 13 JAN

    M2 Ep 008 - The Operating Envelope

    Scale your team’s speed and ownership without losing control. You want a team that spots problems, fixes them, and innovates without waiting for your permission. But how do you give that kind of autonomy without inviting chaos? In this episode of M2: Managing Managers, Jim and Thomas break down the "Operating Envelope"—the structural secret to building teams that run fast, own their work, and need less supervision. What you’ll get: The "Operating Envelope" Framework: How to define clear, firm boundaries (budget, safety, brand) so your team has total freedom to sprint inside them. The "Context over Control" Shift: Why giving your team more information (even financial realities) creates better decisions than giving them orders ever could. The Google "Error Budget": How to mathematically calculate how much failure is acceptable, so your team stops playing it safe and starts playing to win. The Hero Trap: Why "saving the day" when things go wrong actually destroys ownership and trains your staff to be helpless. Engineering Pride: How to use the envelope to trigger the deep psychological pride that drives "first-time quality" and high retention. Case Studies in Speed: Lessons from Google, Toyota’s production line, and Dutch nursing teams on how high-autonomy structures outperform hierarchies. If you are tired of being the bottleneck and want to build your team into a self-correcting, high-performance machine, this episode gives you the blueprint to step back so they can step up.

    42 min

  2. 9 JAN

    M2 Ep 007 - Caring Means Challenging

    High-performing teams operate in a zone of "safe discomfort." In this episode of M2: Managing Managers, Jim and Thomas dismantle the false choice between being a supportive "servant leader" and a demanding driver of results. We break down the science and give you the scripts for upholding high standards without destroying morale. What you’ll get: The "Nice Guy" Trap: Why Jim’s early attempt to protect his team’s feelings actually capped their potential—and how to avoid the "performance ceiling" caused by high loyalty/low accountability. The Relating vs. Requiring Matrix: Why these aren’t opposites on a continuum. Learn how to move from the "Country Club" or "Sweatshop" quadrants into the "Best Boss" zone by both Relating and Requiring simultaneously. The "Micro-Hack" for Tough Feedback: A specific, 20-second opening script that lowers defenses and proves you care before you deliver hard news. The "Early and Often" Protocol: How to use tiny course corrections to prevent the dreaded "heavy conversation" conversation later on. Stress Titration: How to dial pressure up (or down) to keep different personality types in their specific Zone of Optimal Performance (Eustress). Permission to Push: Why your high performers actually want you to challenge them, and why "rescuing" them is a sign of distrust. If you manage managers who are reluctant to give honest feedback, this episode provides the mental models and language to help you show them how lead with backbone and heart.

    37 min

  3. 18/12/2025

    M2 Ep 006 - Engaging Staff via Excellence

    Staff engagement rises when people can do work they’re proud of, and when “excellent” stops being vague. In this episode of M2: Managing Managers, Jim and Thomas share a lightweight, reusable 12-week cadence that helps frontline managers engage staff by co-creating a shared definition of excellent work, removing obstacles, and running small experiments. What you’ll get: * A simple frame: think puzzle, not poker. Sit on the same side of the table and solve the work together. * The flow (5–15 minutes a week): define excellence → name roadblocks → ask customers/stakeholders → draft an excellence statement → run tiny experiments → review/adjust → assign process owners → lock in wins and repeat. * Why psychological safety matters here, and how “helping” gets toxic when leaders weaponize the inputs. * How to use low-hanging fixes to build trust fast (and prove you listened). * How to run experiments without chaos: a short experiment log, clear predictions, and learning as the goal. * A warning sign many leaders miss: if the basics require heroism, your system is broken. If you manage managers, this is a practical way to teach them how to engage teams without turning “performance” into a whipping session.

    48 min

  4. 17/12/2025

    M2 Ep 005 - Executive Burnout

    Executive burnout often looks like success from the outside and feels like a trap on the inside. You’re winning. You’re needed. You’re the clutch player. Then one day you realize you built a “prison” made of dependencies, expectations, and a superhero identity you can’t sustain.In this episode of M2: Managing Managers, we unpack what executive burnout is, how to spot it, and what actually helps you climb back out.What we cover:* The signs: overwhelm, “stuck in the gears,” numbness, and the point where your normal resets stop working.* Why it’s different at the executive level: the “work harder → get promoted → work harder” loop, plus identity fused to the role.* The first move out: create blue sky—real calm and clarity—before you try to “fix leadership” or take on more change.* A fast diagnostic: saboteurs (how your strengths get used against you under stress).* High-leverage tools: elevate/delegate, stop–start–continue, time blocking, and clarifying decision rights so your inbox and your team stop dragging you back into the weeds.* The longer-term solution: redesign the role around the value the organization needs now—explicit accountabilities, clear success definitions, and a sustainable operating model.If you think you might be there, you don’t have to stay there. You can learn a better way to lead at a high level and still keep your humanity and your life. For details on Jim’s confidential Executive Leadership Blue Sky session, visit txl-lab.com.

    44 min

  5. 17/12/2025

    M2 Ep 004 - How to Build Trust

    As a manager of managers, you need to do more than build trust. You need to understand HOW trust gets built at every level, so you can ensure your subordinate managers are well-trusted by their directs.In this episode, we break trust into three pieces you can actually manage:* Competence: People trust you more when they see you can reliably deliver in the domain that matters to them.* Benevolence: People trust you more when they experience you as genuinely on their side—when your “caring” shows up as transparency, generosity, and vulnerability.* Integrity: People trust you more when your promises are clear and your follow-through is consistent. Small promises kept beat big promises made.We also tell you what fails: paint-by-numbers trust tactics, forced scripts, and one-on-ones that become a ritual instead of a relationship.We close with a practical repair move you can teach your managers: humbly ask for one thing you could do better, then change it quickly and visibly enough that people can feel it.

    37 min

  6. 07/10/2025

    M2 Ep 003 - 10x Harder?

    How do you succeed when you're promoted to manage other managers? The common belief is that it's 10x harder, but the truth is it requires a completely different playbook. This new role demands a shift from direct action to indirect influence, from solving daily problems to coaching your managers, and from short-term tactics to long-term strategy and system design.The M2 podcast tackles the toughest leadership transitions — and this one is notorious, with a 60% failure rate for newly promoted directors. Here we examine why the skills that made you a great frontline manager won't work at the next level, what new skills you must develop, and how to avoid the common pitfalls that cause so many to fail. Key point - if you're a frontline manager who wants to get promoted, start acting like you're already at the next level by developing these skills now.

    33 min

  7. 19/09/2025

    M2 Ep 002 - the Player Lineup tool

    How do you best grow your subordinates? One approach is with a Player Lineup. This is a short and simple document where you track the learning and growth needs of your subordinates, for use in your 1-1 coaching conversations AND when planning holistically for the growth of your team. The TXL training toolbox contains many useful tools -- but we only include tools that repay you 10-to-1 in time and energy saved and performance improved. Here we examine which managers should use the Player Lineup, when, and why -- and help you decide if it's right for you. Key point - if you're taking over a new team, this tool can be incredibly valuable.

    31 min

  8. 05/09/2025

    M2 Ep 001 - Managing Managers, an Introduction

    There's a science to managing managers. In fact, without that science, you will struggle needlessly to fully support your subordinate managers in becoming excellent leaders. Jim Prinzing and Thomas Cox share their breakthrough understanding of what followers need in order to follow at their best, which paints a clear target for exactly what each leader needs to do, and learn, in order to lead with excellence. We further develop the idea that true lean and learning organizations need this model as their prerequisite. Learning organizations are hard to set up and harder to maintain. At the first whiff of blame, shame, or negative personal judgment, people hunker down and stop learning. To get to the pinnacle of the learning or lean organization, the leader needs to model Self Mastery (so they show up calm, curious, and empathic), learn to Build Trust (so the team feels connected and supported), and get practiced at Driving Excellence (so everyone has clear expectations and feels held lovingly accountable). Takeaways Managing managers is vastly more complex than managing individual contributors.Effective leaders understand the unique needs of each team member.To unlock team potential, leaders need calmness and self-awareness.Leaders need to get good at building trust and psychological safety.Develop employees through clear expectations and growth-focused feedback.Transformative leadership can turn a team into something greater than the sum of its parts.Engagement at work is driven by trust and fulfillment in one's role.Leaders must take responsibility for everything that happens in their unit.A culture of continuous improvement requires psychological safety.00:00 Introduction to Managing Managers03:02 The Challenges of Managing Managers05:53 What Followers Crave in a Leader08:55 Building Trust and Understanding Individual Needs12:05 The Importance of Knowing Your Team14:58 Creating Psychological Safety in the Workplace17:46 Defining Excellence in Leadership20:57 The Role of Training and Feedback23:43 Accountability and Responsibility in Management26:27 Transformative Leadership Mindset27:49 Building Trust for Effective Leadership29:16 The Importance of Psychological Safety31:18 Transformational Leadership and Personal Growth33:24 Creating a Culture of Continuous Improvement40:09 Real-World Examples of Leadership Impact45:20 Engagement and Fulfillment in the Workplace

    53 min
  9. Ultimate PIP - Get Your Low Performer Up to Par or Out the Door in 90 Days Without Drama

    19/06/2023 · BONUS

    Ultimate PIP - Get Your Low Performer Up to Par or Out the Door in 90 Days Without Drama

    Ultimate PIP: Up to Par or Out the Door in 90 Days with Zero Drama Thomas "the PIP Guy" Cox shows you why the typical PIP (Performance Improvement Plan) process is broken and harmful, what to do instead, and why you should embrace the PIP as a tool that will improve your own leadership and help your whole team perform better. Learn more at https://thepipguy.com. Recorded 09-Jun-2023

    52 min
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Managing managers is MUCH harder than just managing a team -- it's not just you figuring out what works for you. You have to help others figure out what works for them. Thus, to be effective, you must understand leadership at a 10x level. M2 is produced by the Transformative Leadership Lab: txl-lab.com.

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  • Creator
    Thomas Cox
  • Years Active
    2023 - 2026
  • Episodes
    9
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © Thomas Cox
  • Show Website
    M2: Managing Managers