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Emily Dent, a partner in the innovation and transformation consultancy &Us, shares her journey of balancing career and family. She emphasizes the importance of building a supportive community and acknowledges the challenges faced by women in male-dominated industries. Emily discusses the pressure to have it all and the need to redefine societal expectations. She also highlights the physical and hormonal toll of pregnancy and the lack of understanding and support in the workplace. Emily shares her experience of transitioning to freelance work and eventually becoming a partner in her consultancy. The conversation covers topics such as socialization of children, creating an equitable workplace, the importance of dialogue, and redefining success. She emphasizes the importance of treating people like adults and tailoring work arrangements to individual needs. Emily also talks about her approach to growth in her consultancy and the value of creating a supportive and inclusive culture. She highlights the need for open dialogue and collaboration in both the workplace and at home.
 
Takeaways
Building a supportive community is crucial when living far from family.
Women in male-dominated industries face challenges in balancing career and family.
Societal expectations of having it all can be overwhelming and lead to a lack of confidence.
Pregnancy and postpartum experiences are often misunderstood and not adequately supported in the workplace.
Transitioning to freelance work can provide more flexibility and control over work-life balance.
Having male allies and supportive colleagues can make a significant difference in career opportunities.
The COVID-19 pandemic had both positive and negative impacts on work and family life. Lack of socialization can have a significant impact on children's development.
Treating people like adults and tailoring work arrangements to individual needs is key to creating an equitable workplace.
Open dialogue and collaboration are essential for creating a supportive and inclusive culture.
Redefining success as making a positive impact and leaving a legacy.
Growth should be focused on creating the right environment and organization, rather than pursuing growth at all costs.
Equity at home requires ongoing dialogue and sharing of responsibilities.

In this conversation, I talk to Jesse Conflon, co-founder at Yay Startup Marketing, about her journey as a parent and entrepreneur. We discuss topics such as career expectations, challenges faced by the LGBTQIA+ community in parenthood, fertility treatment, and work-life balance. Jesse shares her experiences of running her own business while planning for parenthood and the importance of having a supportive partner. We also explore the division of labour in same-sex couples and the benefits of proactive and equitable parenting. In this conversation, Jessy shares her experience with postpartum depression and how she realized what was happening. She discusses the challenges she faced in the early weeks of motherhood and the impact it had on her mental health. Jessy also talks about how she managed to find balance between her career and parenthood, including going back to work and seeking therapy. Finally, she shares her thoughts on how organizations and society can reduce barriers for women, including acknowledging the hormonal changes women experience, providing support for fertility treatments, and creating policies that support pregnant employees.


 



Takeaways
Career goals and aspirations may change as life circumstances evolve, and it's important to be open to new opportunities.
The LGBTQIA+ community faces unique challenges when it comes to parenthood, including limited access to fertility treatments and unequal treatment compared to heterosexual couples.
Starting a business while planning for parenthood requires careful consideration of work-life balance and the need for flexibility.
Postpartum depression can be challenging to recognize, but it's important to seek help if you're experiencing symptoms.
Finding balance as a working mum can be difficult, but it's important to prioritize self-care and seek support when needed.
Organizations and society can reduce barriers for women by acknowledging the hormonal changes women experience, providing support for fertility treatments, and creating policies that support pregnant employees.
It's important to create a supportive and understanding work environment that allows women to be their authentic selves and navigate the challenges of motherhood.
You can find out more about Jessy's business here: https://yaystarter.com/

In this episode I talk to tech founder and CEO of XigXag, Kelli Fairbrother. Kelli is a force of nature; her trailblazing personality, passion and intelligence just burst out of this episode and it was really fun to record. Kelli shares her journey from her ambitions as a young adult to her experiences in the army and at McKinsey. She discusses the challenges and expectations of motherhood and the decision to leave her corporate job to found her own tech business. Kelly also introduces XigXag, an audiobook platform that aims to make books more accessible with offers a unique listen and read experience and innovative pricing structure. Kelli also shares her approach to achieving equity at home and the benefits of having a progressive relationship. She highlights the need for more women to be represented in all levels of organisations and society, to remove barriers for women and underrepresented groups. Kelli encourages individuals to stand up, take on leadership roles, and work towards a more inclusive society.
https://xigxag.co.uk/
Takeaways:
Balancing work and motherhood requires setting boundaries and prioritizing tasks
Working moms are efficient, multitasking, and highly capable of delivering results
The transition from a corporate job to entrepreneurship can provide more control over work-life balance
XigXag is a digital book platform that offers a unique listen and read experience, making books more accessible and sustainable. Encourage reading by providing access to a variety of books
Choose your own team to align incentives and find fulfillment
Achieve equity at home by dividing labour and promoting independence
Increase representation of women and underrepresented groups in positions of authority

In this episode Helen Cammack shares her fascinating story, which synthesises her Oxford PPE intelligence, corporate experience and adoption experience to create the Preparental financial modelling tool. Its one of those things that, when you hear about it you can't believe it doesn't already exist.
 
https://www.preparental.com/
 
Takeaways
Having open and honest conversations with your partner about your desires and concerns regarding parenthood is crucial in making a decision.
Planning and preparation can help alleviate anxieties and fears about becoming a parent.
There is a lack of resources and support for individuals and couples who are considering parenthood, particularly in terms of career planning, financial planning, and childcare options.
Reducing barriers for women in the workplace, such as implementing flexible working arrangements, can support their decision to become parents and maintain a healthy work-life balance.

In this episode of the Miracle Working Mums podcast I chat to Lucy Heavens about whether there is ever a 'right time' to have kids and the differences she experienced of being a teen mum versus a mum a second time twelve years later. Lucy is VP of Marketing at Salv and a mother of two. She discusses the support she received from a young mums group and the importance of inclusion. Lucy also talks about her career progression and the pressure she felt to conform to societal expectations. She reflects on the struggles and pressure she experienced with her second child and the impact of information overload on parenting decisions. In this conversation, Lucy emphasizes the importance of building employee wellness and benefits around the specific needs of parents. Lucy also highlights the value of lived experience and the benefits of having individuals with diverse backgrounds and perspectives involved in decision-making processes.

Support and inclusion are crucial for young mums to navigate the challenges of motherhood.
Societal expectations and judgment can impact a young mum's self-esteem and sense of identity.
Curiosity and asking for help are essential for personal and professional growth.
There is no one-size-fits-all approach to parenting, and it's important to trust your instincts and do what feels right for you and your family. Personalized support is crucial for working parents, as each individual and family has unique needs and circumstances.
Building employee wellness and benefits around the specific needs of parents can greatly enhance their experience in the workplace.
Including individuals with lived experience in decision-making processes can lead to more effective and inclusive support for parents.
Listening to employees and asking them what they want is essential for providing meaningful support and addressing their needs.
Organizations should strive to remove barriers for working parents and create an equitable environment that supports their professional and personal lives.
Having a support network in place is important for working parents, as it provides emotional and practical assistance during challenging times.

Helena Rivers, Net Zero Leader at AECOM for Europe and India, discusses her career as an engineer and the challenges of balancing work and family life. She shares her experiences of being a woman in a male-dominated industry and the barriers women face in engineering. Helena also talks about the importance of support and attitudes in the workplace, as well as the impact of career choices on family life. She emphasizes the need for patience and allyship in creating a more inclusive and supportive environment for women in engineering.

Women in engineering face barriers and biases in a male-dominated industry.
Supportive attitudes and policies in the workplace are crucial for women balancing career and family.
Career choices can have a significant impact on family life, and trade-offs may be necessary.
Patience and allyship are essential in creating a more inclusive and supportive environment for women in engineering.