Sober Mess Podcast

Colm Doolan

A few years ago, I hit rock bottom—drinking to escape and struggling with my mental health. A final cry for help led me to a new way of life. Now, 12 years sober at 34, I host an award-winning podcast sharing powerful conversations with incredible people. We dive into the sober tools that heal and connect us—nature, hiking, sea swimming, and the outdoors. Real talk, real journeys. Connect: https://bit.ly/3w66W3Q

  1. 5 DAYS AGO

    E174: Ciara Keigher — Getting Sober at 20

    In this episode, I sit down with Ciara, who is 22 years old and is celebrating two years sober today! Ciara shares honestly about how her drinking started when she was around 15. What began as typical teenage drinking slowly became more and more problematic, and over time alcohol and other substances started to take over her life. She talks about how she was living for the weekends, where drinking became the centre of everything and nothing else really mattered. After an honest conversation with a friend, Ciara realised something needed to change. Around that time a member of AA noticed she was struggling and offered to bring her to a meeting. That decision ended up being one of the most important turning points in her life. We talk about what it’s like getting sober at such a young age, how Alcoholics Anonymous helped her rebuild her life, and the pride she feels today in the person she’s becoming. We also talk about Irish Young People in Alcoholics Anonymous (IREYPAA). IREYPAA is a community for young people in recovery across Ireland that organises events, conventions and gatherings where young people in sobriety can connect, support each other and show that recovery can still be full of life and fun. The next convention, IREYPAA 8, will take place at the Shearwater Hotel & Spa from 27–29 March 2026. 📍 Location: Marina Point, Ballinasloe, Co. Galway, Ireland (H53 F5P9) If you want to learn more about IREYPAA or find upcoming events, you can visit: https://ireypaa.org/⁠

    1h 6m
  2. E168: Paul Whelan – Music, Sobriety & Finding Strength Again

    17/11/2025

    E168: Paul Whelan – Music, Sobriety & Finding Strength Again

    In this episode of The Sober Mess Podcast, I’m joined by my longtime friend Paul Whelan, a talented singer-songwriter from Dublin. Paul opens up about his journey from the streets of Ringsend to the stage, sharing his struggles with anxiety, addiction, and how embracing sobriety has transformed his life. Paul is also an avid sea dipper and an active member of Blue Balls Ireland, a men’s mental-health and cold-water community that has played a huge part in his recovery. Through open and heartfelt conversation, he reflects on the role of music, community connection, and cold-water therapy in helping him rebuild his life and rediscover his true self. This episode is a powerful reminder of resilience, second chances, and the strength that comes from vulnerability, creativity, and surrounding yourself with the right people. Find Paul on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/musicpaulwhelan --- Men’s Mental-Health Support Links Blue Balls Ireland https://www.instagram.com/blueballsireland (Men’s mental health and cold-water dipping community) HSE – Men’s Mental Health Supports (Ireland) https://www2.hse.ie/mental-health/services-support/men SpunOut – Men’s Mental Health Supports in Ireland https://spunout.ie/mental-health/getting-help/mental-health-supports-for-men-in-ireland Men’s Development Network (MDN) https://mensnetwork.ie/counselling Men’s Health Forum in Ireland (MHFI) https://www.mhfi.org/resources/mental-health.html

    1h 4m
4.6
out of 5
21 Ratings

About

A few years ago, I hit rock bottom—drinking to escape and struggling with my mental health. A final cry for help led me to a new way of life. Now, 12 years sober at 34, I host an award-winning podcast sharing powerful conversations with incredible people. We dive into the sober tools that heal and connect us—nature, hiking, sea swimming, and the outdoors. Real talk, real journeys. Connect: https://bit.ly/3w66W3Q

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