The Unfiltered Parenthood Podcast

Lucy Howell
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Grab a glass of wine and get comfy, because it's time to get real about the wild ride that is The Unfiltered Parenthood Podcast . I'm your host Lucy, and you're listening to "The Unfiltered Parenthood Podcast." On this podcast, we'll dive into the messy, funny, sometimes frustrating and always rewarding experience of being an entrepreneurial parent. From poonamies to meltdowns, we'll talk about it all. Through stories, advice, commiseration and the occasional explicit overshare, we'll embrace this crazy adventure together. Parenting and working is no joke, but we definitely can have fun with it. So join me each week as we get candid about the real deal of raising our little time suckers and running companies. It's gonna be a hilarious, empowering and possibly chaotic ride. Let's do this, parents!

  1. 16 MAR

    They Said It Would Feel Like a Smear Test. They Lied!

    "They Told Me It Would Feel Like a Smear Test." It Didn't. They told me an endometrial biopsy would feel "like a smear test." It didn't. Not even close. In this episode I share my experience of having an endometrial biopsy without adequate pain relief, and why this is STILL routine practice for so many women. I also share stories from others who went through the same thing, and the facts that every woman deserves to know before this procedure. You have the right to ask for pain relief. You have the right to not be dismissed. If you or someone you know is due to have an endometrial biopsy, please share this video. The more women who go in informed, the better. In this episode: 🔹 My personal experience — fertility issues, the referral, and what actually happened in that room 🔹 What an endometrial biopsy actually involves (it's cutting, not scraping — and yes, that matters) 🔹 Cervical shock: what it is and what happened to me after 🔹 Why my TikTok about this went viral 🔹 Why pain relief isn't offered as standard — and the systemic reasons behind it 🔹 The statistics: 1 in 3 women report severe pain during this procedure 🔹 The gender pain gap and why women's pain is chronically underestimated 🔹 Medical gaslighting and chronic illness 🔹 What the NHS actually says about this procedure — and what it leaves out 🔹 The campaigns fighting to change this Timestamps: 0:00 Introduction 0:34 Background — Fertility Issues and Pain 1:17 Referral to Gynaecology 1:52 Endometrial Biopsy Suggested 2:59 Day of the Procedure 4:08 The Painful Reality 5:10 Procedure Details — Cutting, Not Scraping 6:23 Extreme Pain During the Procedure 7:49 After the Procedure — Feeling Violated 8:38 Cervical Shock and the Ambulance 9:26 TikTok Video Goes Viral 10:32 Why Pain Relief Isn't Standard 11:50 Addressing Common Comments 14:23 Statistics — 1 in 3 Women Report Severe Pain 15:09 Campaigns Against Painful Procedures 15:53 The Gender Pain Gap — Women vs Men 18:21 Medical Gaslighting and Chronic Illness 21:44 NHS Information on Endometrial Biopsy 23:38 How the Procedure is Actually Done 24:23 Final Thoughts and Call to Action Support the channel: buymeacoffee.com/unfilteredparenthoodpod 🔔 Subscribe for more unfiltered, honest content on women's health, parenting, neurodiversity and disability advocacy.

    25 min

  2. 22 JAN

    Why are fans DEMANDING to see Matthew and Ryan's baby?

    Matthew and Ryan from TikTok (Daddies Overnight podcast) recently adopted a baby, and their comment sections are absolutely mental. Fans are demanding to see the child's face, asking for his name, and acting like they're owed something. They're not. This parasocial relationship nonsense needs to stop. These creators don't owe you their child's identity just because you followed their adoption journey. In this video, I'm breaking down why Matthew and Ryan are RIGHT to protect their son's privacy, the dangers of sharenting, and why family vloggers exploiting their kids online is getting out of hand. From celebrity culture to the disturbing reality of who's saving these videos, we need to talk about protecting children online. Whether it's Matthew and Ryan's adoption story or other family vloggers monetising their kids, children deserve privacy and protection. Full stop. Support The Show: buymeacoffee.com/unfilteredparenthoodpod Articles and Links Featured: https://abcnews.go.com/GMA/Family/parenting-influencers-speak-new-law-designed-protect-kids/story?id=111580202 https://www.tiktok.com/@matthewandryanuk https://feeds.acast.com/public/shows/daddies-overnight Topics covered: Matthew and Ryan TikTok adoption journey Daddies Overnight podcast creators Parasocial relationships with influencers Sharenting dangers and child exploitation Family vloggers and child safety Why children can't consent to being online UK vs US child protection laws If you're a parent creator or just care about kids' safety online, this one's for you. #MatthewAndRyan #DaddiesOvernight #Sharenting #FamilyVloggers #ParasocialRelationships #ChildSafety #TikTok Takeaways Respect the privacy and protection of children online.Consider the ethical and legal implications of sharing children's faces on social media. Chapters 00:00 Demanding to See Children's Faces Online09:50 Parasocial Relationships and Boundaries17:24 Exploitation of Children on Social Media

    29 min

  3. 14 JAN

    IS MATTEL'S AUTISTIC BARBIE REAL INCLUSION OR JUST PR?

    IS MATTEL'S AUTISTIC BARBIE REAL INCLUSION OR JUST PR? Mattel have released a new Barbie, Autistic Barbie. Yes you heard that right. An Autistic Barbie! Complete with headphones and eyes that don't look at you. Lets talk about it. Chapters 00:00 The Visibility of Autism 02:14 Concerns About Representation 04:36 Imagination vs. Representation in Toys 07:14 Critique of Performative Inclusion Keywords Autism, Barbie, representation, inclusivity, neurodiversity, children's toys, identity, parenting, societal perceptions, performative inclusion

    27 min

  4. 28/11/2025

    Angel Tree Grifters: When Charity Becomes Content

    Let's talk about the Angel Tree grifters flooding social media right now. If you have to film yourself doing charity, are you actually being charitable? Real talk about performative giving, why posting your 'good deeds' is harmful to vulnerable families, and what authentic kindness actually looks like. This isn't about shaming people who want to help, it's about protecting the dignity of families in need and teaching our kids that real kindness doesn't need an audience. #parenting #unfilteredparenthood #mumlife #tiktokmum UK FAIR DEALING DISCLAIMER: Any clips or materials used in this video fall under Fair Dealing for the purposes of commentary, criticism, and review, as set out in the Copyright, Designs & Patents Act 1988. All content is used transformatively with no intention to infringe. AFFILIATE DISCLAIMER: Some links may be affiliate links which means I might earn a small commission if you buy through them. It costs you nothing and helps fund the chaos. Cheers! ————————————————————————————— ☕ Buy me a coffee (support the show!) https://buymeacoffee.com/unfilteredparenthoodpod 🎧 Listen to the podcast: Apple: search “Unfiltered Parenthood” Spotify: search “Unfiltered Parenthood” YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@UnfilteredParenthood 🎤 Record your own podcast with Riverside Get 35% OFF annual plans with code BF2025 📱 Follow on TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@unfiltered_parenthood 📺 Watch on YouTube https://www.youtube.com/@UnfilteredParenthood 💌 Business or guest enquiries virtuallylucyva@gmail.com ————————————————————————————— Drop a comment with your thoughts… I see them all, even the unhinged ones.

    37 min
  5. Parents Beware Of These Tiktok Trends

    23/11/2025

    Parents Beware Of These Tiktok Trends

    We are SO back… again. Leave a LIKE if you enjoy watching me attempt to parent, work, and occasionally survive xx #parenting #unfilteredparenthood #mumlife #tiktokmum UK FAIR DEALING DISCLAIMER: Any clips or materials used in this video fall under Fair Dealing for the purposes of commentary, criticism, and review, as set out in the Copyright, Designs & Patents Act 1988. All content is used transformatively with no intention to infringe. AFFILIATE DISCLAIMER: Some links may be affiliate links which means I might earn a small commission if you buy through them. It costs you nothing and helps fund the chaos. Cheers! ——————————————————————————————— ☕ Buy me a coffee (support the show!) https://buymeacoffee.com/unfilteredparenthoodpod 🎧 Listen to the podcast: Apple: search “Unfiltered Parenthood” Spotify: search “Unfiltered Parenthood” YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@UnfilteredParenthood 🎤 Record your own podcast with Riverside Get 35% OFF annual plans with code BF2025 📱 Follow on TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@unfiltered_parenthood 📺 Watch on YouTube https://www.youtube.com/@UnfilteredParenthood 💌 Business or guest enquiries virtuallylucyva@gmail.com ——————————————————————————————— Drop a comment with your thoughts… I see them all, even the unhinged ones.

    52 min

  6. 06/10/2025

    FAFO Parenting has entered the chat!

    Lets talk about the new parenting style that has taken social media by storm, FAFO parenting. And yes that is an acronym for F**k around and Find Out! Come and support the show https://buymeacoffee.com/unfilteredparenthoodpod Takeaways FAFO parenting allows children to experience natural consequences.Gentle parenting is often misunderstood as permissive parenting.Authoritative parenting involves setting boundaries and consequences.FAFO stands for 'f**k around and find out'.Lucy shares personal experiences with her son, Jacob.Authoritative parenting is more balanced and structured.FAFO parenting is more consequence-heavy.Lucy discusses the challenges of regulating emotions as a parent.Children's meltdowns often stem from unmet needs.Lucy invites listeners to share their thoughts on FAFO parenting. Sound bites FAFO parenting: natural consequences Gentle parenting isn't permissive Boundaries and consequences matter FAFO: 'f**k around and find out' Parenting challenges with Jacob Balanced and structured parenting Consequences teach responsibility Regulating emotions as a parent Meltdowns stem from unmet needs Share your thoughts on FAFO Chapters 00:00:00 Introduction to Parenting Styles00:00:00 Understanding Gentle Parenting00:00:00 FAFO Parenting Explained00:00:00 Personal Experiences and Insights00:00:00 Balancing Different Parenting Approaches

    16 min

  7. 29/09/2025

    Why are pregnant mothers doing this?

    Lets talk about a topic that's been buzzing around: the potential link between Tylenol and autism or ADHD. President Trump recently stirred the pot with his claims, and I'm here to share my thoughts, personal experiences, and why this matters to all of us, especially expecting mothers. Let's question the motivations behind social media trends and the pharmaceutical giants. Like the show - please feel free to buy me a coffee Keywords Tylenol, autism, ADHD, pregnancy, pharmaceutical companies, healthcare, social media, TikTok, medication risks, Lucy Howell Takeaways The world is increasingly complex and challenging.President Trump claims Tylenol may increase autism risk.Paracetamol is the same as Tylenol in the UK.Pregnant women are taking risks with medications on TikTok.Pharmaceutical companies prioritise profit over patient care.I share my personal health struggles.Healthcare often focuses on profit, not patient well-being.Social media trends can encourage risky behaviour.I prioritise my child's health over medication.The importance of questioning pharmaceutical practices. Sound bites The world just gets more and more f****d.End of show. I just, I am despairing.Tylenol is linked to increased risk.Pregnant women are downing paracetamol.It's the same fucking ingredient.My son has autism.Healthcare has never been about that.Why gamble with your baby's life?Take exactly as prescribed blah blah.All medications have their risks. Chapters 00:00:01 Introduction and Overview00:00:08 President Trump's Claims00:00:38 Understanding Tylenol and Paracetamol00:00:45 Social Media Influence00:10:45 Pharmaceutical Companies and Healthcare00:15:25 Personal Health and Priorities00:17:08 Risks and Social Media Trends

    15 min

  8. 25/09/2025

    The Scariest Time To Be A Parent (And Nobody’s Talking About It)

    This episode is raw and different. I need to be honest with you – I’ve fallen behind on this podcast, and that’s on me. Life, work, motherhood… it all piled up, and I let the episodes slide. But I’m back, and today I’m bringing something I can’t ignore. On 10th September, I watched the news of Charlie Kirk’s assassination unfold online. I didn’t go looking for the graphic video – it found me. And it shook me. Not just politically, but as a parent. Because if this is the world our children are growing up in – a world of algorithms, echo chambers, censorship, division, and graphic violence on our feeds – how do we keep them safe? How do we guide them to think for themselves when everything is designed to manipulate? In this episode, I open up about: Why I feel genuinely afraid for my son’s futureHow social media is shaping our children’s beliefs before they can even think criticallyThe rise of polarisation and why nuance seems to have disappearedMy own birth story in the pandemic and how that shaped my fears about raising a child todayThe uncomfortable reality: we might already be living in a civil war, whether we admit it or notThis isn’t about politics. It’s about parenting in a world that feels more chaotic and hostile every single day. I don’t have all the answers – but I do know this: pretending it’s not happening isn’t an option anymore. 👉 If this resonates with you, please share it, leave a review, and let me know your thoughts. I want to hear from other parents navigating this same storm.

    27 min
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Grab a glass of wine and get comfy, because it's time to get real about the wild ride that is The Unfiltered Parenthood Podcast . I'm your host Lucy, and you're listening to "The Unfiltered Parenthood Podcast." On this podcast, we'll dive into the messy, funny, sometimes frustrating and always rewarding experience of being an entrepreneurial parent. From poonamies to meltdowns, we'll talk about it all. Through stories, advice, commiseration and the occasional explicit overshare, we'll embrace this crazy adventure together. Parenting and working is no joke, but we definitely can have fun with it. So join me each week as we get candid about the real deal of raising our little time suckers and running companies. It's gonna be a hilarious, empowering and possibly chaotic ride. Let's do this, parents!

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