Becoming Home

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A chinuch podcast with Rabbi Chananya Greenwald and Rabbi Chaim Yitzchak Yudkowsky that isn't just about tips and tricks. It's about coming home to ourselves so we can become home for our children.

Episodes

  1. 23 MAR

    Pesach-Gateway to healthy parenting [Becoming Home Podcast Ep. 7]

    As Pesach approaches, many families feel the pressure long before they feel the joy. In this conversation, Rabbi Greenwald and Rabbi Yudkowsky explore how to prepare for the Seder in a way that is calmer, sweeter, and more connected. The atmosphere we create around Pesach shapes what our children will carry with them for years to come. They share practical preparation to the deeper meaning of the Seder itself: how parents can make Yetzias Mitzrayim feel alive, how to speak to different kinds of children, and how the four sons are not just four personalities around the table, but parts of every one of us. They also explores the tension built into the Seder night itself: pain and praise, struggle and freedom, brokenness and redemption. What does it mean to begin with degradation and end with praise? How do we help children, and ourselves, move from constriction to expansiveness? Time Stamps: 00:00 Gratitude Mindset Reset 04:12 Make Prep Enjoyable 07:25 Joyful Yiddishkeit 09:31 Seder Prep Tips 12:34 Keep Kids Engaged 15:45 Four Sons Framework 17:49 Archetypes In All Of Us 36:02 Making Exodus Personal 40:14 Opening Every Child 42:36 Labels That Wound 49:30 Answering the Wise Son 54:53 From Degradation to Praise 01:09:21 Darkness Becomes Light 01:14:06 Emunah in the Night ---------- Listen to the Seder Crash Course Here: https://episodes.captivate.fm/episode/9c36d857-cba7-477a-afe0-91ed790b6edf.mp3

    1hr 15min

  2. 23 MAR

    Seder Crash Course with Rabbi Greenwald

    Everything you need to properly prepare for your seder.

    2h 10m

  3. 14 MAR

    Hitting children - does it work? [Becoming Home Podcast Ep. 6]

    In this episode, Rabbi Greenwald and Rabbi Yudkowsky tackle a challenge that many parents feel deeply but struggle to explain: the difference between yelling and hitting today vs earlier generations. They explore shifts in children, parents, and society, and contemporary consequences of traditional discipline. Along the way, they touch on anger, fear, authority, self-control, and the deeper goal of parenting. This conversation does not just ask what works. It asks what a child is actually hearing beneath the reaction, and what kind of person a parent is trying to shape over time. For anyone who has ever lost their cool, questioned their instincts, or wondered how to be firm without causing harm, this episode can be a huge help. 00:00 Hitting and Yelling? 01:49 What changed? 08:00 Lessons in a Slap 13:13 Building Inner Motivation 14:22 Is There Hope For Parents? 16:50 Two Kinds Of Discipline 18:55 Unconscious, automatic reactions 23:44 Rewiring Discipline Beliefs 24:40 Child runs into the street - effective intervention. 28:48 When Firmness Is Necessary 32:48 Cultivating Calm At Home 41:31 Letting Teens Choose Well 43:35 Building Real Free Will

    46 min

  4. 28 FEB

    Giving of yourself without losing the self [Becoming Home Podcast Ep. 5]

    In this episode, Rabbi Greenwald and Rabbi Yudkowsky tackle a question every parent faces: how do we raise children who know how to be good friends? They discuss how to model and empower children to share and get along with each other, and examine the role of character in interpersonal relationships and obligations. The conversation also addresses boundaries—what to do when a child feels used, overlooked, or bullied. It offers practical guidance for dealing with children's feelings, communicating with other parents or the schools, and creating a safe environment. It also discusses how to help a child deal with conflicts and stand up for himself. A thoughtful, practical discussion about raising children who can give generously—without losing themselves. ----------------------- Check out Rabbi Greenwald new book: https://www.artscroll.com/Books/9781422645352.html

    51 min

  5. 14 FEB

    Benefits of Friendship [Becoming Home Podcast Ep. 4]

    In this conversation, Rabbi Yudkowsky and Rabbi Greenwald delve into the subject of friendship, for ourselves and for our children. Rabbi Greenwald outlines three fundamental elements of friendship - the role they play in our lives and the core of true friendships. It also addresses the pain of rejected friendships, especially in children, and how parents can guide their children in building meaningful relationships. Next the conversation touches on the different types of friendships, their benefits, and what sets enduring friendships apart from more transient relationships. It concludes with noting how nurturing and investing in friendships enhances individual and collective well-being. ----------------------- Check out Rabbi Greenwald new book: https://www.artscroll.com/Books/9781422645352.html

    56 min

  6. 31 JAN

    Trust Begins at Home [Becoming Home Podcast Ep. 3]

    Building Trust in the Home: Practical Insights for Parenting What does it really mean to build trust with our children, and what quietly erodes it over time? In this episode, Rabbi Yudkowsky and Rabbi Greenwald explore trust not as a technique, but as a way of being in the home. They touch on the subtle messages parents send through consistency, communication, and everyday interactions, and how those messages shape a child’s inner world. The conversation raises difficult and honest questions about control, guidance, and what happens when children struggle or push back. Along the way, the rabbis challenge common assumptions about parenting and invite listeners to reconsider what truly helps children grow into confident, grounded adults. This episode offers perspective, reflection, and a deeper way of thinking about trust, without easy answers or quick fixes. Timestamps 0:00 Introduction and Welcome 0:05 Creating a Trustworthy Environment 1:04 The Marshmallow Experiment 2:12 Nature vs. Nurture in Trust Development 3:31 Teaching Delayed Gratification 4:34 Parental Influence on Trust 5:42 The Role of Consistency and Honesty 8:49 Challenges in Parenting and Trust 15:43 The Importance of Struggles and Challenges 21:12 Guiding Children Through Mistakes 24:27 The Power of Gentle Guidance 25:47 A Fathers Persistent Influence 27:18 Creating a Trusting Environment 28:15 The Impact of Corporal Punishment 31:38 Understanding and Addressing Rebellion 34:35 Building Trust with Teenagers 43:45 Summary and Key Takeaways on Trust and Parenting

    48 min

  7. 18 JAN

    Beyond Obedience [Becoming Home podcast Ep. 2]

    Rabbi Yudkowsky and Rabbi Greenwald explore one of the most complex and emotionally charged challenges of parenting: trust. This is episode two of a three-part series focused on what it truly means to trust our children. The rabbis unpack some common fears that if unacknowledged or ignored can block our ability to trust. They distinguish between external compliance vs internal motivation -- obedience driven by pressure or fear and growth that emerges from choice, ownership, and self-direction. They challenge the assumption that constant intervention leads to better outcomes, examining the subversive impact of control on a child’s confidence, agency, and long-term development. The conversation extends into the religious and spiritual realm, considering the difference between cultivating authentic connection to mitzvot and values as opposed to outward conformity. They describe how trusting our children is an outgrowth of trusting ourselves and having the courage to give our children space to struggle, learn, and grow. Ultimately, this episode reframes trust as an act of faith in the process of growth and in our children’s potential. And it explains how meaningful connection—both in parenting and in Avodas Hashem—cannot be forced, only nurtured. 9f9tjijf ----------------------- Check out Rabbi Greenwald new book: https://www.artscroll.com/Books/9781422645352.html

    51 min

  8. 3 JAN

    Building Trust in Our Children [Becoming Home Podcast Ep. 1]

    Rabbi Yudkowsky and Rabbi Greenwald explore what it truly means to build trust with our children. They discuss how trust is formed from early childhood through consistent care, emotional safety, empathy, and clear expectations. The conversation examines trust as a two-way relationship, balancing boundaries with understanding, and allowing children to learn from mistakes without fear. Drawing on parenting psychology, lived experience, and spiritual insight, the Rabbis offer practical guidance for fostering self-belief, responsibility, and emotional security in children. qtqx9ygy

    55 min
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About

A chinuch podcast with Rabbi Chananya Greenwald and Rabbi Chaim Yitzchak Yudkowsky that isn't just about tips and tricks. It's about coming home to ourselves so we can become home for our children.

Information

  • Creator
    Rabbi Greenwald
  • Years Active
    2025 - 2026
  • Episodes
    8
  • Rating
    Clean
  • Copyright
    © Copyright 2026 Rabbi Greenwald
  • Show Website
    Becoming Home

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