We start with Kristin's ever-escalating sleep setup, my childhood bedtime prayer that explicitly included the possibility of dying in my sleep every night from ages zero to eighteen, and the fact that I then did actually die in my sleep, which, in retrospect, really should have been a tell. The midlife crisis hobby conversation covers mountain biking, beekeeping, Bob Ross-style painting, and acting class, which I have already signed up for and fully expect to enjoy. We also invent CampDash, a concierge service that sets up and takes down your campsite so that tent camping becomes something a normal family can do without spending an entire weekend in misery. Someone else needs to run it. The second half is a real one about surgeon personalities, specifically, the thing a TikTok surgeon pointed out that I think actually matters: what gets missed in all the characterizations of surgeon ego and God complex is the constant, pervasive worry that surrounds every case. The operating room is the only time all of that goes away, which is why surgeons "just want to operate", it's not arrogance, it's peace. I'm an ophthalmologist doing 12 cases a day, so I operate on a different scale than a neurosurgeon doing one eight-hour case, but I still have particular things I need exactly right: bed height, head position, the scrub tech anticipating my next move. I talk through how surgical complications require the kind of mentorship that nobody trains you for, and how one of the most humanizing videos I ever made came directly from that experience. Takeaways: Surgeon personalities aren't just ego. They're largely driven by pre- and post-op worry Surgical complications are inevitable and the mental recovery from them is something medicine barely addresses Ophthalmology surgery occupies a different psychological space than high-stakes surgical specialties Making adult friends in your 40s is legitimately hard Bedtime prayers that include the possibility of dying in your sleep probably shouldn't be a nightly ritual for children — To Get Tickets to Wife & Death: You can visit Glaucomflecken.com/live We want to hear YOUR stories (and medical puns)! Shoot us an email and say hi! knockknockhi@human-content.com Can’t get enough of us? Shucks. You can support the show on Patreon for early episode access, exclusive bonus shows, livestream hangouts, and much more! – http://www.patreon.com/glaucomflecken Also, be sure to check out the newsletter: https://glaucomflecken.com/glauc-to-me/ If you are interested in buying a book from one of our guests, check them all out here: https://www.amazon.com/shop/dr.glaucomflecken If you want more information on models I use: Anatomy Warehouse provides for the best, crafting custom anatomical products, medical simulation kits and presentation models that create a lasting educational impact. For more information go to Anatomy Warehouse DOT com. Link: https://anatomywarehouse.com/?aff=14 Plus for 15% off use code: Glaucomflecken15 -- A friendly reminder from the G’s and Tarsus: If you want to learn more about Demodex Blepharitis, making an appointment with your eye doctor for an eyelid exam can help you know for sure. Visit http://www.EyelidCheck.com for more information. Produced by Human Content Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
