Blessed + Bossed Up

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The BBU Podcast is a weekly podcast that teaches purposeful women how to be uncompromising in their faith, business, and total life success with God as the CEO. Get ready to be empowered, emboldened, and receive divine strategy to fulfill God’s plan for your life and business. Your host + sister in Christ and success, Tatum Temia Ayomike, is an award-winning entrepreneur, executive producer, author and devoted Christian who has committed her life to help women bridge the gap between faith and business. Her impact as the CEO of Anchored Media includes a global reach of millions of listeners across 75+ produced podcast shows in just 2 years. Through her personal brand, Tatum has cultivated a community of businesswomen who give God full authority to use their business as a vessel for the Kingdom. Using the word of God as her platform, Tatum's prayer journal and published books offer instrumental guidance to ‘boss up’ in any entrepreneurial venture. Tatum has been featured in several magazines and publications and has been named as a Top 30 under 30 in the Washington, DC area.

  1. १५ तासांपूर्वी

    Sober Living

    Tatum is in the trenches of her first-year law school finals, so this week she's bringing back one of her most foundational episodes — and as she always says, when an oldie comes back around, trust that the Lord is bringing it back for a reason. Whether you've heard it before or this is your first time, this one is worth sitting with. In this episode, Tatum opens up about the early years of making God the CEO of her business and introduces a new series focused on the application of faith-driven entrepreneurship — not just the information, but the lived practice. Before diving into strategy, marketing, or business plans, she makes the case that we have to start with sobriety: freeing ourselves from the influences, distractions, and cultural pressures that pull our focus away from the Lord and onto the metrics of the world. In this episode, Tatum covers: Why sobriety is the non-negotiable foundation before any business building can beginThe story of how obedience during a season of stripping and pruning led to her most fruitful breakthroughsThe moment she hit her first six-figure year — and why her reaction to it changed everythingHow entrepreneurship can become its own kind of intoxicationA word for anyone being called to pioneer something new, even when it feels lonely and irrationalThe 5 Substances to Detox From: Success culture and performance pressureDigital noise and comparisonMixed mentorshipMaterialism and metrics-based validationOver-independenceScriptures Referenced: 1 Peter 5:81 Thessalonians 5:6–8Mark 14:38Action Step: Download the free Clarity Cleanse guide (linked in show notes) — a month-long detox plan with weekly focus areas, scriptures, action steps, and prayer points to help you build the sober, focused foundation your business needs. Join the Society — Tatum's membership community for Christian women growing in life, faith, and business. Weekly prayer calls, Bible studies, daily devotionals, and a community of women walking this out with you. Our Sponsors: * Check out Time4Learning: https://www.time4learning.com Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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  2. २० एप्रि

    How to Stop Rushing: Jesus, the Rule of Life & Building Margin

    In this episode, we continue our book club series on The Ruthless Elimination of Hurry by John Mark Comer, wrapping up the final chapter of Part Two and covering the intermission that sets the stage for Part Three. We open with one of the most convicting observations in the book: Jesus was rarely — if ever — in a hurry. Through stories like the raising of Lazarus and the healing of Jairus's daughter, the author paints a picture of a Savior who was fiercely present, completely unhurried, and never agitated by interruption. That kind of peace has a name we hear a lot today: a regulated central nervous system. In this episode, we break down what that actually means, share some eye-opening data about how many of us are functioning in a state of chronic stress, and then make the case that Jesus didn't just model a regulated nervous system — He modeled something that surpasses the very standard modern science is striving toward. We then dig into the concept of margin — the space between your load and your limits — and get practical about what it looks like to actually build it into your life. From contingency planning and backup childcare to protecting your mornings and setting an evening shutdown time, this episode gets real about what margin looks like for busy women wearing multiple hats. From there, we explore the trellis metaphor: just as a trellis gives a vine the structure it needs to grow and bear fruit, a rule of life gives your walk with Jesus the structure it needs to actually take root. We talk about why Jesus must be the center — not career, not motherhood, not success — and how the structures we build either support or undermine that priority. We close out with the intermission from the book, which sets up Part Three by distinguishing between discipline and spiritual discipline — and why the latter gives you access to a power that willpower alone simply cannot reach. In this episode: Why Jesus is the ultimate example of a regulated nervous system (and then some)What nervous system dysregulation actually looks like — and the stats that prove it's a public health issueThe difference between a full schedule and a hurried oneHow to create a contingency plan so that life's interruptions don't blow up your whole weekWhat a "rule of life" is and why it started in the monastery, not Silicon ValleyThe trellis metaphor and why structure isn't the enemy of freedom — it's the path to itHow to approach the four Gospels the same way you'd read a biography of someone you admireWillpower vs. spiritual discipline: why one gets you so far and the other gets you to Jesus 📖 The Ruthless Elimination of Hurry by John Mark Comer — grab your copy Our Sponsors: * Check out Time4Learning: https://www.time4learning.com Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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  3. १२ एप्रि

    A Call for Godly Ambition

    In this episode, Tatum unpacks the difference between selfish ambition and godly ambition, challenging listeners to examine not just what they are pursuing, but why. Through personal reflection, biblical teaching, and practical examples, she reveals how easy it is to drift into misalignment—even with good intentions. This conversation calls you into deeper self-awareness, Spirit-led decision-making, and true wholeness, emphasizing that sustainable success in both life and business must be rooted in God. Key TakeawaysAmbition itself is not wrong, but its source determines whether it is aligned with God.Self-awareness is critical for identifying the true motivations behind your goals.External success can hide internal misalignment.Godly ambition is led by the Holy Spirit, not by outcomes, validation, or trends.Your definition of success will evolve as you grow in faith and maturity.True alignment requires healing from the brokenness that often drives achievement.Scriptures ReferencedPhilippians 2:3 (ESV): Do nothing from selfish ambition or conceit, but in humility count others more significant than yourselves.James 3:13–16: A warning against selfish ambition, describing it as earthly and leading to disorder.Galatians 5:22–23: The fruit of the Spirit as evidence of a Spirit-led life.What is Selfish Ambition?Selfish ambition is a drive rooted in: EgoPrideComparisonControlBrokennessDesire for validationIt is not always obvious. It can begin with good intentions but becomes misaligned when God is no longer the source. What is Godly Ambition?Godly ambition is: Spirit-ledRooted in obedienceFocused on serving God and othersCentered on bringing God glory rather than personal recognitionThe defining factor is what is driving your decisions: the Holy Spirit or your desire for results. The Subtle Shift from Godly to Selfish AmbitionA key example shared in the episode illustrates how this shift can happen: You begin in obedience and full dependence on GodYou experience growth and positive resultsResults slow down or declineYou begin seeking external solutions (trends, algorithms, validation)Your source shifts from God to performanceThis shift is often gradual and difficult to detect without intentional self-examination. How to Course CorrectWhen you feel frustrated or see changes in results: Pause instead of reacting impulsivelyTake your emotions to God honestlyAsk:Did I get off track?Is there something you want me to change?Wait for His responseObey, whether He says to adjust or remain consistentThe goal is to remain aligned with God, not to chase outcomes. The Root Issue: BrokennessMany forms of ambition are driven by unresolved issues such as: A need for validationFear of lack or instabilityDesire for controlPast wounds or traumaWithout healing, it becomes difficult to sustain a God-centered approach to success. Measuring Your Motivation: The Fruit of the SpiritUse the fruit of the Spirit as a diagnostic tool: LoveJoyPeacePatienceKindnessGoodnessFaithfulnessGentlenessSelf-controlIf these are absent in your process or decision-making, it may indicate misalignment. Action Step: Fast and SurrenderTatum encourages listeners to: Fast from 6 AM to 6 PM (if medically able)Spend intentional time with GodBe honest about fears, control, and disappointmentInvite God to address the root causes of misalignmentThis is not about behavior modification but heart transformation. Reflection QuestionsWhat is driving my ambition right now?Am I seeking God’s approval or external validation?Where have I prioritized outcomes over obedience?What unresolved issues may be influencing my goals?Final EncouragementGod is not focused on your performance—He is focused on your heart. Seasons of slowing down, stagnation, or even decline are not punishment. They are often invitations to return to alignment, deepen intimacy with God, and rebuild from a place of wholeness Our Sponsors: * Check out Time4Learning: https://www.time4learning.com Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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  4. १ एप्रि

    Beating Burnout

    In this episode of Blessed + Bossed Up, we continue our book club discussion of The Ruthless Elimination of Hurry by John Mark Comer, shifting from diagnosing the problem of hurry to uncovering the solution. If you’ve ever felt overwhelmed, burnt out, or stuck in a cycle of doing too much, this episode is your invitation to something deeper: the lifestyle of Jesus. We explore what it truly means to follow Jesus—not just in belief, but in daily practice—and how embracing an apprenticeship mindset can transform your pace, your peace, and your purpose. Key Takeaways:1. The Answer Isn’t More Time—It’s a New Way to LiveWe often think the solution to overwhelm is more hours in the day. But more time doesn’t fix a misaligned life—it just gives us more space to stay busy. True freedom comes from reordering our lives around God, not productivity. 2. You’re Not Just a Believer—You’re an ApprenticeTo follow Jesus is to apprentice under Him: Be with JesusBecome like JesusDo what He would doThis perspective shifts your posture from control to humility, from striving to learning. 3. Your Life Reflects Your LifestyleIf you’re experiencing: AnxietyBurnoutConstant stressDisconnection from God…it’s not random. Your current systems and rhythms are producing those results. “Every system is perfectly designed to get the results that it gets.”4. You Can’t Want Jesus’ Life Without Adopting His LifestyleMany of us want: His peaceHis clarityHis joy…but we’re not willing to live how He lived. Following Jesus is not compartmentalized—it’s a full-life transformation, not just Sunday behavior or spiritual moments. 5. Burnout Is a Sign You’re Living Outside of God’s DesignBurnout isn’t just exhaustion—it’s a signal. It often means you’ve made your dwelling place somewhere God never intended. The invitation? Come back home. 6. Stop Praying Your Will—Start Seeking HisA powerful personal story highlights how easy it is to pray what we want instead of surrendering to God’s will. When you approach God as an apprentice—not the one in charge—you: Release controlStay open to correctionAvoid unnecessary frustration and confusion7. Self-Awareness Is a Spiritual DisciplineSlowing down enough to: Notice your reactionsEvaluate your routinesCheck your alignment…is key to transformation. Self-awareness allows you to course correct in real time and grow in spiritual maturity. 8. Jesus Doesn’t Offer Escape—He Offers EquipmentLife is hard. That’s not changing. But instead of removing the weight, Jesus teaches us how to carry it differently: With HimAt His paceWith His peaceAn easy life isn’t promised—but an easy yoke is.Practical Application:This week, begin living like an apprentice: Pause throughout your day and ask: “What would Jesus do?”Set reminders to check in with your thoughts, reactions, and stress levelsPay attention to moments where you feel rushed, anxious, or out of alignmentSurrender areas where you’ve been forcing your willScripture Highlight:Matthew 11:28–30 “Come to me, all who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest…” Final Thought:If you want the life of Jesus, you have to adopt the lifestyle of Jesus. This isn’t about doing more—it’s about living differently. Resources Mentioned:The Ruthless Elimination of Hurry by John Mark Comer  Our Sponsors: * Check out Time4Learning: https://www.time4learning.com Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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  5. ३० मार्च

    You Don't Need More Time

    In this episode of Blessed + Bossed Up, we continue our book club series on The Ruthless Elimination of Hurry by John Mark Comer, stepping into Part 2: The Solution. If you’ve been feeling overwhelmed, stretched thin, or like there aren’t enough hours in the day, this conversation will challenge the way you think about productivity, ambition, and success. Tatum shares a candid life update—navigating motherhood, law school, entrepreneurship, and a recent season of burnout—and how God is shifting her perspective on pace, priorities, and what success really means in this season. This episode centers on a powerful truth: the solution to an overbusy life is not more time, but a slower, more intentional life rooted in what actually matters. What You’ll Learn in This EpisodeWhy more time will not fix your overwhelmHow to simplify your business model without sacrificing successThe difference between active income and asset-based wealthWhy you do not have to follow grind culture to build a successful businessHow embracing your limitations can bring peace and clarityWhat it means to define success as pleasing God, not producing outcomesHow surrendering control leads to true freedomKey TakeawaysYou do not have to be rushed to be rich or successfulEvery yes requires a thousand no’s—choose wiselyYour capacity is limited, and that is by designGod is not asking you to do everything, only what He assigned to youTrue success is obedience to God, not money, influence, or recognitionFaith + Business InsightThis episode explores the tension between potential and limitation. While we are made in the image of God and filled with purpose, we are still human and finite. Learning to accept both your potential and your limitations is essential to building a life and business that is sustainable, peaceful, and aligned with God’s will. Notable Quote“You don’t have to be rushed to be rich. You don’t have to be rushed to be successful.” Book Club PickWe’re reading: The Ruthless Elimination of Hurry by John Mark Comer - https://amzn.to/3Obiks5 Mentioned in This EpisodeAnchored Media Studios: www.anchoredmediastudios.com Our Sponsors: * Check out Time4Learning: https://www.time4learning.com Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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  6. २० मार्च

    Every High Achieving Woman Needs This

    In this episode of Blessed + Bossed Up, Tatum takes time to rest and recover while revisiting one of the most impactful teachings she’s shared: the God Math Formula. If you’ve been feeling overwhelmed, stretched thin, or stuck in survival mode, this episode invites you to take a different approach. Instead of striving, multitasking, and trying to do everything, Tatum breaks down a faith-based framework that brings clarity, peace, and alignment. This episode is not about doing more. It is about doing what matters most and trusting God to handle the rest. What You’ll LearnWhy survival mode requires deeper reflection, not quick fixesThe difference between worldly peace and God’s peaceHow hustle culture and internalized stress are affecting womenWhy slowing down can feel uncomfortable and what God may be refining in that processThe truth about multitasking versus multiplicationThe God Math FormulaConsecration + Concentration = Multiplication Consecration (Your Responsibility)Setting your life apart for God through your daily decisions, habits, and priorities. Key Scriptures: Romans 12:1–2 1 Peter 1:15–16 Concentration (Your Responsibility)Maintaining focused, intentional attention on God’s will by eliminating distractions and staying aligned. Key Scripture: Matthew 4:1–11 Multiplication (God’s Responsibility)God expands what you offer Him beyond your natural capacity. Key Insight: Multitasking is not multiplication. Trying to do everything is stepping into a role that belongs to God. Biblical Examples of God Math in ActionMary, mother of Jesus: Her obedience positioned her to carry out God’s plan for salvationThe Shunammite woman: Her generosity led to supernatural provisionThe disciples: Their obedience with limited resources led to abundanceThe widow of Zarephath: Her faith in scarcity resulted in overflowPractical ApplicationTatum outlines a realistic, faith-centered daily rhythm that includes: Starting the day with prayer, Scripture, and stillnessBeing intentional with family and relationshipsWorking with focus and minimizing distractionsPracticing gratitude throughout the dayPrioritizing rest and restoration in the eveningKey takeaway: Harmony is not about having more time. It is about being intentional with the time you already have. Key TakeawaysAlignment is more important than activityPeace is not the absence of chaos but the presence of GodDiscipline is the key to sustainable transformationGod multiplies what you surrender and steward well Our Sponsors: * Check out Time4Learning: https://www.time4learning.com Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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  7. १५ मार्च

    Align Your Ambition with God & Build Life Harmony

    In this inspiring episode of Blessed and Bossed Up, Christian entrepreneur Tatum Temia answers listener questions about aligning ambition with God’s will, managing work-life harmony, and creating faith-based communities for women. She also shares a powerful testimony of her grandmother’s miraculous healing from stage four cancer, reminding listeners that God is faithful and sees every part of our lives. Whether you are a busy mom, entrepreneur, or professional, this episode is packed with practical guidance, spiritual encouragement, and real-life strategies to live a God-centered, purpose-driven life. What You’ll Learn in This Episode:1. Miraculous Healing TestimonyTatum shares the story of her grandmother. Through faith, prayer, and God’s guidance, she is now in remission. This testimony highlights: The power of trusting God in difficult seasonsHow prayer and faith can bring peace and restorationWhy God’s timing is perfect and how He works behind the scenes2. Aligning Ambition with God’s WillTatum answers a listener’s question about determining if their ambition is God-aligned. Key takeaways include: Pause and recalibrate: Avoid operating in hurry and burnoutExamine the root of ambition: Is it fueled by brokenness or a spirit of excellence?Apply the God Math Formula:Consecration: Abide in God dailyConcentration: Focus on what God assignsMultiplication: Experience supernatural results beyond your own efforts3. Work-Life Harmony for Moms and EntrepreneursTatum addresses the challenges of balancing career, business, ministry, and family life. She advises: Take a hard stop to evaluate priorities and healthUse your job as an investor: Save for your business or ministrySchedule time for spiritual growth: waking early, praying throughout the dayTransition from surviving to savoring every moment with family and God4. Building a Faith-Based Community for Women Trying to ConceiveFor women seeking support while navigating fertility journeys, Tatum provides tips on: Researching existing communities to understand needs and pain pointsEmphasizing peace, trust, and patience over anxietyCombining faith with practical steps like health, vitamins, or IVF guidanceUsing social media strategically to connect with your audience and grow communityActionable Steps from This Episode:Take a recalibration pause to evaluate the alignment of your ambition and priorities.Apply the God Math Formula in daily life to multiply your efforts spiritually and practically.Carve out dedicated time for prayer, ministry, or your business while keeping your career stable.Build or join a faith-based community that provides spiritual encouragement and practical resources.Savor your life: prioritize health, family, and God over constant productivity and achievement.Resources Mentioned:Previous episode: God Math Formula: https://www.blessedandbossedup.com/podcast/episode/1f420cff/god-math-the-spiritual-formula-every-busy-woman-needs Our Sponsors: * Check out Time4Learning: https://www.time4learning.com Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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    Holding Your Desires While Trusting God’s Timing

    This week on Blessed and Bossed Up, Tatum Temia dives deep into listener questions about balancing personal desires with God’s timing and navigating the complexities of Christian entrepreneurship. As we close out the first quarter of the year, this episode is a reminder to check in with your goals, your heart, and your faith. Tatum covers: Holding space for longings like marriage and motherhood without letting them consume your focus, even when God is calling you to pursue other seasons of life.Healthy ways to process disappointment and desire without shutting down emotionally or disassociating.The importance of enjoying your current season while preparing for future roles in life and leadership.Discerning action versus waiting in business: how to know when to move forward and when to sit and seek guidance from the Lord.The dwelling and abiding lifestyle—making God your constant dwelling place to cultivate peace, clarity, and confidence in your decisions.Real talk on the mental and spiritual challenges of Christian entrepreneurship and how to navigate the pressure, self-doubt, and decision paralysis with faith and wisdom.Whether you’re navigating personal desires, business growth, or both, this episode provides practical guidance and encouragement to live fully surrendered to God while pursuing your destiny. 💌 Have a question for Tatum? Email her at Tatum@TatumTemia.com and you might hear it answered on a future episode! Our Sponsors: * Check out Time4Learning: https://www.time4learning.com Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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The BBU Podcast is a weekly podcast that teaches purposeful women how to be uncompromising in their faith, business, and total life success with God as the CEO. Get ready to be empowered, emboldened, and receive divine strategy to fulfill God’s plan for your life and business. Your host + sister in Christ and success, Tatum Temia Ayomike, is an award-winning entrepreneur, executive producer, author and devoted Christian who has committed her life to help women bridge the gap between faith and business. Her impact as the CEO of Anchored Media includes a global reach of millions of listeners across 75+ produced podcast shows in just 2 years. Through her personal brand, Tatum has cultivated a community of businesswomen who give God full authority to use their business as a vessel for the Kingdom. Using the word of God as her platform, Tatum's prayer journal and published books offer instrumental guidance to ‘boss up’ in any entrepreneurial venture. Tatum has been featured in several magazines and publications and has been named as a Top 30 under 30 in the Washington, DC area.

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