Coffee By Two

Pawan

Many of us are sleepscrolling through life. We have big dreams but for some reason, have given up on them. It might be laziness or ennui or procrastination or addiction to our gadgets. We are looking for a jolt to wake us up, much like a strong cup of coffee. Some conversations can do the same. They jolt us out of our humdrum existence. Bangalore has a practice of 'by two' culture where two people share a cup of coffee. The name of the podcast is a tribute to that.

  1. 03/10/2025

    Writing the rookie handbook with Pawan Kumar Marella

    Key takeaways: Backstories shape choicesHis father’s failed businesses made him crave stability, while others chase variety to make up for their parents’ steady lives. Our career choices are never random. Luck and serendipity matterWe often underplay how much timing, mentors, and chance encounters influence a career. Success is not only about effort. Everyone wears masksAt work, most people pretend to have it figured out. Realising this makes it easier to drop the act and have honest conversations. Rookie mistakes: health and permissionHe neglected his health early on and is still paying for it. He also waited too long for permission, instead of taking initiative. Bosses and structures aren’t chosenYou don’t pick your parents or your bosses. Surviving and thriving means learning to adapt to hierarchies and seeing the bigger picture. Difficult people vs difficult situationsMany struggles at work come from context, not individuals. Diagnose the difference, understand values, and if needed, act as a collective. One-liners to remember“Don’t come to a football match and play tennis” (adapt to the system you are in) and “The person you miss saying hello to will be a roadblock later on” (relationships matter). Three-year detoxHe went on a complete digital detox — no TV, no social media — for three years. It helped him reconnect deeply with his wife and with life offline. It’s not about hot jobsHis wife Ruchi’s insight: “There are no hot jobs, only hot people.” Culture and colleagues matter more than perks or branding. What matters mostHe’d choose to have coffee with his late father. A reminder not to put off time with loved ones.

    Writing the rookie handbook with Pawan Kumar Marella
  2. 25/05/2024 ·  Bonus

    Shining a light on the 2004 General election campaign with Prathap Suthan and Jayshree Sundar

    In 2004, the Indian men's cricket team toured Pakistan after 15 years. It was a momentous tour, and Prime Minister Atal Bihari Vajpayee is said to have told Sourav Ganguly not just to win games but also win hearts. The Indian team did both. They won the test and ODI series. On their return home, some of them had to be ushered out of the airport secretly because of the teeming crowds outside. Sport and politics are closely related in the subcontinent. That tour was conducted to create a feel-good factor of sorts before the general elections. A few months before, the BJP had won state elections in Madhya Pradesh, Rajasthan, and Chhattisgarh and was on a high. Prime Minister Vajpayee was the only one skeptical of the 'feel-good factor'. "Jaswant Singh looked at me and said 'there goes your campaign'." Prathap Suthan, then the National Creative Director of Grey advertising, led the campaign. He says the 'India Shining' campaign was designed for urban India and people with money to spend. It wasn't a campaign for the masses. He narrates an interesting cricket match-related incident: India was playing Australia in an ODI series, and Sehwag was going hammer and tongs. The camera turned to a person in the crowd. And what was he holding? An India Shining ad written by him. In the commentary box, Sunil Gavaskar said (paraphrasing) India is shining, alluding to the campaign slogan. It felt as if everyone in the country was caught up in the fervor. With wins in three states in the assembly elections, the party made an error. Then Deputy Prime Minister LK Advani wanted the India Shining campaign to become the election campaign. This was the beginning of the end. Jaswant Singh, then the external affairs minister, looked at Prathap and said 'there goes your campaign' because he knew it wasn't created for the masses. "It became a Frankenstein no one could control." It's hard to control a juggernaut, even if it is heading in the wrong direction. When the Deputy Prime Minister issues an order, it's hard to say no, and the India Shining campaign became the election campaign - something it wasn't intended for. Then came the Aam Aadmi campaign created by Jayshree's team at Leo Burnett which sucked the wind out of the India Shining campaign. "People were blaming me for the loss." The BJP made tactical blunders ahead of the polls, beginning with preponing them by six months. The decision to go with a campaign not created for the masses was another blunder. But it's easy to blame the person who created the campaign instead of those in power, and Prathap was at the receiving end of this. "We believed in the campaigns when working on them. Both Jayshree and Prathap said they believed in the campaigns fully when working on them. Both of them have been at the receiving end of trolls, and Prathap said he also received threats when working on the campaign. When I asked them if it is important to believe in a political party's ideology before working for them, both said it's important to see it professionally and not get emotionally caught up. Jayshree says even if the BJP had called her, she would have worked on the campaign with a full heart. Today, Prathap no longer works on political campaigns as he finds it too murky.

    Shining a light on the 2004 General election campaign with Prathap Suthan and Jayshree Sundar
  3. 19/05/2024

    Elections through the eyes of advertising with Jayshree Sundar

    The late Hal Riney, one of advertising's most legendary copywriters, wrote the campaign for Ronald Reagan's re-election campaign in 1984. Apparently, President Reagan teared up when he saw 'It's morning in America' for the first time. Memorable political campaigns are a rarity, and working on a General Election campaign is even rarer. Jayshree Sundar was the branch head of Leo Burnett when her office got the chance to pitch for the Congress party's campaign for the 2004 General Elections. They assumed it to be a prank until they realized it wasn't. And life would never be the same again. "I just got by" Jayshree's early years weren't remarkable. In her own words, she just got by. But that was just a decoy for her later years which made up for her supposed lack of achievement in her early years. She went on to a top college and joined Lintas, which was and still is one of India's most renowned ad agencies. "We went with one idea and sold it" It’s hard to reconcile with the advertising era of the 80s and 90s when agencies were seen as partners of the clients and not mere vendors. Jayshree says they would go to meetings confidently with one idea, a solid strategy, and sell it. She also speaks fondly about her time at Lintas where she got to work in offices across the country - Kolkata, Chennai, and Delhi. Eventually, a slew of circumstances caused her to move on and join Leo Burnett. She describes the difference between the two agencies as one leading with strategy (Lintas) and the other being more creative focused (Leo Burnett). This allowed her to experience both ends of the spectrum. It was also here that she got to work on the General Election campaign for the Congress Party in 2004. “Politicians learn very fast" A political party isn’t your typical client. You are dealing with people who can shape policy and the direction of the country if elected. When I asked her if one needed to believe in the party before working on an election campaign, she says you need to be professional irrespective of political affiliation. In the course of the conversation, she says she dealt with Jairam Ramesh, Salman Khurshid, and Motilal Vora regularly. They were also tasked with proof-checking copy over and above the agency. For instance, Manmohan Singh (who would become Prime Minister after the election) would check Gurmukhi translation, Pranab Mukherjee (who would hold multiple portfolios like Defence, Finance and eventually become President of the country) would check Bengali translation. These things don’t happen on regular brand work, however big the brand. Another surprising thing was that contrary to perception, the politicians she encountered were always on time and it was the agency folks huffing and puffing to be on time to meetings. With the ‘Aam Aadmi’ campaign, the Congress party punctured the ‘India Shining’ campaign and the Congress, under the aegis of the UPA, came back to power. Months of sleeping for 3-4 hours a day culminated in victory. In 2007, Jayshree walked away from advertising to spend more time with family and also because of the changing nature of the industry where agencies were treated more like vendors. Today, Jayshree is an author, teacher, and raconteur of tales. In fact, it was a lecture where she was speaking about the 2004 election campaign that triggered this. She overshot the time by more than an hour but the class still sat in rapt attention. In an age where presentations give competition to sleeping ills in terms of putting people to sleep, her presentation was an antithesis. One day, I hope to sneak into a class where she is teaching and listen.

    Elections through the eyes of advertising with Jayshree Sundar

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Many of us are sleepscrolling through life. We have big dreams but for some reason, have given up on them. It might be laziness or ennui or procrastination or addiction to our gadgets. We are looking for a jolt to wake us up, much like a strong cup of coffee. Some conversations can do the same. They jolt us out of our humdrum existence. Bangalore has a practice of 'by two' culture where two people share a cup of coffee. The name of the podcast is a tribute to that.