Dash Sisters

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6 DAYS AGO

Milestones & Meghnath

This episode comes to you from the great outdoors - super long distance, but somehow more alive. I’m recording from Ahmedabad, Gauri’s in Madikeri, and we’re both a little oxygen-drunk in the best way. This week’s drop is arriving on Friday instead of our usual Wednesday. We’ve been moving in a different rhythm as we play catch-up with our lives. And somehow, it’s also my birthday. I turn thirty today! There’s something about that sentence that feels a little bit bigger than it should. Like a new decade is a new room, and you don’t enter it by performing. You enter it by noticing what you’ve actually learned. So we did what we always do when we’re trying to tell the truth without making it too serious: we ran with a Vogue format (Gauri’s words, not mine) and ran through 30 questions for turning 30 — rapid fire, mildly unhinged, and perhaps pretty sincere underneath the jokes. Somewhere between “sunrise energy” and my most-played song (yes, it’s We Return to Love), it becomes obvious what this decade is about for me: moving forward with more intention, but keeping the softness. And then (because this episode is a whole life in miniature) we shift into the second half: a catch-up with an old friend from school — the kind of friend who once ran through your childhood like a disruptive comet and still somehow feels like your smartest, silliest, most fun best friend. Meet Meghnath Pillay: London-based software engineer, chaotic good energy, raw honesty, and the kind of person who could have walked around campus with a textbook and still be cool. We don’t give away his entire life story in this newsletter — you need to hear the laugh, the timing, the way he says things that are accidentally deeply profound — but we talk about what it means to grow up outside your country, to build a life with your own hands, to miss home in very specific ways (I said mangoes, obviously), and to find your way back to agency. And yes, there is a school prank story involving rope, scissors, a chase scene, and my hair. I survived. Barely. But here’s why this episode felt like the right one to release on the day of a dash sister turning thirty: Your twenties are loud. They’re awkward in ways nobody actually warns you about. But you also collect evidence. Evidence that you can endure. That you can reinvent. Evidence that you can be tender but still be powerful as you begin to stand up for yourself, step by step. And by the time you arrive at thirty, the question becomes less “Who am I becoming?” and more: What do I still believe? What’s still true after all the detours? This episode is our way of asking those questions, with laughter threaded through it like string lights. And if you feel like leaving us a note, we’d love to hear it: What’s something you still believe, now, as an adult: something you didn’t know at twenty, but you know in your bones today? Leave it in the Substack comments. We read every one. With love, Dash Sister Blue This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit dashsisters.substack.com

41 min
28 JAN

Stories that Make Us

This week’s episode is a little different — we didn’t invite a guest into the room. We invited stories. The ones we grew up inside of. The ones that made us cry as children and still make our throats tighten as adults. The ones that subconsciously built our inner architecture. The ones that found a way quietly inside us finding space inside our lives and started shaping how we understand devotion, integrity, sacrifice… the whole aching, beautiful question of what it means to be human. Because isn’t it kind of wild? We spend our adult lives thinking we’re shaped by our big decisions — our education, jobs, heartbreaks, cities, the people we love — and then one day a folk song, a myth, a moment from childhood taps you on the shoulder and goes: Hey. I’ve been living with you this whole time. So… we sat down, legs crossed (mentally), fist under chin (spiritually), and did what we always do: we got emotional, we got philosophical, and even a little bit ridiculous. Punyakoti: the cow who kept her word Gauri opens with a Kannada folk song she used to beg her mom to sing at bedtime - Punyakoti Govina Hadu: the story of Punyakoti the cow. A starving tiger. An honest cow. Motherhood. Love. Honor. It’s a story that sounds simple until it isn’t. It asks: What guides you — instinct or integrity? What happens when your moral and survival compass disagree? (Also: if you’ve ever wondered why Gauri has natural “confess immediately” energy / is too good to be true … yes. We found the origin story. There’s a whole childhood prank-call moment where she literally cannot run away from accountability. I’m still shook.) The maple leaf in the teacup At the end, we come back to reflection, a kind of softness. A Zen master in Kyoto pours tea for a student and asks, twice: “What do you see?” It’s a story about slowing down until you begin to see that there’s more in the cup than you thought there was, if you care to look. And it reminded me of a Rumi poem — a line that has followed me around for years: “There is a moon inside every human being… Give more of your life to this listening.” That’s where this episode lands. In listening — the kind that makes the world sharper, redder, more alive. The kind that lets you see something so surprisingly beautiful, where you thought there was nothing. Listen to this week’s episode: * Spotify * Apple Podcasts * YouTube * Substack And we want to hear from you: What’s a story that has stayed with you? A myth, a family story, a book, a film — anything you heard once and never forgot. If you feel like sharing, leave it in the Substack comments. Maybe we’ll invite you on to tell yours! With love (and a teacup held very carefully), Maithilee, for The Dash Sisters This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit dashsisters.substack.com

35 min
21 JAN

Sree: Field Notes on Motherhood

Some friendships hold their shape across time: you open the old pages and recognize the handwriting is unmistakably of your very own: refined by years, warmed by living, honest at the edges. That’s what it felt like to have Sree with us — sister of our hearts.Sree has always been a force in our orbit — lyrical and incisive, steady and wise, gifted in a way that feels almost unfair. The fastest runner, yes, but also the one who can lift an ordinary sentence into something that sounds like music. Even then, she listened so deeply you’d leave the conversation feeling like life had suddenly expanded. She still has that effect.We called ourselves Ethnic Charm and we made music, with Sree stitching words together to describe the difficult, beautiful, complicated things we were feeling as tiny teens. It was the era of writing songs like secret doors: Just Another Song, Dhol Re, Fly Away, Disconnected, Farishta, Dream, Rain — love songs, dream songs, friendship songs. Songs from the age where you trust your feelings, and new love feels like the most real thing you know. Sitting down with Sree now feels like returning to a language we grew up speaking and hearing it, suddenly, with greater depth. Familiar, and newly resonant. She approaches motherhood attentively, with precision and deep consideration. She talks about the work of learning a child and the way a home is built one decision at a time, amidst a thousand recalibrations. The conversation drifts through family systems and inherited advice, the chorus of voices that surrounds parenting, and the choices that create a life that feels right at the root. Love, in Sree’s telling, lives in repetition: in the small calibrations, the tired days, the return to presence. A practice of meeting reality with care.What makes this conversation glow is not parenting alone, it’s friendship - the ease, the cadence, the way we can be ridiculous and truly honest within the same minute. The past and the present sit side by side. And near the end, Sree returns to what she’s always carried so naturally: language. She talks about stories — why telling them and reading them matters, why they belong at the center of life itself. Stories are how she makes sense of the world: how she moves through other lives, other perspectives, other kinds of humanity, and returns with more understanding than she left with. This episode feels like a bright rekindling. You realize you’ve grown, your people have grown, a thread that holds, now with more depth - more laughter, more wisdom, more life inside it. To listen to the music we made in the late 2000s, between ages 13-15, head over to our Substack! https://dashsisters.substack.com/ This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit dashsisters.substack.com

40 min
14 JAN

Bhuvaneshwari: Clay is Forgiving

This week, we’re joined by Bhuvaneshwari (Bhuvana) — ceramic artist, fellow chaos enthusiast, and Gauri’s “sister from a different mister” — calling in from her pottery studio in Madikeri (Coorg / Kodagu). Also present: a cat who had just eaten, got the zoomies, and decided to participate in the recording like a tiny furry producer with opinions. And honestly? That’s the energy of this episode: real life, handmade, and pretty cute. We drift into Bhuvana’s childhood: seed-picking, slide-top daydreaming, the whole world outside just green and alive, stray dogs dressed up with full seriousness, art class as a weekly ritual. It was a childhood where you didn’t “consume” anything, you made, you noticed, you played. And then this memory surfaces: Gauri and Bhuvana cooking tiny chapatis on a candle, like miniature survivalists powered by friendship and curiosity. It’s funny, and sweet, and kind of tells you everything: they’ve always been the type to make meaning out of whatever’s in front of them. Bhuvana takes us from there into her world — how she moved from painting into clay, and why clay enveloped her soul and refused to let go. She says it so matter-of-factly: clay is forgiving. You mess up, you reshape. You try again. She describes the kiln like it’s Christmas morning — every firing is a parcel, a present. You open it and you’re surprised, sometimes delighted, sometimes humbled. That little sense of the unknown is half the magic. And then she said something that kind of felt like the whole point of adulthood: Sometimes you make something beautiful, you fire it, and it breaks. And your job isn’t to mourn it forever. Your job is to make another one. There’s also something powerful about how Bhuvana built her studio. During the pandemic, she naturally turned inwards, started clearing out the life around her and soon enough, an old storage space at home — old books, utensils, the leftovers of family life — and slowly, steadily, turned it into a place where she could create. She bought a kiln. She figured it out piece by piece. She stayed. She made it work. And now she’s out there, shaping mud into objects people will drink tea from which is honestly holy if you think about it. This episode is like sitting beside someone who’s calm because they’ve learned (through breakage, through practice, through time) that you can always begin again. If you’ve been feeling a little brittle lately, come listen. We’ll be here - three friends, a studio, a cat, and the reminder that nothing needs to be perfect to be real. Listen to Episode 3. Follow Bhuvaneshwari’s work here. With love, mischief, and kiln-opening energy, The Dash Sisters This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit dashsisters.substack.com

41 min
7 JAN

Agasthya: Eat Watermelon, Read a Book

In our head, he’s still five years old running around barefoot, clutching a golden gadha, giggling with his friends. In reality he’s 22, living and earning for himself on the other side of the world, talking about self-confidence, community, and choosing peace with clarity. This episode, titled Eat Watermelon, Read a Book is with Agasthya — athlete, barista, community-builder, watermelon enthusiast, little brother — and our very first guest. Agasthya moved to New Zealand alone. He didn’t overthink it. Somewhere along the way, between his competitive sport training, barista shifts, dating, new friendships, and learning when to let go, he built a life that feels completely… his. When we asked him what strength means, he didn’t say hustle or grit. He said self-confidence. Knowing who you are. Letting go of what brings no peace. Trying new things even when you’re unsure. There’s a moment where he describes his perfect day: sitting in the sun, eating watermelon, reading a book. And honestly? That might be the most radical life advice we’ve heard in a while. Agasthya is at a beautiful juncture of life, where he’s discovering adulthood, shaping himself and the life he wants to live. He’s carefully handpicking the people he surrounds himself with—his team, his community— people who motivate him, ground him, and give him a sense of home. With them, the streets of an unknown country are familiar. Strangers on the streets are friends. Maybe this is a product of Agasthya’s unique and independent upbringing. Maybe it’s simply him and his carefully crafted state of mind. In this Episode of the DashSisters Podcast, Agasthya gives us his perspective into what it looks like to build a life without rushing to define it. This episode is warm, surprisingly funny, grounding and a little bit wise. Tune in now. You can follow Agasthya and his page about life and fashion on Instagram right here: Agasthya Wears This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit dashsisters.substack.com

37 min
31/12/2025

Rainbow Squiggles

There’s a very specific mood at the end of the year. That end-of-year hush descends upon us all, no matter the part of the world you live in. In Tokyo, trains get a little quieter, there’s just one bus per hour, inboxes are a little slower, the air a little more ceremonial. Bengaluru slows down too—its infamous traffic is more bearable, everyone’s left town for day-long getaways, hoping to start the new year far, far away from their everyday rigamarole. Across the world, there’s a silence—the kind that makes you accidentally hear your own thoughts. So of course, in that quiet, we did what any person does: we started a podcast with our childhood best friend. We’ve been friends for nearly two decades, which is long enough to have known several different versions of ourselves. We met at boarding school in a valley in Southern India, the kind of place with sunsets that felt like they were made by a poet, and mango trees just outside the boundary you were not supposed to cross. (We crossed. We stole mangoes. We ate them during sex ed. If this is not destiny, what is?) Back then, we called ourselves the Dash Sisters. Then we forgot all about it as we grew up and paid bills. Somehow, a few days ago, that name turned out to be perfect for our new project. Perhaps that’s the next chapter of growing up we were doing with such a hurry—becoming, evolving, loving who you already were, and leaving space for what you can’t define yet. This first episode is us stepping into 2026: into the great 30s, with the kind of carefulness you only earn by living. We talk about friendship like a graph: rainbow squiggles, spikes, waves, a flat line, and then… something blooming again. We talk about happiness and contentment. We talk about what we knew at 11 that we still know now. We talk like we always have: tons of silliness, with laughter, chaos, too much honesty, and surprises. If you’re entering a new year with that same feeling, like you’re standing at a threshold of some kind, come sit with us. We’ll be here. In our little long-distance recording studio. Making meaning. Making jokes. Making something. Happy New Year. ✨ ~ The Dash Sisters This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit dashsisters.substack.com

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Old friends in conversation. dashsisters.substack.com

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Dash Sisters
Years Active

2025 - 2026
Episodes

6
Rating

Clean
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