Love Language

Love Language

Plug into a heart-to-heart you didn’t know you needed. Two lifelong best friends Anahita from India and Jesselina from Nepal, take their everyday phone calls online—and you're invited! A podcast where personal meets political, each episode peels back another layer of life's drama, exploring the deeper meanings behind their everyday experiences. The BFFs, now in LA and New York, dive into the politics of sex, culture, society, identity, and everything in between. Through the messiness, drama, and heartbreak, they find comfort in each other’s stories, which is now their "Love Language."

  1. Episode 16: Where the hell have the Rom-Coms gone?

    23 JAN

    Episode 16: Where the hell have the Rom-Coms gone?

    What if romance on screen once held our hands through feeling and belonging, and now lets go? In this episode, we linger over the slow disappearance of the romantic comedy in Bollywood and Hollywood, tracing what has been lost along the way. From starry-eyed classics to today’s hardened heroes, we ask how cinema stopped believing in love as something soft, sincere, and transformative. Moving between nostalgia and critique, Anahita and Jesselina unpack the rise of hyper-masculinity, the flattening of emotional vulnerability, and what that shift reveals about our cultural moment. This conversation drifts through old films that shaped a generation of romantics and lands firmly in the present, questioning why heartfelt storytelling now feels so radical. It is full of yearning for better love stories and for a cinematic language that dares to make us feel again. (00:00) New Year reflections and our grandma hobbies (03:12) Where did all the rom-coms go? (09:03) Perfect actors and sanitized scripts (16:41) Pyar Dosti Hai: how storytelling shaped social dynamics (22:53) Early-2000s journalist women leads and their influence on women in media today (23:46) How young people learned about desire and intimacy through rom-coms (28:42) Missing young adult and teen stories fueling hyper-consumerism (39:01) Rom-com gaps filled by hyper-masculine, nationalistic cinema (45:09) The future of romantic storytelling: what needs to change

    50 min
  2. 30, Flirty and Thriving

    28/11/2025

    30, Flirty and Thriving

    So, you’re turning 30, congrats, welcome to the club! In this episode, Jesselina and Anahita, both now 30, dive into all the weird, funny, and unexpected parts of this new decade. Why does your body start sending mysterious signals you didn’t ask for? Did we really leave the weight of other people’s opinions behind in our twenties? And seriously, are we all supposed to become marathon runners now? We get real about health habits that actually stick, lessons we wish we’d learned in our twenties, and how we plan to navigate friendships, social life, and goals in our thirties. It’s honest, hilarious, a little messy, and we hope this episode helps you ease into your 30s. We’re all figuring it out, and there’s no one right way to live your thirties or life in general. 0:33 Jesselina’s Big 3-0: Leveling Up 7:27 Preparing for Your 30s: A Milestone Moment… or Not? 12:25 Leaving the Weight of People’s Opinions Back in Our 20s 16:52 Your 20s Are for Learning; Your 30s Are for Applying 24:03 Atomic Health Habits for Your 30s: Tiny Tweaks, Big Wins 26:01 Ana Starts “Strength Training” 31:35 When Your Body Starts Sending Weird Messages in Your 30s 41:03 Are We All Becoming Marathon Runners in Our 30s?

    49 min
  3. Eat, Pray, Exclude: The Politics of Food

    07/11/2025

    Eat, Pray, Exclude: The Politics of Food

    What if every meal were a mirror reflecting belief and belonging? In this episode, we dive into the politics simmering beneath our plates. From fab food to fad diets, we explore how food can be both a bridge that brings us together and a weapon of exclusion. This conversation moves from the plate to the politics, from the intimacy of home kitchens to the hierarchies that shape entire cultures. Jesselina and Anahita discuss food purity, power, and the everyday practices that show how something as intrinsic as eating can reveal who we are and who we’re told to be in South Asia. It’s layered and maybe a little hard to digest, but that’s exactly the point! (00:31) Daylight Saving and the Doom Feeling (01:27) Champion’s Breakfast (03:27) Fad Diets or Dieticians? (11:51) Are Our Healthier Choices Making Us Boring? (16:40) Food Diversity in Nepal (19:45) The Politics of Food Starts at Home (26:37) Caste, Vegetarianism, and the Politics of Exclusion in Hinduism (32:52) Dr. Ambedkar on Food as a Tool of Hierarchy (38:58) Regional vs. Religious Food Practices( 44:50) Economic Liberalization and the Export of High Quality Food: Neocolonialism or Market Standards? (49:23) The Turmeric Biopiracy Case: Neocolonialism Through Legal Standards

    55 min
  4. All About BDE ...The Big Daughter Energy!

    10/10/2025

    All About BDE ...The Big Daughter Energy!

    Ever wondered why eldest daughters have spreadsheets for feelings and backup plans for everyone’s birthdays? In this episode, we get way too real about our BDE aka Big Daughter Energy!!  Why do eldest daughters end up running family group chats like Fortune 500s? Is dating younger siblings just emotional babysitting with better playlists? And can we ever stop trying to fix everyone else’s problems without feeling guilty about it? It’s funny, raw, and way too relatable — part therapy sessions, part guilty confessions.. Is our BDE a personality type, a public service, or both? Press play and find out. (02:12) The Eldest-Daughter Sorority No one Signed up for (04:08) Taylor Swift shows up to the eldest-daughter party… two years late (06:13) “Hi, I’m 12 and the family therapist” (09:45) When you start mediating your parents’ marriage for sport (12:31) Cake orders, calendars, and carrying the emotional Wi-Fi of the house (14:22) Dating younger siblings: therapy or thrill ride? (16:15) Middle-child energy: the chaos you didn’t plan for (20:18) The Let them Theory & Learning to Loosen Control (31:01) Type-A Brains, Structure, and the Cities That Match Our Nervous Systems (42:11) Health crises, control issues, and the eldest daughter’s medical degree (48:04) Unlearning perfection: the art of doing less and caring less (50:47) The soft spot: eldest-daughter friendships that keep us sane

    52 min
  5. Bonus Episode: Break Ke Baad

    19/09/2025

    Bonus Episode: Break Ke Baad

    Summer’s over, the mics are back on, and Anahita and Jesselina are finally here! In this bonus episode, they return from their season break with a little bit of everything. They reflect on 6 months of podcasting - the sweat, the tears, the doubts - and spill all the tea from a very Love Island–coded summer. The Summer We Turned Petty? Maybe. Tune in to find out what the girlies were really up to. 00:29 - Welcome Home 05:12 - Six Months of Podcasting: Did We Fail? 11:45 - Jess' Love Island Summer 19:15 - Growing Up & Running Out of Family Time 23:19 - Married Friends & Friendship Dynamics 30:10 - Is 30 the New 20 in NYC? 34:01 - Ana’s Shower Thoughts 😉 36:05 - What’s Next: LoLa Season 2 Plans

    38 min
  6. Trash TV Shows, Doomscrolling & Why Brain Rot Might Be Good for Us

    04/07/2025

    Trash TV Shows, Doomscrolling & Why Brain Rot Might Be Good for Us

    You know those nights where you're doomscrolling TikTok, half-watching Love Island, and somehow end up talking to ChatGPT about your ex? Yeah. Same. In this episode, Anahita and Jesselina get real about what we’re all secretly doing—bingeing “mindless” content and ask if it’s actually mindless at all. From Rakhi Sawant deep dives to emotional support sitcoms and the sweet relief of rewatching shows we already know the ending to, they unpack what “brain rot” really means in a world that never shuts up. Why do we feel guilty for needing to switch off? Why do we pretend some content doesn’t “count”? And why are the shows that make us feel the most seen often the ones people love to hate? This one’s messy, funny, a little chaotic and surprisingly tender. Because maybe, just maybe, the things we consume when we’re not trying to be smart are saying something really important about who we are. Spoiler alert: Rakhi Sawant was in Main Hoon Na. Clickable Timestamps (00:32) "Do we sound like people who started a podcast out of boredom?" (03:44) ChatGPT, therapy, and the new emotional outsourcing (06:52) Astro GPT, false hope, and when AI becomes your best friend (09:47) Anxiety, spoilers, and the comfort of rewatching old shows (12:37) Squid Game, overstimulation, and doomscrolling to survive (15:22) Deep cinema vs dumb shows: do we really need to pick a side? (18:14) Who are the PAPs? (Pretentious Alt People explained) (20:32) TikTok, Finstas & the new language of internet girlhood (23:17) Love Island as a social experiment (not a guilty pleasure) (26:42) Rakhi Sawant, Takeshi’s Castle & the golden age of chaotic icons (29:55) Meme culture, emotional processing & staying connected (33:10) Why “low-brow” content is more political than we think (37:16) Pop culture vs ideology: what actually shapes society? (40:34) Can brain rot be a form of resistance?

    47 min
  7. No Woman’s Land: Living in Cities Not Built for Us

    20/06/2025

    No Woman’s Land: Living in Cities Not Built for Us

    If a city doesn’t work for women, it doesn’t work for anyone.” In this powerful episode, Jesselina and Anahita unpack the invisible gender biases built into our cities—design flaws that don’t just inconvenience women, they actively exclude them. From unsafe college walkways and inaccessible public transport to public bathrooms that ignore menstruation, this conversation lays bare the very real consequences of male-default urban planning. And no—it’s not just about safety. It’s about ambition, leisure, and the basic freedom to move through public space without fear. Rooted in personal stories, data, and lived experience across Delhi, Kathmandu, and LA, this episode reveals why gender-inclusive cities aren’t a luxury—they’re a necessity for a truly sustainable world. Clickable Timestamps (02:39) Why sustainable cities are more personal than we think (03:50)Cities are designed for men, by men. (06:46) Jesselina’s NLUD story: how a 10-minute walk became a daily risk (10:44) Public toilets that fail women (and everyone else) (12:41) Mobility, class, and why public transport isn’t built for all (16:02)When a dinner and pickleball plan turns into a safety negotiation (20:04) Fake phone calls, pepper spray, and the exhausting mental load (23:48) Why women avoid parks—and how Kathmandu got it right (28:40) Girls at Dhabas: Pakistan’s story of reclaiming the right to exist (30:23) Crash tests, cold offices, and other everyday design failures (32:43) Small wins: inclusive bathrooms in Benares & Mumbai (37:55) Breastfeeding, Colonialism and the gendering of public space (42:33) Learning independence through metros, autos, and quiet rebellions (48:03) Superstition, public space, and being shut out for having a period

    50 min
  8. Band, Budget, Baraat: Confessions of a Millennial Bride

    06/06/2025

    Band, Budget, Baraat: Confessions of a Millennial Bride

    Anahita’s whirlwind wedding extravaganza left her with a treasure trove of memories—and a crash course in wedding planning. Whether you’re dreaming of your own Big Fat South Asian Wedding or just trying to survive the chaos of it all, this one’s for you. Join the duo as they unravel the madness behind the glitz: from budgeting headaches that stretch longer than the baraat, to the Instagram-fueled explosion of custom decor, and the fine line between tradition and trend. What started as a cozy family affair has snowballed into a full-blown industry—one that thrives by feeding on cultural dynamics and expectations. Clickable timestamps: (00:45) How to actually start planning a big, fat wedding (04:42) Does she even know how to cook? (09:00) Deciding or stretching your wedding budget?! (15:37) Ana’s wedding missed one huge factor! (21:22) The wedding aspiration trap — are we chasing the impossible? (25:32) The Instagram-ification and industrialization of wedding planning (30:00) Weddings as how families “give back” to South Asian society (37:56) What’s a gift - what’s a dowry? (42:33) Is the wedding industry exploiting cultural dynamics? (46:46) How to pick your bridal trousseau

    56 min
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Ratings & Reviews

4.9
out of 5
7 Ratings

About

Plug into a heart-to-heart you didn’t know you needed. Two lifelong best friends Anahita from India and Jesselina from Nepal, take their everyday phone calls online—and you're invited! A podcast where personal meets political, each episode peels back another layer of life's drama, exploring the deeper meanings behind their everyday experiences. The BFFs, now in LA and New York, dive into the politics of sex, culture, society, identity, and everything in between. Through the messiness, drama, and heartbreak, they find comfort in each other’s stories, which is now their "Love Language."

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  • Creator
    Love Language
  • Years Active
    2025 - 2026
  • Episodes
    16
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © Love Language
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