Beyond Vanilla

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Beyond Vanilla is a sex-positive podcast on non-monogamy, hosted by best mates Amy C & Emily Spice. Join us for unfiltered chats on open relationships, boundaries, jealousy, and everything in between. With our hubbies along for the ride, no topic is off-limits. Expect real talk, personal stories, plenty of laughs, and zero judgment. 💋 New episodes weekly. Come for the chat, stay for the chaos. A taste of life Beyond Vanilla awaits…

  1. 1 day ago

    #36: Is That Okay In The Lifestyle? Answering A Listener’s Question.

    18+ Listener Advisory: Beyond Vanilla is intended for adults aged 18 and over and contains frank discussions about sex, sexual health, relationships and ethical non-monogamy. Listener discretion is advised. A listener sent us a question: “How common is it for someone to ejaculate in their play partners mouth in the lifestyle — and is that considered okay?” It opened up a much bigger conversation. Because when it comes to swinging, there isn’t a universal rulebook for what is or isn’t okay. What one person enjoys may be completely off-limits for someone else. In Episode 36, we talk about consent, communication and why assumptions have no place in the lifestyle. We discuss the importance of talking about boundaries before you play, checking in with new partners, and understanding that consent to one sexual activity doesn’t automatically mean consent to another. We also explore etiquette when playing with other people, how couples can communicate their individual boundaries, and why being comfortable saying “yes”, “no” or “not for me” is such an important part of creating safer, more enjoyable experiences. Ultimately, the answer to “Is this okay in the lifestyle?” is often very simple: Have you talked about it? Have they consented to it? And is everyone involved genuinely comfortable with it? Another honest, judgement-free conversation from Beyond Vanilla about the questions people want answered but don't always feel comfortable asking.

  2. 26 Jul

    #35: Consent, Clickbait & Swinging

    🔞 18+ Content Warning Beyond Vanilla is an adults-only podcast. Consent isn't a one-time conversation—it's the foundation of the lifestyle. In this episode, we're diving into one of the most important topics in ethical non-monogamy: consent. We discuss why consent is an ongoing conversation, not just something that's agreed once and forgotten. We also explore how sensationalist media coverage of swinging and the non-monogamous community can create fear, spread misinformation, and reinforce harmful stereotypes. From clickbait headlines to the recent stories dominating the news, we unpack the difference between what really happens in the lifestyle and the way it's often portrayed. We also share our own experiences of being judged and treated differently in vanilla settings simply because we're swingers, and why stigma still exists despite the lifestyle being built on communication, honesty and consent. Whether you're curious about the lifestyle, already part of it, or simply interested in the conversations around relationships, this episode is all about separating fact from fiction. In this episode we discuss:Why consent is an ongoing processClickbait, sensationalism and media mythsOur personal experiences of stigma and judgementWhy communication is the real foundation of the lifestyleAs always, we're here to educate, share our experiences, and have real unfiltered conversations. Follow us on Instagram, Tiktok & Youtube.

  3. 14 Jun

    #34: Vaginas, BV, Thrush & Confidence | Women's Intimate Health in the Lifestyle

    🔞 Explicit Content Warning: This episode contains adult themes, sexual health discussions, and unfiltered language. Listener discretion advised. This week on Beyond Vanilla, it's just Amy and Emily, and absolutely nothing is off limits. We're diving deep into all things vaginas, intimate health, confidence, and the realities of navigating life in the lifestyle as women. Let's be honest — there are some conversations that women are often told to keep quiet about. Well... not this week. In this episode, we're talking about: 💗 BV, thrush, and common intimate health issues💗 How we keep things fresh when our vaginas are hosting more guests than average💗 Appearance, smell, taste, and body confidence💗 The myths, insecurities, and pressures women face💗 Practical tips for maintaining intimate health in the lifestyle💗 Our experiences with orgasms, squirting, toy play, and sexual exploration💗 Why there should be absolutely no shame around talking about any of it As always, we're bringing our usual honesty, humour, oversharing, and real-life experiences to the table. No awkwardness, no judgement, and definitely no sugarcoating. Whether you're brand new to the lifestyle or have been around for years, this episode is all about normalising the conversations women are often too embarrassed to have. Because every vagina is different, every body is different, and there is far less to worry about than most of us have been led to believe. So grab a drink, get comfortable, and join us for one of our most open, honest, and educational chats yet. No gatekeeping. No bullshit. Just real talk. 💋

  4. 31 May

    #33:Lifestyle Catch-Up | Swinger Club Nights, DTF Community & Cowboy Nights!

    Explicit Content Warning: This episode contains adult themes, lifestyle discussion, and unfiltered language. Listener discretion advised. This week on Beyond Vanilla, it’s Amy, Ben, and Emily catching up on all of our latest lifestyle adventures. We’re chatting about recent club nights, birthday celebrations, the dreaded swingers flu, and the growing DTF community we’ve created over on Telegram. We also get into rodeo-themed events, the chaos, the laughs, and everything else that’s been keeping us busy lately. As always, this isn’t a polished highlight reel. It’s just three friends sharing the reality of life in and around the lifestyle—the funny moments, the ridiculous moments, and everything in between. Expect plenty of laughter, a fair bit of swearing, complete honesty, and the usual Beyond Vanilla tangents that somehow take us miles away from where we started. So grab a drink, get comfortable, and join us for another catch-up episode packed with stories, opinions, and absolutely no sugarcoating, no gatekeeping, and no bullshit. Enjoy!

  5. 17 May

    #32: Inside the Bliss Cruise | Swingers Cruise Review & Experience

    🔞 Explicit Content Warning: This episode contains adult themes, lifestyle discussion, and unfiltered language. Listener discretion advised. This week on Beyond Vanilla, we’re bringing you a very special Bliss Cruise episode with Emily and Darren taking us onboard one of the most talked-about swinger’s cruises out there. And trust us… this is one you’ll definitely want to watch over on YouTube too, because there are LOTS of visuals in this episode — including:🏡 Tours of the Airbnb🚢 Tours around the Bliss cruise itself✨ Theme nights, outfits, and the overall vibe onboard👀 Behind-the-scenes moments and what really goes on at a swinger’s cruise We’re diving deep into what the experience is actually like — from the excitement of boarding to the chaos, connections, parties, and the very real aftermath of cruise life. You’ll be right there in the action with Emily and Darren as they take you back to their cabin, share their honest thoughts, and give you a genuine insight into what a lifestyle cruise is really all about. As always, we’re keeping it real — no sugarcoating, no gatekeeping, no bullshit. Just the funny, messy, exciting reality of the lifestyle, exactly as it happened. So if you’ve ever wondered whether a Bliss Cruise is worth it… this episode is for you. 💋

  6. 3 May

    #31: Has the Swinging Lifestyle Lost Its Spark? Social Media & Mainstream Impact

    🔞 Explicit Content Warning: This episode contains adult themes, lifestyle discussion, and unfiltered language. Listener discretion advised. This week on Beyond Vanilla, we’re asking a question that a lot of people are thinking… but not many are saying out loud: Has the lifestyle lost its spark? With the rise of social media, content creation, and the lifestyle becoming more visible than ever, things are changing — but is that a good thing… or are we losing something along the way? In this episode, we’re talking about:📱 The influence of social media on the swinging lifestyle👀 Has it become too mainstream?✨ The positives — more openness, more acceptance, more community⚠️ The downsides — comparison, performance, and unrealistic expectations💭 Whether the “spark” has really gone… or just evolved We’re also sharing why we believe it’s so important to be honest about all sides of the lifestyle — not just the highlights, but the difficult moments too. As always, we’re keeping it real — no sugarcoating, no gatekeeping, no bullshit. And we really want to hear from you on this one… Do you think the lifestyle has changed for the better — or lost some of its magic?

  7. 19 Apr

    #30: Swinging Lifestyle Burnout — Common Signs, Reconnecting & Intimacy Styles.

    🔞 Explicit Content Warning: This episode contains adult themes, lifestyle discussion, and unfiltered language. Listener discretion advised. This week on Beyond Vanilla, join Amy, Ben, and Emily on the bed as we talk about something that doesn’t get spoken about enough in the lifestyle… burnout. Because as much as the lifestyle can be exciting, freeing, and fun — it can also become overwhelming, emotionally draining, and sometimes just… a bit too much. In this episode, we’re diving into:😮‍💨 The signs of lifestyle burnout (and how to spot them early)🧠 Why it happens — and why it’s more common than you think💔 How burnout can impact you and your relationship🛑 Why it’s okay to take a break (and drop the guilt)❤️ How to reconnect with your partner when things feel off✨ How understanding your intimacy styles can help rebuild connection As always, we’re keeping it real — no sugarcoating, no gatekeeping, no bullshit. Just honest conversations about the parts of the lifestyle people don’t always show. Because the truth is… you don’t have to keep going just because everyone else is.Sometimes the healthiest thing you can do is pause, reconnect, and come back stronger. Let’s normalise taking a break. 💋

  8. 5 Apr

    #29: Consent in the Swinging Lifestyle: How to Say Yes, No & Stay Safe

    🔞 Explicit Content Warning: This episode contains adult themes, lifestyle discussion, and unfiltered language. Listener discretion advised. This week, it’s — Amy, Emily & Ben — and we’re diving into one of the most important topics in the lifestyle: consent. We’re talking about what consent actually means (and what it doesn’t), how to give it, how to ask for it, and how to confidently say yes and no. In this episode, we cover:💬 What real, enthusiastic consent looks like🛑 How to say no without guilt or pressure✨ How to communicate clearly in the moment🧠 Navigating awkward or grey-area situations🛡️ How to stay safe, respectful, and aware in the lifestyle Because the truth is — consent isn’t just a one-time conversation. It’s ongoing, it’s essential, and it’s what makes the lifestyle a safe and enjoyable space for everyone. As always, we’re keeping it real, unfiltered, and honest — no gatekeeping, no sugarcoating, no bullshit… just proper conversations (and a few laughs & tangents along the way, because you know us). This is one for everyone in the lifestyle — whether you’re brand new or have been in it for years.

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Beyond Vanilla is a sex-positive podcast on non-monogamy, hosted by best mates Amy C & Emily Spice. Join us for unfiltered chats on open relationships, boundaries, jealousy, and everything in between. With our hubbies along for the ride, no topic is off-limits. Expect real talk, personal stories, plenty of laughs, and zero judgment. 💋 New episodes weekly. Come for the chat, stay for the chaos. A taste of life Beyond Vanilla awaits…

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    BeyondVanilla
  • Years Active
    2025 - 2026
  • Episodes
    38
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