THE ROXANNE SHOW

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THE ROXANNE SHOW (Formally BlackBeltBeauty Radio) is a weekly podcast empowering you into stronger Self-Mastery, Self-Love + Vitality. Each episode is created with real talk, wisdom, knowledge, heart, soul, and laughter that entertains you as it teaches. The Roxanne Show is as authentic as it gets and uniquely delivers vital ideas, and tough love with compassion, grace, and warmth. You don’t just listen to this show, you experience it.

  1. 2 hr ago

    EP. 402: You Are the Proof You're Looking For | Roxy Rewind

    In this rewind, I break down why you don't need proof before you make a bold decision — because you are the proof. Inspired by a post I shared on Instagram, I unpack why the rational mind keeps you stuck in "what if I lose," and offer a simple reframe that shifts you toward what you stand to gain instead. In this Roxy Rewind: Why the rational mind is wired to keep you from uncertainty — even when uncertainty is exactly what you need The "I am the proof" reframe and how it's the foundation of real self-trust Why writing out what you stand to gain shifts your decision-making How to reframe uncertainty as possibility instead of threat "Seek the Fight" — why moving toward challenge builds the belt of self-trust This episode was originally aired on 10/25/2022. ⭐️YOUR SUPPORT MATTERS: Please: Subscribe + leave 5⭐️Star rating +review HERE Enjoy!  xRx FIND ME ON: ️INSTAGRAM SUBSTACK YOUTUBE X THREADS 📘 BUY My Guided Illustrated Journal: https://www.roxannesaffaie.com/journal  FREE RESOURCES:  🌟 Download my FREE Decisive Woman Playbook to learn how to trust your intuition more + make sharper decisions you feel confident making: https://roxannesaffaie.myflodesk.com/next  🌟 Join my SUBSTACK for thought-provoking transmissions on all things Self-mastery + personal growth and Self-directed living, laced with Sensual Intellect + FEMININE edge: https://roxanneroxysaffaie.substack.com  🌟 Join my book launch waitlist to lock in your spot for an exclusive, intimate, transformative virtual event I’m hosting. https://roxannesaffaie.myflodesk.com/thewomanwhodoesntsettle

    EP. 402: You Are the Proof You're Looking For | Roxy Rewind

  2. 3 days ago

    EP. 401: Stefanos Sifandos: How to Stop Choosing the Wrong Relationships — For Good.

    Stefanos Sifandos returns for his second conversation on the podcast, and this one takes us even deeper.  Stefanos is a relationship educator, speaker, and author of Tuned In & Turned On, and together we get into the difference between closeness and true intimacy, why safety within yourself has to come before safety in a relationship, and how the couples who make it are the ones who stay a team instead of turning on each other.  He breaks down his concept of "intelligent hope" versus blind hope versus faith, and why growth — not comfort — is the real point of any relationship. We also get into his marriage, his own edges as a husband and father, and why acknowledgment might be the most underrated tool for change.  This one's for anyone ready to risk being hurt in the name of real love. In this episode: The difference between a couple that shares closeness and a couple that shares true intimacy Why self-intimacy and self-trust have to come before relational intimacy How to turn conflict and triggers into growth instead of division What "intelligent hope" means and how it's different from blind hope or faith Why being unbreakable — not unshakable — is the real goal in relationships The power of acknowledgment and reflection in creating lasting change ⭐️YOUR SUPPORT MATTERS: Please: Subscribe + leave 5⭐️Star rating +review HERE Enjoy!  xRx FIND ME ON: ️INSTAGRAM SUBSTACK YOUTUBE X THREADS FIND STEFANOS ON: IG WEB BOOK 📘 BUY My Guided Illustrated Journal: https://www.roxannesaffaie.com/journal  ❤️‍🔥 BUY My Future Self Course: https://www.roxannesaffaie.com/future-self-1  FREE RESOURCES:  🌟 Download my FREE Decisive Woman Playbook to learn how to trust your intuition more + make sharper decisions you feel confident making: https://roxannesaffaie.myflodesk.com/next  🌟 Join my SUBSTACK for thought-provoking transmissions on all things Self-mastery + personal growth and Self-directed living, laced with Sensual Intellect + FEMININE edge: https://roxanneroxysaffaie.substack.com  🌟 Join my book launch waitlist to lock in your spot for an exclusive, intimate, transformative virtual event I’m hosting. https://roxannesaffaie.myflodesk.com/thetruthinyouknows

  3. 31 Jul

    EP. 400: The 2 Skills You Need to Achieve Any Goal | Roxy Rewind

    In this rewind, I break down the two skills that make or break every goal you'll ever set — decision and commitment. I share why 99% commitment quietly exhausts you, how guilt and shame keep people from trying again, and why consistency in small doses will always outperform sporadic bursts of motivation. In this Roxy Rewind: Why deciding fully has to come before commitment can hold The hidden cost of 99% commitment and the "back door" it leaves open How to audit your daily actions to see what you're really committed to Why guilt and shame — not lack of motivation — stop most people from trying again The power of small, consistent steps and self-compassion on the hard days This episode was originally aired on 01/03/2023. ⭐️YOUR SUPPORT MATTERS: Please: Subscribe + leave 5⭐️Star rating +review HERE Enjoy!  xRx FIND ME ON: ️INSTAGRAM SUBSTACK YOUTUBE X THREADS 📘 BUY My Guided Illustrated Journal: https://www.roxannesaffaie.com/journal  FREE RESOURCES:  🌟 Download my FREE Decisive Woman Playbook to learn how to trust your intuition more + make sharper decisions you feel confident making: https://roxannesaffaie.myflodesk.com/next  🌟 Join my SUBSTACK for thought-provoking transmissions on all things Self-mastery + personal growth and Self-directed living, laced with Sensual Intellect + FEMININE edge: https://roxanneroxysaffaie.substack.com  🌟 Join my book launch waitlist to lock in your spot for an exclusive, intimate, transformative virtual event I’m hosting. https://roxannesaffaie.myflodesk.com/thewomanwhodoesntsettle

    EP. 400: The 2 Skills You Need to Achieve Any Goal | Roxy Rewind

  4. 28 Jul

    EP. 399: The Breakup Advice No One Tells You: Talk to Your Future Self.

    Commitment isn't a feeling — it's evidence in how you show up when no one's watching.  Today I'm answering your questions on getting through a breakup without losing yourself, my honest relationship with AI, and how to stay disciplined without losing your joy. Plus, I'm going back in time to tell my 30-year-old self exactly what she needs to hear. This one's a permission slip.  In this episode: How to heal after a breakup and reconnect with your future self My honest take on using AI without losing your intuition How to stay disciplined and focused without becoming rigid Advice I'd give my 30-year-old self on money, writing, and strength training Why harmony — not balance — is the real goal ⭐️YOUR SUPPORT MATTERS: Please: Subscribe + leave 5⭐️Star rating +review HERE Enjoy!  xRx FIND ME ON: ️INSTAGRAM SUBSTACK YOUTUBE X THREADS 📘 BUY My Guided Illustrated Journal: https://www.roxannesaffaie.com/journal  FREE RESOURCES:  🌟 Download my FREE Decisive Woman Playbook to learn how to trust your intuition more + make sharper decisions you feel confident making: https://roxannesaffaie.myflodesk.com/next  🌟 Join my SUBSTACK for thought-provoking transmissions on all things Self-mastery + personal growth and Self-directed living, laced with Sensual Intellect + FEMININE edge: https://roxanneroxysaffaie.substack.com  🌟 Join my book launch waitlist to lock in your spot for an exclusive, intimate, transformative virtual event I’m hosting. https://roxannesaffaie.myflodesk.com/thewomanwhodoesntsettle

  5. 24 Jul

    EP. 398: How To Turn Rejection Into More Confidence | Roxy Rewind

    This rewind is an episode where I share how to move through rejection with power instead of letting it define you. Drawing from my years navigating a brutally competitive career as a celebrity makeup artist, I break down why taking rejection personally keeps you small, and I walk you through the real tactics I use to shift my energy and stay in partnership with myself when a no shows up. In this Roxy Rewind: Why a “no” from the external never requires a “no” to yourself Reframing rejection as protection — or as redirection toward something better Why emotional dumping can hold you prisoner instead of moving you through it Tactics that shift your energy: journaling, breathwork, talk therapy, movement, and service Why living authentically makes you more susceptible to rejection — and why that's the price of a real life This episode was originally aired on 12/13/2022. ⭐️YOUR SUPPORT MATTERS: Please: Subscribe + leave 5⭐️Star rating +review HERE Enjoy!  xRx FIND ME ON: ️INSTAGRAM SUBSTACK YOUTUBE X THREADS 📘 BUY My Guided Illustrated Journal: https://www.roxannesaffaie.com/journal  FREE RESOURCES:  🌟 Download my FREE Decisive Woman Playbook to learn how to trust your intuition more + make sharper decisions you feel confident making: https://roxannesaffaie.myflodesk.com/next  🌟 Join my SUBSTACK for thought-provoking transmissions on all things Self-mastery + personal growth and Self-directed living, laced with Sensual Intellect + FEMININE edge: https://roxanneroxysaffaie.substack.com  🌟 Join my book launch waitlist to lock in your spot for an exclusive, intimate, transformative virtual event I’m hosting. https://roxannesaffaie.myflodesk.com/thewomanwhodoesntsettle

    EP. 398: How To Turn Rejection Into More Confidence | Roxy Rewind

  6. 21 Jul

    EP. 397: How Healthy Masculine & Feminine Energy Can Transform Your Relationships and Life.

    This is a special compilation episode bringing together some of the most impactful conversations on masculine and feminine energy from across the show. Featuring renowned relationship Coach Stefanos Sifandos and therapist & author Denae Logan, alongside my own reflections, this episode looks at what it really means to balance both energies within yourself—not as opposing forces, but as complementary parts of a healthy, thriving life. We talk about why burnout often comes from living in overdrive, how self-care and boundaries restore your feminine energy, and why integrating both masculine and feminine qualities leads to greater vitality, stronger relationships, and a deeper connection with yourself. In this episode: Why masculine and feminine energy work together—not against each other How energetic imbalance contributes to burnout The role of boundaries in protecting your well-being Why healthy relationships require both strength and softness Practical ways to cultivate more balance in your everyday life ⭐️YOUR SUPPORT MATTERS: Please: Subscribe + leave 5⭐️Star rating +review HERE Enjoy!  xRx FIND ME ON: ️INSTAGRAM SUBSTACK YOUTUBE X THREADS 📘 BUY My Guided Illustrated Journal: https://www.roxannesaffaie.com/journal  FREE RESOURCES:  🌟 Download my FREE Decisive Woman Playbook to learn how to trust your intuition more + make sharper decisions you feel confident making: https://roxannesaffaie.myflodesk.com/next  🌟 Join my SUBSTACK for thought-provoking transmissions on all things Self-mastery + personal growth and Self-directed living, laced with Sensual Intellect + FEMININE edge: https://roxanneroxysaffaie.substack.com  🌟 Join my book launch waitlist to lock in your spot for an exclusive, intimate, transformative virtual event I’m hosting. https://roxannesaffaie.myflodesk.com/thewomanwhodoesntsettle

  7. 17 Jul

    EP. 396: How to Stop Living From Old Programming + Start Shifting Your Identity | Roxy Rewind

    This rewind is an episode where I break down why we stay stuck in patterns that don't serve us — and what it actually takes to get free. I unpack the subconscious mind, the comfort of familiar pain, and the real difference between facing yourself and just talking about your problems. It's a direct, heart-forward call to do the self-work most people avoid. In this Roxy Rewind: Why 95% of your daily life runs on subconscious programming How rising consciousness changes the quality of your relationships and choices The "student lens" — investigating yourself without judgment Why familiar pain can feel safer than change The three-part framework: realize the prison, find the key, use the key This episode was originally aired on 11/29/2022. ⭐️YOUR SUPPORT MATTERS: Please: Subscribe + leave 5⭐️Star rating +review HERE Enjoy!  xRx FIND ME ON: ️INSTAGRAM SUBSTACK YOUTUBE X THREADS 📘 BUY My Guided Illustrated Journal: https://www.roxannesaffaie.com/journal  FREE RESOURCES:  🌟 Download my FREE Decisive Woman Playbook to learn how to trust your intuition more + make sharper decisions you feel confident making: https://roxannesaffaie.myflodesk.com/next  🌟 Join my SUBSTACK for thought-provoking transmissions on all things Self-mastery + personal growth and Self-directed living, laced with Sensual Intellect + FEMININE edge: https://roxanneroxysaffaie.substack.com  🌟 Join my book launch waitlist to lock in your spot for an exclusive, intimate, transformative virtual event I’m hosting. https://roxannesaffaie.myflodesk.com/thewomanwhodoesntsettle

    EP. 396: How to Stop Living From Old Programming + Start Shifting Your Identity | Roxy Rewind

  8. 14 Jul

    EP. 395: Chris Davids: You Think It’s Love. It Isn’t.

    Chris Davids is a dating and relationship specialist whose work sits at the intersection of attachment science, self-awareness, and human behavior. This conversation challenged some of the most romanticized ideas we carry about love. We examine why chemistry isn't always compatibility, why intense feelings can be mistaken for certainty, and how our attachment patterns quietly shape the relationships we choose, protect, sabotage, or stay in. What struck me most was Chris's insistence that love is less about what we feel in a moment and more about what we repeatedly choose. We also went deeper into trust, nervous system regulation, hyper-independence, boundaries, and the stories we tell ourselves when we're afraid to be seen. Ultimately, this conversation is an invitation to understand yourself more honestly—because the quality of your relationships will rarely exceed the quality of your relationship with yourself. ⭐️YOUR SUPPORT MATTERS: Please: Subscribe + leave 5⭐️Star rating +review HERE Enjoy!  xRx FIND ME ON: ️INSTAGRAM SUBSTACK YOUTUBE X THREADS FIND CHRIS DAVIDS ON: IG WEB 📘 BUY My Guided Illustrated Journal: https://www.roxannesaffaie.com/journal  ❤️‍🔥 BUY My Future Self Course: https://www.roxannesaffaie.com/future-self-1  FREE RESOURCES:  🌟 Download my FREE Decisive Woman Playbook to learn how to trust your intuition more + make sharper decisions you feel confident making: https://roxannesaffaie.myflodesk.com/next  🌟 Join my SUBSTACK for thought-provoking transmissions on all things Self-mastery + personal growth and Self-directed living, laced with Sensual Intellect + FEMININE edge: https://roxanneroxysaffaie.substack.com  🌟 Join my book launch waitlist to lock in your spot for an exclusive, intimate, transformative virtual event I’m hosting. https://roxannesaffaie.myflodesk.com/thetruthinyouknows

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THE ROXANNE SHOW (Formally BlackBeltBeauty Radio) is a weekly podcast empowering you into stronger Self-Mastery, Self-Love + Vitality. Each episode is created with real talk, wisdom, knowledge, heart, soul, and laughter that entertains you as it teaches. The Roxanne Show is as authentic as it gets and uniquely delivers vital ideas, and tough love with compassion, grace, and warmth. You don’t just listen to this show, you experience it.

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  • Creator
    roxanne saffaie
  • Years Active
    2017 - 2026
  • Episodes
    405
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © roxanne saffaie
  • Show Website
    THE ROXANNE SHOW

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